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IMANY S DREAM

To you my child, …

My godchild, …

My sister, …

In this guide, the traveler, after going through the first leg of her journey, herself being in the growth process, transmits to her future children, her godchildren and younger siblings, what she has received from "Life".

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FIRST LETTER

I would like you to know that you are “Unique” and you have qualities that are unique to you.

I invite you as I often do with the young people that I coach to discover today the quality that makes you unique. Once you have identified this quality, lean on it for all the circumstances of your life.

Indeed, this quality would help you to get out of hardships, it will enable you to keep your balance, and to reach your journey.

Everyone has on the inside of him, the necessary ingredient to succeed his journey, but first you have to find it out before you hit the road! This

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SECOND LETTER

It will not always be easy to live in brotherhood, frictions may happen. There will also be moments of great joy, perhaps moments of silence but always see your siblings as the first gift you have received from Life which will lead you to who you’re supposed to be.

Show respect and love to your siblings, but follow your own path at the end of the day because it's your journey and you alone are able to live it.

Take actions when you feel it is the path you need to take in order to reach your destiny. Never do anything just to imitate someone, out of comparison, fear or because you want to please others, but do things only out of

conviction.

Never feel guilty about being yourself, you will never be able to justify the way you are. You simply have to live the closest possible to your being. If it happens that you have to justify your difference from another sibling, the only answer that comes to mind is "because I am me"!

You should also learn to respect how the other is different from you, because they have their own essence, and if possible, enrich one another by learning from your differences!

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THIRD LETTER

Have you ever thought about what you would like to do in the future? You would be surprised but this question will resound in your head from when you are 12 to over 40 years old because one can learn at any age, and we renew ourselves through different seasons of life. Before choosing a training, it is important to make your own skills assessment in order to know your strengths and weaknesses but also it is essential to know your ideal! If you choose a training that leads to the prestige of a position or the

financial gain, you will be lost very quickly as time goes by. Never lose sight of your ideal, it will give you the right orientation for the trainings that will be useful for you to reach your destination. Beyond looks and judgments, make choices you strongly believe in. More than the quest for recognition, seek to be in harmony with your being.

Your identity and that of others are not related to training, your identity is rather linked to your own essence. Whenever you feel the need to learn something new, do it! Knowledge will give you a better understanding of the journey. Knowledge is never useless. During the journey, you will realize the importance of every little knowledge and you will realize how they all overlap to enable you to reach your ideal.

From today, determine what are your talents, as they will help you to be in harmony with your being in addition to the job you have chosen! Who knows, one day, your talent and your job might become “one "or simply

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FOURTH LETTER

I would like to tell you to never be afraid of stepping out of your comfort zone, of getting out of your own way in order to explore new paths.

You may be surprised by the challenges that you will have to take up and that will enable you to know your being even more.

These unexpected and unplanned situations will help you to discover what is hidden in the inside of you and you would learn more about yourself.

By being discrete, you would also be able to manage certain situations in serenity and find the best solutions to take, the best paths to use.

But discretion does not mean isolation, on the contrary, you will have to stay open in order to discern all that life sends you as an opportunity through others; you will have to learn to listen to your inner voice which usually arises in quietness and moments of silence.

This inner voice will help you and show you who you should open to in order to know the direction to follow during this time of your journey.

If you listen to your inner voice, you would get so much assurance, that you will not have to seek anyone’s approval before acting.

Here is a little anecdote to tell you more about the qualities that can be discovered once you step outside your comfort zone:

“A young woman was left alone, homeless and unemployed in a country which language she did not know, nor did she know the customs. In order to get by, she realized that in her luggage she had two ingredients called

"sociability" and "resourcefulness".

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Since then, she has incorporated these ingredients in her luggage and they serve her throughout the journey.”

I wish you to have moments of conversations with yourself!

FIFTH LETTER

It is important to choose your travelling companions; but this does not mean that you have to classify people. Do not close yourself to the people you will meet on your way, each of them can teach you useful things for your

journey.

I would like to tell you that you must choose the people that are dear to you. It will be easier for you to move forward in life with people who share the same values and ideals as you, otherwise you risk spending your time justifying your values as well as your vision.

Of course you can share with people who have a different vision and

different values. But as long as this is done with respect and as long as they do not make you go off track on your journey.

Some of the people that would come your way will be sent by Life just to test your patience, others to teach you simplicity, and some to teach you to forgive, share, assert yourself, and to even teach you how to say no.

Thank Life for all these encounters and only keep the positive side of each of them. Even if on the way, you no longer see certain people who have

traveled a part of the journey with you, nothing stops you from sending them Love!

This way, you would have kept all these beautiful encounters in your heart. Some encounters may appear as negative but if you read the message that Life wants to convey to you, you would realize that you can actually turn a negative event into something positive.

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SIXTH LETTER

Love is one of the greatest gifts to human beings. I wish you to encounter Love in your life. If I had to tell you about Love, I would say that Love is what enables you to become the real you. Love comes your way to help you

awaken what was still dormant in you.

But beware, Love is complementary to your being, it is not the role of Love to awaken everything in you! When I think about Love, I imagine a person building a puzzle; this person can have all the pieces to complete the puzzle but once they find Love, it becomes the masterpiece which makes it possible to link all the other pieces in order to complete the puzzle.

I wish you to experience Love when you already know yourself enough so as not to lose yourself in the Other. I am convinced that there is love which matches every type of person. So you will not be able to experience the Love of someone else, because your story will be unique and special.

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SEVENTH LETTER

Have you ever thought about what really fascinates you?

If one day, you no longer feel happy with the job you do, think about what keeps you there?

It is possible to consider being happy by combining passion and work and then, let Life surprise you...

I wish you to be happy and continue to pursue your dream, but above all, be in one accord with your being.

The world is moving forward, things are changing; do not lock yourself in a situation as long as you're not satisfied, keep searching, do not stop

searching until you find what is suitable for you and makes you feel at peace with yourself.

Some external voices may try to persuade you to stop your quest but keep listening to your inner voice which would be your best counsellor.

The road may be long but all the paths you take during your quest would bring you keys opening the right doors so as to finally reach your own door. I wish you to find yourself and to choose a professional lifestyle that suits you beyond appearances and the desire to be seen.

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EIGHTH LETTER

Life is not easy, I realized it only after I reached adulthood but I think it's important to be aware of it during adolescence too. Understanding that Life is not easy makes one to prepare better in order to face it.

Although they are not easy to bear, the difficult situations of life enable us to learn lessons that make us live through them and actually enjoy life.

Let me tell you about the story of this young lady who had just missed a year of college because she had plenty of expenses to cover and therefore could not pay her college tuitions. She wondered what she would do during all that free time, so she started paying attention to the fact that every time she had an accommodation, it was near a church.

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I wish you to draw from yourself and from your internal resources, the ingredients that will allow you to overcome difficulties.

I wish you to have enough humility to let Life teach you and actually understand and integrate the lessons that you receive.

I wish you to have places where you can relax yourself in quietness, take strolls in the nature, in order to appease your soul and stand firm in times of turmoil.

Finally, I wish you to open your arms when life situations push you to rejection, to open your hands when you feel Life is no longer giving you. I have so many wishes for you, I will summarize them by wishing you to live every moment and to not be defeated in front of trials!

NINTH LETTER

I wish you to be more realistic than me but to have dreams! There is no age to dream, whether big and small, dreams keep us awake!

Dream, but do not forget to live...

I invite you to take a notebook and write down your dreams, so much so that when Life would become too monotonous, you would open your notebook, remember your dreams and try to live them.

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TENTH LETTER

I learned the hard way that you cannot control your life, but you try to give it a trajectory and you have to adapt to what Life gives you each day without leaving your path.

I mean, Life will take you through different roads you did not plan to use, but keep in mind the destination you want to reach.

So I learned to take a break, to stay calm, to live day by day and to believe that beauty is in the surprises of Life.

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