Idiosyncrasies are a new subject for most people. Furthermore, it affects most parts of the complex creature called Human Being. Thus, a lot of misinterpretations arise, from my experience, to many people that come in touch with this phenomenon for the first time. So it is very useful to lay out the most frequent misunderstandings about Idiosyncrasies.
a. “I am idiosyncrasy X”
This is the most frequent misconception. The person tends to identify himself with the idiosyncrasy that influences him at present. He ignores the fact that idiosyncrasy is just an external influence that affects him only partly; it affects only our external self, that is our Body, Etheric Energy, Sensual and Intellectual Psyche; it doesn’t affect our Conscience Psyche and Individual Spirit.
It is easy to understand that these influences are external if you take in consideration that they keep changing all the time during our life.
Furthermore, at a certain moment, we are influenced by more than one idiosyncrasy and in different proportion. So, it is obvious, that idiosyncrasies are but superficial “clothing” covering our real internal self although they do have a tremendous effect on our will, thinking, feeling and behavior.
Let me give you an example so as to understand better this misconception. Let’s say that we get sick from pneumonia or from depression. Although these two states have a tremendous influence on our body, thinking, emotions and behavior, still, it would be wrong to say that
“I am Pneumonia” or that “I am Depression” even if we refer at this certain moment.
So, whenever I diagnose which idiosyncrasy is the most similar to my present condition it is wrong to say “I am idiosyncrasy X”; it is correct to say: “At present, I am influenced more from this particular X idiosyncrasy, but I should not identify myself as X; I am much more than this external influence”.
If I identify myself with a certain idiosyncrasy then I may react defensively when I read about all the negative characteristics of this certain idiosyncrasy described by the author or when a homeopathic doctor prescribes this idiosyncrasy for me in the form of a homeopathic remedy. I may say about the author: “I am not such a “bad” person as he describes in his books; he took me wrong; he insulted me; how come, he has such a bad opinion about me? Idiosyncrasies are but nonsense”.
Or I may say about the homeopathic doctor: “How on Earth, did he prescribe for me such a medicine that corresponds to such a bad idiosyncrasy? He is definitely wrong as concerns his diagnose. I will go to another doctor who thinks that I am a better person”. Or I may say “I can’t be that bad or deranged! Homeopathy is nonsense!”
A person must always remember that idiosyncratic characteristics are imbalanced states of existence. There isn’t, not even one, idiosyncrasy that could be characterized as balanced. They are all imbalances; they are all illnesses of body and mind; they are all external deregulating
influences. If I diagnose that you suffer from pneumonia or depression why should you be offended? The best thing that you can do is to try to get rid of that state and become healthy again and not to identify yourself with this certain imbalance.
b. “I realize that all described idiosyncrasies are full of imperfections and passions. Aren’t there any normal idiosyncrasies that correspond to the average normal person?”
You see, by nature, Idiosyncrasies are imbalanced states compared to Superior Man, that is, superior in the sense of psychological and moral evolution. Often an Inferior Man, using his lower standards, may consider imbalanced characteristics as normal, as “human”, as “usual” or as
“expected”. He may even say: “These are normal things; they are but natural differences of character found among all people; it is only human to have these differences, especially under stressful conditions that we live nowadays”.
Let me give you some examples: the average “normal” woman considers jealousy, up to a point, as a normal thing. She may say: “Why, doctor, I wouldn’t be normal if I had been provoked by my husband and did not react with jealousy; this would mean that I am either stupid or that I don’t love him!” The average “normal” man may say: “he disputed my integrity/sincerity/manhood! So, what did you expect me to do? It was a normal thing to punch his face!” An overprotective dominant mother may say: “How, on Earth, you tell me doctor not to worry and be stressed about my children! I love them so much! It is a normal thing to have so many fears about their future!”
What we call today a “normal” average person, is but the imbalanced average person. If he was truly normal then he wouldn’t suffer so much from illnesses and psychological imbalance, anxiety and unhappiness as he does nowadays. It is an expected thing due to circumstances (perverted way of living) for the average person to have this imbalances, it is a very common thing, but still that doesn’t make it a normal thing! If what
stands for the majority of people is normal then obesity and smoking should be considered normal.
c. “Each person is born with a certain idiosyncrasy, which he has during all his lifetime”
It is true that we are born with a certain idiosyncrasy and this is not something accidental but during our lifetime we are influenced each time by different idiosyncrasies. We tend, of course to be influenced most of the times, by relative idiosyncrasies, but still, there is change all the time.
Some of us are due to frequent changes and some to less frequent changes.
d. “Each person, at a certain time of his life, has only one idiosyncrasy which is totally different from others”
Each one of us is influenced by all three miasmas. Furthermore, each one of us, at a certain time of his life, is influence by more than one idiosyncrasies. But still, there is one that prevails at that certain moment.
Thus, at a certain moment of his life a person may have idiosyncratic characteristics from two or three or even four idiosyncrasies. Life has no strict boundaries because life is motion, life is eternal change, eternal transformation. We may be affected predominantly by X idiosyncrasy at this certain moment but after days or months we may find ourselves predominantly influenced by another relative idiosyncrasy.
e. “There are good and bad idiosyncrasies”
Definitely wrong! By nature, all idiosyncrasies are imbalances; they restrict are free will; they cause illusion; they obstruct us from interpreting reality objectively. So, there aren’t any “good”
idiosyncrasies; they are all “bad” in the sense that they tend to cause Disease either physically or psychologically.
It is true, of course, that some idiosyncrasies tend to create greater imbalance while others a lesser one. The final result depends not only on the idiosyncrasy that affects us but also on many other factors like the degree of identification with this certain idiosyncrasy, our moral and cultural level, our self awareness, etc.
f. “Don’t blame me for my behavior! Blame my idiosyncrasy! I was born like that!”
It is so convenient to blame others! It is so convenient not to take responsibility for our past and present! So many people tend to say: “It’s not my fault! That’s my character!”, “What can a person do! I was born like that!”, “I just can’t change! I was born like that and will die like that!”, “Nobody changes! It’s all in the genes! All things are predestined”, “God created me like this! I can’t do a thing about it!”, “It’s all a matter of chance! It all depends on how you were raised! You don’t have any control on such things!”
The truth is, as I have analyzed in other books of mine, that when we are born our present miasmas and idiosyncrasy depend on our past actions in previous earthly lives. During this present life, our will, goals, attitude and actions determine which miasma and idiosyncrasy will affect us and at what degree. So, you see, nothing is predestined irrelevantly of our actions and nothing is carried out by chance. We have the freedom of choice; to choose to live according to Universal Laws or according to our egoistic goals.
g. “I admit that I have many of the characteristics of this idiosyncrasy you describe but I don’t have it all; in fact I would never think of behaving in certain ways that you describe that this certain idiosyncrasy does”
Let me explain what happens. There exists a hierarchical Causative Chain that determines our final behavior. It’s the following: Miasmas, Basic Passions, Idiosyncrasies, Thoughts, Emotions, Primary Behavior and Secondary Behavior. Certain other factors intervene during this procedure like psychic evolution of the person, his moral and cultural level, how was he raised, his past experiences, his present goals, his present state of balance, external conditions, etc.
This means that although two or more persons may be influenced at this very moment by the same idiosyncrasy, they may at the end, present different or even seemingly contrary secondary behaviors. So it is an expected thing that a person may not recognize as familiar all characteristics of the idiosyncrasy that influences him at the present. It is also possible that other idiosyncrasies that affect him secondarily, may alter his final behavior. As I said before real life has no boundaries and especially no human intellectual boundaries.