The Passion Patch:
Subtle Touch
Techniques That
Arouse Her Body
“Now my wife walks right up to me,
6lts her head up, closes her eyes
and waits for me to kiss her eyelids!”
Phil, one of the customers of my private online program1 that helps married men
turn their wives back on wrote that to me.
He was so excited. For the first @me in all their years of marriage, his wife Rhonda was taking the ini*a*ve to be affec*onate.
In the last year, they’ve had more “touchy-‐feely” moments than in the first 10 years of their marriage. The “stealth seduc@on” touch tricks I gave Phil worked. Within weeks of subtly touching her body, his wife became more animated, more engaged with him than ever before. She stopped pushing him away.
1Revive Her Drive is an online program that shows men how to turn on their wives to want more
Now they snuggle on the couch at night and Rhonda has actually been taking off her nightgown and cuddling him in the nude before Phil gets up to go to work. This is huge progress for a couple who were like childhood friends instead of a passionate married couple.
"Your descriptions of the small of her back and the
ultimate hug sparked visual memories of early
courtship and some of my favorite bonding moments.
The Passion Patch is well worth the $7 spend."
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— Brian H.
Which Touch Area Will Turn Your Wife On?
Hi, I’m Susan BraNon and my life’s work is helping men bring out the passion in their wives.
I’m glad to see that you’ve taken the first step on what can be a delighOully pleasurable process of opening your woman to her natural sexuality.
The goal of this @ny liNle eBook is to give you the first taste of success in wooing your wife again. My
ul@mate goal is to earn your trust so that I can show you how you can have even be3er sex together than when you were first da@ng.
You’re going to find the places and ways your wife loves to be touched. She will thrill to your touch again when you do The Passion Patch.
Frequent physical in@macy is vital for your health and well-‐being. You’ll live longer, give more of your giSs to the world and enjoy a happier life if you and your wife have frequent sensual experiences that lead to orgasmic pleasure.
You are doing this as much for her health and well being as for yours. And
Susan Bratton, Creator of
everything in this book is female-‐friendly. I want her to love you more because you have taken the @me to open her like a flower for you.
You BOTH Deserve This Pleasure
Orgasm is one of the ways your body relaxes the tension that builds up from the “work” of living a full, rich life. Climaxes rejuvenate and reboot your system so you have the reserves to go out and conquer the world. Both you and your wife need this pleasure release. But so many issues, including shame, fear, ignorance, pain and bad health can cover up desire.
Crea@ng ease around sex and physical in@macy builds over @me. And even
cuddling and holding hands releases the “love chemicals” that fuel her desire for you.
Read This Warning First!
I know you’re ready to get going but I want to give you a word of warning.
For the most success with The Passion Patch, starEng small and going slowly will
have a greater posi@ve impact than trying to rush her into sex.
The Passion Patch is going to show you the first step in moving your woman from shut down and turned off into a lusty, sensual woman who cannot keep her hands off of you.
This is step one.
Seduc@on is an escala@on.
First you romance her, then you awaken her sensual body, then you seduce her and then you use advanced sexual mastery techniques that heighten her pleasure so she wants to be with you more oSen and try new things in the bedroom.
The Passion Patch is a shortcut that combines step one —romance — with step two, awakening her sensual body.
These romance techniques are targeted missiles. You’ll be giving her some of the romance she needs to warm to you. And these touch tricks will work very subtly
to warm her body up sexually without her being directly aware of the fact that you are arousing her.
What These Touch Techniques Will Do
You are going around her defenses.
You are lowering her stress and calming her down. I call this “grounding” her. You will be touching her in ways that connect you together limbically. Her limbic system is her emo@onal, rather than ra@onal mind.
There are three important pieces of advice I want you to know BEFORE you lay a hand on her, please.
1) Try NOT to get her to react at first.
2) The angle from which you approach her is important.
3) There is a specific way I want you to use your touch for maximum effec@veness.
Try NOT To Get A ReacEon
Because you are using these touch techniques as a way to remind her body that she likes, wants and needs physical connec@on, you want to fly under the radar un@l you see her coming to you for touch like Phil did with his kisses on Rhonda’s eyelids.
I know you are dying for her to show you SHE WANTS YOU. And she will.
But in the beginning, check your ego at the door. Use these touch techniques in an understated way. Touch her the way I tell you to in The Passion Patch but do not demand or expect her to overtly respond.
You have to trust me that she will come to you sooner if you just let her body feel the touches while her brain is hardly aware that you touched her.
You get her body wan@ng more.
Very soon you will get plenty of reac@on from her if you keep up a steady and very
subtle pace of touch.
That’s how touch works. The more you get the more you want. Touch is addic@ve.
Make this an ero@c adventure, not a chore or a checklist.
The Angle Of Approach
This is weird. But it’s true. I’ve seen it play out in couple aSer couple. Here’s why the angle of approach is important and how it works.
Some people like to be approached by another person head-‐on. Others like to be approached from behind. S@ll others prefer the leS or right side.
I, for example, dislike it when my husband comes straight at my face with his lips puckered up.
Don’t get me wrong. I adore kissing my man. But for some reason, I like it when he approaches me from my right side and then turns to kiss me. It puts me at ease. The direct approach is a liNle too
confron@ng for me.
You may already have figured this out about your wife. Don’t ask her
outright, “Hey, honey. Do you want
me to try my stealth romance touch tricks on your behind?”
No, no, Romeo.
You are “the king of understatement” for now, OK?
Remember, the more stealth you play this, the more pleasurable you are making it for her.
Just keep a keen eye. As you try these different touch techniques, approach her from the front and both sides. Save the approach from behind for when she’s ac@vely coming to you for affec@on and she won’t be surprised by a “sneak aNack” which might set you back. The rear approach is the least common preference. . . as you can imagine.
Once you get a sense of how she likes to be approached you’ll be even more effec@ve at delivering touch in the way her body most likes it.
Just pay aNen@on and make mental notes.
The Way To Touch Her
My long-‐@me mentor, Dr. Pad Taylor wrote an eBook called, Touch For Rapture in which she teaches lovers HOW to touch for maximum mutual pleasure.
When you touch for rapture, you’re touching in a way that feels good to you. Instead of touching in the way you think it’s going to feel good for her.
It turns out that selfish touch -‐ touch for the sheer pleasure it brings you to touch -‐ is actually a more ero@c way of touching than touching for effect.
How would you touch your wife’s thigh if you were to do it for purely selfish delight?
Use THAT touch with these techniques.
In all these Touch Tricks, I want you to touch your wife the way you did when you first met her and were feeling her for the first @me.
Don’t be ashamed of your desire. And don’t make a show of it either. I’ll tell you in each trick how to do it.
So when you touch her, do it for the joy you get from the feeling in your fingers. Touch her in a way that gives you an erec@on. Enjoy her silky soSness.
When you stop touching her to give her pleasure or to get a reac@on, her body will feel your excitement. That will turn her on faster.
The Magic of Catch & Release
I first learned this magic trick from a group of pick up ar@sts. They’d go out to a bar and try to get the most beau@ful girl to go home with them.
The preNy girls are the hardest to pick up because they have the greatest choice of poten@al men -‐ everyone wants the preNy girl.
So how does an ugly guy get a hot babe? “Catch and Release.”
You engage her, charm her and then let her go.
Humans are wired to want desperately what they cannot have.
If hot blondie knows she can have any man in the bar, she wants the one that plays hard to get.
You, dear man, are going to play hard to get.
You are going to go in for an oh-‐so-‐subtle touch, land the touch, then move away. Do not hang around like a hound dog wai@ng for scraps. Move along. Do
something construc@ve and masculine. That will really get her going for you! Honestly, I’m giddy wri@ng this for you right now. It’s so exci@ng when you combine the right angle of approach with a panty-‐wedng touch and then you walk away.
The Touch Tricks
Cheeks, eyelids and forehead, the nape of her neck, stroking her hair, the small of her back, knee pressure, wrist circling, hand pumps and foot rubs are the slippery slope to all the sex you can handle.
Let’s break it down.
Because every woman is different means your gal’s body is going to prefer some of these over others. But the more of these you try, the faster she’s going to get aroused.
Try one or two a day to start.
Remember, you don’t want to her say, “Hey, what are you doing?” Or worse, be ham-‐handed and have her move away from you.
These touch techniques, done right, will warm her body up for you so that you can significantly increase the amount of affec@on and lovemaking you two are having.
Touch Techniques
Cheeks
Stroke her cheek lightly with the back of your fingers. Look her in the eyes when you do it. There’s no need to say anything. . . When you find the opportunity, simply let the slight brush of your fingers trail across her face and then release the moment and go about your business. This is a good trick when she’s focused on a task.
Eyelids and Forehead
Instead of a direct kiss on the lips, give your lady a kiss on her forehead or her eyelids. This is a kind of “daddy” affec@on. It’s both masculine and
nurturing. You can approach her from the front, side or from behind if she’s seated.
Back of Neck
The neck is very erogenous for a woman. Remember the hickeys you got and gave in high school? Her neck is exquisitely sensual. If you reach your hand under her hair at the nape of her neck and squeeze and release, it will arouse her. Grab a handful of her hair and squeeze it gently, exer@ng a @ny bit of pull and release. Later, you can pull her toward you for a kiss.
Neck Rub
Working out the kinks in her neck will open up her throat and jaw, increasing her ability to feel her desire. You want your woman all loose and relaxed and low back and neck are the two most powerful places you can touch to get her feeling relaxed in her body again so you can take her into higher states of arousal. See how ero@c you can make her neck massage.
Hair Stroke
Some women have very “styled” hair and don’t like their hair messed up. If that’s the case, just take a lock of hair and play with it between your fingers. You can also enjoy the fragrance of her hair simply by taking in the smell. Most women love their hair touched, stroked and even brushed.
If she’s open to you touching her hair, start with the flat of your palm near the crown of her head and stroke down.
Do this just once to start. If her body responds nicely, you may want to give her a series of 2-‐3 strokes when you’re sidng next to her.
As with all hair, stroking down, with the nap, instead of against it, is most erogenous.
The Small of Her Back
This is a major touch technique. By pudng your hand on the small of her back, you are “claiming her.” You can guide her through a door or gently move her body from one place to another with your hand. This is one of those tricks that really works to get a woman turned on. It’s very
“caveman” -‐ very masculine for you to lead her or guide her.
Put a firm hand on the small of her back whenever the opportunity presents itself. Gedng doors for her is both sexy and gives you the chance to guide her by the lower back.
Wrist Circling
Idly circle and then pump your fingers around her wrist. Do it without looking like you are even paying aNen@on. Perhaps while you’re driving, or sidng next to her in bed or on the couch, you can circle her wrist and give her a few pumps. This sends electrical signals through her nerves that get her body feeling your masculine strength. Hand Pumps
Hold her hand in yours, fingers entwined or her hand res@ng in yours with both your palm and hers together. Pump her hand with yours by squeezing lightly and rhythmically. Pulsing will arouse her body because this ac@on mirrors a series of orgasmic contrac@ons. This is one of the most stealth touch tricks for arousal. Ancient Chinese sexual masters say pumping your woman’s hand can increase her desire by 4X.
Hand-‐holding in general is a very sexual experience for a woman. First, it makes her feel feminine and perceive you as more masculine. That creates magne@sm that enhances her natural arousal systems.
One way to 4X her turn-‐on is to hold her hand behind her, pressed against the small of her back while you pump it. When you do this around other people but don’t let anyone see, it’s even more arousing for her. The secret squeeze is highly ero@c.
Knee and Thigh Pressure
Similar to claiming her when you put your hand on the small of her back and guide her, res@ng your hand protec@vely on her knee or the top of her thigh will be a turn on for her body. This gesture says, “You are my woman.” Very ero@c.
Give her knee a liNle squeeze before you release. Foot Rubs
If you only knew how much tension a foot rub releases for a woman, you’d be grabbing her feet all the @me! How can she get aroused if her feet hurt?
A great way to be “stealth” about foot rubs are to sit down beside her when she’s watching TV or talking on the phone and just pick up a foot and start playing with it. Remember to touch her for rapture, not effect. Enjoy feeling her feet and think about how sexy she is as you do it. Her body will get your message.
Once you’ve condi@oned her to enjoy these touches from you, it’s @me to move into more ero@c and sexual touch.
The perfect bridge from stealth touch to outright physical seduc@on is this hug. I call it, “The Best Hug In The World,” because it pulls you two together into a state of pure contentment.
This hug will ground her and let her release her anxiety. This hug will make her want you to be close.
Give her “The Best Hug In The World”
Try this with your lady when you are lying in bed or on the sofa together.
“I never thought about how I hugged my woman.
Thanks for these specific instruc<ons. I posted them on my mirror.”
— Ma@ D.
Hold her @ght, with both of your arms wrapped around her, securely anchoring her.
Pull her close to you — abdomen to abdomen, heart to heart — and then hold her.
Don’t hold her too @ght, but hold her @ght enough that when she relaxes, she can feel that you really have her safe.
Don’t let go.
Ask her to relax fully in your arms.
Tell her you are not going to let go un@l she asks you to. Ask her to relax for you again.
Tell her you love her. Tell her she’s your precious angel.
Tell her you are so glad you are sharing your life with her. Tell her whatever is real for you.
As she relaxes, remind her that you’ve got her, and squeeze her just a liNle more @ghtly.
Keep a medium and constant amount pressure on her everywhere your body is touching hers.
Don’t let go. Don’t release her. Don’t open your arms.
Encourage her to feel you holding her.
Whisper in her ear in a low, soothing voice your request that she allow herself to relax and feel held by you.
As she relaxes, just keep holding her. Ask her to relax.
Ask her to just let it all go.
And no maNer what you do, do not ease up on the sweet embrace un@l she asks you to.
This strong, solid, long hug may be the best she’s ever goNen.
Because here’s what happens in most hugs. The minute she relaxes, he thinks it’s a signal to let go.
Don’t let go. Just let her melt in your arms.
And as you’re holding her, think about how much you love this sassy, sweet, delicate, kick-‐buN creature.
And fill her with love and affec@on. Breathe with her.
Match her breath and then slowly deepen your breaths and “breathe her.” Set the pace of the breathing so her breath slows and deepens and your hearts beat as one.
If you do this correctly, she may be able to truly let go for the first @me in her life and completely relax.
You get bonus points if she drools a liNle.
This “reboot” will relax her almost as well as an orgasm.
And once she’s this relaxed, her orgasms will be the best you’ve ever given her. Feel free to give her plenty of instruc@on before you start, so she knows you will not let go.
So she knows you are encouraging her to feel really held by her man. Now that is MANLY.
I’m a testimony to this hug. I love hugging my woman. It
worked every time, feeling her breathing next to me. Not
letting go and whispering in her ear was magic. . . So it truly
works. — Sugarfoot
I now know they were begging me to do exactly what you
described! — Pete
Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic
Once she’s leaning in to have more touch you can begin giving her roman@c experiences that will further arouse her body. Anything that uses her sense of smell, vision, touch or hearing are the best kind of roman@c gestures to create more in@mate connec@on. Here are some easy ideas that will arouse her further:
1. Put on music at home or sing along with her in the car.
2. Create a magical feeling in your bedroom with soS ligh@ng and just the right temperature for her and then hold her and hug her without asking for more. 3. Take a bath together, go swimming or get in a hot tub.
4. Give her flowers that smell good, perfume she loves, a soS and sweetly sensual nigh@e for bed (or even lingerie if she’s the kind of woman who would
appreciate it.)
5. Feed her gourmet chocolate with her eyes closed.
The ONE Place To Touch Her
Congratula@ons! Now you have not just one, but TEN places to touch and arouse your lady. Keep your pace steady and try them all. Remember that you do not want to get a reac@on at first. Touch her for rapture, not for effect -‐ like you would touch her solely for your own pleasure. And finally, pay aNen@on to the way you approach her before you touch her.
No@ce her biofeedback. What is her body telling you? Keep a keen eye and you’ll begin to escalate from there.
You’ve taken the first step to re-‐create spontaneous, wild and passionate sex with your lady. I’m proud of you for being the kind of man that wants to pleasure his woman and is willing to take the @me to unlock her libido.
I wish you both much pleasure.
Email me any@me you have ques@ons. susan@personallifemedia.com
Warmly,
Susan Bratton CEO
Personal Life Media, Inc. Creator of Revive Her Drive
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