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Introduction
Hey guys,In my five years in the community, I have read a lot of posts.
I would venture to say that I have spent THOUSANDS of hours reading every article out there on dating science. But the posts that I learned the most from were all breakdowns of guys going out and getting success. They were lay reports. But I had to search for years on the internet to find the best ones. This book is, in many ways, what I wish I had when I got started all those years ago.
Lay reports are, in my humble opinion, the best way to get a feel for how pick-ups happen in the real world. All the reports contained within these pages represent the best of the best. These are the ones that I personally have learned from. I scoured the deep regions of the internet to find not only these reports, but also some of the most amazing pick-up artists in the world, including some of whom you may never have heard of until today.
Before I end this intro, I want to talk to you guys about how to use this book to improve your game. This book is broken up into sections. There will be a section on dates, same night lays, threesomes, bathroom lays, day game and more. Each lay report will have my commentary in red. The commentary is meant to bring attention to the most important parts of the report: the things that actually work.
Many of you have learned about the 80/20 rule. The 80/20 rule simply states that 80 % of your results come from 20% of your actions. My goal in creating this book is to draw attention to the most important 20% of actions that ‘causesuccess in dating science. Lastly, at the end of each section, there willbe a write up on the type ofreports you’ve justread and some key points to remember when trying to reproduce these results in your own game. This book is meant to be read over and over until you internalize all the routines, attitudes, structure and logistics necessary to get laid in any situation.
Enjoy,
Sinn
Table of Contents
WHO IS SINN?
My Story:... 5
DATES What is a Date? ... 7
LR - Fumbled then recovered the pen: Sinn ... 7
LR - Alyssa Milano and the No-Look Pass: Shawn Messenger ... 10
LR - How Toecutter’s palm reading routine gotme laid:Savoy... 15
LR - Cold Approaches in South Florida: Brad P ... 23
LR - 2F closes in one day (Chicago Bootcamp)... 41
LR - 22 year old Sorority President Babe... 43
LR - Cute 18 year old AI: Jdog... 45
LR - Day2 The CaptainJack Way ... 62
LR - Day Game German Girl: Doc HoLLIDAY... 65
LR - Virgin ONS: Entropy... 69
Dates, Broken Down by Sinn... 75
Kissing on Dates ... 78
SAME NIGHT LAYS LR - CaptainJack blows up a car: CaptainJack ... 80
LR - Drunk Rednecks: Captain Jack... 83
LR - CaptainJack Gives HBTeacher a Lesson in Takeaways ... 91
LR - I have to pee! Captain Jack ... 96
LR - Captain Jack and Sinn do Dallas ... 101
LR - “Looks are notenough” A3 routine... 105
LR - Sunburst 2007-Jan-7: Captain Jack... 106
My Original Post on Microcalibration ... 106
LR - Promotor Girl (Difficult Pull): Brad P... 114
Most Gangster Pull Ever!: Sinn ... 127
What happened in New York?: Sinn ... 130
LR - More things that happened in NY... 133
LR - Kareoke til Sunrise: Sinn... 133
LR - Fear the Stache: Sinn... 136
LR - X 2 Back to back: Sinn... 139
LR - 1 to tie 2 to lead... Fuck CJ! 2 to tie 3 to lead: Sinn... 141
Hola PUAs,... 145
THREESOMES and IN VENUE LAYS LR - Orchestrating my first threesome: Entropy ... 154
Cold Approach... 168
LR - Banged Model in Club Bathroom: Brad P ... 168
Female Truism/Cold Read... 173
Brad P’sConversion ChartRoutine:... 173
Some Analysis ... 179
LR - Jizz Shoe Brad: Brad P ... 180
LR - SNL BDSM in a Bathroom: Doc Holliday... 185
BJR - Wanna watch me jerk off in the bathroom: Sinn... 191
In Venue Lays Breakdown... 193
DAY GAME and INTERNET He Said/She Said: A Perfect Pickup and Both Sides of the Story: Shawn Messenger... 197
Field Report: Bringing out the Devil in Angel: In10se ... 205
Day Game Breakdown... 209
What is online game?... 213
Online Game Breakdown ... 224
WHO IS SINN?
A lot of you may be wondering who I am and where I came from. So I want to start this book off with a little bit of my story and how I came to be.
MY STORY:
By popular demand, here is the story of my journey through the bizarre world of the community.
I actually found the community sometime around ‘98. Maybe ‘99, but all I did was read about it. I actually thought it was really weird. I was in high school at the time, and I read all the stuff about not supplicating, etc. That was good but too late for me to apply it in high school.
I was not good with girls, at all. I was really jealous of the guys who were, and so I pretended to have a girlfriend at another school. I also had a group of friends who had a reputation for trying to get with girls and failing miserably. Looking back on high school, I always thought I was marginally popular; but in retrospect, we were the losers at the party.
I had no sexual experiences until I was 17, and I had sex with a girl whom I had met on AOL after buying the DYD e-book and practicing some of that stuff. Then I had two years of unintentional celibacy.
During that time I met Barrie, whom I dated on and off for about three years. We didn’thave sex though until2005after I was already helping on workshops and had stopped dating her. It was possibly the worst relationship of all time. We broke up, she lost her virginity to another guy after not having sex with me for the nine months we were dating, and I took her back after that… Looking back now, I justthink it’s hysterical,especially since she is now engaged and still calls me wanting to have sex…
So around 2003, I dropped out of my group of loser friends whose idea of fun was playing pool and complaining about not getting girls while not
approaching. Their names were Ron and Gabe. I then started to approach at the mall. I did 7 approaches a day, 7 days a week from late 2003 until sometime in 2005 after I had taken a TMM program. It took me 6 months of
doing approaches EVERY day to get my first lay. Her name was Katie, and I met her at the Northridge Mall with the wheelchair opener.
After that, I started to get it. Things started to click, and I could get attraction really well. I also started to get a new lay every month or so. But I had MAJOR flaking problems. So I took the DYD “On being a man program” and “SexualCommunication.” There I met TD for the first time along with a couple of other guys.
Then in October, I took a TMM program with Mystery, Savoy and Lovedrop. I learned a shitload. I had asked David D if I could intern for him and had gotten the run around. But when I asked Savoy, he was only too happy to get free labor. So I started interning for the company around this time. This was back when I did recruiting for Abercrombie. So then I started to really rack up the lays. It was a combination of day game and girls I gamed at A&F. Then I went out with Savoy a few times to do day game which led to me getting a chance to help out on a program in December of that year. I made it very clear that I was not an instructor, but I learned a lot again.
Then I did a few more programs helping out and had my big moment at a Vegas boot camp; it was a mixed four set. I was wearing a STUPID top hat, and I ended up pulling the girl up to her room and closing at the end of
program. It was after this that I finally started to feel like I was good. I taught a gazillion more programs that year and ended up talking at Cliff’s list. I had arrived.
Then I started to build a name for myself as I had tons of great boot camp sets. I had back to back lays in Boston and went three for three in LA… So when Mystery retired the first time from teaching workshop in ’05, I was one of the first guys to teach a TMM program without Mystery. And I’ve been doing that ever since. Since then,I’ve taught about 100 programs including one on ones, stripper game, and, my specialty, day game.I’ve also taughtand mentored The Don, Future, Tenmagnet, El Topo, and others.
And I guess in the process ofthatI’ve become accepted as one ofthe best in the world atthis.I’ve now been with more women thatI could have EVER imagined I would be with, and I know that meeting women is NEVER going to be a problem for me ever again.
So that’s my story.I probably came from a lot lower of a place than most people since I was really young without an established identity or money or even the maturity of someone in their 30s. But I consider myself proof that if I
can do this,then ANYONE can.It’s justa matter of how much you want it and how much you’re willing to go through.
DATES:
WHAT IS A DATE?
Before we can get into the Lay Reports (LRs) we should to define a date. A date doesn’tmean you took her to an expensive dinner or to a movie.Instead it means that you are on a second (or third) meeting with a woman. All the reports contained within this section deal with second (or more) meetings, and the ways different guys use dates to get laid. At the end of this section, there will be an article breaking down what to do on dates to make sure they end in sex.
LR - FUMBLED THEN RECOVERED THE PEN: SINN
FUCK!Last night, I was out with Fidelio in my hood, drinking and chilling. I did a couple of approaches but was more out to catch up with Fidelio as he's been out of the loop for awhile, and I missed hanging with him.
We bounce around a couple of bars where I'm proofed by the staff. And we end up at my favorite dive bar of all time. We're in there, and I get opened by a guy telling me he thinks my hair is hot. He was wearing a shirt that said brown eyes on it, and Fidelio and I made a number of jokes as to the meaning of that as he walked off.
I go to the bathroom, and when I return, Fidelio is talking to a hot
brunette. I hang back for a bit until I get opened by her friend. She's blonde, young, hot and doesn't have big boobs. (But she has a smoking body, and I want to do really dirty things to her.
We start bantering. I use you and I are not going to get along, and shockingly, I don't get busted for using VH1 material!
I pull her hair; she bites her lip. She's there with some friends from work, and they are UBER chodes. I push her onto them. I whisper in her ear that
he'd be perfect for her. He tries to move her to the couch, and I physically push her toward him ... She invites me to come with her… I relent, and we sit down on the couches. The brunette joins us, and I run strawberry fields on the blonde and talk bitter gibberish with the brunette. The brunette falls into one of my categories that I rock with: bitter sarcastic girls. If I can be bitter and make fun of other people in the club, I'm almost unstoppable, but I wanted the blonde.
I start qualifying, and she's jumping through everything. I start
breakthrough comfort talk about how things happen for a reason. I usually don't do #s, but I have framed it sexually and eliminated obstacles so I need her # in case a freak situation kills the pull. I bridge her to get high on Sun and go see SuperBad. This is the greatest # close of my life...
I decide it's time to roll, and I say the very clever pull line "you ready to get out of here?"
She goes to the bathroom, and then calls me when she's outside. We walk into my building when she says her ride is at the bar across the street... It's 1:30, I don't want to deal with obstacles, and I'm kinda dreezed so I just say I'll walk her there...
Then she tries to make out with me, and I dodge... I tell her we're not doing the goodnight kiss. Then she kisses me anyway.
Note to girls: No means no. It doesn't mean you can kiss me...
I text her when I get home, and she texts back... We've been going back and forth all day today.
Here are some highlights:
Sinn: “Do
you
s
peak
t
ext
?”
Her: “Of course.”
Sinn: “Well, then you are on text probation. I text a lot, and I expect
prompt, witty, and fun responses that will make me remember how
awesome you are. Sweet Dreams.”
I tell her she's sexy, smart and a huge dork. She replies: that pretty
much wraps it up; you nailed it.
Oh, funny side note, she's begging me to call her as I walk her to her ride. I say "I really want to have sex with you so of course I'm going to call you! But, even if we don't, you're awesome, and I want us to be friends...”
So everyone can laugh at me for fumbling the pen. Especially after I mercilessly ripped Future all weekend after the Asian fumbling that he ultimately closed. So everyone can laugh at me, especially Future. Ed’s Note:
After this, I tried to get her out three straight times, and she flaked all three times. The following is a separate blog post from when we met up by accident at a bar. I really didn’twantto go outthatnight,but this lay ended up being a nice present for forcing myself to go out. I'm writing this as HB Fumbled Pen is lying on my couch snoring louder than I have ever heard a human being
snore.
Rewind to 7 and Twitchy. I hit a happy hour for a society in Dallas only to see that it's two hot girls and 278 guys. The bar is empty, and they have free drinks and calamari. After a quick drink and some free squid, we bounce to another happy hour place before going to dinner. I number close a hostess there, but I don't qualify at all, and she doesn't return my text later.
Twitchy drops me off, and I decide whether to go out or stay in. I have a headache, a stomachache and don't want to go out... Fuck. I text Twitchy "wanna go out?" He replies, "On the fence, up to you." I have to decide... I didn't go out yesterday or the day before and, yeah, I was sick. But I've gamed sick before... And I know I won't be going out tomorrow as Future has to have an early night...
I decide to go out, and we hit the mysterious venue. We run into Vector and the cuisinart that Topo, I and Vector have all fucked now. I open some sets that go pretty well, but then I run into HB Fumbled Pen. She's there with a friend. I say hi and go back to gaming. My set needs a jealousy plot so I roll into HB Fumbled Pen's set. It's super on.
The most important point of this whole interaction was when I used her as a jealousy plotline. This means simply that I was talking to another group of girls, and I did a takeaway to talk to HB Fumbled Pen and her friends. I was
initially just using HB Fumbled Pen for jealousy, but when I was in the group she was so attracted by the social proof, I decided to investigate logistics.
Handling logistics will always be the most under-looked aspect of pick-up. You must determine where you can get intimate with the girl, and get her there in the smoothest way possible.
The magical questions for logistics are: What’s on the agenda for later? How do you get here?
What do you have to do tomorrow?
I'm winning over her friends, and Twitchy bounces. I see a pull across the street. She and her friend want to dance and ask me to watch them. I decline and chill with Vector for a bit.
I go looking for Fumbled Pen, and she's nowhere to be found. I text her and ask if she left.
She's across the street. I roll in and see her with a new guy. I go talk to both of them. I tease the shit out of her about wearing his glasses and him saying they looked good. He leaves, and I talk to her about her life. I tell her she’s too drunk to drive (a lie) so I tell her she has to come to my place across the street. We cuddle, and I go up her dress once, no go. Second time no go. Third time, it's on ... and I close her.
It all goes to show that you will never get laid just staying home. But if you go out, sometimes you get lucky.
LR - ALYSSA MILANO AND THE NO-LOOK PASS:
SHAWN MESSENGER
Shawn Messenger was the lead instructor for Pickup 101 before leaving to form his own company, LV03.com. Shawn specializes in masculinity and direct game.
If you aren't bragging about the fun things you have done with women, you are missing out. It's way more important to celebrate your success than it is to dwell on your mistakes. Whatever you think about is what you do.
So today, I'm going to share a story from a fun night in my life... involving a very fun girl.
We are men after all. We live the experience to tell the story. Here's one of mine:
It's a warm night in San Francisco. I'm at a famously swanky little lounge in a famously swanky part of town. Kind of place where women bust out the little black dress with the total intent to get noticed and have guys buy them drinks.
I walk in and move immediately across the bar to start with my favorite move ... locate girls at the bar and ask them if I can get in to get a drink. I see a lone hottie sitting at the bar with a bag next to her. I start talking. Move bag. Sit down. Flirt back and forth.
She's leaning in, eyes sparkling, laughing at every joke. Good times all around. She starts telling me about her boyfriend who manages this bar. I'm now thinking that is a dude I do NOT want to get on the bad side of... and how perfect if I can get in with her and the man on the scene.
This is the RIGHT way to think. Instead of being annoyed that she has a BF or even worse ashamed that he was flirting with her, Shawn sees an
opportunity to increase his social value. (A complete abundance mentality.) Suddenly, another girl comes walking right up, hugs her, and then turns to look at me saying:
Girl: "You're in my seat."
Now, girl #1 is cute, but this girl is a sassier version of Alyssa Milano: Long dark hair, tiny body, great boobs, great smile ... Tommy likey.
I reply: "It's our seat now darling. I'm all about sharing."
She smiles and walks right into me (I'm sitting on a barstool facing her
and her friend with my legs apart) and says: "OK, but I always get to go
first."
IT IS ON!
Fast forward a bit. Girl #1's boyfriend shows up. We give a pound; I tell him these girls are just wearing me out with all their flirting and I'm so glad he showed up to help. He says he has to keep working, and now it's on me to keep them busy.
Basically, this is Jake Ryan giving Farmer Ted the keys to the Rolls.
He moves on, and I take the two by the hand to the back of the bar where they have little curtained-off rooms. We get back there, and instantly one out-of-his-tree Australian dude comes up with two drinks in hand for Alyssa
saying, "I told you I'd get you a drink. Here it is." I take them, thank him, and tell her to tell him how sweet that is.
She's eye-coding me with a *why is this drunk still here* look, but I just chat and occupy him and send him on his way, with my arm around Alyssa the whole time. We sit in the booth; me, her and her friend, when suddenly up pops another dude. A big bald guy who’s agood 74 inches, good-looking, loud, a muy macho Bruce Willis type, but not muy macho like me, amigo. :)
I pop right up and say, "What's up man? I'm Sean. God damn, are these
girls trouble. I'm so glad you're here to help."
It’s very important to tease girls whenever a new person comes into the group. The reason is so that it lets the new person know you’re notcreepy or desperate.
He introduces himself and gives the girls a big hug.
Then asks: "What are you drinking? I'm buying."
Alyssa turns to me and asks, "What do you want?"
I say: "That's so sweet of you to ask to buy me something, but he
offered first."
I tell Bruce I'll have a Bud. Alyssa busts me saying, that's so gay and only gay guys drink Bud.
Then I spank her on the ass. Her friend busts up laughing.
When Bruce returns with drinks, we all sit. Then I pull Alyssa up to stand with me next to the spot. We lean against the wall and talk ... Low, quiet, and intense!
I tell her why I moved here. How after losing the girl that I thought was ‘the one,’I knew I needed to go live life as fully as I could. She tells me about her family. We don't talk much, or that deep, but it feels like more.
I keep her next to me. Tell her she has amazing lips, and that our first kiss will be a great one.
She says, "You are so confident." and smiles.
Ask her about her favorite body part, and she says her ass is world-class. I spin her around to check, feel, and confirm.
Then remind her, "It's nice, but not quite as nice as mine."
She smiles. I lean in and sniff her neck, whispering how she smells delicious and begin nibbling her neck. I feel her body go limp against mine.
I stay there for weeks. Stand up. No kiss ... too public! Little more talk and suddenly her friend pops up.
Friend: "We need girl talk." I fumble a bit, snapped out of the moment.
"Uh, OK. You guys have your girl talk. Seriously, I need to go hang with
my friends. You monopolized all my time."
I go back to the front of the bar and chat up everyone I can find. Practice talking to groups with guys in them by walking up to guys and girls and saying to him.
"Dude, I know you know this, but this girl is trouble."
Then turn to the girl and say, "Yeah you. You were supposed to watch
out for me tonight. Then those two midget strippers were all over me,
and where were you?"
This is a fun opener for mixed sets. Remember that confusion causes attraction. Great fun! Always gets me in with the girl and confuses the hell out of the guys. So I circulate and check back on Alyssa. Gone. Look around back. Nope. Check front. Nothing!
KHHHHAAAAAANNNNN!
I am so pissed at myself. We were vibing so well. I totally forgot logistics: her friend, other guys, and the general chaos of a hoping bar in general.
Always get some close early, just in case. Damn it. I acted all casual and now she's gone. And that real, solid, sexual connection just poof! Up in smoke. You always want to get a girl’s phone number 25 minutes in. That way, if there are logistical problems or you lose track of her, you can still call.
So I game a little more, but I'm bummed. It was just a stupid fuck-up on my part.
So I walk outside to lean against the wall and smoke pensively. Chat with some other dudes out there and tell them the story about the one that got away.
Suddenly a flash in front of me, it's Alyssa, being led out by Bruce Willis. Here's the sweet part.
He sees me and deftly moves her to his outside so he's in-between me and her. Nice footwork for a big dude.
Now she sees me ... and waves her arm behind his back. There's
something in her hand. I reach out without looking and take it. She no-look passed me her card. Dude had no idea.
So what happened? Call her card on the Monday following (work card). Chat her up at work. Fun, sexy banter. She's fun. Can't connect schedules for two weeks. Finally set up a date.
She drives across Bay to meet at my house. She arrives. Fucking dolled up. Just a lovely, lovely girl. I pick her up in a hug and tell her she smells great.
We walk inside, so I can get my jacket. She pets my cute dogs and says hi to my room-mate. We walk out along the flower-lined street to a local pub to watch hockey (she loves the Sharks). I stop at one point and pin her against the wall and sniff her hair... then pull back and just look.
She can't take it. She reaches up to pull me in for a kiss. I stop her... wait one second, then pull her back for a kiss. Yep, nothing better than a good-night kiss at the start of the date.
The rest?
Watch the game. Drink beers. Chat with all my friends in the bar. All my friends and bartenders hit on her and call her gorgeous.
We walk home. I pull her into my room to show her something. Cue up end scene from Scrooged where Bill Murray is explaining the meaning of
Christmas. Turn lights off, close door tight. No questions, no qualms. Behind closed doors. A gentleman never tells. :-)
She is a lovely girl; definite keeper material. Lessons learned:
Always be on point with everyone. Seduce the room and the ones you really want will just end up with you. Keep your head up and keep at it because when it's working, nothing can stop it. And use every other guy as just
another ally to make it clear that you, and only you, are the best man for her.
To learn more about Shawn Messenger, check out www.LV03.com
LR - HOW TOECUTTER’
S PALM READING ROUTINE GOT
ME LAID: SAVOY
Savoy is the writer of Magic Bullets as well as the owner and CEO of Love Systems.Here’s his bio from the love systems site. Nick (Savoy) is President and CEO of Love Systems Corporation and is the author of Magic Bullets, our "bible" of dating science and social dynamics. He loves adventure and a challenge. After college, he traveled the world for several years, managing international businesses in Europe, the Middle East, and South Africa.
He started by gambling at backgammon for food and travel money across Turkey and finished by helping raise financing in Slovakia for Europe's most promising low-cost airline, Sky Europe. He has an MBA from Wharton and an Honors Degree in History from McGill University in Montreal. Love Systems Corp. is just one of his successful startups, several coming before the age of 30. He has also consulted several Fortune 500 companies around the world on business strategy.
Based on transcribing a voice mail I left myself. I left my voice mail on and tried to remember what the chicks were saying.
Props to Toecutter's palm reading routine, which I get into once I'm well into the FR.
True disciples of this, or any other routine, will be disappointed. I brutally amend stuff so it's easier to do. Props, of course to everyone else since this is almost all canned material and props to Lovedrop for actually showing me how to use the material.
Anyway, I don't usually do palms, because I associate that with sleazy PU tactics. And because I usually use a shortened version of the cube as a bridge to go from f2m attract straight through m2f attract. [I make her tell me how right I was from 1-10; it's almost always a 9 or 10. I get the cheek kiss, and then I say it's not like my first impression of her at all. Then I make up a bad first impression that reflects her insecurities and say I'm a lot more curious about her now. Then it’s into comfort]Doing the cube and doing palm reading felt like overkill.
But on Tuesday, I was trying some new stuff out. I approach a set of three girls (an 8, a 7, a 6) and one drunk guy. The guy (he wasn't an AMOG, just a tool) was kind of cuddly with the HB8. Didn't matter. I was testing new stuff.
The opener here is really long. I felt like I had to make it long while I was trying to figure out what the drunk guy was about.
Savoy:
“Hey
guys
.
.
.
GUYS!
”[They were ignoring me the first time].
Savoy:
“We're having this serious conversation over there, and we
need another opinion. I know this is a bar and everything, but this
is probably going to affect the rest of our lives. Are you guys ready
to answer a really important question?”
[
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do
i
f
t
he
s
et
does
n’
t
r
es
pond
r
i
ght
away
her
e.
]
Drunk Guy: “Hey
man,
wher
e
you
f
r
om?”
Savoy: “Okay, so here it is: dental floss. Do you brush before flossing or
floss before brushing?”
Drunk Guy: “Bro, that's an awesome line!”
Savoy [to DrunkGuy]
:
“Hey, I didn't come over here for blank looks and
I don't know. You guys don't brush your
t
eet
h?”
B6, B7, B8: [Start talking about this. I don't usually listen here; just try
to pick up cues on BL and plan what comes next]
Savoy: “Yeah cool, thanks.”
Drunk guy: “Where you f
r
om?”
Savoy: “What? Nah, doesn't matter. I was born in Montreal."[Turn
back]
Drunk guy: “Do you say eh? af
t
er
ever
yt
hi
ng?“
Savoy: “Hey, while I'm here... I want to get a female opinion on
s
omet
hi
ng.
”Iturn to look back at crowd where my friends
presumably are. If my friends come over here, we're not talking
about thi
s,
okay?
“Woul
d
any
of
you
guys
date a friend of your
ex-boyfriend?”
Good example of stacking openers. Generally, you don’twantto stack two opinion openers back to back like this. But because he didn’task for an
opinion the first time, he can now ask for another opinion without being the opinion guy.
Chi
cks
:
“Iforget what they were saying. Doesn't matter, but it's usually
no. It doesn't matter what they say although this opener sometimes
gives a clue if a chick has a boyfriend, because sometimes they'll say
things like I am."
This is an importantpoint for those who use opinion openers.Itdoesn’t matter whatthe girls think aboutthe opinion question.It’s justa way to start a conversation. I see so many students have twenty minute conversations about jealous girlfriends or whether men or women lie more. The opinion here
doesn’t matter. So you can ignore it and continue with the rest of your opener or move the conversation to a different topic.
Savoy: “Cool. Thanks. [turn to leave], [turn back] Well, okay, how long
do
you
have
t
o
wai
t
?”
Savoy: [Keep looking at chicks. My guess - wrong as it turned out - is
that this guy had drunkenly wandered over to them and was buying
them drinks. Befriending him would have just lowered my status
with them.]
This is key:
You always want to ask how everyone knows each other right after the opener when you open mixed sets.You have to figure outwhat the girl’s relationship is with any guy in the set as it affects how you are going to game her.
Chicks: “Never!
”[At least one of them said never, I forget what the rest
said.]
Savoy: “Oh my God. You guys are terrible. I come over here with an
argument, and you
guys
t
ake
my
f
r
i
end'
s
s
i
de!
”[Starting to put the
bait on]
HB7: “You have to decide if your friendship is worth more than this girl.
“[
t
ook
bai
t
]
Savoy: “No, that's not the way it is. [look back to friends], [pause] Okay,
I'll tell you the story really quick, but then I have to get back to
them. You guys have to be quick, okay? So I was having a party last
Friday [Sitting down as I talk, between HBs7 and 6.], and my
ex-girlfriend was there. My friends know I've been trying to set her up
for a while, but one of my friends who likes her says she was being
wei
r
d.
”
Drunk guy: “Do
you
s
ay
eh?
after everything?”
Savoy: [talking over him] “Because he's my friend. But I don't think a
girl would feel weird about dating her ex's friends, do you? I mean,
I'd love it if they got together. He's a super guy. I've known him
since I was 6, and she's a cool girl. She used to model, and she's in
l
aw
s
chool
now.
”
Savoy: I only broke up with her because I thought we did better as
friends than as a girlfriend...hey...you guys [point at B7 and B6] are
making...the exact same...facial expressions.
Chicks HB7 and 6: “We're roommates.”
Savoy: “Oh my god. And like every time I ask you guy’
s something you
like turn to look at each other real quick.”
Best Friends Test
Chicks: [laughing]
Savoy: “You're like little powerpuff girls. Like, if I didn't have to go right
now, I would totally [pause] adopt you guys. [pause] I would dress
[pause] [point to HB6] you in a red...PVC...DEVIL costume with a
pitchfork...and horns…and bitch boots. [pause for laughter] And
you, point to HB7] I'd give you a white angel outfit [pause] with
halo...and wings. And we'd roll down the street, and every time
there was a decision to be made, you guys would argue over what's
most fun. And whatever is the most fun thing to do, we'll do
t
hat
.
”
TD’s Angel/DevilRoleplayHB7 and 6: [laughing]
Savoy: “Pinky swear.
”[do pinky swear]
HB8: “What
woul
d
you
dr
es
s
me
as
?”
Savoy: “Come
her
e,
l
et
me
s
ee
you.
”
[HB8 gets up from beside the guy
and walks over to the other end of the table.]
Savoy: “Hey, stop. Show me your hand again?”
HB8: [shows hand]
Savoy: “Oh my god. “[long eye contact]
HB8: “What?!? “
Savoy: “Your palm. It's like…forget it. Hey guys, [back to the other HBs]
Is your friend really outgoing?”(A good example of a baiting here.)
HB6 and 7: [laughs]
Savoy: “Yeah, I can see that. See, everything's written on your palm.
Like, from birth. [To HB6 and 7] So
wher
e
ar
e
you
t
wo
f
r
om?”
[Notice that I'm leaving the HB8 standing there beside me, away
from the drunk guy…who's probably STILL asking me if I say "eh"
after everything….
while re-engaging her friends and making them
laugh]
HB8: “You read palms? Oh my god, I l
ove
t
hat
.
Read
my
pal
m?”
Savoy: [
paus
e]
“Wait your turn. [To HB6 and 7] Is she always like this?
[To HB8] Alright, alright, but then I really gotta go, okay?”(Two
good teases)
HB8: “Ok”
Savoy: “Ok, relax your fingers. Relax. I'm going to explain this to you
first so that you know where we're going....this is your head line.
This is your life line. This is your heart line. Most of the time, that's
where most of the interesting things show up. But what caught my
attention about you are a couple of the more advanced lines. See,
here's your line of fate. Yours stops straight at the head line. I'm
going out on a limb here, but it feels to me like that when you were
a kid....or even a teenager...something happened. Something made
you grow up really fast or become an adult before you were ready.“
(This is a great cold read that can make girls cry when done
correctly.)
HB8: “Oh
my
god.
”
Savoy: “That must have
been
r
eal
l
y
har
d.
”
[
pause]
Savoy: “But look at it this way. I can see that you're obviously a very
passionate person inside. You try to hide it a lot, and I can relate to
that. But deep inside that shell, you're a deeply emotional person
ar
en'
t
you?”
HB8: “Oh my god.”[This was pretty much all she was saying.]
Savoy: “And since that goes straight to your love line, that's where we'll
go next. See, when you were a little girl, you wanted a Prince
Charming. And you always thought a Prince Charming would just walk
into your life without you having to do anything and everything would
just feel so perfect. You know that feeling you still sometimes get
when something just feels so right, like right after you make a big
decision or the moment you realize that you're with the right
per
s
on?”
HB8: “Yeah. Oh my god. But how do you find the right person? How do
you find someone like that?”
Savoy: “But your problem...here...is that you have a caged heart. [Make
cage over her heart. She holds and squeezes my hand when it's on
her chest. I pull back, maybe not the right thing to do] It's like bars
on a jail cell sometimes. You don't let people in easily, but once
they're
in, they're in forever. Even if you had your Prince
Charming right in front of you, you might not know what to do or
how to get his attention.
”
HB8: “Oh my God.”
Savoy: “You know that feeling of seeing something - like a piece of
clothing or an apartment or a friend - for the first time but being so
curious about it? Just knowing in the back of your mind that it's
right, even if part of you is afraid to admit it? You have a good
intuition, but
you
don'
t
al
ways
f
ol
l
ow
i
t
.
”
HB8: “Ohmy God.”
Savoy: “And l
ook,
you'
r
e
f
er
t
i
l
e!
”
HB8: “What?”
Savoy: “See these l
i
nes
on
t
he
si
de
of
your
hand?”
HB8: “My friend told me that you can see how many children you'll
have .
”
Savoy: “That's not t
he
way
we
di
d
i
t
i
n
my
f
ami
l
y.
”
HB8: “That was so amazing.”
Savoy: “On a scale from 1-10,
how
r
i
ght
was
I
?”
HB8: “Li
ke
a
9.
5”
Savoy: “Cool.”[point at cheek] [cheek kiss]
HB8: “What
'
s
your
name?”
HB6 and 7: “We have to go.”
HBs: “Yeah.”
Savoy: “Awesome. [To
HB8]
Take
car
e,
okay?”
HB8: “But what if I never
s
ee
you
agai
n?”
Savoy: “Is that a hint?”
[pause]
Savoy: “Idunno. I don't like taking numbers at bars. And you're drunk,
you'll be weird tomorrow.”
This is a good false takeaway on the phone number exchange. It makes the girl argue for why you should take her number. The more people work for things, the more they value it.
HB8: “No,Iwon't. I promise I won'
t
.
”
Savoy: “Well....ok, I'll make you a deal.”
HB8: “What?”
Savoy: “I'll take your number if you make me promise.”
HB8: “What
'
s
t
hat
?”
Savoy: “When I call, I don't want you to be like "oh hi!" I want you to be
like "oh my god, Savoy, I'm so glad you called. We're going to go out
and have a great time."
HB8: “Okay.”
Savoy: “And you have
t
o
ans
wer
on
t
he
f
i
r
s
t
r
i
ng.
”
HB8: “What if I'm not near the phone? I'm out from 3 to 7 tomorrow.”
Savoy: “I'll call you at 2:30. Pinky swear.”[grab pinkies]
Because of the logistics, I briefly contemplated flaking on the call, but decided it wasn't necessary. She got it on the second ring, we made plans for that night, and it all worked out
Another good idea:
Telling the girl when you’re going to callher so she can expectthe calland be around her phone. You can also call five minutes later to make her wait a bit and build value.
This report is from late 2004/early 2005.Savoy’s game has gotten much better since this report. To learn more about Savoy go to
www.lovesystems.com.
LR - COLD APPROACHES IN SOUTH FLORIDA: BRAD P
Our next LR comes from the amazing Brad P of BradPpresents.com. Brad is an amazing Innovator as well as one of the bestguys I’ve seen in field. The legendary Brad P began his journey to mastery in 2004 by spending 7 days a week going out, meeting women and learning from the greatest Naturals ever to walk the earth. Already being an expert in psychology and philosophy, he quickly developed a reliable, repeatable method for meeting, attracting, seducing, and dating top tier women anywhere his travels took him.By 2005, word of Brad's success had spread so quickly that he began
teaching "The Underground Dating Seminar" in the top floor of a pizza place in New York City. After only a few weeks of classes, the good news was
spreading faster still, and men would travel from hundreds of miles away to attend the seminars. From these humble beginnings, a movement took root that would reach far corners of the globe.
In 2006, Brad was discovered by "The Seduction Community" and gave lectures at the "Cliff's List Convention." He would later be interviewed by other seduction community legends such as David DeAngelo, The Mystery Method, Pickup 101, and David Shade.
Brad soon added more coaches to the roster and made his teaching
available worldwide on audio CDs. We're pleased to report that Brad's seminar CDs have been ordered and listened to in more than 100 countries.
As the body of dating and seduction literature has continued to mature, Brad has turned his attention to developing the most efficient and effective methods for teaching men to succeed with women. In his latest report on the state of dating literature, Brad states:
The race to come up with the best system for picking up women is over. It's been over for years. In the year 2008, there exists a multitude of
internally consistent systems for seducing and dating women. The problem is that most of the men who apply these methods don't have the intangibles to implement them.
The real challenge is to create a teaching method that empowers the student with intangibles within a realistic time frame. It shouldn't take four years to become proficient in dating and seduction. This is unacceptable. In 2008, I will release a new curriculum that will make men proficient in dating and seduction in 12 months or less. This is my mission.
FLORIDA REPORT
Here's my report on a week down in south Florida. Some if it I wrote during the week, the rest I'm writing right now on the plane to L.A. where I'll be from Tuesday through Thursday this week. It's a long report, but it has a happy ending
I came down to Florida a few days ago to do some sarging outside my comfort zone and to do some teaching down here as well. When people found out I was coming, I started to get emails about how southern Florida is so tough to sarge in. Style and all these other gurus got shut down when they came down here. I'm thinking it can't possibly be as tough as NYC, and, besides, last time I was here I pulled on the first night.
Well, actually, it has been a tough area, but it was just what I needed right now for the adjustments I'm making to my game. The last few months I've been doing club game and social circle building. I hear it all the time in the community -- people say "build your social circle," but then there's no method or instruction to go along with that advice.
I'm not sure that advice is really helping anyone. So I spent a few months researching it and developing a method which I will release once I have written it up. I already gave one live talk on it, and I'm doing another in LA.
Now I'm transitioning my game back to cold approaches. Back in NYC, I have little motivation to do cold approaches. There's a bit of cold approaching involved in the club game I was doing, but nothing really substantial. I was getting lots of lays off the club social circle stuff, and I already had a stable of 5 FBs. So who the hell needs to go sarge a fucking bookstore when you could be home having sex....or in a bookstore having sex....
Now I'm out of my comfort zone, getting back into the cold approach game…back to getting # closes, back to doing day 2s. It's funny. I thought it would be like it used to be back when I was learning. But it's almost like the social circle stuff has added a new dimension to my cold approach game.
You might wonder why the hell a guy with 5 FBs and who's getting 15 minute lays from club game would leave town to do cold approaches in a strange town where he knows no one. Well, right now I'm feeling like it's essential for me to walk in the shoes of the people who are just learning. I want to feel the cold blast of blowouts again.
It's been a while. I went from learning approach and all the basics to having quite a bit of success to teaching to designing a system for openers to learning to retain as many as 10 girls at once to learning threesomes to club game to social circle building....and now I want to revisit the cold approaches. My work on social circle is done. I'm curious how it's going to affect other parts of my game.
So here's what I've been up to the last few days. First day of sarging in Florida was the hardest. I went to this place Coyote Ugly in Ft. Lauderdale. They have these chicks dancing up on the bar just like in the movie, which kind of puts every guy in the place into a beta frame. I kinda tried to ignore them, but it was hard ‘causethey were fucking HOT!
First set was this DJ chick from the local rock station. She didn't really blow me out, but she wasn't particularly nice to me either. So I moved on to the chicks who were handing out free lighters and crap. They kind of had to be nice; but it was totally fake, and you could tell they're just doing their job. I try to talk to the dancing bartender, HB10, on the bar but can't get her
attention. When she's done I ask her, "Did we sleep together last week?" She laughs and walks away. There weren't really a lot of people in the place, and this is why I ended up opening all the hired guns first.
Here Brad makes the most of his time. This is one of the key differences between guys who getgood and guys who don’t.The guys who getgood maximize their time in field by talking to every set they can. Remember this the nexttime you’re outon a night‘thatsucks.’
I see a hot chick down at the end with some guys. I decide to make some adjustments, and I open the guys first. They don't even know her so it doesn't end up helping at all. I turn to her and ask directions to some place nearby. Good response off that. Turns out she is with a guy; it's just a different guy than I thought.
The guy is this dorky older guy, and this chick is smoking hot. I get up close and she looks older but still hot. She has the hugest breasteses. We
start talking, and she tells me she's 40. I rarely even talk to girls in their 30s, but this is the hottest 40-year old I've ever seen in my life.
I talk to the guy too. I start teasing the girl. She's asking how tall I am; I tell her 5'9 even though I'm 6'5. I stand her up next to me and start some aggressive kino. She's totally turned on, and BT is shooting through the roof. I could not believe it myself. She kissed me on the cheek and the neck a few times. I'm a little leery of the guy while all this is going on. Tonguing her down is not strategic here. It's too early in the set, and I don't know the status of this guy. I'm all alone in this place with no one to back me up if things get hairy.
Soon she gives me a big IOI telling me flat out that the guy is just her roommate. I tease her a little more then I make a snap decision to try for a bathroom pull. The logistics are super bad with this guy here, and this girl seems to know all the bartenders who are absolute snotty bitches.
So I do some perv testing on her. She fails. She is creeped out, and I've blown the set out. This is an intentional blowout. If you want to make an omelet, you gotta break some eggs. Staying in longer would have probably been a waste of time. It was a soft blowout so I re-initiate contact later, and she is cool with talking to me. She invites me to see her at the bar where she bartends. I tell her maybe.
This is a great example ofBrad’s theory ofBlow Me or Blow Me Out. Perv testing is the idea of slowly introducing topics of a sexual nature in a friendly way.You can learn more aboutperv testing and bathroom pulls in Brad P’s seminal Interviews with Naturals CD with The Pheromone Kid.
The lesson to take away here is that blowouts are not your enemy. Your enemy is the 25 minute set to nowhere. Think about it like this. If you are going out specifically to meet girls you want to have sex with, you have a limited amount of time. In most cities, you are going to have somewhere between 4-6 hours if you start at 10 PM. So you want to maximize the use of your time by gaming the girls most likely to get sexual with you.
After this set, I approach a four set of tourists. The chicks are busted looking so I eject. It was just a set to stay social. I flirt with the ‘free lighter’ chicks some more, and they take a picture grabbing my ass. It was contrived and retarded. I pull one girl's hair really blatantly, which she doesn't take well to, but not a major problem. I flirt again with the radio DJ. This time it's a bit better because I do some aggressive kino.
But again, I'm dealing with a girl whose ego is flying high ‘causeshe's kind of a local celebrity around here with the radio station and all. I leave that set as neutral. It didn't really hook, but I made my presence known and didn't do anything needy or stupid, which is probably better than most guys do. I decide this place is sarged out, and I decide to go across the street. Out of all those sets, only one really hooked.
First few lessons on Ft. Lauderdale: The tendency here seems to be that a lot of these girls are spring break leftovers who never left. Tons of girls are working as bartenders. Some are pretty old, but you can tell they were insanely hot a few years ago. Even now, they're like 8-9 in their 30s. I even saw women in their 40s with massive natural tits, crazy tanned up, spring break style.
The young bartender chicks are crazy hot as well but they fly around the place at lightning speed making drinks. It's tough to get a word in edgewise. The bar industry is just massive here. So the chicks have seen it all. They are weathered and wise. These chicks have very strong frame and pretty tight game. They are very good at avoiding attraction and staying logical. They have a focus on their social agenda. The moment attraction takes a dip they immediately try to invite you to see them at the bar they work at, converting you into an orbiter. This happened several times throughout the night.
Next place I walk in and do horse girl on two blondes at the bar.
Brad P’s HorseGirlOpener:
“Hey,
do
you
l
i
kehor
s
es
?”
(She responds.)
“Hmm,
I
t
hought
s
o.
OK,
check
t
hi
s
out
.
When
I
was
i
n
t
he
6t
h
grade, there was this girl who loved horses. She used to run
ar
ound
t
he
pl
aygr
ound
f
or
an
hour
s
t
r
ai
ght
at
l
uncht
i
me.
She’
d
be galloping and making horse noises. We used to call her the
wei
r
d
hor
s
e
gi
r
l
…
You
l
ook
J
UST
LI
KE
HER!
”
(She responds.)
“I
t
’
s
cool
.
I
f
i
t
wer
e
me,
I
woul
dn’
t
admi
t
i
t
ei
t
her
.
Now
I
’
m
not
s
ayi
ng
you’
r
e
def
i
ni
t
el
y
her
,
but
j
ust
i
n
cas
e
you
ar
e,
I
want
t
o
t
el
l
you
I
’
m
s
or
r
y
f
or
al
l
t
he
t
i
mes
Imade fun of you. See, in
school, I was always one of the cool kids. And I used to make
f
un
of
t
he
hor
s
e
gi
r
l
.
Now
I
’
m
ol
der
and
mor
e
mat
ur
e,
and
I
f
eel
bad.
So
do
you
f
or
gi
ve
me?”
I hooked them pretty decent. I don't know why the hell I didn't just do horse girl before. They think I'm funny, but I can tell they're thinking I'm a little weird too.
One of them says, "So where are you off to all gothed out?"
Mental Note:I need to take my look down a notch or two. This isn't NYC. The chicks aren't used to seeing a guy like me just walking around talking to people.
I manage to get through that and win them over. The friend leaves me alone with the target and says "help yourself" and points to her. Wow, that's a new experience!
We're shooting the shit. The girl just came off a bad break-up so I'm thinking this is either great because she needs revenge or this is bad ‘cause she's hung up on the guy. Turns out she was hung up, just got dumped, and she's not in slut mode yet. She's just in depressed mode. I give her a bit of sound relationship advice just to pass the time. We skip to other topics. I'm getting really good kino off this girl.
The set is going better than anything else had been going that night. In comes another friend. I'm vibing with them, etc. Surprise, my target girl is a bartender! I look behind me, and the hot 40 year old is sitting a few seats away watching intently.
I've kind of lost interest in her, I could have used her as a pawn somehow, but I decide to wait and see if it's going to be strategic to do that. I just told the other three, "check out my stalker over there." In the bathroom, they all run into each other; and HB40yo gets all weird on the two friends of my target.
She starts bragging, "How old do you think I am? ... I'm 40, and I don't have a stitch of makeup on, etc." (She’s probably trying to raise her ego back up since I didn't try to go talk to her.) The two girls were telling me how weird she is so I decided that flirting with her in front of my target would look too low value in this instance.
I end up telling her that I know all these advanced sexual techniques. One of the friends is some kind of a marriage therapist so she starts testing me like crazy. We talk about the deepspot, the G spot, etc. Wow, the mainstream
educated people really don't know shit. She's trying to DHV on me by telling me about studies that show the G spot doesn't exist because there are "No neurons inside the vagina."
I tell her it's really more about skene glands, but she doesn't really want to hear it. She's saying how I can get arrested for doing a class like I do without being certified which is BS. Anyway, the chicks end up leaving, and I can't get a number close out of this chick. She is totally negative and depressed ‘cause of being dumped. She invites me to come see her at the bar where she works. I tell her, "I'm not gonna chase you around like a dork."
Orbiter Invitation #2.
I do one more set before I leave. I do a really bad situational opener, and the girls blow me out instantly. I stay and plow for a minute, but then I just have to laugh this one off as my worst set EVER!
OK, so far I'm finding that the girls in Ft. Lauderdale generally are not fun. They don't really laugh much. They don't like to joke around or flirt as much as other chicks. There's this grim sense of purpose about them; I can't put my finger on it really. It's like they go out to bars not to have fun, but to do some kind of a job. They really seem like they're at work.
Wednesday, I go out and do day game. I've adjusted my clothing a bit for the fact that this is not a major urban area. I got bad advice on a venue and end up in this mall where a lot of old people are walking around. This is how it goes when you solo sarge a lot. Sometimes you end up in situations that absolutely suck. But I wouldn't have it any other way. This is all good stuff that builds your frame. I see some girls with their mom in the food court. Mom and daughter1 leave daughter2 alone at the table. In I go with the Carson
Brad P’s Carson DalyOpener:
"What...the hell.... is up with Carson Daly? That guy's just not funny. How did he get his own show? I watched the whole thing just to give it a chance, and I didn't laugh once. It was painful to watch. They must pay the audience to show up and laugh. They never show the audience either… there's probably only 10 people there..."
This is girl is damn near flatlining in front of me. It was like talking to a corpse. Mom and daughter come back, and the Mom is getting a kick out of the whole thing. Both daughters just stand there looking at me funny. Okaaaaay then....
Next set, a girl is coming down the escalator with me. I run horse girl. She listens to the whole thing, but there's no hook. She looks at me like I have nine dicks growing out of my forehead.
Next set is a blond with free tea to give out at the tea shop. I talk to her for about 10 minutes, but it's not hooking much so I eject.
Next set is the girl at the sunglass booth. I ask her where to find cotton candy around here. She barely speaks English. She doesn't even know what cotton candy is. We talk about the circus for a while. I get bored and eject.
Out of the mall to the bar next door. It's very upscale and I'm pretty underdressed due to the aforementioned adjustments. In I go. First set, I try this internet date opener I got from a friend of RSD Geoff. The line was really good, and so the chicks were basically like "Great line! Now get the fuck out of here!" I go ahead on a 2nd set with it, and the girl claims to have heard it before. So I say no prob, I have another one; and I do horse girl. They say it's the longest pickup line they've ever heard.
These girls are kind of hostile, but they gave me some good info. They said something to the effect of, "Don't you know that women in south Florida are only looking for guys with money and sugar daddies? They really don't care about anything else. You may be funny, but who the hell cares." I told them I'm just looking for sugar mommas. I ask if they're married to a rich guy ‘cause that would be perfect. They say no. I tell them they're in my friend zone. We banter a bit, but they eventually blow me out with, "Nice meeting you." I tell them nice meeting you too, and then I backturn on them without actually leaving the area. I'm still standing like two feet from them.
I know when you blowout there's a tendency to want to run away with your tail between your legs and get as far away from the girls as possible. In my case I don't really mind blowouts; they're actually a necessary part of my game. I want all the girls who are anti-fun or anti-sex to show their true colors as quickly as possibly by either blowing me out or looking confused by my banter. It just makes my life easier when they do that in the first three
minutes. In this case, it took like 7-8 minutes so that's kind of a waste, but what are you gonna do.
The reason I didn't leave the area was because I wanted it to look like I was dissing them. This saves face a bit more with so many other chicks around. It probably looks like I was talking to some people I know, and now I'm done talking to them. I backturn on them, stand up tall and proud. I'm relaxed. I'm ready to look for the next target. I turn my attention to the guys setting up their drums and guitars on the stage behind the bar. Looks like cool shit! I sit down in a stool, and I'm still directly next to the girls from the last set. They're cut out of my world.
Here’s a greatsolution to a common concern guys have.Getting blown out and being embarrassed by it. Most of the time no one will notice blowouts if you justfollow Brad’s lead and stay in the area, making it look like you guys already knew each other and you got bored of talking to them.
Seconds later, I get opened by a HB10 who tells me, "You look like a rock star." I tell her, "Very observant. I am a rock star." We talk for about 20 minutes. She's kinoing me quite a bit, but she's married. I can tell she's a good girl, and I don't want to sarge her. She's got so much positive energy that it's a pleasure just to speak with her. She's telling me this whole long story about how she met her husband in Venezuela when he was there as a pro rugby player. And now she's living in the USA, and she owns three businesses. It's so nice to meet people like this. She gives me her card and says to call anytime. I can tell it's just a networking thing, but what a nice experience.
I'm plotting my next move. I don't know where the hell I am or where to go. I've been getting blown out more than usual. Not one set has hooked yet in day game. Not a number close yet. Not a kiss close -- nothing.
I realize I have to make more adjustments. I check my walk and my eye contact, and they're not as strong as they need to be for cold approaching. I fix those two things and sarge on.
I head out to a different area; back to where I had done night game the night before.
First set is two girls on the street. They're standing in front of a concert venue, and I ask who's playing tonight. They say no one. We shoot the shit for a while. The set is hooking OK so I try to venue change them. They're really
lame and going home early. They tell me they'll come see me this weekend if I'm around this area. Off they go.
I can tell my game is snapping back into place. The EC and BL adjustments were very helpful. It changed my whole vibe.
Making adjustments is whatlearning game is allabout.When things aren’t going well on a given night or even a given approach, try something different! This is a game of adjustments.
Next set is two girls at the bar. The bar is filled with people from a kickball team (yes, you read that right, a kickball team). I ask them if they're from the dodgeball league. They say no. I stack some material. Lesbian DTR opener, Oprah Winfrey Opener. These girls think I'm weird. They keep asking me if I'm on drugs. We're not that compatible. They're not that hot. They're really
boring. We end up talking about real estate. DOWNER!!!
Next set -- I go into a place with a live cover band playing. I see a few two sets. One girl drops her sandal, and I pick it up. The girl is into me right away. The set was hooked before I even said anything. The friend was into me too. We are kinoing like crazy. I spend about two hours in that set. That girl was super cool. She was looking to chill with me longer, but the logistics were bad. The friend had some drama going on with her BF which was killing the vibe. It was kinda funny. Target girl was holding the friend's cell phone, and it would keep vibrating (BF) against my leg. But she wouldn't answer or give it to her friend ‘causeshe didn't want to leave yet. I # closed, and it's a super solid #. She already texted me twice, and I'm fairly certain I will bang this girl on a day2 this week.
Next set, I walk past coyote ugly, and one of the bartenders is giving me IOIs through the window. I go talk to her, and she's not too responsive. Also, she's ugly up close. YIKES! Amazing what kind of deception can occur when makeup and distance team up! I chat up the girl at the door just to stay social and go back across the street.
I see this girl doing a weird booty shaking dance. I go up to her and do the exact same dance. Everyone is watching. The girl puts her arms around me. I smile and then walk away with a grossed out look on my face. Awww, that was mean! It was fun though. Ha!Ha!
Now I see the DJ girl from the night before, and she's all happy to see me. WTF? I walk over, and she's all over me. She's kissing me on the face and
neck. She's introducing me to people everywhere. I meet this other cool chick. I hang with them for an hour. Both girls give me their # and say let's hang out for sure. Very solid # closes. DJ girl says she will take me to all the cool
parties for the rest of the week. (Possible full close with either of these chicks.)
DJ girl asks me to come to a sleepover party at someone's pool on
Saturday night. I'm not sure what changed overnight or what I did to win this chick over, but it looks like I'm socially proofed for the rest of the week. I get a kiss close with her at the end of the night, and all is well.
I go back in, and I had seen this insanely hot chick come in with a guy earlier. I have my eye on them. I'm not gonna sarge the chick because they're obviously together. I'm trying to figure out what she's attracted to in this guy. The guy seems kind of average. He's fairly tall and well built but nothing crazy...looks like he’s Spanish with a curly afro.
When they came in, they went straight to the restroom. Now I go back in and I see them putting something in their nose....a ha! ...coke head chick and her drug dealer! Game is now in full force. I guess I just needed to shake off the rust and regain my old zip with these cold approaches. Three solid #s and a kiss close in two days, but they all came in the last three hours.
What made my game snap back into gear? It's very simple. Adjustments. To succeed, you must adjust. Some people just do what they do and if it doesn't work, then they fail. Successful people make adjustments, and failure is something that is never permanent. To me, there is no failure, only
setbacks. I firmly believe that you could drop me anywhere on god's green earth, and I would get pussy with a few days at the most.
South Florida game is different than NYC. I've been optimized for NYC for the last eight months. Now I've got to get back to something that works in the rest of the country.
Thursday afternoon, I get a text from the chick from the cover band place. I call back and set up a day2 for tonight. She's talking about how she wants to get married soon, etc. Not sure where this is going, but I will try to sway her into a little detour off the marriage path.
She shows up at the hotel bar to meet me around 12 Midnight. We hang there for a while. Get some drinks. She keeps talking about this marriage thing. Her friend got married, and it's making her feel she needs to get
married ASAP. So I had someone in the bar perform a marriage ceremony for us and did some role playing with that. I get her up to my room using Dance Dance Revolution as the bait.
This is something I have in the works right now. I went and got the home version of DDR. It costs like $20 on eBbay. I set it up in my hotel room. Then I talk about DDR until the chick says she wants to play. I tell her I know where there's a DDR machine, then we end up back in my hotel room. Still in the testing phase. It seemed to help somewhat to have that pretense for going back to the room.
Here’s another greatexample ofa basic rule ofdating.Always have a reason to go back to your place. It can be a special type of alcohol (like Absinthe),a great piece ofmusic thatmostpeople haven’theard(like the Decembrists), an activity (like Dance Revolution) or any pretense that allows sex to “just happen.”
We played a few rounds then I escalated a few times. And each time, she started laughing and said, "I can't do this." So I got a bit of making out in, but other than that, she failed the audition. This girl is in a marriage panic right now; I think that may have something to do with it. Side note: She directly asked me how much money I make a few times. She also showed other signs that she's pretty into me. She was very direct about expressing that. She made me brownies and brought them with her. She cuddled me really intensely but didn't do well with the kissing thing.
The bottom line is this chick is very interested, but she's not sexually comfortable with herself or something. I can tell she's got some kind of problem so I've got to next her. I decide to get her out ASAP so I still have a chance to call some other girls and maybe get something else going on. I firmly believe that I deserve to be with women who are highly sexual and who can at least be comfortable enough to make out with me in a normal healthy way on a day2. I did all the proper escalating, stayed persistent, etc. I know what the fuck I'm doing here, and, with most girls, it works every time.
I walked her to the car to get the brownies. She kept talking and talking; she could probably sense I had lost interest. I gave her a hug and sent her on her way. She texted me five minutes later with some mushy stuff about
cuddling. It's very cute and all, but I only have a few more days here so she's not getting another call or a text back. Tomorrow is Friday, and that's a full day workshop. Saturday is a day2 with the chick I pulled last time I was in West Palm Beach. Sunday is free, and Monday night, if I'm here, I'll probably hang with any other girls but tonight's girl.
