Introduction ...1 First Message ...2 Teasing ...4 Keeping In Touch...7 Requests ...9 Silly ...11
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Introduction
The following is a series of text messages you can learn from, make your own, and use. You’ll see with each example a description of what the message is intended to accomplish, the message itself, and then an explanation
First Message
The key aim of the first message is to elicit a response and to stand out. If a girl gets lots of attention from guys, you’ll want to send a
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What kind of mischief are you causing today?No. 2
Hey my little pony-princess, what kind of mischief are you causing today?No. 3
Hey crazyface! Didn’t cause any trouble after I left last night did ya!? – btw are you on Facebook/Instagram?These messages work because they are easy to answer – having only one question mark. They are playful and will put a smile on her face. Very different from the usual boring and serious messages girls usually receive.
Teasing
When it comes to building attraction between getting the number to the first date, teasing messages are the way to go. The playful frame
makes her feel something, and will make her think about you more, and also move you up the league table compared to other guys
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Did I just catch you spying on me as I was changing into my gym clothes my little stalker?!No. 5
You’re a closet dork aren’t you?except without the closet ;)~No. 6
Come on now… you have work today huh…?Sure it isn’t mandatory community service!? A cute, yet sassy gal who’s a felon…If she’s having trouble with her phone, her car or whatever you could say:
These examples are all playful, there is always a risk of offending a girl, so before you send a tease that isn’t listed here, make sure that it isn’t too
personal. Imagine saying it to her face and her reaction should be that she hits your arm whilst smiling.
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It’s cool if you couldn’t afford to pay your bill –I’m not judging you… that much.. hahahaj/k:)No. 8
If she suggests a time to get together (6pm, forexample): No that’s too early… don’t wanna be stuck with ya that long! Let’s do 6:03 haha :-)Keeping In Touch
Sometimes you meet a girl and then because you both lead busy lives, there is a long pause between the initial meeting and
the next time that you plan to see each other again. It’s possible that things
can stale out in this situation.
One thing that will help is having the connection with each other on
Facebook. Another is to send a message like the below if there has been a day or two since the last contact and the date isn’t for a few days.
Some guys are naturally very chatty in text, but for guys that aren’t, you can use something like this to check in on her.
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How u doing naughty girl? I’m in my Jacuzzi withsome aromatic candles listening to Mozart..;-) NO, I’m not! Out with some mates having fun, wanted to say Hi!No. 10
98..99..100! Oh sorry, my thumbs were doingpushups again and wanted to show off. What’s new with you?No. 11
Those beautiful eyes….Those sexy lips…….The smoothest walk….. But enough about me, how are u doing?Requests
Sending requests works well because it’s something that guys never do in the
early stages with a girl. Often times, girls like this frame. It can be a real request or something playful:
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Hey nerdball what’s cooking? I think you should draw me a picture… I like dinosaurs :)No. 13
so it’s pretty hot out at the pool (or anywhere)right now could you come fan me with a big leaf and feed me grapes? Thanks :)No. 14
brrr it’s freezing...what’s that? You want to come bring me hot chocolate? Awesome! You’re the best :PSilly
As much as people try to make it look like they are always having an amazing time on Facebook, the fact is, most people are doing pretty boring stuff on a
day-to-day basis. We already know that we need to stand out from the other guys.
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Rock paper scissorsThen answer with whatever beats hers and tell her she owes you a drink.No. 16
What’s brown and stickyWhen she doesn’t know, the answer – a stick.No. 17
What has a bottom at the top?When she doesn’t know, the answer — your legs :)Date Invite
Now really we hope that you’ve arranged the date at the time of the first meeting. If not, we want to do it now, in a way that stands out,
but doesn’t lose you any value if she happens to be busy and says no. For that reason,
inviting her to something that you are doing anyway works great.
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Hey there my little trouble maker. We arecruising down to (event) with a kick ass group of people if you want to join the fun! Can u keep up though is the question! :) what do ya say?No. 20
nerd face! What kinda trouble are you gettingyourself into tonight? LolNo. 23
hey boogie monster, I gotta go shopping for afew clothes for winter! I could totally use a girls eye if you wanna tag along and give me tips on what accentuates my hips!?No. 24
Would you like to come over tomorrow & watchmovies with me? Check [ ]yes or [ ]noNo. 25
hey biscuit buns, some of my friends and I are cruising to this party in the park tomorrow about 6:24- you should totally join us! – you’re not opposed to having a ridiculously awesome time are you?Messages structured like these are going to work better than the usual “hey, want to go for a drink tonight?” messages that she is receiving from every other guy.
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Then after all the arrangements are made, hit her with:
If She Flakes
You basically have two options for how you’ll handle it if a girl flakes on you
By responding like this, you maintain your stance of being fun and playful, or setting the stage for letting her feel guilty, you keep the upper hand. Either response should get you to the top of her list to respond to next time.
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Ignore it What’s up SpunkyMonkey/girly/name… whatcha doing Monday night? I have a super fun idea :)No. 28
Harsh: ohh something terrible must have happened, I hope all is ok with you and your family.Resurrection
For when you decide to start back up with a girl you either didn’t do so well with before, or one
you bypassed after some time together, sending just the right text can set you up to
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hey crazy face..are you still alive? should I send asearch party of midget ninja’s (or minja’s as they prefer to be called) to come rescue you?!No. 30
I just saw the cutest little squirrel in the parkgathering nuts and it made me think of you :)No. 31
OMG you’ve been kidnapped! Don’t worry, I’ll rescue you! Have they been feeding you? I’ll bring chocolate. White, milk, or dark?No. 32
Happy 1 month/6 month/1 year anniversary!How are you doing?No. 33
Happy (name of holiday) snuggle bear! Did you have a good holiday? Or did you
Sexual
You can even turn things sexual with the right text – one that isn’t like what
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“What shall we do? all of my ideas areinappropriate!”No. 35
“Guess what I’m thinking right now? Hint: it’s about you and it’s kind of dirty”.No. 36
“Is it bad that I want to pin you up against the wall and do naughty things to you?”
(if you want to turn this to funny and relieve the sexual tension your next text can be “like draw a pirate moustache on your face with a
permanent marker”...but make sure you leave time for her imagination to start wondering)
These are clever, provocative, and direct enough to have her anticipating and responding to your lead.
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“Stop being so sexy, or you are going to get f&*ked!”Beckster’s
Marshmallow
Sequence
Use these to get her straight to your house.
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Hi it was lovely to meet you last night. Shame we didn’t get longer to talk/I hope you got back safe. p.s. do you like roasted marshmallows?No. 40
So we both like marshmallows! Cool, you have some sweet tooth, huh! ;-) p.s. you like red or white wine?No. 41
Red/white wine girl eh? And champagne goes well with anything! p.s. what’s your favourite movie genre – romance,Using her name is good at the start! It she’s got a nickname or can construct a good one could use that instead e.g. “such and such girl” or “Ms such and such”… but only if it’s really good.
Could also throw in a “we are so alike” at some point e.g. after wine or DVD choice. If you can think of something genuinely witty to say following one of her
answers, then responding to what she says is ok, otherwise just keep on track. I’ve tended to fuck up when I’ve added stuff, so keeping it simple is probably better. Do NOT add “cocky funny” – fight the urge! Really! Lie down until it goes away!
Every message should have a fluff bit in it, responding to her hooks, drawing her in and using humour, it’s all a bit contrived without that. You can also add her to a social network during the sequence so she feels more comfortable if she didn’t spend enough time with you initially.
I like “which night shall we go for”… I’M not asking YOU, WE are planning something we’ve both decided WE want to do.
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Cool! I shall trust your excellent taste! Which night shall we go for – Monday or Wednesday?Everything has an easy question to answer “p.s.” with options. Options give an illusion of choice but actually constrains her and keeps her on the ‘yes’ ladder.
