Instant Addiction Formula

Instant Addiction Formula (IAF)

A Revolutionary Breakthrough Guide To Slapping Your Inner Irresistible Attributes Awake

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Foreword

I’d like to start by not just warmly welcoming you, but congratulating

you for expressing your interest in making investment in my “Instant

Addiction Formula”. No jokes, I’ve spent months meticulously composing

and rewriting the killer contents in this book, ensuring that every breathing word is not even a stone’s throw short of molten gold. It’s the habit of a perfectionist.

Every piece of information is ready for implementation and fulfills the secrets to keeping a woman addicted to you; and at times, irrationally inseparable from you. Whether you’re single, dating, or already in a relationship, this potent formula does not discriminate; it will make any woman within your radar go on an emotional override in love and lust. That’s why I’m excited to let you exploit this.

Throughout this extensive reading, you’ll notice that I’ve provided

multiple quintessential examples based on personal encounters and real-time experiences; this is all to demonstrate more vividly how each concept works.

As promised, there are no theoretical mystifications or out-of-date methodologies. Everything is field-tested, stands the test of time, and will not let you down. There’s only a one sided-outcome, and that’s to joyously crown in victory.

Why did I publish this guide?

Firstly, I’ve always wanted to tackle one of the biggest weaknesses and gaping hole in every modern man’s dating repertoire, and that is to keep a woman highly interested in the long run. Sweat not, as the solution is now right before your very eyes, and I look forward to listen your feedback after testing my formula yourself. As you’re a valued VIP member of my circle now, I’ll be here to guide you further if you need my assistance. My personal e-mail’s available below.

Secondly, guys see me all the time with the hottest women with brains, thus

coming up to me seeking and bugging me for dating advice. Rumor then spreads that I have the miraculously gift to change dating lives, -- although I’d prefer the term ‘improve’ – and eventually I’ve earned the stripes as a credible go-to dating instructor, a role I that I am honored to play.

However, after being a full-fledged hip hop artist and CEO of street wear fashion and music label LUXLIVIN in 2007, I no longer have the luxury of time to dedicate myself entirely on coaching men 1-by-1; let that be in person, instant messaging, or via e-mail.

Note: My private coaching sessions are still available; spots are more limited and you still get your money’s worth, if not more.

So, I thought to myself, why not lay everything down on digital

print?

Fast forward a few months of heavy duty planning, writing, and wrestling with the perfectionist in me, I now proudly present to you my Instant Addiction Formula (IAF) -- possibly the closest ‘one size fits all’ guide to making you “dangerously irresistible.”

I didn’t just employ that slogan for no cause. If the dating scene’s a jungle,

this is the key to crowning the kingdom.

More importantly, my goal is to beef up your understanding about women, and supply you with the “how-to’s” to generating long-lasting riveting attraction with women and make them force themselves to take the seat as your ‘faithful girlfriend’.

I’m talking about real attraction that stays boiling hot even when you’re

absent from her. How would you like it if she melts in the afterthought of

you? I’m sure you would.

The formula you’re about to digest will also alter the dynamics in your social stratosphere. Your friendship circle will broaden – though

some may become fickle, strangers you come to contact with will find it

difficult to dislike you, and you may potentially impact the lives of many

positively without knowing.

Just like picking up any new skill, this will require discipline, patience, and practice before you can comfortably evolve into this “new irresistible you.”

The more you sharpen your knife, the better it will slice.

You will also learn how to control the heartstrings of not just women, but

people in general. I am going to recondition you – not brainwash – but

nurture you with new life behavioral patterns that will dramatically bolster your level of likeability and personal status.

You see, the reason why most men fail with women is because we grew up pre-conditioned with feminist-induced expectations. That’s why you witness so many guys bowing down to women and drooling in their presence. We’ve now become rigid creatures confined to counterproductive beliefs and behaviors imposed by our cultural society, which have imprisoned our inner-alpha male’s survival.

It’s time to break free.

Now, prepare for a constant state of self-revelation and unbridled glory.

ARE YOU READY? HERE’S WHAT’S

GOING DOWN.

You’re going to start doing things differently around women now.

We are going to create a “stickiness” glow around you; polish your inner + outer (overall) game, and I will help map out whatever it takes to be an irresistible guy.

Several entailing methodologies may go against current reasoning you may have. If so, don’t just brush them aside, instead, learn to accept, understand, and put it to practice. Nothing within was written in vain.

Remember, everything herein is field-tested and the beauty of it all is, they’re all fail proof.

1. We are about to embark in a process of self de-constructing and re-constructing.

What I am going to reveal to you are a certain code of behaviors, which I vehemently advise you to embrace, adopt, and live in accord to. Apply not only towards women, but also your friends and colleagues.

Real attractive men don’t just attract women, but genders of all humankind.

You’ll notice how drastically more favorable people will react towards you. This is real social rewiring to increase the value of your life.

Requirements: Again, you will need a disciplined mind to commit coupled

with the guts to experiment. It’s time to stretch your comfort zone, harden your backbone, and shelve away your old counterproductive habits.

Real talk. If you want to truly improve your game, you must build on your strengths, and dare to tackle your weaknesses, not continue to harbor them.

Warning: It’s only realistic to expect consequences to this formula. By

applying, you agree to accept the potentially foreseeable constant calling of

a woman, text messaging, and possibly nights of jealousy on her end. But that’s a good thing for you.

2. You will detach from your old reality you are comfortable cushioned in, and walk into

As you’ve already made the decision to access my formula, a bad news ensues.

There’s no turning back. The good news? There’s no need to try undoing

your past, and your future is about to grow blindingly brighter – with women, social life, and work career.

It’s time to detach, grow, and march forward courageously. Mark this as the official new chapter to your life right now.

It may feel surreal during the initial phases – your first 14 days – but once your new reality structure sinks in, you will eventually adapt. I want you to internalize everything in increments. Don’t’ just rush to the very bottom of this guide, but stop, assess, and fully absorb every detail before proceeding to the next cornerstone.

THE 6 MAJOR PILLARS TO INSTANT

ADDICTION FORMULA (IAF)

1. Character Management (Positivism Outburst) 2. Growing Dependency (on you)

3. Constant Curiosity Factor

4. Happiness Stimulation (Internally & Externally) 5. Adrenaline Rush (Stirring Excitement)

6. Added-Value Transfer = Instant Addiction

With this formula, I am highly confident that you won’t just hit home runs with women, but excel phenomenally in other fields of life. Don’t forget, consistency in exercising this formula is the name of the game.

PILLAR 1: INTENSIVE CHARACTER

MANAGEMENT

TRAVEL AT BREAKNECK SPEED TO SELF-ELEVATION AND SHARPENING YOUR INNER GAME

First, we’re going to focus on rebuilding the foundation of your core character. I’m talking about developing dead-on desirable characteristics women die for – which some you may find obvious.

The problem is, how can you actually live and project these traits?

The desirable characteristics involve being the following:

 Unshakable Positive Mindset

 Explosive Charisma

 Super Uber-Confidence

 Unwavering Independence

 Role model essence

YOUR LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT.

I want you to acknowledge that it is not a far-fetched concept for YOU to have the power to change your reality easily with these 5 traits. Every step to self-improvement has to start from within: It all starts from the mind and taking action.

Did you know… every event in your life and experiences you've been dealt with are the results of what you choose to allow in your life.

Many people refuse to believe this, as it implies that all negative events were what they sought for. For example, you may not have asked to be mugged or experience a car accident, but something within you allowed that to happen. You may not be capable of identifying it now, but time will tell.

Life events stem chiefly from your thoughts.

Your mental energy can affect your physical surroundings more than you expect. If you release nothing but positive emotions outwardly, which most people confuse for as being nice, you will skyrocket your irresistibility factor.

How you feel internally is always projected outwardly and transferred to the people around you.

Therefore, I will begin by expounding on the power of positive thinking and living.

CULTIVATE AN UNRIVALED POSITIVITY IN

YOUR EVERDAY INTERACTION

Note: This section may be dense and lengthy, but that’s because it is the most critical element to facilitate your transformation process.

From now on, start aligning your attitude, focus, and worldview with positivity, despite how negative times may seem. This is what every attractive human being – salesmen, celebrities, and spokesmen – all intuitively understand and take heed to.

When your mind remains positive, peaceful, and poised, it will permeate into

your aura. Your aura helps the people around you determine the type of

character you are without you even having to talk about it.

Running high on positivity indicates that you are emotionally and mentally sound.

Keep yourself and anyone you come into contact with in a constant positive loop.

Yes, we will all die some day; In fact, today may just be someone’s last day. And yes, there are still possibilities that you will still be rejected on your next 100 approaches even after mastering this formula.

But once you’re armed with an undying positive mentality, you’ll start embracing these rejections and take them more lightly. In fact, the chances of you being rejected will also diminish significantly. (Getting rejected is all part

of the game, there’s nothing wrong it.)

Instead of reacting in the face of rejection with negative self-limiting beliefs such as “There must be something wrong or missing about me…”

You’ll start thinking along the lines of… “Ain’t nothing wrong with

being rejected, too bad, she’s missing out on all the unmatchable fun. “

“What a pity, the girl shouldn’t have jumped to conclusions. Oh

well, next!”

As long as you have a bullet proof positive mentality, your communication skill set and success with women will voluminously increase.

POSITIVITY IS NOT A SWITCH. YOU CAN’T FLICK IT ON &

OFF. WORK ON IT.

Your mind happens to be extremely adaptive. Whatever emotional

state you experience the most, your mind will pave mental pathways to it. If you’re always happy, then you’ll be warped into cycles of this emotional state.

What you tell yourself, you recreate that reality every second. If you keep telling yourself that you’re a shy dude, then by ‘thinking’ about being shy, you increase that reality.

In our mind’s memory, every recall is a reframe. This means that our

mind is always trying to reclaim that past experience from our previous emotional state.

When you’ve become a person that teems with positivity, you’ll notice that when talking about a negative situation with a friend, it won’t last that long.

Why?

Because you’ll redirect the channel of energy into positive grounds by reflex.

It becomes unnatural, unusual, and discomfiting to not be positive.

Your friend: “Man, I just got dumped”

You: “I know how it feels man, but don’t let this take over and ruin your life.

There are plenty more fishes out there, and trust me, even better ones that will suit you better. You’re going to find someone that will appreciate you more than she did. She’s a fool for that one.”

Whenever a negative or heating moment arises, suppress and squash it to death. People who are unhappy with their lives will always

bring others around them down. Misery loves company.

A positive mentality suggests that you are confident enough to take matters

into your own hands. It communicates to women that you’re a man that’s

got his life together.

A positive guy will embrace challenges, while normal men would find it stressful. Being an attractive adult also means managing your emotions so that people feel uplifted when you’re around.

Positivity allows you to be attuned to all hidden opportunities that are around you.

This is the golden secret amongst pick-up artist – although I don’t advocate that you should base your whole life on picking up women.

Emotions are that contagious.

When you feel positive, you infect people with positive energy, and when you feel negative you infect people with negative energy.

This psychological fact ring true especially with women, whose minds are wired with the ability to mirror and empathize with whatever it is that you

feel; that’s why whenever a guy is funny, women are the ones to verbalize or commentate on it first. “Wow, you’re so funny!”

This effect is exceptionally amplified when you’re a person who is socially forceful, which is usually expected if you’re going to attract women.

The transferred emotions of how you feel to the woman you’re talking to become even more intense.

POSITIVITY INVITES MORE POSITIVE PEOPLE AND

EVENTS INTO YOUR LIFE.

Seriously. The more positive you are in person, the more positive chain of events and people that will surround you. The less gloom but much brighter your life will be. Even those who hated your guts will somehow come to like you.

If you see good in the world, you’ll find good in the world.

Imagine if you’re with a girl that complains and whines all day about the burdens in her life. Well, that’s exactly what she’s going to get, regardless of how hard you try to sooth and comfort her verbally. You’ll only be left to suffer. That’s why you should always avoid spoiled brats.

Start believing now. Most people fail to do so as they’re unaware that

harvesting a positive internal mentality is a controllable factor – not one that is left up to chance or magical spellbound.

Now, don’t mistaken positivism as an act of ignoring the essential truths of life, or running away from the entire nature of a situation and interpreting it

objectively in a ‘positive’ light.

When it comes to being positive, you need to be in an authentic state to feel that way. Do not overdramatize everything therefore coming across as fake.

If you are feeling tired, don’t attempt to mask your energy state by telling your date that you could do push up for hours.

STOP BEING NEGATIVE.

Negativity is something we’re all susceptible to. It’s around us everyday: In the headlines of news stories, your friend’s complaints, the economy etc. Negativity drags people down, and consumes a lot of our energy.

Avoid saying negative things to anyone, and to do so, you have to first STOP thinking about negative things. People want to come back to people that give them hope and good spirits; not someone that gives them the opportunity to wallow in self-pity.

Don’t behave haughtily, non-empathically, egotistically, and selfishly. Whatever is associated with negativity, drop it, cancel it. Immediately.

Are you not in a happy mood? Don’t blame the world for the misery for not making things right. Only blame yourself, but never admit self-defeat.

Staying in a bad or heated mood isn’t going to help anyone. Nor will it help yourself. Next time you’re pissed off, calm yourself down consciously.

Tell yourself… “Ok, feeling this way isn’t going to improve anything. I need to cool down to avoid clouding my judgment and taking others down.”

Most people are so wrapped up in their own negativity that they inadvertently make excuses to not want to change; to change for the better.

This explains why people get stuck in the rut as they propagate this mentality, and the vicious cycle of ‘depression’ holds them by throat.

Don’t let this negative energy fester inside you. You can easily overcome it.

These feelings of anger, resentment, “Why the world doesn’t treat me well” need to go. Life doesn’t suck if you work to improve it.

Learn to congratulate, celebrate, and to BE happy when you see that others are HAPPY.

With all that said…

START BUZZING WITH HAPPINESS &

SUPER-UBER CONFIDENCE

The most vital anchor to your inner game is personal happiness. It’s

about being content with you are. Love yourself without having to constantly compete with other men – especially those who you deem with a better appearance or job.

Man, the only competition is nobody but you. You are at a battle with

yourself for wit and growth.

Stop trying to live up to other people’s standards. Create your own.

Let’s get started now.

1. Express your gratitude. One of the leading reasons why most people

aren’t happy is because they feel like their life is ‘missing’ something. It’s the greed and selfishness that drains the life out of our inner happiness.

Start showing appreciation for being alive. Be grateful you have your

Be happy you’re not facing imminent threat from local terrorists. If you are,

consider relocating.

Be grateful for you already have, not what you lack thereof. Think of

all the people living in dire circumstances -- impoverished, handicapped, paralyzed. Think of the people battling a chronic case of cancer, HIV, or a severe financial crisis.

This should help you STOP moaning about not having a girl. This

should be the least of your problems. Jay Z said it best… I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one!

AFFIRMATIONS

Now, I want you to repeat these affirmations out loud. Clear yourself from any distraction. Sit and repeat the following to yourself.

I am 1 in a billion in a woman’s eyes.

I am fully confident and content with who I am. I may not be perfect, and I don’t need to be. There will always be room for self-improvement.

Life is good, and I will work to make tomorrow even better. Women want me.

I love being me, and will never apologize for who I am. There is no one any better or any less than me.

I am in charge of my destiny. As a matter of fact, I decide what happens. I can be whoever I want to be.

No one judges me but myself.

Men respect me.

Strangers want to meet me. I am a people’s person. Life is beautiful.

Life is what you make of it.

I don’t procrastinate. I make things happen. Everyday I am a big step closer to my dream. When I see what I want, I go and get it.

Note: These affirmative statements aren’t here to stroke your ego.

START SMILING MORE TOWARDS

PEOPLE YOU ENCOUNTER

It doesn’t matter who the person is: The stranger down the street, store assistant, cab driver, someone you dread or hate.

Give everyone a brief genuine smile whenever you meet him or her. Make that moment of their day better. Don’t discriminate – treat everyone just as equally. That’s the secret of becoming a people’s people.

Even when you’re declining to an up sell offer – upgrade to larger fries – at Mc Donald, SMILE after you say “No thank you.” It makes a huge difference.

Smiling ranks amongst the most powerful body language commandments. It instantly demonstrates your internal values – confidence, positivity, balance, friendliness, and fun.

When women see you “smile”, they won’t slap a mental “Warning” sticker on you. You present yourself as non-dangerous, but amiable. She’ll then be more receptive and comfortable being around your presence.

Your eyes too can influence a woman’s emotions in seconds. Look into the girl's eyes with your own twinkling eyes that indicate fun and mischievousness. Let your eyes promise the girl that good times await her in the future.

POWER POSITIVE BODY LANGUAGE

Most men fail to realize that they project multiple “negative body languages” daily. When you shove both your hands into your pockets, or cross your arms when speaking to women, they feel like you’re safeguarding or barricading yourself from them.

I’ve seen many guys who are shy and nervous around women, resulting in poor body orientation: Facing their shoulders or body in another direction; not meeting eye-to-eye etc.

You want your body language to be open and direct.

Sit parallel to a woman. Keep your face and eye contact steady. Let your palms be face up. Leave your hands to the side or gently clasp them together. This shows that you’re genuinely interested. Eye contact is known to boost physiological arousal, thus preventing you from being perceived as boring.

Think of yourself hanging out with the boys. How would you position your posture? How would you feel?

Note: Always move with precision. Precision equals confidence. Women are very observant, and will pick up even the most mildly quirky gestures.

The trick: Think before you move. Before you lift a pink, unleash a sneeze;

think of what may happen then.

Try this practice this with me… Trial 1:

With your right hand, pick up your mobile phone on the right side of your desk. Now, place it somewhere to the left side of your desk. Place it anywhere as long as it is to your left.

Trial 2:

Repeat the same action as Trail 1, but this time, decide or plan EXACTLY where you will place it. Don’t pick up your phone until you decide where to place it. Now, pick up your phone and place it directly at the predetermined spot.

See the difference? You performed more effectively on Trail 2.

Visualize the action before carrying it out. When it comes to dating, put this practice to play.

BECOME A NATURAL NODDER – NOT A BOBBLE

HEAD. DO IT MODERATELY.

Amazingly, nodding is a great chemistry enforcer. When a

conversation is going accordingly to the direction you like, or that you enjoy of, nod your head slightly and assuredly.

When you nod in response to what a woman says, she will start to feel “Understood by you”. Nodding is what I call a stealth-empathizer. You guys are traveling on the same wavelengths with your interests in congruence. In more contemporary terms, it’s what we call as “Vibing.”

When you don’t nod, notice how people become tenser and grow less enthusiastic with their words. If you come across as a someone that can’t harm, you’ll be a lot more accepted in ANY social circle.

However, if you’re in India, then you’ll be shaking your head instead. This reminds me, always try to gain insight into other cultures. You never know when you might start dating an Irish or Chinese descendant.

It can always work to your advantage when you know where the woman is coming from.

DON’T BE AFRAID TO TOUCH

A rule of thumb when it comes to touching is being aware of when it’s

appropriate. This requires you to observe the situational context and mood

of a woman.

For example, if a woman sprains her ankle, then obviously, you should go

ahead and “touch” by lifting her up.

If you’re out playing pool and your date is a virgin with the sticks, then it’ll be appropriate to hold her hands and arms to adjust her aiming posture.

To destroy any inhibiting thoughts of “touching”, you must acknowledge that women “starve to be touched”. Everyone wants to be “touched”. It’s a magical feeling and it feels mighty good – when done appropriately.

THE UNKNOWN POWER OF MAKING

ASSUMPTIONS

START ASSUMING THAT PEOPLE SEE THE BEST IN YOU. START ASSUMING THAT THINGS WILL WORK OUT ACCORDINGLY.

Imagine yourself walking into a room full of people. If you assume that everyone dislikes you, then that’s what the reality is going to be. You grow defensive, isolated, and unwanted.

If you reprogram your thinking into believing that everyone likes you, then that will most likely be your reality. Allow no friction in between and there won’t be any. You’ll be more honored, robust, and attractive. You will start behaving in ways that will springboard the likelihood of people liking you.

Do whatever it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind. The

perception in which any women registers in you stem from the attitude and unconscious beliefs you hold in regards to yourself.

Learn to control the self-image that you project by pushing all self-limiting belief about yourself out the membranes of your brain.

Next time you enter a room, stay calm, hit your stride and walk into it proudly while assuming yourself as the life of the party.

Whenever interacting with women, already assume that she’s attracted to you. This way you won’t even HAVE to try building attraction with her. Assume that she’s already addicted to you, but don’t be forward about it.

Assume yourself making her day when you meet her. Assume her world brightening. Mentally frame all your behavior through your ideal character and it will automatically become second nature.

A positive guy also earns an incredible amount of trust, because people see they can speak well of you without you talking trash behind their back when they’re not around.

A positive guy always sees the best in other people, not just what they choose to perceive to fulfill their own expectations. This is similar to giving people the benefit of the doubt. There’s always a good to someone that appears seemingly evil or full of spite.

TAKE A SEAT. HERE’S YOUR DIRECTOR’S

CHAIR TO CONTROLLING A WOMAN’S

EMOTIONS.

“Framing” occurs when you cast someone in a state of emotions. It’s like leaving them spell-ridden. Every day people react to certain

situations in which they are conditioned to, or have been used to. You unconsciously ‘frame’ yourself in various life situations.

In a classroom, you’re ‘framed’ to be silent, obedient; ears wide open for your professor. This is, given that you were an astute student.

When a thief is confronted by a police officer, he’s strapped in a frame of caution and guilt. The officer casts an authority cloud over him thus rendering the crook inferior by the cop’s dominating presence.

Most men today automatically fall victim to a woman’s authoritative framing. It’s as if there’s a jurisdiction dictated by societal standards maybe that ought to bow down to them when there shouldn’t be.

We live in a time where most women are glorified as the prize. That’s why there’s a huge population of shy guys who shake and break down when first exchanging a few words with women.

Now, vow this to yourself. Do not let anyone ever impose a frame of

emotional state on you again, especially women. Discipline your mind and protect yourself from being framed. Stop giving sexual validation to attractive women. Reverse the tables. Make her qualify for you.

Don’t just settle with any girl who’s got an ass and face but no brains; make sure that she matches your interests and personality type. Quit selling yourself short for women with looks but no substance. Even if she’s got it all, don’t treat her like a goddess.

When you get used to screening, more options actually COME to you. You actually start meeting women that have the potential to complete you as opposed to just ending up as a quick meaningless cheap fling.

Take control of the frame.

Here’s a secret…everything a woman feels now is subjected to change. Emotions will fluctuate regardless of how stubborn she is. If a woman doesn’t reveal interest at first, you still have the opportunity to increase it later.

When you say something, assume or expect a positive reaction.

You’ll most likely get it when your vocal dynamics and delivery call for it. Your voice has the potential to command not just attention but influence.

Think... “When I speak, people listen. People respect. People enjoy.”

Make others fall into this “Frame” unsuspectingly.

This is the same fundamental attitude you must adopt in the dating field. When you’re out your date, assume or expect her to respond favorably to your advances.

YOUR EMOTIVE WORDS MUST BE DELIVERED POIGNANTLY When communicating with a woman, most men fail to realize that the emotional state you’re in weighs more in importance than your actual words or what you say.

If you tell a girl you “Love her”, but you’re emotionally devoid of such feeling, Women will sense it and call your bluff.

You can say that you’re a “Shy guy”, but if your vocal tonality and body language is overloaded with a playful and cocky demeanor, you’ll actually come across as an amusing guy.

Being an artist, my friends like to ask me to showcase my dance moves when we are in a club– just to dazzle – the ladies we just met. However, when I’m not feeling the music, I’d tell them “Na, I’m shy.”

This of course, never works, as my delivery is incongruent with my mentality and character. What then happens? The girls usually wind up begging more fervently for me to drop a little something for them.

Even if you’re in a sulky piss-poor mood, you can still control how you

feel. After acknowledging that you’re in a bad mood, don’t let it undermine your performance level or soundness of your character when you’re around others.

Remember, stop trying to bring people down with you.

If you’re out with a woman and you keep telling yourself that your mood is damp as an excuse to fail at keeping her interest level highly perked, then that’s what it’s going to be. You can only blame yourself.

You see…

We all have the ability to create a self-fulfilling prophecy. It’s whether you want to believe in it or not.

Your behaviors will eventually start to mirror what you expect out of yourself. This is amongst the top-secret laws of attraction.

The way a self-fulfilling prophecy works is when we encounter and experience something in our world and we subconsciously appraise it.

This appraisal leads to the construct of our core or inner belief.

For example, when my friend first saw a dog as a kid, he was unluckily chased down and bit by it. This incident resulted in a lifetime trauma.

Today, even in his adulthood, he’s scared shitless by the sight of a puny Chihuahua.

Why? Because the association of “dog” with “danger” is ingrained in him – even when he hasn’t been bitten by a dog ever since, he still avoids them like a bed-riddling week-long flu.

Once we have an inner belief, we behave in accordance with it.

Every time we see a dog, my friend reacts in a way congruent to his

inner-negative belief and scurries to hide behind my back. This is a reality he

constructed for himself, and supports the impact of self-prophecy.

Now, there are also appropriate times where it’s ok to experience negative energy. Perhaps you are experiencing financial woe, or your closest friend slept with your girlfriend – which is absolutely unacceptable.

In such unforgivable circumstance of your best friend sleeping with your girlfriend, or your girlfriend sleeping with your best friend, Then, I’d immediately destroy the brotherhood and dump the girl at the same time. Zero tolerance.

However, you should never dwell too long into this negative black hole, otherwise you only wind up locking yourself inside your room caught in a depressive whirlwind. It can only stress you further and compromise your ability to climb back on track.

This is the exact same black hole that’s taken a toll on many single guys who struggle to attract women. Our self-limiting conviction disables our drive and desire to change our life for the better.

THE POWER OF VISUALIZING

"Whatever you hold in your mind at any given time, your body moves toward that direction. Your body can be directed to move in a physical, mental, emotional or spiritual direction.”

Once again, the first crucial step to becoming irresistible starts from within.

Artists, computer designers, song composers aren’t only the people that visualize. Athletes do too. Even Michael Jordan does it. People with a trained mind all visualize, as they are conscious of its powers.

You see, your mind has an eye, and that’s where everything starts.

We want to visualize ourselves as simply irresistible, in demand, and a woman's object of desire.

Visualize not just on the ‘visuals’, but tap into all senses. You also want to ‘heighten’ these sensory motions as well. When you see light, go deeper. How bright or dim is it? What color? Where are the shadows? does that moment feel?

Practice experiencing that moment you’re visualizing as if ‘seeing it out of your own eyes’, and also ‘being inside the situation’ where you imagine it in a first person perspective. Try to gain a sharp clarity of the scene.

The powerful effect of this is: Once your mind has lived in that moment – even though it was imaginative – you’ll more likely perform more comfortable and smoothly the second time round.

Even if the sequence of the visualized date doesn’t pan out as you imagined, your mind and body would grease itself to whatever you have already introduced it with. If you visualize your hot date speaking, laughing, smiling, smelling infectious, you’ll be more immune to the awe of it all.

We have to be realistic however. You can't visualize a world full of green lights, when there needs to be a balance of red. You will not grow wolverine claws by visualizing it every night when you go to sleep. Also, grudgingly hating someone and wishing they’d drop dead isn't going to happen either.

There is a fine line between craving, hoping, and wishing how your mind can bring you your goals.

You can communicate this message through telepathic transmissions. Your brain is like a radio. It can emit and receive waves of electrical frequencies. These waves could be measured and charted. Your AM dial on your radio has a certain KhZ range, your FM MhZ etc. Your love also has a frequency range and geometry.

When you begin the process of visualizing yourself “getting with the girl” of your desire, your thoughts are not just whims in the mist, they are concrete

and real.

Your thoughts are shifting the state of the environment, which then affects the girl. Everyone in this world has a relationship with the environment. We both vibrate at the same frequency (7- 9.5 cps).

Next time you walk into a room stocked with women, broadcast your invisible frequency. They may not react to it, but they will receive it.

SPIRTUAL DIMENSIONS

Note: What I’m about to share with you may sound like spiritual mumbo jumbo, but let me assure you, this is the physics to how our world functions.

The world that we breathe and live in now is what people refer to as the 3rd

dimensional world. A drawing on a paper is a 2nd dimensional world. The 4th dimensional world is where our higher self resides.

The word dimension is just a concept of the different level of realities. However, you can’t experience or see them simultaneously because you are not in tune to them.

For example, if you're listening to Power 106 FM, you can’t tune into 104.5 FM. This applies to you too. If you want to be irresistible, you need to tune into this frequency of thought. You need to liberate yourself from any compounding negative thought activities inside your mind.

This frequency is a manifestation of your own personal thoughts.

The 4th _{dimension is also referred to as a world where you have lucid dreams.}

Drug addicts who’ve taken ecstasy and hallucinate transport themselves into the outer layers of the 4th _dimension.

The 3rd and 4th dimension is tied hand-to-hand. If you see something

in your mind's eye, your higher self will go about and manifest it for you.

Here’s what I want you to concentrate on from now on: From now on…

1. Visualize her eagerly wanting to be with you. As you visualize,

you’re transmitting waves that will break the person’s resistance level, also known as their bitch shield or anti-slut defensive force field. Your confidence level will invariably be more stable also.

2. Put yourself in the scene, not distantly like you're watching a theater. For example, if you visualize walking down the street, you

you get from a first person’s view: Your hands, sleeves, and sneakers when you peer down etc.

Note: Visualizing does not require intensive effort. In fact, you should be at a

relaxed state when visualizing.

To this day, I am still surprised by how vastly the power of visualizing is underestimated. You know the saying: Fake it till you make it? It actually works the same way as visualizing. You can trick your mind into believing it is easy.

“Getting with any woman you want is outrageously easy.” (Repeat endlessly until it becomes the truth.)

Don't just see it happening. Feel it. Touch it. Taste it.

Whenever I tell myself that I'm going to get 2 numbers within 5 minutes – this was during my hardcore sarging days – my mind starts the process and gets the ball rolling before I actually do it.

I visualize myself already “speaking” to the girl I intend to approach. I see myself sharing laughs with her, making her beam a smile, chatting comfortably with her, and increasing her attraction towards me exponentially altogether at the same time. I see myself rocking her world.

Guess what? I actually got 2 numbers, in less than 2 minutes – as I was leaving a club.

Watch the scene before you make the scene. This simple effect is powerful.

Now, I’d like to discuss with you three different types of telepathic transmission, which can radically help you understand how to

alter the state of your social dynamics.

INSTINCTUAL TELEPATHY

Have you ever encountered a situation where you and someone close; perhaps your best friend shared the same craving at the same time? You guys may have wanted to go to the same club, eat the same food at that moment. That’s when your instinctual ethetric telepathy communication is working.

Instinctual telepathy occurs when the energy from one etheric body hits the other person's etheric body.

The etheric body is defined as a subtle, non-physical body or shell that surrounds you. Imagine an invisible layer hovering above your skin layer.

Your telepathic messages flow through your etheric message and it reaches the other person’s solar plexus -- which is known as the recipient’s invisible body.

Basically, the recipient can easily intercept every movement and emotional thought that you produce, where they then act in congruence to your thought direction.

You’ve seen it in the movies where a couple suddenly fling themselves at each other and wildly makes out at the heat of the moment.

What am I trying to tell you?

1. You can actually steer the direction of your reality outcome in your favor if you exert the efforts to ‘shape’ the ‘future’.

2. Take everything you’ve read so far and execute it fluently. You’ll realize that you’ve developed a newfound power to command your own destiny.

MENTAL TELEPATHY

When you are trying to make a mental thought based connection with someone, you create a non-physical link between you and the person.

Start thinking along the lines of “things will go accordingly” instead

of “I have to make this happen”, or “I must, need to succeed.” You must have freedom from the outcome. I will discuss further on this matter within the “6 Impediments to Natural Evolution” later.

When you overly desire for someone, or fear failure, the reality of you reaching that level of success will take longer to unfold.

Detach your intense desire, and you will be in tune with more favorable results.

THE HERMETIC PRINCIPLE

Note: I want you to isolate this principle from all everything you’ve learnt for

this part, especially with the power of ‘visualizing’ it may create some contradiction. However, the hermetic principle is a very crucial factor to follow at the same time as it contributes to shifting the reality in your favor.

The Hermetic principle is one that operates in the present. If you want to become someone irresistible, think of it as being fulfilled already. This ties

in with the notion in the power to assume.

If you want something in 3D world where we live in, it can reasonably be accessible to you; all you have to do is transmit that need to your subconscious mind.

Now, to make your desire reach your subconscious mind successfully – which is connected with the universe – your conscious mind must cease to

exercise the desire.

You see, when your conscious mind wants something, the very act of wanting implies a future tense in regard to the fulfillment. This may sound a bit

confusing, but in simpler terms, if you think you have ‘nothing’ now, then you’re leaving room to fill that void in the future.

Since your subconscious only deals with the present moment, any idea offered to it NOT in the present moment will therefore be ignored when requested.

Have you ever noticed how things that you’ve desired for sometimes come to you unexpectedly? That’s because you stop thinking

about it.

When you text message a girl knowing that she will respond, you stop

looking forward to it. The probability of her responding also increases

significantly.

A UNIVERSAL MISTAKE MEN ALWAYS

REPEAT WITH WOMEN

You know what the problem most men face when they see a steaming hot chick they want to approach?

They get nervous and a blaze of questions surfaces.

“What do I say to her? Do I look presentable to her right now?”

“What if people are watching and I get rejected when I approach her?”

I’m sure you’ve shared this experience before. Well, this is a process of “self-imposing limits.” I want you to stop doing that. The universal mistake men make is focusing too much on yourself, rather than her.

So what’s the fix? Well, to avoid the “nervous rush”, start placing your attention and focus on her.

 Is she alone, or is she with her friends?  What may her current mood be?

 Is she smiling and having a good time?

Next time you see your potential girl of interest, take action. Talking to women is not a sporting competition that you either win or lose. She's a real person who's giving you an opportunity to get to know her.

“Just make the move”. You won’t know whether she’s single, interested in you or not if you don’t find out first-hand.

Hot Tip: When you do approach her, try your best on getting to know her first. Forget about her phone number and email.

If you have no idea what to say first, just look for an “object” around her, and use it as a conversational bridge. This is what I call a “Contextual opener”. For

instance, if you’re meeting her in a bookstore, ask what she thinks about the book she’s reading. That should help break the ice.

Introduce yourself with a pleasant smile and a slightly firm handshake, a hug, or a nod of the head depending on the situation. Don’t easily be flustered.

Then, move on to introducing yourself and exchanging names. Keep the talk short. Just when you turn around and leave, turn back and ask if she’s got an e-mail. Most the time, women will giveaway their e-mails without hesitation.

Then, you can ask for her number right after. But if you’re really

confident that her interest level is high, then go directly for the digits.

You see, when you express that you are genuinely interested in the woman you talk to, the phone numbers and emails will follow.

Focusing solely on "getting a result" when interacting with women is a huge mistake. It makes her feel like you see her as a "task" that needs to be completed instead of being treated as a person.

6 IMPEDIMENTS TO THE ROAD OF

NATURAL EVOLUTION AS THE “REAL

DEAL”

These are the six widespread destructive desires that plague most men today from tapping into their true being.

1. "The desire for victory."

Your constant need and desire for women is a backfiring and self-destructive behavior. Most men who are still single and lonely tend to grow increasingly more depressed and frustrated with their status. This causes you to feel worthless, or below the average. Stop relying on women as a source to fuel your dignity and pride.

Only you can emotionally dent yourself, not women.

You must free yourself from the attachment of results, and rather, focus on the moment of pursuit instead. This corresponds to “living in the moment”.

2. "The desire to resort to technical cunning."

Becoming too strongly attached to a learned technique compromises your ability and understanding that you must customize your own approach in the end.

3. "The desire to display all that has been learned."

When a competitive guy learns something clever, you’d feel a need to unload it. When you learn a new conversational opener, you’d want to use it when the next opportunity arrives.

However, when you’ve rise to the top of your game, you start realizing that all these techniques and opening tactics aren’t necessary at all! Your natural game eventually nears flawlessness.

4. "The desire to awe the enemy."

This has probably occurred to every one of us. Our ego leaks into our self-projection and we are shunned as braggadocios. The solution? Stop having to boast about who you are. Give the gift of discovering who you are to her.

5. "The desire to play the passive role."

As men, we cannot play the passive role. You must be the initiator, the leader. You must take action and shoulder the responsibility to make things happen before things can more likely, or unexpectedly happen for you. Life can be full of surprises when you’re constantly seeking to grow.

6. "The desire to get rid of whatever disease one is affected by."

To truly succeed in life, you must not constantly worry and try to wrestle with your weakness. They’ll never vanish if you’re consciously trying to ridden them. The trick is to dilute them with the power of your strengths.

When you focus too much on what weaknesses you have, you succumb to them.

Take that with a grain of common sense. Desire is a part of human nature. But in the end, you will only be as successful to the degree that you LET GO, not cling desperately to your 'style' or your 'techniques' or your methods – which explains why pick-up techniques can only last so long.

Remember, long after all the clever lines and approaches have been exposed, your authenticity and real character will never be out of style or a liability.

“IT CAN’T HURT TO PLAY A TRICK ON YOURSELF”

Whenever you’re meeting a new woman or person, play a mental trick on yourself. Next time you see a woman, treat her as someone you knew from long ago – an old friend that you once had a wonderful relationship with.

You tried your best to track down your friend, but had no luck after searching online, in phone books etc.

Suddenly, bam! There she is in front of you. You’re totally delighted.

You’ll find it amazing how this joyful experience starts a remarkable chain reaction in your body. It creates a subconscious softening of your eyebrows, to the positioning of your toes, and everything in between. You will have the

confidence to approach.

Another crucial factor is to never make her think like you have ‘sex’ on the agenda. And please, don’t try convincing to her that you two are actually old friends by rambling on some fabricated story.

HOW TO INTRIGUE WOMEN WITHOUT EVEN SAYING

A WORD…

The second you and a woman of your desire lay eyes on each other has an incredible potency. That first sight is a brilliant holograph.

It’s a sight that can burn its way into her eyes and stay emblazoned in his or her memory forever. Almost every aspect of a person’s personality is shown through their appearance, posture, and movement.

Before she develops any rational thought in pertaining to you, her sixth sense will kick in first.

Many studies have revealed that the emotional reactions occur before the brain registers what’s causing the reaction.

Setting a massive positive first-impression for you is very simple.

How? Start walking with a great posture, a heads-up look (chin parallel to

floor), a confident smile, and a direct gaze whenever you see women. This is exactly the manner in movement, which a “somebody”, “celebrity” adopts.

Start by visualizing that you are a well built, world-renowned acrobat and successful businessmen. How do you think these people walk? Follow suit.

IT’S YOUR TIME. BECOME A MAN OF

ABSOLUTE DISTINCTION.

Ask yourself. What comes to mind when people in your social circle think of

you? What are the first few words, or burst of emotions triggered by your presence? What kind of impressions do you leave? What is it like walking in your shoes, or being part of your world?

The core values you send out to others have the potential to spread virally. It has a crazy domino effect. If a woman thinks you’re amazing, so

will her friends. Imagine approaching a group of women, you’ll notice how they’ll look to each other for validation in regards to how special you are.

If you appear to be as a sleazy guy at first sight, all it takes is one person’s reaction to infect the others. Girl A tells Girl B, who spreads the news onto Girl D E F G and so on.

Now, the message that you always want to create is one that projects yourself as a man of distinction: An individual with bulletproof game, charm, influence, leadership, and irresistibility. How can you become that discernible man? That’s what you’re about to find out.

Be Bold. Learn to take risks, not cringe at the sign of them. Stop being shy

about the actions or reality you want to create for yourself.

When you behave boldly, you will get RESULTS that you never had before,

because you’re doing the things you’ve never done before. Stop being

entrenched in your old routine behavior. Break out the mold. The rewards will far surpass your expectations.

Transforming into a man with great audacity at a lightning fast pace can be accomplished easily like adding numbers.

Start by talking to random strangers you come across. When you’re naturally comfortable around PEOPLE, the world will FEEL like it’s yours.

Hold conversations with the store assistants, barista, gardener. I usually like to talk to people who rarely get a chance to hold a healthy quick conversation during their day job.

For example: The security, janitor, anyone that doesn’t get to socialize much. Truth is, you’re actually making their day by talking to them.

A sincere “How’s your day” is a perfect opener and can go a long way to making their day more enjoyable. Plus, it always works beautifully and generates a favorable response.

When meeting a stranger, another hot method to opening a conversation like a pro is to be observant. I call it the ‘contextual opener.’ Find something

noteworthy around you or about the person you’d like to talk about.

Challenge yourself to talk to 1 new person daily, then 2, then 3…

Note: I’ve prepared an intensive approach-training course for you to work

with later.

Don’t take it as a drill when it comes down to confronting your fear on meeting new people and new faces; kick that mindset to the curb. In fact, I encourage you to confront whatever fears you may already have.

See a girl you like? Approach. Just do it. There’s a reason why the Nike

slogan sells. It is life changing. Don’t be fazed or let your confidence level be compromised by her looks.

After all, it’s only her external surface that’s handicapping your inner charm and confidence isn’t it? It’s always the looks that knock your

confidence down.

If you saw a girl that looked plain and normal, you wouldn’t feel approach anxiety waiting to grip you by the throat would you?

The Secret: Treat every woman like your sister (if you have one). Tease her,

but never fall short on showing respect.

Start doing everything you were ever afraid of. Get the kick out of it. If you don’t take action guys, you’ll only wind up waiting forever on the

sideline.

NOTE: Women want to be around men who seem larger than life. They want

to be around someone more unique and interesting than they are.

HOW TO INSURE THAT SHE SOAKS IN EVERY WORD YOU SAY WHEN YOU APPROACH HER?

Before you open your mouth and speak, gaze into her eyes. Make sure that you’ve locked onto her attention, and imagine your eyes already whispering words to her.

Then, when you’ve come close to talking-distance, gradually increase the volume of your voice, as you are about to finish your first sentence. This is a way of piquing and retaining a woman’s attention right away.

“SHE IS NOT ANY BETTER THAN YOU”

Let's say you're at a bar and you see a woman you want to approach. She's a beautiful French equipped with the whole package. Usually, you’d feel that shaky, nervous, jittery feeling vibrating in your guts after.

The next thing that oft-happens in your head is: you try to come up with

ways to validate yourself.

You start telling yourself things like:

"Damn, she's hot, incredible. Argh, but I doubt I’m going to have anything to offer to her or a reason for her to talk to me…”

Next time this self-inhibiting thought arises, crush it to pieces.

Tell yourself, “Hey, she’s not any better than I am, and I know she’ll want to get to know me. I’m going to be the most special guy she’s ever met in her whole life.”

Keep practicing this amazing technique and you’ll eventually stop placing women above you. “She’s not better than me”.

Tell yourself things like “I got what she needs”. Stand behind your words

and start believing in them.

Repeat it over and over. Loud and assertively. The more you do this, more confident you’ll become.

Remember, this woman that you fell in love at first sight with does all the nastiest, crass, and disgusting things you can imagine. She farts, poops, scratches her armpit, and picks her nose. She’s not a goddess. She’s human just like you.

It appalls me when I hear other guys call women ‘divine angels’, or things along that line. This type of women idealization is very common and the culprit for approach anxiety.

Women know that the one thing they can use to their advantage is their sexual desirability and looks. Women with a rare beauty are also held in higher regards and demand. Don’t let these facts and statistics undermine your game.

Remind yourself that you are also a man that’s high in demand. In

fact, you’re a whole lot more fun and sophisticated to be around than any other guy she’ll meet in her lifetime.

You don’t need any validation. Instead, you want her to prove to you that

she qualifies for your time, and also as a girlfriend. You want to learn whom she is on the inside, not outside.

1. Don’t let her looks destroy your confidence. 2. Don’t let her looks be the buying factor.

3. Don’t let her looks control your state of emotions. 4. Don’t let her looks be your kryptonite.

Men have become so shallow nowadays where the only factor that lures them or compels them to approach is based on a woman’s physique.

How often do you hear another man admit first to enjoying a woman’s company and personality and not just her breast or ass?

There’s also a reason why men only surrender helplessly to a 9 or 10. Never let an appearance paralyze you and never bow down to it.

When you get a hot girl’s number, don’t go “Woo hoo!” or get eager and over excited to call her the next thing. Instead, take a deep breath and collect yourself. Getting the number is only the beginning. Learn to separate your emotions from the big picture.

Let a woman know that you can easily see through them and that you won’t be submissive and weak like other regular horny dogs. Once you get this part of your life handled, things will dramatically shift.

You will find yourself more at ease when it comes to approaching women, any

woman. Remember, your thoughts can influence your action, and even more

on your performance.

Your level of confidence isn't something hard coded and inherited by genetics. Your self-esteem isn’t something you are born with. It is something you

can build and develop. It’s all in your head. Take control of your thoughts.

STOP OBSESSING ABOUT WOMEN TO

ATTRACT MORE WOMEN NATURALLY

This is the biggest lesson I’ve learnt. Don’t obsess over women. When you detach yourself from the outcome of sex or having to bring a women home, it serves you way better emotionally when things don’t pan out accordingly. Obsess about women, and you’ll never succeed. That’s the hard truth.

If you have the intent to a getting a woman’s number, chances of you getting them will lower, hence the Hermetic Principle.

Instead, you should approach with a mindset that says “Hey, she seems interesting, I’m going to find out what she’s really about.” If she truly meets your interest, then number-close.

Women are not born perfect, as much as you think they are ‘perfect’ for you. Don’t throw away your life trying to please them.

SOMETIME IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT. MOST WOMEN HAVE ISSUES.

You know what’s another similar common reoccurring issue most men face? Self-infliction of blame when they are the ones NOT at fault. The result? Further weakening in self-confidence. It’s like digging a hole for yourself. Such disquieting evolutionary curse needs to be quelled.

For example, if a woman doesn’t respond accordingly as you anticipated, or reacts favorably to your jokes, it’s not always your fault.

Consequently, most guys become paralyzed by the analysis of “what the hell went wrong?” Was it my tone of delivery? Incorrect order of words? Wrong timing?

It could’ve been none of the above. Stop over-thinking the matter.

Don’t expect everything to go accordingly, and don’t be so hard on yourself.

You’ll always come across women who are ungrateful, dry with humor, and self-centered. This is nothing to be surprised of. There are tons of empty-headed, uneducated women out there; just as there are with men.

In the face of such time, you must not shell out any tolerance, regardless of how fine her skin texture and gracefully built her body is.

Tell yourself this… “Your looks ain’t shit to me.” Leave the superficialities aside.

Here’s another great practice to strengthen your boldness. Play the “Staring Contest”.

THE DISRUPTIVE STARING CHALLENGE

In the context of silverback gorilla’s society, which is the world’s largest primates, only the dominant male is allowed to stare at other gorillas.

You see, the stare is a way in which leaders assert their authority. Subordinates are intimidated and look away when confronted by a superior.

I know, we were all taught that staring is rude. But try to unlearn this etiquette for the sake of this practice.

Next time you’re out in public, stare at a stranger and refuse to shift your gaze. Your aim is to make that person look away before you do. Don’t break the gaze.

This is a powerful authority-building exercise you can benefit greatly from emotionally and psychologically.

Once you’ve mastered this, try it on your friends or co-workers. This time, stare into their ‘third-eye’, which is located right above the bridge of their nose.

Gaze into it until your eye rays pierce through the person’s skull. With such intensity in magnitude, they will start feeling uncomfortable and look away.

You’ll never again be intimidated by the presence of others. In return, you’ll be commanding a lot more respect.

KEEPING HER ATTRACTION LEVEL

BUBBLING HOT WITH AN EMPLOYEE

MANAGEMENT SECRET.

Do you know what the 4 most important words in business are? Its “What do you think?” – According to Jeffery Immelt, Chairman and

CEO of General Electric.

Be open and approachable. Develop the habit of asking, “What do you think,” before declaring, “You will do this,” or even, “We will do this.”

You see, people are naturally inclined to support what they help decide.

Quite often, when people realize they have little influence on the decision-making process, they withdraw from active participation. They are usually reluctant to participate actively in a process, idea, or system that they were never consulted on.

To get your date to be actively involved with inputting her opinion, you’re raising her self-perceived worth.

People want to support, defend, and enthusiastically work on anything that they help create or decide. Therefore, include your girl in decision-making at every level in every situation—at home, work and elsewhere.

When people feel valued and cared for, you establish an atmosphere of open communication, ownership, and increased commitment to you.