Demo Selection - CHPH2 - DVDs - Transcripts - Part

Igor: So what I’d like to do now is I’d like to do one of two possible demos, and it all depends on what we have in the group here. I’d like to show you how to use the skills that you’ve just acquired, how to use them more therapeutically, okay. To do this I need a specific kind of subject, either as a role-play demo or my preference is a live subject, but I need the right kind of subject so I don’t complicate things for you and kind of lose it on the way, does that kind of make sense to you guys?

Here is what I am looking for, I am looking for a volunteer who has a problem, (gasp) shock horror. The kind of problem I want for this and it will make more sense later on today when we go through some other things, is someone who has a medium size problem, when you think about it, you feel the emotion and relatively strongly, but it’s something that if you didn’t deal with it right now it really wouldn’t be the end of the world. In other words, you’re not married either way if you don’t change it.

Here is the kind of thing I’m talking about. If you have a fear of heights and just thinking about heights right now makes you get a little antsy and nervous, it’s a great example, right? So fears in general are good for things like that. There can be other examples as well, but really the fears are the easiest ones to demonstrate this cleanly, so you guys can see what’s going on.

Who has something like that in mind? Excellent, can we just have my assistants with the mic come around. I will just have a quick chat with you guys to see which one fits best for what we’re doing here.

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Q: I have a fear of large crowds.

Igor: A fear of large crowds. Well we can test that one, right? Q: Easy.

Igor: How are you doing right now when you think about being a large crowd in the way you do, what happens to you?

Q: I have to force myself to overcome it to be in here and then I’m alright after I force myself through it.

Igor: So right now as you think about it, forgetting the forcing or doing it, if you think about being in a large crowd, what actually happens?

Q: I get real nervous, I start perspiring.

Igor: So you’re starting to get a little nervous, now? Okay, that’s good potential. Let’s move onto the next person.

Q: I am afraid of spiders and cockroaches, and insects like that.

Igor: Okay, that’s a classic phobia. So what happens when you think about now, like a spider maybe crawling on your hand or something, what happens to you? Thank you, next person? We will come over here in a second, you know what, go ahead. Q: I have a fear of swimming pool drains, to the extent that when I went on the

Ghost Hunt there is that pool down there that’s all creepy and it doesn’t even have water. I was more afraid of the drain than of ghosts popping out.

Igor: Oh wow, so just swimming pool drains themselves? Q: Yes.

Igor: So when you think about swimming pool drains or the one you saw the other night, what happens to you?

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Q: Now that I am really thinking about it, yeah.

Igor: Excellent very good, thank you. Let’s bring the mic forward again.

Q: I get a little bit nervous around people in the sense that I am worried I will say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing and then my cover is blown.

Igor: Okay got it, and when you think about it now, what happens, like putting yourself in that kind of situation?

Q: My cover is blown.

Igor: Thank you, just pass it back a little bit, this one here. Q: I am scared of regression.

Igor: You are scared of regression? Q: I am like shaking right now.

Igor: Okay, well we will have to pause on that one for a moment because we are doing regression right now, I could test it really well. But how do you deal with that by the way, just out of curiosity, how do you deal with that, any ideas? Exactly, you work with a different thing, because why make them confront the very thing they are fearing, I do the regression afterwards to help them demonstrate that it’s actually fine, but it doesn’t fit the actual regression work because you would have to go through a little bit of hell to get there in the first place, right?

Q: Right.

Igor: Perfect, thank you though. Over here we had a microphone. Q: I am afraid of snakes.

Igor: Okay, so when you think about a snake right now. Thank you, next person. Q: Mine is actually snakes, too.

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Igor: Okay, so what happens when you think about snakes?

Q: I don’t. I don’t think about them because I will literally pass out.

Igor: If you think of a little one way in the distance and it’s that strong, okay, that’s good. Let me ask you one more thing to follow up on that. Not thinking about snakes, just the idea that you may have to think about snakes, what is that doing to you right now? Okay, let it go, a little bit of release. Let it flow, look at me, a little more – look at me, just let it flow. Let it flow way back in the distance. There you go, now you’re coming back – welcome back. Keep coming, all the way back. Do you mind if I ask you how old you are? You probably do in public, right?

Q: 42.

Igor: You’re 42, excellent. Breathe, there you go. Every time you breathe you know you’re safe, how are you doing? Back, so just settle down, you know what that chair does, don’t you. There you go – welcome back, thank you.

Okay this would be great except that, it may require me to do some things that will complicate things for you guys, so I am very tempted but we’ll see where it goes with that. Go ahead.

Q: Flying.

Igor: Okay, so when you think about flying now what happens? Q: I go get a double at the bar.

Igor: You get what?

Q: I always go to the bar and get a double so I can get on the plane.

Igor: Okay, so when you think about it now about going on a plane, what happens to you inside you?

Q: I get kind of scared in here, and in here. Igor: Beautiful thank you, anyone else?

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CHPH 2.0 ©Street Hypnosis All Rights Reserved Q: I have a fear of the sensation of free-falling so rollercoaster’s and things like that. Igor: Okay, so when you think about that sensation, like maybe you’re on a

rollercoaster, what happens to you now? Q: I feel out of control.

Igor: You feel out of control, okay, thank you, and then bring yourself back in control before you sit down of course.

Q: Okay, it’s not a flying, but it’s being stuck or trapped on an airplane sitting on the runway.

Igor: So what happens when you think about that now? Q: The air goes away and I can’t breathe.

Igor: Thank you, and right in the back again. Wow, you guys have some interesting things going on. I really appreciate it, because I want to make sure that the demo you get here is one that’s really useful to you guys, does that make sense?

Q: Being a driver or a passenger in a car that’s on a cliff of any kind. Igor: Like when you’re driving in Colorado or something like that, right? Q: Yeah or Big Sur or anywhere on the coast.

Igor: So what happens? Q: My legs start shaking.

Igor: Is it happening now, when you think about it now what happens? Q: I want to do something.

Igor: You want to stop the car, right? Q: Yes, get out and run to the hill.

Igor: I understand, thank you – and just way in the way and we’ll make a decision. Q: I am really small it’s easy to miss me.

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Q: I said I’m really small it’s easy to miss me. It’s actually a fear of rejection when I’m not in a position of authority.

Igor: So when you’re not or when you are?

Q: When I’m not. If I’m in a position of authority I have absolutely no problem approaching a stranger.

Igor: So just like in a normal situation, when you think of a scenario you have mind, what happens now?

Q: Everything inside just goes – blah.

Igor: Beautiful, thank you. And then we’ll go the lady here and then we’ll go right to the back.

Q: I’m afraid of speaking in front of people.

Igor: Okay, well done, you’ve just solved it. I’m kidding-I’m kidding, so what happens right now as you’re standing here. What’s happening?

Q: Um.

Igor: Thank you, next person last person over here. Q: Flying, I haven’t flown in over 20 years.

Igor: You haven’t flown in 20 years.

Q: Thanks to hypnosis I got out here, but even now, I think it’s rational but I think at some point in time I’m waiting for the plane to crash into another plane.

Igor: So what happens now when you think about getting on a plane and flying? Q: Probably I’m thinking more about talking to you.

Igor: What’s actually happening inside of your body when you think about getting on a plane and flying?

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charming young lady here. I warn you, there will be a lot more emotion involved, so you may lose some of the maneuvers in the content because the emotion will come out, right? The other version was, I think this gentleman over here had a nice strong reaction that we can work with, in terms of what we’re doing here, and it will be a nice clear demonstration as well. And over here, so there’s Tim over here, will be another great one again because again we’ve got the very clear physical reaction, so we can track what’s going through. So these three people, which would you guys rather see?

So, let’s do this like the America’s Got Talent competition, would you stand up a second. If you’d like to see this demonstration, please stand up. Okay, sit yourselves down, you have friends. If you’d like to see this demonstration, please stand up, okay sit yourself down. Tim, stand up, if you’d like to see this one, okay. Are you willing to do this, is that okay with you – you don’t have to. This is about you, not about anyone else, right? Are you 100% sure? Okay come on up, give her a round of applause, sit up here.

Can we have an assistant up here, please helping with the mic’s so we can organize all this. I have a mic here, it’s just we need to get us set up and stuff.

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