THE BLACK FLAG
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Table of Contents
Internal Game
3
External Game
33
The Pick-‐Up
59
Pre-‐Coital Adventures 102
Meta Game
114
Exemplars
123
Chapter The First: Internal Game
THE MATRIX
“Why do my eyes hurt?”
“You’ve never used them before”
The Matrix is omnipresent. It is ubiquitous, it is all-‐encompassing, it is all-‐seeing, it is all-‐ knowing. From billboards to magazines to TV shows to high school clubs to advertisements to movies to father-‐son conversations to novels to fairy tales to news paper articles to proverbs to jokes; it is literally fucking everywhere.
It starts with Disney movies.
From a young age all men are exposed to a stream-‐line of normalization that teaches them that all girls are princesses and all women are led to believe that they are entitled to their own fairy tales. By their pre-‐teen years, boys have been thoroughly conditioned to believe that all women need to be placed on pedestals, that insecurities are a parasitic yet beneficial aspect of
relationships, and that one day, it will be honorable for them to willingly sacrifice their minds to a media-‐fueled pop sensation soul-‐mate mythology whose sole function is to systemically sterilize them and all of their kin. Other girls give them shitty advice, leading them to think that girls actually like desperate behavior and that the appropriate way to win a woman's heart involves a prostrating desire for exclusivity, a willingness to spend a suicidal amount of money on flowers, and an over-‐protective standard of commitment. The few men who are able to escape the jaws of a greater feminized imperative adopt a perverted form of masculinity, becoming the famously labeled "jerks" of society, extroverting their insecurities in the form of cocky, arrogant, or obnoxious behavior. Afraid of commitment and themselves, they are the future janitors of our race. Of the saved souls, only a few become real "men" -‐ and even they have trouble articulating their leadership into useful forms. From video games to materialism, the hyper-‐addictive personality embodied by contemporary society successfully transfigures them into a corrupted version of themselves. Nice guys are praised for their willingness to bend over and take it up the ass. Jerks are demonized for jizzing on other people’s faces. "Real" men waste all their time playing video games, masturbating, and engaging in other useless activities. In short, men are taught to be pussies and no one realizes that they're being lied to until it's too late.
The ending isn't from a Disney movie.
The symptoms of a decaying post-‐modern society leak out in the form of divorce rates and psycho-‐social pathologies. Approach anxiety seizes its victims by the throat and turns good natured men into lifeless herbs who innocuously orbit the dark corners of clubs and bars. Jealousy etches itself into the foundation of every relationship as men opt for lackluster
attempts at controlling their emotions. The defiant subculture of game turns into a tool used to oppress women rather than liberate men -‐ it's original purpose. Husbands and boyfriends world-‐wide contemplate suicide or murder everyday because they can't stand the idea of "the one" leaving them to get raw-‐dogged by fresh cock in some dark alleyway. Girls who refuse to acknowledge the true, biologically determined, nature of men are left in the dark and fed acreages of shit in their own abusive or pathetically isolated half-‐relationships. The swath of supplicatory comments offered as tribute to them on facebook via decadent bitchboys
galvanizes even the most repulsive of marsh monsters to join the league of extraordinary cunts – an exclusive priori dedicated to burning an embroidery of feminism unto their world.
The sexual market is merciless in its judgment. Men begin to seek solace in World of Warcraft and porn magazines. The mass production of lube makes it possible to find comfort in jerking off to lesbian literature while avoiding the horrifying experience of being rejected by a real girl. Social skills, like common sense, become a rare commodity. The purifying acid wash of reality begins to settle in as the painful dissolution of humanity begins its tragic descent to chaos. This is the degenerated acropolis of “refined” culture you begin your journey for self-‐improvement in.
THE ART OF CONFIDENCE
“Men weren’t really the enemy – they were fellow victims suffering from an outmoded masculine mystique that made them feel unnecessarily inadequate when there were no bears to
kill.”
-‐Betty Friedan
National Geographic News reports that after sequencing the genome of the chimpanzee,
scientists have found humans to be 96% similar in genetic makeup to the great ape species. The 4% difference has amounted to a significant change in appearance, the ability to use our
thumbs, and a few other idiosyncrasies, which by a mad stroke of luck, has allowed an utterly insignificant ape-‐descended life form to become the only self-‐labeled “sentient” beings on earth. Ecclesiastical law, Hollywood ethos, and the strained sciences are all elocutions of that small 4%; but the truth remains, the 4% we pay such an insurmountable attention to pales in comparison to our anatomically pre-‐determined nature with regards to our overall behavioral schema. But no statistics are required to prove that our atavistically driven instincts are the real motivators behind our “complex” social interplays – only a brief glance at the male sex drive.
Year round, weak men are dazzled by ostentatious shows of skin and the numbing power of beauty. From cleavage to legs, the propensity of lesser men to allow themselves to be
consumed by aesthetic delight is somewhat awe-‐inspiring. For a period of time before they hit the wall, women hold within their hands God-‐like power. But why the obsession with beauty?
“Men, on average, tend to place a higher value on physical appearance in a partner than women do. This may be explained by evolutionary psychology as a possible consequence of ancestral humans who selected partners based on secondary sexual characteristics, as well as general indicators of fitness (for example, symmetrical features) enjoying greater reproductive success as a result of higher fertility in those partners.”
“A feature of beautiful women that has been explored by researches is a waist-‐to-‐hip ratio of approximately 0.70. Physiologists have shown that women with hourglass figures are more fertile than other women due to higher levels of certain female hormones, a fact that may subconsciously condition males choosing mates.”1
Modern science has stripped beauty of its grandeur and turned it into a calculable
phenomenon. There is no arcane magic behind it, no Delphic fascination, no preternatural meaning. Beauty is simply indicative of a woman’s ability to reproduce. Bloated vaginas and warts make women less attractive because men are predisposed to noticing such things as caveats for infertility.
So what determines what women are attracted to?
“A male’s ability to provide resources for offspring was likely signaled less by physical features. This is considered to be due to the most prominent indicator of fertility in women being youth, while the traits in a man that enhance reproductive success are proxies for his ability to accrue resources and protect.”2
The age old mystery of female sexuality – dissected by rudimentary logic and text-‐book science. This is where the seed of confidence lies. The world has evolved from an age where physical adaptivity determined the most dominant males. Social adaptivity has taken control of the reins of productive utility and in return, the mental filters that women use to select mates have shifted to recognize more abstract qualities, less quantifiable than brute strength.
1 Stephen J. Dubner (July 9, 2007). "The Science of Large Breasts, and Other Evolutionary Verities". The New York Times
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Women are attracted to confident men because they have evolved to recognize them as the ones most capable of providing for them and their off springs. A decisive man who could lead his troops to victory, who could keep his family from falling into desolate poverty, and who could pass on his lady-‐killer genes to his son is the contemporary equivalent of a caveman who could strangle a pterodactyl with his pubes. From a psychological perspective, it makes sense for a girl to assume that confident men have substance behind their game because power and authority have consistently correlated with the natural cultivation of a confident aura.
The dizzying rate of aggregating complexities in modern society continues to create ways to circumvent this law. Insecure men well versed in IT vernacular can easily accumulate massive amounts of wealth, and theoretically, very high “provider” capabilities; but ultimately this remains irrelevant. Confidence does not delineate an absolute amount of Power nor does it work the other way around. The entire premise of “game” was originally based on manipulating this dynamic by mimicking traits that dominant men naturally possessed to elicit the same responses they would get from women. But assessing the exact percentage of accuracy this theory has historically held does us no good. For our purposes, it is clear enough that
confidence and masculinity are generally the most attractive traits a man can possess because in the 250,000+ years of our existence, they were indicative of a male with high reproductive value. Any method focused on developing inner game would have to revolve around these traits.
But do these methods even exist? It would seem as though life has played a cruel trick on mankind, that only a handful would be born with confidence and inner game while the rest of us were doomed to suffer from calloused hands or be forced into settling for stretched out labials at a later age. Some men just seem to have life made out easier for them, imbued with a natural ability to charm women into agreeing to threesomes. The genesis of game has given birth to a strict process of segregating men into naturals and unnaturals or men who are innately capable of seduction versus men who have to consciously maroon their targets based on sound principles.
The truth is, the entire dichotomy between natural and unnatural is false and stems from a misunderstanding of social development. The term “natural” itself is a misnomer – certain men only seem to be organically saturated with charisma because they were placed in favorable positions when they were young. The shocking thing about a natural is not his intrinsic ability to emanate confidence, but the age at which he picked up through experience what you are now meticulously learning through study.
Men who have had Alpha fathers or father figures to model themselves after have a higher chance of becoming Alpha than men who grew up in pampered households surrounded by AFCs. Boys who were captain of their little league teams will develop more leadership qualities than their friends who actively bleach their faces from staring at computer screens. And most importantly, men who have enjoyed success with women at an early age are able to build on their success by capitalizing on a marginal boost in confidence while their soon-‐to-‐be-‐beta counterparts will dwell endlessly in a cesspool of failures. Confidence is not a visceral
characteristic; it is the result of proper conditioning. While certain road blocks, like getting sorted into Hufflepuff, can severely hamper one’s self-‐esteem, we can intentionally place our selves in favorable positions at a later age to make up for lost times.
SURVIVAL OF THE SMOOTHEST
“I see now that the circumstances of one’s birth are irrelevant; it is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are”
-‐Mewtwo
If the attractiveness of a man can be reduced to his proxies for accruing resources, committing to protecting his offspring, and other vigilant qualities, then the operational purpose of
qualities like confidence can be reduced to a single term – survivability. On a more
comprehensive spectrum of evolution, survivability is determined almost exclusively by an animal’s ability to adapt to its environment. Decorum is the evolved form of this type of physical acclimation, superior etiquette the refined version of superior physical presence, and suave propriety the modern reconstruction of external displays of fertility. Activities that bolster the aptitude of a man to survive in a socio-‐economically driven world –like any activity that harbors a competitive mentality-‐ would likely correlate with a development in inner game.
“The new study, published in The Journal of Strength & Conditioning Research, was led by Andrew C. Fry, PhD, CSCS, of University of Kansas. He and his team collected blood samples from collegiate wrestlers before and after matches to measure levels of testosterone and other hormones.
When hormone levels of the winners and losers of the matches were compared, testosterone levels rose in both groups of athletes. However, average testosterone levels increased more among wrestlers who won their matches compared with those who did not.
Elevated testosterone levels have been studied in other athletes as well, ranging from high resistance weight trainers to basketball players. However, an increase in testosterone levels is not limited to physically competitive activities.
In a study conducted in Japan, saliva samples were collected from 90 healthy male university students who were members of a competitive Japanese chess club (shogi) immediately before and after playing chess, and again 30 minutes later. The researchers found an increase in testosterone and cortisol in the saliva of players, regardless of whether they had won or lost.
Increases were more pronounced the more competitive the game.”3
Studies concur; men who are competitive are more alpha than their vagina bequeathed brethren.
If you’re young, you have time to pick up a sport. If you’re older, your career is the way to go. Become uncannily good at anything you do – approach it with an untapped competitive potential – and your flaccid personality will follow in suit. It is no coincidence that men who stand out in their respective fields generally display Alpha characteristics.
The study indirectly makes note of two additional points. First, the intensity of a man’s
competitive fervor directly affects his level of confidence. Star Centers will be more alpha than 3rd string point guards; nationally acclaimed chess players will be more alpha than local chess
enthusiasts. If you want to be confident, have something to be confident about. If you spend your weekends touring dildo factories and your weekdays logging billions of hours on Xbox Live, you have little hope of drawing women to their boudoirs.
Second, the key ingredient is competition, not sports. It would be unfair to quickly draw a super-‐nerd AFC stereotype based on the presumption that a guy plays video games. The recent influx of hyper-‐competitive e-‐sports has given birth to a new milieu of gamers, ones who pursue their hobbies with the same gusto seen in men who have reserved their tenacity for physical sports and the world of business. Predictably, pro-‐gamers are all alpha, rake in glorious amounts of coquettish pussy, and achieve celebrity status in return for their talents. Their friends who prefer playing uncompetitive games get shafted by Darwinism and eventually tossed aside like sperm receptacle.
Compete. Dominate. Repeat.
A competitive mentality is not the only ground upon which a progressively confident persona can be developed. If the functional purpose of confidence can be reduced to survivability then increasing the number of social adaptations a man is capable of would have an equal effect. Physically, this would translate to cleansing oneself of bodily weaknesses like allergies. In our case, this refers to getting rid of social phobias. From spiders to public speaking, the fears we casually brush off as insouciant manifestations of youth and inexperience are metaphysical maladies that hold us back from functioning at the acme of our potentials.
While shortcuts can be taken to minimize the amount of mental trauma caused by having to confront these problems, I suggest avoiding them. The trauma caused from facing your bête-‐ noir is necessary, you need to associate extreme pain with the overly vagrant personality you have now. Afraid of germs? Throw yourself into a vat of infectious miasma and absorb your enemies. Afraid of talking to a girl? Do 100 approaches every night using lines from Seinfeld.
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Afraid of spiders? Hire a prostitute to dress in a Xeno-‐arachnid costume and hatefuck her till you develop a bizarre fetish for harvestmen. Afraid of physical confrontation? Compete in naked staring contests at the kremlin while wearing a foaming vibrator on your forehead.
What you’re doing right now is not enough. By the time most people realize that the fears shackling them to a mediocre existence are creations of their own diseased minds – it’s already too late. You have a choice of either overcoming the belching whirlpool of phobias gorging on your freedom right now or ignoring them and passing through life with a blanched face, smiling like a retard being tickled by his own hands.
To challenge oneself in all aspects of life is to force oneself to grow in ways never thought possible. Evolution is the cornerstone to survivability and thus alphaness – personal evolution is only a myopic version of that same process. It is not enough to approach our fears in life with a passive aggressiveness; we need to approach them with an aggressive aggressiveness.
The issue of adaptivity also explains why rich, famous, or powerful men are able to make vaginas oscillate at extreme frequencies without any out of pocket effort. We live in a socio-‐ economically driven society hence men who excel at accumulating capital in either form are technically the best at adapting to their environments; thus are perceived to have the most value and desirability. This is implicitly understood by women; who subconsciously expect men with money and power to possess the traits that beat rhythmically with female desire. Women don’t masturbate to images of large unmarked bills; but the idea of a man with a suitcase full of those bills carries the telltale signs of ambition, leadership, mystery, and other simian qualities. Women are not attracted to power and money as disassociated concepts.
THE TAO OF BADASS
“There will come a time when you have a chance to do the right thing.”
“I love those moments. I like to wave at them as they pass by”
The tendency for an irritated vagina to seek recourse in chauvinistic criminal cock seems to make little sense in terms of evolutionary psychology but a closer examination of the science behind why women are attracted to BAMFs might reveal otherwise. I refuse to use the term “bad boy” in our discussion because it sounds homosexual (no offense).
speak in a louder voice. When people do not respect the basic rules of social behavior, they lead others to believe that they have power, according to a study in the current Social Psychological and Personality Science
People with power have a very different experience of the world than people without it. The powerful have fewer rules to follow, and they live in environments of money, knowledge and support. People without power live with threats of punishment and firm limits according to the research team lead by Gerben Van Kleef of the University of Amsterdam. Because the powerful are freer to break the rules -‐-‐ does breaking the rules seem more powerful?
People read about a visitor to an office who took a cup of employee coffee without asking or about a bookkeeper that bent accounting rules. The rule breakers were seen as more in control, and powerful compared to people who didn't steal the coffee, or didn't break bookkeeping rules.
Acting rudely also leads people to see power. People who saw a video of a man at a sidewalk café put his feet on another chair, drop cigarette ashes on the ground and order a meal brusquely thought the man was more likely to "get to make decisions" and able to "get people to listen to what he says" than the people who saw a video of the same man behaving politely.
What happens when people interact with a rule breaker? Van Kleef and colleagues had people come to the lab, and interact with a rule follower and a rule breaker. The rule follower was polite and acted normally, while the rule breaker arrived late, threw down his bag on a table and put up his feet. After the interaction, people thought the rule breaker had more power and was more likely to "get others to do what he wants."
Norm violators are perceived as having the capacity to act as they please" write the researchers. Power may be corrupting, but showing the outward signs of corruption makes people think you're powerful.”
As luck would have it, it isn’t by accident that assholes and ethical renegades have a far lower statistical probability of dying from seminal backlash. Girls aren’t stupid, they’re just aware that men who have a taste for debauchery are likely to have bigger testicles than ones who prefer living by every letter of the law. Ignoring rules and authority will help your inner game. At this point half of you will go “wait…wtf?” and re-‐read that last line.
Discourse shapes reality, not the other way around. People who break rules are perceived to be more powerful which leads them to act more powerful. The circular nature of behavioral modification is often ignored for a more linear model; people assume that you need to be powerful first to act the part when the truth works in reverse. If competition and social
adaptivity can successfully breed confidence, then our thoughts and actions must be dynamically interrelated. Our actions are not only a manifestation of our thoughts; our thoughts are also a manifestation of our actions. Break rules, think you’re Alpha because you just broke rules, Become Alpha.
The only problem with men who enjoy making a mockery of societal norms is that they subvert the rapport clause of all pleasantly feminine women. They have no problem submerging
themselves in vaginal discharge but their drive for destruction becomes all-‐consuming all to often. A disdain for imposed control has an eerie habit of turning into a disdain for self-‐control.
The key to avoidance takes far more self-‐discipline than most people expect. Power is
intoxicating, as are the various perks that come with it, including a caustic savoir-‐faire. But one cannot expect to break every rule while avoiding every consequence. Questionable acts must be deployed with plausible deniability and only semi-‐dubious pretexts. To illustrate, we observe an unchangeable law of the universe…
The ideal man is one who could cheat easily, but would never do so.
FemiNazis leave the first part out. Players leave the second part out. We are conditioned to believe that forsaking all other options is a necessary preface for a successful relationship but any veteran in love will tell you that misplaced loyalty is the kiss of death in romantic attraction. Likewise, other men will disregard the entire notion of monogamy and happily fuck a girl’s best friend to soothe a momentary genital itch. But the perfect man is one who is willing to break the feminized norm of being a cyclopean beta while still refusing to go all the way and cheat – because it violates his own principles. He will shamelessly flirt with another girl with no regard for moral conventions but when her vulva hangs loose right in front of his pubic bone he retorts with “Oh I’m sorry, I’m already in love.”
A man who can break enough rules to stand at the brink of moral chaos but have enough discipline to keep himself from falling over is both a master of himself and his inner demons. A man who follows all the norms he was groomed to follow has no credibility, he never saw what life was like over the edge. A man who follows disaster to no controlled end can only take pride in his own coup de grace, not society’s.
This is why Alphas who don’t cheat are more valuable than Betas who don’t cheat. There is a great amount of difference between men who abide to rules out of fear and men who abide to rules out of respect. A man with no options who says “I would never cheat” is a lampoon of moral integrity. A man who has women pouring all over him like manna from the heavens who says “I would never cheat” is a symbol of masculine perfection.
“Murder suspect Joran van der Sloot says women are begging to bed him. He bragged to reporters this week about receiving love letters and marriage proposals since confessing to the murder of Stephany Flores, whose battered corpse was found in the young Dutchman's Lima hotel room on June 2.
Not everyone thinks murderers make bad company. To some women -‐-‐ and a smaller share of men -‐-‐ extinguish a life and you become a fetish object. What drives women to cruise Web sites such as PrisonPenPals.com, WriteaPrisoner.com, ConvictMailbag.com, and Meet-‐an-‐
Inmate.com, where prisoners (granted, only some are killers) post pictures and pleas?”4
There’s no doubt about it – breaking rules fosters inner game; otherwise women wouldn’t have hind brains trained to regard caddishness as a vestige of Power. And before I accidently breed an army of serial killers; [Disclaimer: not all rules should be broken.]
You won’t be making vaginas marinate from a jail cell, so the legal ramifications of any action should be considered. Breaking petty laws probably won’t do much for your game either. Robbing a bank might get you as much money as lying on your corporate income statement – but “I robbed a bank” is invariably a better pick up line than “I lied on our annual income statement.”
Follow conventions irregularly and always harbor a disdain for puerile norms. Set goals for yourself and stay focused on results. Rules that can be circumvented to advance your interests while avoiding a calamity should be callously ignored. You have no interest in letting the Amoebic reach of etiquette hold you back from success.
People will always embody the internal image they have of themselves. Personalities are self-‐ fulfilling constitutions contingent upon outside variables. When someone breaks a rule, they perceive their own character as “above” the law and they act the part. Any action that forces you to rationalize yourself as “superior” has the same extolling quality. Butch lesbians have unstoppable confidence because they see themselves as above the scabbed filth of society, although one could argue no one is more responsible for our extended emotional gutters than they are. 4
AS YOU THINK, YOU SHALL BECOME
“Man…If These Balls Could Talk”
The process of leaving the PussyCluxClan to join the pantheon of Alpha deities requires not only a sanctioning of positive habits but a destruction of negative ones. A quick overview over a concept I’ve beaten to death on my blog is required:
“According to cognitive dissonance theory, there is a tendency for individuals to seek consistency among their cognitions (i.e., beliefs, opinions). When there is an inconsistency between attitudes or behaviors (dissonance), something must change to eliminate the
dissonance. In the case of a discrepancy between attitudes and behavior, it is most likely that the attitude will change to accommodate the behavior.”
For all of you who have ever asked me, “how do I slap the beta bitch out of myself?” Here is your answer. If you find yourself unable to fully “internalize” your changes to inner game it’s because a posse of bad habits is actively deconstructing your newly found attitude and re-‐ modifying you back to a beta apparatus. An Alpha demeanor will eventually decay into beta ineptitude following a consistent courtship of bad habits.
Bad habits your bitch ass is doing right now:
(a) Buying gifts for random bitchez
Your action delineates a certain amount of difference in value. Regardless of how you originally perceived the act to pan out, your mind assumes itself to have lower value than the girl in question to rationalize you prostration. Your inner game reacts by reducing your outward confidence in favor of more desperate beta game.
(b) Acting impressed when someone does something
Toss a gauntlet when credit is due but never groak over someone else’s accomplishments. Any time you flatter someone with gaudy praise, they subconsciously assume they are of higher value than you. If you’re an employer, act happy and proud over someone’s accomplishments, but not impressed. You must always act as if your apotheosis is just around the corner, there is nothing in this world that staggers your imagination nor is there anything you are incapable of.
If someone else did it, you can do it.
(c) Sacrificing your own concerns for the sake of a girl
I’m repulsed by the number of young kids I see making a decision over their college or their jobs depending on where their girlfriends are going to live. The sacrifice is too large to maintain equal footing in a relationship. There are thousands of girl’s that can make you happy in this world, only one dream. When a girl sees this type of trade-‐off, she does NOT think “let me reciprocate the affection,” she thinks “wow he must be really desperate.” What her conscience mind thinks and the words that come out of her lips are infinitely irrelevant compared to the assumptions made by her Id.
(d) Entertaining a Long Distance Relationship (LDR)
LDRs are by definition bad trade offs for men. Women use sex to get relationships, men use relationships to get sex; this was how our species was meant to coexist. We are complimentary rivals in the sexual market. In an LDR, the girl is using a relationship to get a relationship and the man is using his subscription to Brazzers to get sex. The tradeoff on the man’s part is too
macabre to maintain a stable relationship unless you’re going out with a gipsy who can astrally project her vagina to your penis across thousands of miles.
(e) Jacking off Mad Timez
Your body assumes you are sexually sated. The drive to deploy draconian tactics to route vagina towards your shaft is replaced by a drive to stay at home and surf YouTube for sappy
entertainment. The practice of total abstinence to maintain focus has been famous among several Super Alphas throughout history (Manny Pacquiao, Ghandi, Nikola Tesla, and many others). The premise of fasting lies in the idea of sex diffusing human energy through orgasms. A man’s will-‐to-‐power is based on his psycho-‐sexual energy. When that energy becomes repressed, it comes out in other forms. The need to succeed, to dominate others, to be competitive; all become magnified through parched desire.
Small habits like these are venomous to the aspiring lothario. As time progresses, you can lose all of your inner game by allowing your bad habits to corrode the frame you’ve taken so strongly to.
We are so utterly conditioned by the matrix to seeing these habits as a regular part of our lives that their subsequent consequences go relatively unnoticed. Every other movie involves a guy giving flowers on the first date; every other song is about a nice guy waiting in brutal isolation for his true love with a bag full of chocolates and hand cream. The smallest of habits have far-‐ reaching consequences. Heckling for money makes your mind assume you are desperate, cleaning dishes makes your mind assume you need more estrogen in your blood, and “waiting for the right moment” to say “hi” to a girl makes your mind assume that women need to be pedestalized.
If you are truly invested in liberating yourself from militant feminism, then a full renaissance of not only your thoughts – but also your habits – is necessary. Spending weeks regaling women with your new found charm after reading this book will do no good if after being in a
relationship for 3 weeks, you get lazy and allow the impending dilapidation of your game to proceed without any resistance. No matter how much you work on changing your attitude from beta to alpha, beta behavior will reverse engineer your old iconic AFC. Too many people are the victims of assuming that once you achieve a certain level of stoic alphaness and get a girlfriend; you come to a point of no return. Nothing is unconditional in this world. Not an “Alpha
mentality,” not life, not good health, and most definitely not love.
Dissonance is a germ to our thoughts – our bodies react by eliminating certain ideals to restore mental equilibrium. If you happen to be homophobic, start attending gay porn conventions where everyone comes together to enjoy a mass erection and watch your loathing of gay people sublime into an appreciation for their differences. A technique like this can be a powerful tool for relinquishing thoughts that incapacitate inner game.
Approach anxiety capitalizes on our need to avoid social mastication. Rejection is a naturally aversive stimulus so it would make sense for people to avoid it at all costs. But you don’t need to jump into approaching sets at a club right away to supplant your lapses in confidence. Think about the subconscious repository for approach anxiety – a fear of being rejected by strangers. Talking to any stranger warps anthrophobic thoughts into confidence. Homeless people don’t mind conversation, start by talking to them. Old people at laundry mats, other guys, any person you don’t know. Your body can’t harbor approach anxiety while you’re aggressively cold
approaching people.
Body language connected to a specific mode of thought would create the same type of antagonism if our instinctual thoughts are geared in a different direction. Acting calm when we’re nervous – makes us less nervous. The dissonance created by forcing yourself to maintain a calm exterior actively degenerates the nervousness created by your internal fears. Taking up more space in a place we feel uncomfortable in – makes us more comfortable. Talking slowly even when we feel urged to rush ourselves – makes us feel more confident. All these examples could be used not only in day-‐to-‐day conversations but in interviews and other tense situations. Retaining controlled body language when it’s most difficult to do so sublimates our instinct to withdraw ourselves and forces our minds to generate more assertive thoughts to reflect how we’re projecting ourselves. Take it a step further; intentionally place yourself in highly tense situations to push yourself to maintain proper body language.
Feeling stupid? Do smart looking things that even dumb people like you can learn and your thoughts will imitate your actions. I’ve never thought of myself as a “genius” but I’ve been so adeptly trained at bullshitting my ass off and pretending to be smarter than everyone else, I can convince anyone that I am. It would take about two weeks for anyone to learn a song on the piano but our minds are so conditioned to believe that musical talent reflects intelligence that when you hear yourself play a song you’ll convince yourself that you’re not stupid. The self-‐ doubts you have about your intelligence will be replaced by a beautiful self-‐stroking vanity. It
doesn’t end at playing music, go to the library and read a book with a complicated name like “Thus Spoke Zarathustra” by Friedrich Nietzsche. Despite how stupid you actually are, your brain will convince yourself that you’re smart because you go to the library and read books with bouygues names. The next time you’re in a room full of people, watch the magic unfold as your almost poetic ability to bullshit baffles the audience. Do intelligent looking things è think you’re intelligent è become “intelligent.” (Being intelligent and tricking other people into thinking you’re intelligent are synonymous).
If you want the world around you to change, change yourself first. If you want to change yourself, change your habits first.
THE T EFFECT
“Lennox Lewis, I’m coming for you man. My style is impetuous. My defense is impregnable, and I’m just ferocious. I want your heart. I want to eat his children.”
-‐Tyson
Testosterone is the lifeblood of game. Any outside references to support this fact would be superfluous (but will be added anyways), the amount of studies conducted that have reiterated the positive effects of testosterone allow for little latitude in interpretation. Every single
influential man on earth, bar none, had a Big-‐T personality; comparative psychology has already observed the highest amount of circulating testosterone in the Alpha Male of any group, and several psychosocial temperaments emblematic of seductive prowess are naturally induced by testosterone. Testosterone is the vitality of life, the cure to middle class vacuity, the savior of western civilization. Below I’ve listed the most prominent ways to prevent your figure and mental sharpness from turning svelte. I would suggest pursuing all of them, as they not only indirectly improve internal game, they also have a myriad of health benefits. Look up other ways to boost testosterone besides these, adopt as many of them as you can. Estrogen = MetaDeath.
(1) Don’t be a Fatass
The estrogen catalyzing enzyme aromatase resides in fat cells. Excess fat inhibits the production of testosterone and increases the production of estrogen allowing for things like man-‐boobs, big man-‐boobs, feelings of fatigue, depression, and insomnia. The consequences of obesity have a cyclic effect; people who are obese are more likely to be lazy which further feeds into their obesity.
(2) Slaughter animals and then eat them without mercy
Men on vegetarian diets have lower testosterone levels than their carnivorous friends. Men who hunt their own prey generally have higher testosterone levels than those who prefer buying their meats at supermarkets. Hunters > Gatherers
(3) Foods with the right nutrients
Peanuts, almonds, and other foods high in monounsaturated fat have a positive effect on the testeez. Fish, vegetables and all that good stuff help to. If you’re like me and you think
vegetables are an abomination to edible cuisine, consider shortcuts (compressed vegetable drinks).
(4) Moderate your intakes of alcohol, caffeine, & cigarettes
All 3 have an extraordinarily negative effect on testosterone production. Caffeine can be harmless if consumed in reasonable amounts. Dossiers of pseudo-‐science have contended that bodily toxins like alcohol and nicotine fuck your internal chi up. While I don’t have a crippling fear of spiritual damnation, I do think living a healthy lifestyle should be looked into.
(5) Try and avoid anorexia
Going for long stretches without food or not eating enough shoots down hormone production. Consume a healthy amount of fat a day, your body needs carbs and fats to produce
testosterone.
(6) Work out Terminator style
Heavy weights + Compound Exercises = More T. Rigorous training sessions must be followed by long periods of rest, over-‐exerting yourself has a negative effect on not only muscle growth but also T production. Maintain a healthy circadian rhythm and avoid fucking up your sleep cycle.
(7) Supplements
Daily vitamins, zinc, and certain herbs like tribulus terrestris, ginseng, muncuna pruriens, and horny goat weed all increase T-‐production. I would suggest avoiding steroids or other extreme methods unless you are advised to do otherwise by a professional. I don’t have a moral
vendetta against steroids or “shortcuts,” but I do think they can be misused easily. I had a friend who took roids and his dependency on them went from casual to more persistent than woodlice within a matter of weeks.
The imperators of science have confirmed our hypothesis that testosterone positively affects game:
The study engaged pairs of men in a seven-‐minute videotaped competition for the attention of an attractive female undergraduate. Pre-‐competition testosterone levels were positively associated with men's dominance behaviors in the mate competition-‐including how assertive they were and how much they "took control" of the conversation-‐and with how much the woman indicated that she "clicked" with each of the men.
According to Richard Slatcher, Ph.D., assistant professor of psychology in WSU's College of Liberal Arts and Sciences and a resident of Birmingham, Mich., the effects of testosterone on dominance behaviors were especially pronounced among men who reported having a high need for social dominance. In his study, "Testosterone and Self-‐Reported Dominance Interact to Influence Human Mating Behavior," published online Feb. 28 in the journal, Social
Psychological and Personality Science, these men showed a strong positive association between their own testosterone and their own dominance behaviors and, most surprisingly, a strong negative association between their own testosterone and their opponents' dominance
behaviors. In other words, men both high in testosterone and who reported a high need for social dominance appeared to be able somehow suppress their competitors' ability to attract potential mates. However, when men reported low need for dominance, there was no
association between testosterone and dominance behaviors-‐either their own or their competitors'.
"We found that testosterone levels influenced men's dominance behaviors during the competitions, how much they derogated (or 'bashed') their competitors afterward, and how much the woman said she 'clicked' with them," said Slatcher. "Books, film and television often portray men who are bold and self-‐assured with women as being high in testosterone. Our results suggest that there is a kernel of truth to this stereotype, that naturally circulating testosterone indeed is associated with men's behaviors when they try to woo women."5
Apparently not only does increased testosterone help you overcome things like approach anxiety and erectile dysfunction, it also cleaves your inability to deal with other men. If you’re constantly being badgered by jerk-‐off betas trying to AMOG you in a set, start chugging steroids, put on 150 pounds of muscle, and watch as other men redact into noodle dick mode within your presence.
The appearance of higher levels of testosterone in serial killers, rock stars, and other men who enjoy tanning their groins in massive veldts of pussy suggest that women may be able to intuitively screen men based on their level of radiating testosterone. The fact that women with big T personalities often prefer to fist rape marry betas indicates that testosterone levels in partners are inversely related. This goes back to the game principle that a woman in the presence of a man incapable of assuming his natural role of leader – will usurp that position
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