IMPORTANT: Authority is not the same as being mean!

Authority is all about being in charge, and telling the girl what you want. It's NOT about degrading her, making her feel uncomfortable, or being too serious.

One of my favorite things is when a guy is

authoritative in a playful way. It's more about him knowing that I enjoy him being in charge, that he's not afraid to tell me what he wants, and that I can just safely give in to him.

Remember, authority is one of the best ways to get and keep a woman 100% sexually satisfied.

Hopefully this is a start for you to go from clumsily messing around and "hoping for the best" in the bedroom to confidently giving your woman orgasm after juicy orgasm... whether it's your very first time with a girl, or someone you’ve been with for years!

You see, when you hit it off with a woman, and she starts thinking about becoming intimate with you...

a girl will often become very nervous...

And the BETTER you get along, and the stronger the connection... the MORE nervous she gets...

Why?

Well, take it from me... EVERY woman has had the experience of hitting it off with a guy, and being really excited about starting a relationship with him... only to sleep with him and discover he doesn't know what he's doing in the bedroom.

There is really no bigger disappointment for us girls.

ESPECIALLY if we like the guy a lot.

Because we know that if a guy is at a certain age, and still doesn't know what he's doing in the bedroom, it is very unlikely he's going to "snap out of it" and all-of-a-sudden figure out how to get us off.

It's a real bummer. And it happens a lot.

On the other hand, if we meet a guy who IS great in bed, it's a RARE treat!

Most women have dated so many bedroom losers that when we find a guy who knows how to get us off, he basically has us for as long as he wants.

And we are TOTALLY fine with that =)

I also can't tell you how many men of all ages have written me telling me how I’ve enabled them to inject new life and FURIOUS PASSION into their relationships!

My favorite letters to read are the ones where the guys tell me about how it's now their girl who's the

one initiating the sex =)

Other emails I enjoy reading are from guys who use these techniques to give their girl her very first orgasm from penetration... or even her first orgasm, period!

And let's not forget multiples and my favorite, squirting orgasms. Woohooo!

So here's the deal sir... I want the next letter I receive to be from YOU =)

I've put this book together to show you

EVERYTHING there is to know about how to rock a woman's world in the bedroom.

From getting her hot and heavy for you... to ways to kiss that make her melt... to giving her intense orgasms during foreplay... to how to make her scream so loudly during penetration she'll bust your eardrums (I mean that in a good way hehe)... it's ALL in here!

But don't take my word for it. I want to prove it to you.

All you have to do is keep reading.

If you're serious about becoming the type of man women RAVE about to their friends... and dream about when their wussy boyfriends are clumsily trying to get them off and FAILING... then you owe it to yourself to make this investment in your sex life.

Imagine if you use just one of these powerful techniques to give just one girl multiple orgasms.

Wouldn't that alone make it worth it?

Of course, it's much more likely that you'll use this stuff to rock the body and mind of every woman you are with from now on...

OK, so now that you’re helping her unleash her inner sex maniac… it’s time to find out EXACTLY what gets her hot and horny ;)

You see, girls are usually a lot shier than you guys about their true sexual desires. But we have our fantasies too!

But since there’s a good chance your girl will never tell you about them… I’ll help you out =)

So let me take you on a tour of the more common female sexual fantasies… and what you should be looking for to take advantage of them ;)

For example...

Letting Her Take The Lead

I’ve said it time and time again… we LOVE it when a guy takes charge. When you’re a MAN in the bedroom and we can just submit ourselves for you… it’s the best.

But sometimes it can be fun to turn the tables ;) I’m not talking about full on dominatrix stuff here… just letting your girl take control once in a while. Chances are she fantasizes about it but is too shy to say anything… she could be worried you’ll think she’s “slutty” or “freaky.”

All you have to do is let her take the lead and have her way with you =) You never know what new techniques she has up her sleeve that she’s been saving for just such an occasion.

And letting her go crazy on YOU gives you a rare sneak peek into EXACTLY what turns her on…

You can watch what she does when she’s given power in the bedroom, and that’s definitely the kind of thing you NEED to know if you’re going to satisfy her when it’s your turn again.

It’s also pretty easy to figure out if this is something your girl’s into. Does she like to be on top? If she’s

breaking out the cowgirl… one of the most

“dominating” sex positions for women… even every so often, then she probably likes being in control.

Not ALL the time. After all, it’s just a fantasy…

A little tame for a fantasy? Maybe… but think of this as an introduction to your girl's secret sexual cravings... You have to start somewhere =)

Speaking of those cravings, there has to be an easy way to unlocking them, right?

Well, let me start with a question:

What's worse than being super horny and ready to fuck only to hear "I'm not in the mood, babe."

It's the WORST, right?

After a long day at work you end up just going into the other room and beating off to some terrible porno before you crawl into bed with your wet blanket girlfriend.

But maybe it's not HER fault...

In fact, there are a few FOOL-PROOF techniques you can utilize to get your girl hot and horny and ready to fuck any time that YOU are ready for it.

In fact, she'll be on her knees BEGGING for it (which isn't a bad position to be in ;-)

So here's what to do:

Clean up. I don't know about you, but I'm much more likely to fuck someone with fresh breath, who is cleanly shaved (or trimmed), and who smells like Aqua Di Gio.

If you haven't been getting laid lately, trim those nose hairs, dig the dirt out from under your

fingernails, and hell, maybe even hit the gym. Ask yourself the question, “Would I fuck me?”

If the answer is "no" then get it together, man!

Next, pick a good time of day. Every girl is different. I'm more of a morning girl, but I know a lot of chicks prefer to be all dolled up and look sexy before they really get in the mood.

Observe when you're girl friend has the most energy and lowest stress levels.

Those times are optimal for pouncing!

Then, make her laugh.

Kill two birds with one stone and make a joke about all the benefits of having sex with you:

1) Burns calories…

2) Good for your heart and cardiovascular system…

3) Decreases anxiety…

4) You'll buy her breakfast…

Haha :-)

Plus, laughter releases those feel-good endorphins that help her feel relaxed.

Making her crave sex is all about getting her to feel comfortable and relaxed.

After all, she wouldn't turn down a spa day would she? So if you can make her feel the same feelings she would about going to get pampered at the salon, then BINGO!

That’s why innocent massages are a great way to ease into sex.

I can't tell you how many times I've had my mind made up that I am NOT hooking up with a guy and then he starts rubbing my shoulders, my neck, my back, my feet, and eventually kissing my shoulders, my neck, my back....which leads to other areas...and all of a sudden he's eased his way inside of me and he’s massaging my inner walls with his dick!

Another great way to make her feel relaxed is to have a cocktail or a glass of wine.

Nothing makes me feel sexier than drinking a dirty martini. After just one my inhibitions are lowered, I’ve forgotten how bad my day might have been, and I have a nice buzz that makes it easier for my man to get me into bed.

Several foods are natural aphrodisiacs, some I'm sure you've heard of… like oysters, avocado, and chocolate. But a few others include asparagus, almonds, bananas, basil, figs, honey, and garlic.

Yes, garlic! Not only will it keep the vampires

away, but it is also chock full of allicin, which naturally increases blood flow. Just make sure you and your Honey BOTH eat it, so it doesn't leave just you reeking of garlic breath. ;-)

If you've had a dry streak of not getting laid and you're pre-planning all of this, cook her dinner! Pick out some of the aforementioned foods to throw in the mix.

Oh, and you can't go wrong with chocolate covered strawberries for dessert.

Doing things like cooking dinner or household chores are a great way to score bonus points for sex.

I hate to equate gifts or favors to earning sex, so think about it more like making the girl feel special.

When a guy makes me feel special, unique, and valued I'm much more likely to want to hook up with him.

If a guy brings me flowers, takes out my trash, or surprises me at work with my favorite Starbucks drink, it makes me feel amazing and in turn I want to make him feel amazing, too.

One of the biggest reasons that a girl turns down sex is because she doesn't feel sexy. Whether she's put on a little weight recently or got in a fight with her best friend, YOU can make her feel sexy by complimenting and reassuring her.

BUT BE SINCERE. A girl can totally tell when you’re saying shit just to get her in bed with you.

Lines like "You look hot today" or "You're beautiful" don't work as well as something like

"That blue dress really brings out how pretty your eyes are" or "I am so attracted to you, you have the most beautiful smile" or "You're always so strong...

you take everything the world throws at you AND you're gorgeous, too. That's so sexy."

I won't get too carried away ;-) but you get my drift.

Get hot, sweaty sex any time you want from your girl just by using these simple tactics.

Use just one if it's the first time you've been told

"I'm just not in the mood" or combine all of them if you're in a real slump with your girl.

By getting inside the female mind – knowing which buttons to push, and when – you’ll find that these seduction techniques become like second nature to you. Not only will it become easier to get into a girl’s panties, but the sense of intimacy and empathy you’ve created will make your sexual experiences more rewarding as well.

Chapter Three

Learn Just How to Touch Her by Becoming a Master of Her Body

So you’ve started to understand a little bit about the female mind. Now let’s talk about something that’s much more interesting, and even more mysterious – the female BODY.

Let’s start with a few statistics. Yeah, I know they’re not very fun, but they’re important…so listen up!

Hot, sexy, horny women come in all shapes and sizes, but the average height of a woman in America is 5'5 with an approximate weight of 125lbs.

That means that the total surface area of skin on her body is about 5 feet 3in ^2.

Holy shit! That's a whole lot of warm, soft body for you to explore...

And when it comes to knowing how to pleasure her, it can be a bit intimidating.

How are you supposed to know if where you're touching her feels good...

If it turns her on...

Or if it's just plain weird?

Luckily for you, I've spent a lot of time exploring myself...grazing over every inch of my sun-kissed skin, lingering in spots that peak arousal...

Some of those super erotic spots that get me really hot and horny are ones I would have NEVER guessed if I hadn't spent a LOT of time, well, studying. ;-)

Now, since I'm kind of a freak in the sheets, I wanted to check with some of my girlfriends to make sure that these special spots were

UNIVERSAL erogenous zones....and after a little fact checking, they DEFINITELY are. :-P

And since it can get really complicated and be a little scary for a guy, I wanted to take the time to share the BEST areas for maximizing pleasure on any foxy lady's body. :-)