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Chapter 5: The 4 Seducer’s Tests to Know When She’s Ready

Like in any important project or undertaking, certain measures or parameters have to be checked and met first before you can progress to the next level. Just like how Viagra went through several clinical trials first before it finally got the nod from the Food & Drug Administration (FDA) allowing Pfizer to sell it to the public.

In the context of dating, you simply cannot go from introducing yourself to a girl to suddenly holding her hand (or any similar sort of physical interaction) and inviting her back to your place.

Rather, as clinical sounding as it may be, your interaction with your date must first fulfill all the mandatory elements of several phases before you are able to move on to the next level.

Compliance testing has four levels, and although they’re all different, there are some instances where the line between two compliance levels will blurr a bit and overlap so you have to keep an eye out for that and not misinterpret the results. Also, with compliance testing, it’s not just one test but a series of tests that will give you an indication of when she is ready to be kissed.

The Seducer’s Secret: Compliance Testing

While the very idea might seem out of place when it comes to seducing women, seduction and compliance testing complement each other very well. These tests are the secret that seducers use to know what to do and when to do it.

The compliance tests that will tell you when she is ready to be kissed mainly lie in attraction compliance testing. I could stop at teaching you attraction compliance testing and be done, but I want to give you a full understanding of the power of compliance testing and how you can use it throughout the whole interaction from meeting her to beginning a romantic relationship with her.

The compliance tests are designed to build on one another. If she won’t comply with the lower level compliance tests, it’s safe to say that there is very little chance she will comply with the higher level tests. Basically, what that means is, if she won’t shake your hand, then you can

hardly expect her to give you a hug. Most of these tests are done intentionally. But there are many situational tests that will give you just as useful feedback to gauge her kissability level.

For instance, you tell her that you’re going to the bar to get a drink… as you start walking away, she grabs your hand and follows you towards the bar. That’s a high indication of interest and it came from a situational test that was somewhat unintentional.

As you get familiar with these tests, you will gather feedback from these situations to measure her kissability in addition to the standard intentional compliance testing. It sounds complicated but once we get to the examples, it’ll be pretty easy to understand. After I show you all the compliance tests, I will show you a real life example of how all these tests are applied throughout the whole interaction from start to kiss.

It is pretty easy to know her intentions when she blatantly tells you that she likes you or she wants to go home with you. Those signs are signs are obvious. But for the most part, women are very subtle with their signs and communication. The beauty of these compliance tests is that they allow you to understand the subtle female language. Understanding these compliance tests will make her subtle signs as obvious to you as if she were to directly ask you to go back to her place. It will give you the “green light goggles” so that you can see your opportunities to move forward.

I sam pretty sure you get the picture and the importance of these compliance tests. But to ensure you to truly understand the power of these tests and the amazing benefits, I am going to drill it in your head some more by relating it to flying an airplane. There is this pilot test called

“Instrument Rated”. It’s a certification that verifies you know how to fly a plane when there is zero visibility, relying solely on the instruments. A lot of plane crashes happen in bad visability situations because the pilot gets disoriented or confused and makes the wrong move. If he fully understood the flying instruments and what they were telling him there would be no confusion or disorientation and the right steps could be taken to avoid disaster. This inability to understand what his instruments or ‘tests’ are saying will lead injuries and death, and in the case of your relationship… you get the picture.

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In relation to women, we have been brainwashed by society and the media. It’s no wonder the inexperienced have no direction or idea on where to go or even where to start. Think of compliance testing as your flying instruments to courting women. They will tell you when you are going too fast, going too slow or even if you are going backwards. Each compliance test that you use will be like one of your many instruments. The results of the test will allow you to gauge whether or not she is interested, she wants to kiss you, or even if she wants to go home with you… or more.

Each test will give you results and you can then interpret those results for a better understanding of what’s going on. Once you have an understanding of what’s happening, it will tell you what you need to do to win the women’s heart even when you can’t see where you stand. That’s the true power of compliance testing.

Guided trial and error will be the best way for you to internalize these tests. This book will be your guide, but you do have to make an effort to learn through trial and error. It is only with experience that you will internalize the meaning behind each compliance test.

All of these tests are done subconsciously between two people as a part of regular interaction.

Knowing what’s happening will give you a heightened sense of awareness of when to kiss the girl or where you went wrong. It may take some time to master, but once you understand how to interpret her responses to the tests, and how these tests relate to each other, you will know exactly when to navigate her lips directly to yours and never fear being turned down for a kiss again!

General Compliance Testing

General compliance tests are mainly designed for approaching and meeting women. These tests are used to gauge how interested she is in getting to know you. Although you probably wouldn’t use these general compliance tests when you are at the stage of kissing the girl, I want to explain these so you can see the full spectrum of compliance testing in action from first meeting to having a sexual relationship.

In its simplest form, general compliance deals with you being able to solicit a positive response from women. The more she complies with these General Compliance Tests, the higher the chances she is interested in getting to know you. It could be as simple and as you asking for the time and they comply by answering.

General compliance tests are the most basic and the lowest level of all compliance tests but are required to proceed to the next levels. By no means does her compliance to these tests indicate she is fully attracted to you. Use these tests to know what her level of attraction to you is. What I mean by this is, if you can’t get her to say “Hi”, there is no way she will want to introduce herself. If she doesn’t comply with these general compliance tests, then you are in serious trouble.

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And as an added note – and you know I shouldn’t be telling you this because it’s quite obvious – appearances do matter a lot. Again, you don’t have to have good looks or lots of money to be successful with women. But, being well-groomed and well-dressed will create instant interest and present yourself as man of confidence. You can hardly expect a woman to give you the time of the day if you look shabby or you smell bad, just as you’d hardly notice a bum off of the street asking you for some change. If you can’t take care of yourself, how are you going to treat a woman? Oh, and since you do plan on getting physically intimate, clean teeth, fresh-smelling breath and neatly-trimmed fingernails would be good too.

If you need help with fashion go to a men’s clothing store in the mall, find a cute friendly girl you wouldn’t mind getting to know and tell her that you are doing a fashion makeover and want some help finding some new clothes. Women love fashion and shopping for other people. Who knows, by the time she is done helping you play dress up, you might get a date out of it. Oh, by the way, if you get a date out of this, I charge a finders fee! ☺

Why would she not acknowledge me?

If a woman fails these initial general compliance tests, she is simply not acknowledging you.

Why not? Picture a beggar off of the streets approaching you. Would you want to even make eye contact or engage in a conversation with him? You probably don’t because you assume he’s going to want something from you. Imagine yourself window shopping at a used car lot. If the salesman, as friendly looking as he may be, tries to greet you and steal your attention, would you even want to greet him back or much less acknowledge him?

Why is this? It’s because these people are trying to get something from you, regardless of what they are trying to get – be it food, money or some other hidden agenda. It’s the same way with women. Walking up to talk to her at a club after she has been approached improperly by dozens of horny men, she thinks that your agenda is the same as all the other guys - sex. She doesn’t want to be an object and this hap hazard approach may lead to her giving you a cold response, or worse, a slap on the face if you are too aggressive. Your approach is the key to get her to pass the initial compliance tests.

General compliance tests will also help you pre-screen the girls that are too much into themselves or who are social retards. I personally feel that if a girl can’t be friendly and at a minimum have a level of social etiquette, I don’t want anything to do with her. She might be having a bad day or have been hit on by a 100 guys already and wants to be left alone… but she’s still here and is looking for something. Reluctance is understandable and I usually plow through to ensure her that I’m just there to make her feel better.

If your approach is done properly, she will never blow you off or be rude. But if you feel that your approach wasn’t done properly, then it might be a good idea to move on and approach someone else.

My experience has led me to believe that the girls who can’t be friendly have serious self-esteem issues and will drain you of your energy and emotions if you let them. I also want to add my personal rule to meeting not only women but people in general;

“I am someone of value and am a value giver. I bring positive energy and leave everyone better than I found them. If someone does not recognize and see that, then it will be their loss. And if they can’t be friendly, positive and have a sense of humor, I don’t want them in my life.”

It will take experience and micro-calibration to see if she is having a bad day or if she is an overall negative person. But once you understand this, you will know how to deal with the situation accordingly and not be fazed if she blows you off.

These general compliance tests are great for gauging the interest level of someone you want to meet. If you are already on a date with a girl you’ve met, then you have more than just a general level of compliance with her. You have at least piqued her interest since she is willing to spend time with you, and that’s an indicator of interest which will be discussed later on.

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There are many resources on approaching women and if you are having trouble in this area I encourage you to visit my resources website on approaching and attracting women at http://www.SeduceHerSecrects/attraction

General Compliance Test Examples

Below are some compliance test examples for you to intentionally use to see if the girl is friendly and receptive to your presence.

General Compliance Tests Explanation of Tests

Say “hi” to her and smile See if she responds and smile back. If she ignores you even if you know that she heard you, it’s usually a bad sign. She might be distracted or just doesn’t want to meet you.

Ask her for the time If she replies, it shows that she has at least complied with your minimal request. If she doesn’t comply with this minimum social etiquette request, you are in trouble.

Ask her for her name If she responds, then it shows she is receptive to meeting you. Follow that up by asking slightly personal questions from her like where she came from, etc.

Reach out your hand and see if she takes it If she takes it and shakes your hand after you greet her, you have minimum general compliance with her so you can proceed to the next test.

Deciphering the General Compliance Indicators

Below are example General Compliance Indicators that will show you her subtle responses to see if she welcomes you.

General Compliance Indicators Explanation of Results

She greets you back If you don’t get this response, it’s either she didn’t hear you or your presence is not welcomed. Either way, it might be a good idea to find someone else.

After introduction, take her hand after the hand shake, pull it up towards your mouth and kiss her.

Could come off as cheesy but some women like it. If she lets you kiss her hand it’s a good sign that she is open to meeting you.

She doesn’t blow you off or ignore you A good indicator above all of these general compliance tests is that if she is still

involved in a conversation with you, then it’s a good sign you are still floating above waters and that you still have a chance to create some interest in here. If she does blow you off, then work on your approach and try again on someone else.

She responds to small requests Asking for the time or passing a napkin shows that she doesn’t have any

reservations or issues in your presence.

She responds to your questions whole heartedly

If she is responding to your questions, then it’s a good sign that she is not repulsed by you. Keep talking to her and keep the questions open-ended to see if she is willing to add to the conversation.

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Interest Compliance Testing

Alright, so you managed to introduce yourself to the woman you’ve been eyeing for some time and you’re now engaged in some form of small talk with her. That’s all well and good but that doesn’t mean you can get your hopes up already, that just might be the only thing you’re having – small talk with absolutely no meaning or substance whatsoever.

But if a woman’s genuinely interested or at least showing some remote interest in you, she’ll be asking you questions that are relevant to her finding out who YOU are. Instead of asking questions that can simply be answered by a “Yes” or “No”, she’d ask you questions that have follow-up questions, so she can get to know you better and gain a better insight about you as a person or, perhaps, even as a potential mate. It shows that she is making an effort to try to get to know you. The same can be said on how she responds to your actions and suggestions. If you suggest something to her and she readily complies, then you know she’s interested in you to some degree.

When you look at the big picture, the fun starts with interest compliance tests because this provides you with invaluable feedback for you to find out if she’s interested in developing a relationship, or if she’s just interested in being your friend. If you execute these tests properly, you’ll be able to find out if she’s worth your time and attention or, if it’s better to cut your losses as quick as possible and move on to another potential date.

The tests in this section will measure her interest compliance level to see if she has any interest in you whatsoever. If she passes the series of tests in this section you know she has interest you.

At that point, you can get her phone number and get her out on a date. Remember, just because she is going out with you doesn’t mean she is attracted to you. All the interest compliance test indicates is that you have managed to peak her curiosity so she will be willing to get to know you a little more.

Interest Compliance Test Examples

Below are some interest compliance test examples for you to intentionally use to see if the girl is interested in you.

Interest Compliance Tests Explanation of Tests

In document SeduceHer Kissing Secrets eBook (Page 29-59)