Have you ever paused and took notice that men in this world especially, in our western society are becoming more and more like women?
Men in ancient times were responsible for hunting and
warfare and the separation of the roles of sexes were very clear.
Women did the house duties whilst men did the dirty work outside.
But ever since our society has become more and more civilized, with less of a requirement and emphasis on manual labour, the value of male traits have also dwindled.
It used to be a good thing to be active and running around the house as a child.
I mean causing trouble and grief to your parents used to be seen as a badge of honor for a child.
However, nowadays this is totally different. In our modern times, if you are a little more hyperactive than other kids, then there are whispers that perhaps you need to become medicated for your “out of control behaviour”.
Male aggression and other “dominant” characteristics that men posses are also constantly portrayed in a negative light by the media.
Love movies today falsely create an atmosphere that give men the wrong impression that they need to bear out their hearts and shower women with flowers and gifts in order to attract them.
I mean, even the movie, Hitch starring Will Smith who was “pick up and dating guru” only won the girl of his dreams by declaring his emotions and love for the girl in
the end of the movie in a totally whimpish way in order to win her love.
So why am I mentioning all this and what does this have to do with you?
As a whole, men, are becoming brainwashed to act more and more like women.
We are given the wrong idea on what works in order to really understand a woman.
In the same process we’re misinformed by the lies and misconceptions that Hollywood movies dictate regarding the dating and seduction process.
We are told that we SHOULD act like a chump by putting women on a pedestal and treating them as a superior than us.
Have you ever looked a homosexual couple?
Do you notice that even between gays and lesbians there is a person who plays the act of a man, and the part of a woman.
Doesn’t that tell you something?
Deep down, it is within the essence of human bonding, there lies a need for someone to be a man and another to be a woman in order for the relationship to work,
regardless if both parties are of the same sex!
What I’m saying is this.
Listen to your core as a man.
If you have an urge to want to talk to an attractive woman, and the only reason you want to talk to her is because she is attractive, then you’re not shallow.
You’re merely acting on the impulses that are within you.
As a man you are genetically predisposed to want to attract and then mate with a woman whom you find desirable in order to produce the offspring that
theoretically would be the best at surviving.
Don’t fall for the nonsense that is pushed into your face by modern day media, and women who accuse you of being shallow because you’re attracted to an attractive woman.
The feelings and emotions that you feel towards someone who you find desirable due to her physical traits is exactly the same as a woman who finds a man who is confident to be attractive.
For men, mostly it is the physical attributes that plays the initial role of sparking the attraction process.
For women, it has more to do with feeling safe and protected.
Both of these needs and desires are valid.
It’s ironic that society is unable to make the distinction between what triggers the attraction switch for men and women. But are quick to point the finger and accuse men of being shallow, and thus should be looked down upon.
Have you ever thought to about this?
Why is that when a woman who likes a guy who is
“confident and ambitious” is not shallow, but when a man who wants a “hot girlfriend” then he is immediately
labelled as being shallow?
The woman is equally, or if not more “shallow” than the male, because in the end she’s thinking about self
perseveration for both herself and also her potential
offspring. Why else would they be attracted to a confident an ambitious male?
Confidence and ambition in a person generally means that they will be wealthy and successful, which in turn means
that they will have money and riches. This ultimately satisfies a woman’s feeling of being safe and protected. So my point is this.
You should not make excuses or feel bad for having urges as a man to want to meet, attract and seduce the woman that you desire.
It is coded within you.
It is your nature to do so.
You are a man, so step up and act like it.
You do not need to apologize for what you want.