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Stop for a moment and reflect.
What is it you strive for in life?
To be famous, only to be forgotten when the next big thing comes along?
To have more money than your neighbor?
To get promotion and a slightly bigger office?
Why?
To win the love and respect of a beautiful woman.
What if you could skip through the struggle and go straight to the prize?
Read on, my friend…
Technique 1 - Just start approaching and talking to women, even if you have no clue what you’re doing!
This program features a lot of dating authors, most of whom will most likely want to drown you in theory before giving you some actual practical steps on WHAT TO DO.
Understanding the theory behind how women think, how they make their choices, what they are attracted to, etc is certainly advantageous, but believe me - there is no replacement for actually doing something to get a woman.
Even if what you do is totally wrong and contrary to everything any seduction expert would tell you, it is a billion times better than reading fancy theories about it, feeling like you’re getting “smart” about dating, but then never
actually getting off your butt and doing something to get a woman.
Doing stuff wrong, failing miserably, getting rejected and laughed at (by the way, in the real world, you won’t be) is a billion times better than reading how to do things “right” and never really doing any of them.
Of course, you could be thinking – “Oh but I’m smart, first I’m going to listen how to do stuff right and then I’m going to do it as well - oh I’m such a winner!”.
Nah!
Wrong!
And here’s why.
When you have very little or maybe even no experience in dating and seduction, you’ll be listening to this material and going “Aha... yeah... um...
ok... sounds good... yeah, that might be true”…
But when you have lots of failing experience, you’ll be going “Holy-moly!
THAT’S IT!
That’s why I failed with this woman!
That’s why I got rejected by that other woman! That’s why this third woman flaked out on me, oh man how could I have been so stupid!”
You see - if you have tried without really knowing what you were doing, all of the stuff you will learn here will click IMMEDIATELY! As opposed to just going
“Ho-hum, ok” when you really have no real-world experiences to tie this all to.
So my first tip to you would be - before you read any of the material, before you try out any of the tips and suggestions, just go out and talk to women.
Yeah, just talk to them.
Don’t try to ask them out, don’t try to hit on them, just talk. Don’t know which women to talk to? Just talk to ALL women who you think would be good enough for you.
Imagine being intimate with a given woman - if you like the idea, then that’s all you need to know, now go talk to her.
Don’t know WHEN to start talking to her?
The time is NOW!
The longer you hesitate, the more chances she’ll leave and you didn’t even get a chance to say a word to her. And the more you hesitate, the more you build up anxiety and fear of rejection (more on how to overcome that later), whereas just jumping in and starting talking has an excellent chance of giving a good first impression, which will last even if you happen to crash and burn later.
By the way, a good mindset to have when starting to talk to a woman you just met is to act as if the two already know each other.
Just start talking to her as you’d start talking to any old acquaintance of yours.
Don’t know what to talk about?
Ask for the time, ask for directions, ask or make a unique comment about something she’s wearing, help her with something.
Ask an open-ended “what” question, then ask another based on her answer.
You can even ask new “what” questions - and before you know it, you’re in conversation.
You can find a whole database of good conversation starters and intriguing topics to talk about at LayGuide.com, but for now, just go out and talk to women and girls about anything that comes to mind.
Technique 2 - Where to meet women?
Before you read this tip, try to find women to talk to on your own. If you tried and didn’t find that many, you’re not alone. You probably don’t meet as many women during your everyday routine as you’d like.
So here are a couple of places I suggest you spend time in and find women to talk to during your lunch-break, after work, during the weekend or on holidays.
Shopping Malls.
They are full of beautiful girls. You can talk to pretty women who work at various stores. Even though they get PAID to be nice to you, it really doesn’t matter - you’re still getting the experience of talking to a hot babe who is nice to you and it’s all good.
Go into fashionable boutiques for men and ask for advice on clothes.
You’re getting educated about style while you’re getting the experience of having a casual chat with a hottie - what could be better?
You can also ask for directions from single women or groups of women, who just hang or shop around. For more info on how to strike up a longer more meaningful conversation with women at shopping malls, see the various suggestions at LayGuide.com.
Libraries
Now these girls are also SMART in addition to being pretty. Lots of college girls working on their research project or cramming for exams. Do you feel like you don’t want to disturb them? Rubbish!
Most likely they’re bored and tired and would WELCOME a chance to take a break. Ask for her help on how to find a section or book in the library. If she tells you to ask the assistant, say that the assistant already sent you to this section, but you still can’t find the book.
Better yet, make it an intriguing book (maybe about arts, architecture, pets or love) to intrigue her and keep the conversation going once she has helped you find the book.
Gourmet Coffee Shops.
These places are packed with girls before work, at lunch and after work. If the place is really packed, good for you - you get to share a table with someone. But even if there’s room, you can still ask to sit with someone saying that you don’t like to sit alone.
Now that you’re sitting together, might as well talk about something. You can start off by asking what she’s drinking and why does she like it. Then describe your own favorite drink is colorfully as you can.
I will wrap this up with a sample list of all the places you can find women to talk to: workplace, school, college, restaurants with attached bars, supermarkets, self-improvement seminars, gyms, yoga classes, sporting clubs and associations, art shows, tanning salons, health spas, fashion malls, hair and nail salons, coffee shops and various businesses around them.
Technique 3 - Your next goal is to make women smile
I hope you’ve been practicing what I suggested in tips 1 and 2. If not, go out and start talking to women. Just go talk to them until you no longer feel intimidated about approaching a hot babe and asking or telling her something, anything.
You are NOT ready to move on until you no longer feel your pulse and blood-pressure going up, your hands getting sweaty and knees going jerky at the prospect of having to converse with a beautiful woman.
Here’s my next technique. Make your goal to make a woman smile.
That's it.
Don't make your goal to get acquainted with her, pick her up, get her approval, get her number or a myriad of other goals you may initially have in mind but which will almost certainly make you feel like you HAVE to perform or else you're a failure.
Those are NOT good goals to have in mind, at least not yet.
They may happen along the way and they probably WILL start happening the more comfortable you get in just making women smile, but for starters and even beyond - make your goal to make women smile.
As for how to make that actually happen, a funny observation or remark or a little bit of friendly tease related to her looks or the situation she's currently in are good starting points.
Pickup-lines and all-out compliments are far riskier - you may get a smile out of them at times, but generally they will make you sound more tacky and obvious than the desired witty, mysterious and cocky yet funny.
Oh yes, and don't forget that every time you smile to a person, the person will smile back to you in about 80% of the time. So one of the easiest ways to make women smile would be just to smile to them yourself.
Don't believe me?
Well, try it!
You could even make a fun experiment out of it.
Walk up to a woman, look her in the eye… and smile!
Most likely she'll be giving you a confused smile back and maybe ask what's going on, does she know you and why are you smiling. Then just tell her that you're conducting a scientific experiment to see how many times people smile back -- if they are being smiled to and maybe even quote the current percentage you're at.
All of which will probably get another even happier smile out of her and all you had to do to make the woman smile was to smile to her yourself :)