you will be blamed for the mistake, not Them.
Let's talk about it in terms of attraction. Attraction comes down que to know someone is Attracted to you - the goal is not
you feel attractive all the time. While this is
importantly, the ultimate goal of attraction will never be Achieved until the woman is That You are interested Attracted by
You. The reason you need to use to build Their BL
attraction is que BL subconsciously creates attraction. Attraction pierces your subconscious and conscious brain will
straight to the emotional part of it. If you feel the that is drawn, then it will soon be.
We humans begin to learn how to read BL yet the children. We have not developed a mind strong at que conscious acts, so most things Within our learned que matures mind
unconscious. unconscious The mind is the part of home your emotional brain. que This means When You is talking to a woman using the BL, you can cause her emotions. This ability is more powerful
que cause simple logical answer, because attraction is based on emotions.
Humans are experts When It Comes To BL, then it is always good que the messages your body sends are honest about your feelings. If They are not - if
your body says one thing and your mouth says another - you APPEAR incongruity.
Page 100 There are two schools of thought discussing
interaction of the body with the emotions, the two see the study of NLP. que I believe both are effective. Of
According to the first, your body is influenced by Their emotions. If you control your mind, or the mind of
someone, the body will respond in a Manner Consistent to with emotions que he witnesses. When you are in
natural to always look at the ground, Avoiding eye contact and be sloppy.
The second school of thought goes against the idea of First, if you lead the body, the mind will follow. That That means if you control one's body in the
Somehow, the person's body will adapt to it. que In case, if you are in the same bad mood, conscious and leaving her shoulders in a better posture, taking
his eyes from the floor and making eye contact with the people, you will feel better.
Learn how to control your own body is a skill invaluable. If you use the dominant BL, you feel more dominant. If you use the BL submissive, you feel more submissive. Why your logical brain and Emotional does not work very well together, you can When your body control it is very emotional for Also control your mind and the opposite, you can control your mind if you find you can not
control her body. You must learn to handle the independently of the other two then When You
Page 101 losing control in one, you can use the other to be
Prevent end screwing Their social situation.
BL can be daunting because it is a huge subject and may seem like an ambiguous concept, so I'll
share it into two categories for you. If you
understand how to read both of these categories, you will be able to read someone's mind. You know how the person feels and why she feels That way, even
They know neither que Themselves.
The first category is context - the context this que . in the message The second category is content - that . really means message Here's an example: if
someone react negatively every time you say the specific word, you know it is the word that is
Causing this negative reaction. The negative reaction is being content and When is it Occurs
with the context. que The knowledge tells you there may be insecurity or some kind of negative association with
the word.
You can Also be used to determine the content
if the person is submissive or dominant. If They are you crisp passing messages of power, then They are (or
at least want to be) owners BLs dominant. If They Constantly you send messages to you que que indicar They are weak or smaller, They tell you They are either want to be submissive. Read the content and context for make sure and get a note if They are unsecured or Competent.
Page 102 Personally, I've caught myself looking for a woman
confidante and submissive (not conditional, but submissive - There is a big difference!.) She was looking for
a confident and dominant (but not domineering!) face. We were both looking for specific features
potential partners, so I had to make sure
que was confident and would spend this message Clearly to others. Whenever I
Could show the woman that i was dominant not domineering, I was able to build strong
connections and create the level of attraction I had in mind So how to read the BL? Here are some techniques you internalize will need to be a super fuck reader and BL use your own in your behalf
First thing: I fraciono BL in four categories. The
categories are door Access View, Walking, Sitting and Talking. The most basic situation for BL sends signals que Indicate submission or dominance. Decide Which type of Attract woman you want to, because you need to use the BL to show you is the opposite of it. If you show
Their submissive to BL, you will probably Attract women dominant. If you show dominance, probably
eventually attracting submissive. From the moment you Believes que, its natural state is usually this.
Typically, if you are playing the gender male, you need to present dominant BL. Not
confuse "dominant" with "domineering" or "aggressive" - one has nothing to do with each other. Since most,
Page 103 if not all, have in mind to interpret the genre
male, so I'll just focus on que until the end of chapter.
Let's start with the door Access Vision. That first part is summed up in the very way you need
Indicates that you are Accessing different parts of your brain. Much can be said about this, but I just
I will address the three main directions in my opinion are why I think you should know and interpret. Also We will talk about the combinations Them, and a well known trigger que you can use to cause a girl to kiss you or perform When
Someone wants to kiss you.
Before we delve into this subject further, I need que warn you occasionally women can
disapprove and this is called Access Lane Reversal Vision, However this is not an exact science. 've seen some instructors teach the very intelligent NLP
opposite of what I'm about to teach you here, so it important That You test each of Track Access Vision que each has. You can do this with questions
Certain type to get specific answers and then examine Which direction the person Focuses.
In general, the person who is looking to the left, is
Accessing the creative side (or "conceptual") of the brain and the person who is looking to right are Accessing
memories. que Note I said about right and
Page 104 Their left, not yours. You must learn to read access
view of the slopes backwards. The right one is a left and vice versa.
Many people think que if the person is always looking in the same direction, she is lying, but que does not matter. You can not determine if someone is lying or not just because the person is Accessing the side creative and conceptual brain. All of this particle
visual moment que means is this person is going By That Time the process of creativity.
Let's move on to the next directions:
up and down. frenquetemente Looking up with That means the person is Accessing the visual side brain. In other words, she's visualizing something. Not Whatever it is - colors, words, pictures - you can classify this person as a visual thinker. Look at Below is related to access to emotions, so it is vital to be able to tell When one looks far to low interaction. When you notice that is happening, you know que person has the
emotional attachment to everything you speak (or more Specifically, They all think.) You can tell
something like "I really like the Rolling Stones" and the woman you are chatting with may think her father
you used to listen to the Rolling Stones When She Was a child. This leads us to access combinations of visual clues. The
Which means if she look up and to the left? In
theory, if it has regular access to the slopes of view, it
Page 105 access the visual / conceptual brain. que This means it
're Viewing Something That Could probably never . before One way to test this is to ask her:
"What color is the house lived That You When You were little?" That question will result in one of two situations: either
you might notice que she looks up and tries to remember color of the house, or she can look down to associate emotions que house. Independent of the way she looks, if you look slightly to the right, it means the que point of her memory is on the right. What if instead she looks to the left, it may mean que she uses hand
creative brain to trigger the memory.
Some people are very similar to slot machines slots, since They use the creative brain to wander among the different options que They imagine to find the right person who engatilhe memory or an emotional response. Then They use this option to remember what color the house. People do it
Often When You are trying to remember things passed at a good time.
This tactic is not 100% accurate, but it is a method That You can use to determine Which direction the woman uses to the various visual clues access. To be more need, you
can ask the question: "Do you remember what color were the walls of your room? "If she look in the same direction
again, you can be reasonably confident que this direction is That It uses to remember.
Page 106 There are other visual cues que follow the standard access
logical. And then look up to the right Indicates that person is using your visual memory and look down and Indicates that it is left Accessing the brain
or afraid to feel anything. The last
combination is looking down and to the right, Which Indicates emotional memory. This is a super powerful trigger because Indicates that you are dealing with something the person is que emotionally attached.
Being able to elicit emotional responses will ask you if feel very powerful, but it's not abuse! 'll Ever
Become a Badass with las chicas if you are always trying to make Them feel emotional. Success is not so simple. If it were, I would not be writing this book! A productive way to use this skill is to examine runway visual access of women and determine if it is being associated with you emotionally. For example, the One of the biggest indicators que someone wants to kiss you is the combination of visual cues to access call
triangulation. Triangulation, as you may already have guessed, is a combination of three movements of the eye. When the late stage of rapport, you may
Notice that the woman is staring at his lips the
you speak. Look at his mouth will make Accessing emotions, and Those emotions then associate with collegues look at your
mouth. Often, she'll look up
consciously try to avoid looking desperate, and
Page 107 will then focus on his eyes. Looking for an eye and then
to another will cause her to feel burdened by emotions, so she reverts to her look and her mouth then repeat the process. switch these steps results in triangular pattern.
When You See That this is happening to the girl, you must immediately unless pro from KC
more important than any other circumstance Prevents you (Like When it happens to a friend of his girlfriend!). If wondering what to say and how pro from kissing? The best way to get in my opinion is to be direct. Tell '
her "Okay." When she asks: "Okay what?" say: "You can kiss me, I also want to relax."
This has been one of the most phenomenal sentences I have ever I used. Whenever I get the first triangulation of the
woman, I say this phrase and roughly 80% of Them myself Kiss in the act. When I started, only 20% responded
with a kiss, so I kept changing my practice and methods until I received a positive response of 30%.
So I persisted a little longer and turned 30 in
50%, then eventually I was able to optimize the sentence to she stays que way.
The reason this works is due to the fact of giving acceptance to woman show her que I'm also interested.
Saying, "Okay, I want to kiss you" of you
feel better and away from the Possibility of rejection. Rejection is the biggest fear of all, in the matter if you are man or woman, so it is important to make the
Page 108 person feel stabilized with you. If you Eliminate this
fear, then you will Eliminate many of hesitation she might have to kiss you. This is a simple technique amazing and powerful.
Here's another concept that i want to play this
jumble: the difference between positive and negative BL? They depend on the direction you're looking. If you
're Staring at the woman directly, you are showing BL is the que positive reward for something she did.
Playing with the combination of positive and negative BL you lets look interested while you're
free from the appearance of need.
Most of all This should happen at the stage of
attraction. At the beginning of the interaction with a girl, you not the must face her directly. If your body is
completely turned toward her, the design you
picture of grace and she will feel as if he had nothing Attract special to you, because you do it with any
another to give you space. There are many theories to avoid this. You face and then look at something else? turn You your back? You stand aside and look over your
shoulders? Keep this default rule, the approximation More effective is to make a positive impact BL logo
beginning of the interaction and then immediately withdraw the BL. Lean quickly or just turn the other way one
bit. que Make sure you are moving with the legs, not with your top of the body, or you
look like a chickenshit who is afraid to take a slap in the
Page 109 face! You can not rush or recede
while talking. If you want to project a negative BL, lean on your walking brings. Now if you want
project a positive BL, put your whole weight on the foot of front.
Another massive difference between positive and negative BL is position of the shoulders. Women are able to identify and
interpret the male posturing just to repair the
que direction your shoulders are in a way much more faster than you. So you must always be
changing it. Roughly once every ten or twenty seconds you must move your shoulders, just a little, That way you not deliver the BL of her positive free. You Should Also keep your eye out of touch When she is showing her shoulders for you. If she you begin to face With Their lips, feet and face - Especially if she is with loose hands, arms
relaxed and create a direct physical connection communication between her chest and her - she's giving you indicators
Super strong interest. This is key if you are
wanting to build attraction. guys Many overlook this and end up losing great opportunities!
BL BL dominant and submissive are simple things: a person dominant conquers space that is just for your
way, and a submissive person tries at every moment
decrease the point of wanting to disappear. que It is very important you keep the default to show the two types of BL
to the girl When she gives you the first positive signs
Page 110 because as I said before, show a lot of interest as soon
man will imprison you in the friendship zone. From now on, I'll teach you a little about how walk, sit and talk of dominant way of an air te
confidence and attraction without making seem forced. Many guys fuck this part because They feel dominant
When You suckers are actually going through. You
can generate attraction for being a sucker, because it means que you are not a nerd retracted bananão - women today
day are so desperate for attractive men and
confident que end up associating with idiots only by collegues They are not bananas - but this is far from optimal path.
Let's start by Walking. I made it clear in chapter 4
(The System) que the first stage is the stage of Attraction Presentation. Presentation happens When a woman you note, When You start talking, then it is
Likely que your first experience with it will come through his walk, the way you sit or
remains standing. The way you walk, sit or stay, influence the attraction que she can come to feel. To walk in a confident and dominating way, there three key items you need to keep in mind. The first is to walk in stride. strides and Well keep it up. The goal is to make you reach your destination with the fewest possible steps. If you gives short steps, you send a subconscious message That You are the type of man who leaves his fears
Page 111 take charge of your life. 's not You give more strides
Why They Can Be risky and You Could end
falling, right? A person who is afraid of falling is actually the person who fears the humiliation They are not
fully confident. A woman does not feel safe beside her if she sees you walk in short steps. If you are not able to trust yourself, why she would?
The proper way is to walk you extend your
leg until your heels touch the ground. heel Should Your
always touch the ground before his fingers. And without appearing to you're marching, let your foot touch the ground
Whenever fully They Walk. Be sure to give the second step. You can make mistakes, you can even