Ds Agreement

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Dominant (@Penetrates)-submissive Agreement

Introduction

Provided herein is the information and forms needed

Provided herein is the information and forms needed to petition to become a to petition to become a submissive to Tsubmissive to Titter5itter5 6Penetrates.

6Penetrates.

Acceptance b" 6Penetrates of "ou

Acceptance b" 6Penetrates of "ou as his submissive is not &uaranteed. Acceptance is contin&ent onas his submissive is not &uaranteed. Acceptance is contin&ent on understandin& the materia! provided herein) a&reein& to the terms herein and submission of the forms understandin& the materia! provided herein) a&reein& to the terms herein and submission of the forms herein. 7ther re8uirments are9

herein. 7ther re8uirments are9 1. ema!e.

1. ema!e. 2.

2. *inimum *inimum a&e of a&e of 2#.2#. 3.

3. *ust not *ust not be in be in an" continuin& re!an" continuin& re!ationship.ationship. 4.

4. In In &ood &ood hea!th.hea!th. #.

#. *ust not *ust not smo:e or smo:e or use dru&s.use dru&s. '.

'. *ust *ust have a have a smart smart phone.phone. +.

+. *ust provide *ust provide cit" and cit" and state !ocation.state !ocation. ,.

,. *ust submit t*ust submit to private textin& via ;i: or o private textin& via ;i: or some simi!ar servisome simi!ar service.ce. 0.

0. *ust be prepared to s*ust be prepared to submit nude fu!! bod" photos frubmit nude fu!! bod" photos from front and behind) if rom front and behind) if re8uested.e8uested. 1<.

1<. *ust submit to *ust submit to persona! intervie non=sexua!5 fpersona! intervie non=sexua!5 for acceptabi!it"or acceptabi!it"..

>ote the the terms and conditions of this a&reement are potentia!!" ne&otiab!e. (o not si&n this >ote the the terms and conditions of this a&reement are potentia!!" ne&otiab!e. (o not si&n this

a&reement un!ess "ou are prepared to fu!!" comp!" ith it. a&reement un!ess "ou are prepared to fu!!" comp!" ith it.

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Petition To Become A Submissive

I) ????????????????????????) herein :non as @sub) ith a free mind and an open heart do re8uest I) ????????????????????????) herein :non as @sub) ith a free mind and an open heart do re8uest of ??????????????????????? ) herein :non as @(om that e accept the submission of m" i!! of ??????????????????????? ) herein :non as @(om that e accept the submission of m" i!! unto is and to ta:e me

unto is and to ta:e me into is care and &uidance) into is care and &uidance) that e ma" &ro to&ether in friendship) trustthat e ma" &ro to&ether in friendship) trust and mutua! respect. The satisfaction of (om$s ants) desires) and hims are consistent ith m" desire and mutua! respect. The satisfaction of (om$s ants) desires) and hims are consistent ith m" desire as a submissive to be found p!easin&

as a submissive to be found p!easin& to im. Tto im. To that end) I offer (om use of m" o that end) I offer (om use of m" time) ta!ents) andtime) ta!ents) and abi!ities. urther

abi!ities. urther) I as:) in sincere hu) I as:) in sincere humi!it"mi!it") that) as m" *aster) (om accept the :eepin& ) that) as m" *aster) (om accept the :eepin& of m" bod" forof m" bod" for the fu!fi!!ment and enhancement of 7our sexua!) spiritua!) emotiona!) and

the fu!fi!!ment and enhancement of 7our sexua!) spiritua!) emotiona!) and inte!!ectua! needs. Tinte!!ectua! needs. Too

achieve this) (om ma" have unfettered use of m" bod" an" time) an" p!ace) in front of an"one to :eep achieve this) (om ma" have unfettered use of m" bod" an" time) an" p!ace) in front of an"one to :eep or to &ive

or to &ive aa"aa") as e ) as e i!! determine.i!! determine. I as: that (om &uide me

I as: that (om &uide me in an" sexua!) sensua!) or scene=re!ated behavior) both to&ether ith) andin an" sexua!) sensua!) or scene=re!ated behavior) both to&ether ith) and separate from im) in such a a" as

separate from im) in such a a" as to further m" &roth as a person.to further m" &roth as a person. I re8uest of (om) as m" (ominant) that h

I re8uest of (om) as m" (ominant) that he use the poer vested in e use the poer vested in is ro!e to mo!d and shape meis ro!e to mo!d and shape me assistin& me to &ro in stren&th) character) confidence) and bein&) and

assistin& me to &ro in stren&th) character) confidence) and bein&) and that e continue to he!p me that e continue to he!p me toto deve!op m" artistic and inte!!ectua! abi!ities.

deve!op m" artistic and inte!!ectua! abi!ities. In return) I a&ree9

In return) I a&ree9 T

To obe" (om$s o obe" (om$s commands to the commands to the best of m" best of m" abi!it"abi!it".. T

To strive to overcome fee!in&s of &ui!t or shame) o strive to overcome fee!in&s of &ui!t or shame) and a!! inhibitions that interfere ith m" capabi!it" toand a!! inhibitions that interfere ith m" capabi!it" to serve (om and !imit m" &roth as (om$s submissive.

serve (om and !imit m" &roth as (om$s submissive. T

To maintain honest ano maintain honest and open cod open communication.mmunication. T

To revea! m" o revea! m" thou&hts) fee!in&s) and thou&hts) fee!in&s) and desires ithout hesitation or embarrassment.desires ithout hesitation or embarrassment. T

To inform (om of ants and perceived o inform (om of ants and perceived needs) reco&niDin& that (om is the needs) reco&niDin& that (om is the so!e Eud&e of hether orso!e Eud&e of hether or ho these sha!! be satisfied.

ho these sha!! be satisfied.

To strive toard maintenance of a positive se!f=ima&e and deve!opment of rea!istic expectations and To strive toard maintenance of a positive se!f=ima&e and deve!opment of rea!istic expectations and &oa!s.

&oa!s.

To or: ith (om to become a happ" and se!f=fu!fi!!ed individua!. To or: ith (om to become a happ" and se!f=fu!fi!!ed individua!.

To or: a&ainst ne&ative aspects of m" e&o and m" insecurities that ou!d interfere ith advancement To or: a&ainst ne&ative aspects of m" e&o and m" insecurities that ou!d interfere ith advancement of these aims.

of these aims.

*" surrender as a submissive is done ith the :no!ed&e

*" surrender as a submissive is done ith the :no!ed&e that nothin& as:ed of me i!! demean that nothin& as:ed of me i!! demean me asme as a person) and i!! in no

a person) and i!! in no a" diminish m" on responsibi!ities toard ma:in& utmost use of m"a" diminish m" on responsibi!ities toard ma:in& utmost use of m" potentia!. In reco&nition of m" fami!" ob!i&ations) nothin& i!! be re8uired of me that i

potentia!. In reco&nition of m" fami!" ob!i&ations) nothin& i!! be re8uired of me that i!! in an" a"!! in an" a" dama&e or harm m" fami!" and

dama&e or harm m" fami!" and friend re!ationships) m" Eob) nor interfere ith the performance of m"friend re!ationships) m" Eob) nor interfere ith the performance of m" duties as a

duties as a mothermother..

I understand and a&ree to

I understand and a&ree to the Tthe Terms and Conditions of Submission hich e have erms and Conditions of Submission hich e have have reached andhave reached and hich is appended as a part of this petition. >o part of the Terms and Conditions of Submission ma" hich is appended as a part of this petition. >o part of the Terms and Conditions of Submission ma"

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supercede this petition. In event of conf!ict this docu

supercede this petition. In event of conf!ict this docu ment and its interpretation sha!! ta:e precedence.ment and its interpretation sha!! ta:e precedence. This I) sub) do entreat) ith !ucidit" and the rea!iDation of hat this means) both stated and imp!ied) in This I) sub) do entreat) ith !ucidit" and the rea!iDation of hat this means) both stated and imp!ied) in the conviction that this offer i!! be understood in the spirit of faith) carin&)

the conviction that this offer i!! be understood in the spirit of faith) carin&) esteem and devotion inesteem and devotion in hich it is &iven.

hich it is &iven.

Shou!d either of us find that our a

Shou!d either of us find that our aspirations are not bein& e!! served b" this a&reement) spirations are not bein& e!! served b" this a&reement) find thisfind this commitment too burdensome) or for an" other reason ish to cance!) either ma" do so b" verba! commitment too burdensome) or for an" other reason ish to cance!) either ma" do so b" verba! notification to the other) in :eepin& ith the consensua! nature of this a&reement. e both understand notification to the other) in :eepin& ith the consensua! nature of this a&reement. e both understand that cance!!ation means a cessation of the

that cance!!ation means a cessation of the contro! stated and imp!ied ithin this a&reement) not acontro! stated and imp!ied ithin this a&reement) not a termination of our re!ationship as friends. Fpon cance!!ation) each of us a&rees to offer to the other his termination of our re!ationship as friends. Fpon cance!!ation) each of us a&rees to offer to the other his or her reasons and to assess our ne

or her reasons and to assess our ne needs and situation open!" and needs and situation open!" and !ovin&!"!ovin&!".. This a&reement sha!! serve as the basis for an exten

This a&reement sha!! serve as the basis for an extension of our re!ationship) committed to in the spirit ofsion of our re!ationship) committed to in the spirit of friendship and consensua! dominance and submission ith the intention of furtherin& se!f=aareness friendship and consensua! dominance and submission ith the intention of furtherin& se!f=aareness and exp!oration) promotin& hea!th and happiness) and improvin& both our !ives.

and exp!oration) promotin& hea!th and happiness) and improvin& both our !ives.

This a&reement has no !e&a! basis in an" court of !a. (espite this) the parties hereto a&ree to function This a&reement has no !e&a! basis in an" court of !a. (espite this) the parties hereto a&ree to function to the best of their abi!ities to the terms herein as if it ere !e&a!!" bindin&.

to the best of their abi!ities to the terms herein as if it ere !e&a!!" bindin&.

I offer m" consent to submission to ?????????????????????????????? under the terms stated above I offer m" consent to submission to ?????????????????????????????? under the terms stated above on this the ???????? da" of ????????????? in the "ear ????????.

on this the ???????? da" of ????????????? in the "ear ????????. ??????????????????????????

???????????????????????????? ?? Si&nature of Submissive

Si&nature of Submissive

I offer m" acceptance of submission b" ?????????????????????????????? under the terms stated I offer m" acceptance of submission b" ?????????????????????????????? under the terms stated above on this the ???????? da" of ?????????????? in the "ear ????????.

above on this the ???????? da" of ?????????????? in the "ear ????????. ??????????????????????????

???????????????????????????? ?? Si&nature of (ominant

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Appendix A.

Terms And Conditions o Submission

1.

1. !enera" Scope!enera" Scope

1.1

1.1 (efined herein (efined herein are the are the set of set of terms and terms and conditions of conditions of submission tsubmission that (ominanthat (ominant ??????????????????????????

??????????????????????????? (om5 ? (om5 expects Submissive ?????????????????????????? sub5expects Submissive ?????????????????????????? sub5 to perform and that sub a&rees to

to perform and that sub a&rees to fu!fi!! to the best of her abi!it".fu!fi!! to the best of her abi!it". 1.2

1.2 The !ossar" of SubmissiThe !ossar" of Submission Ton Terms) appended hereto as erms) appended hereto as Attachment Attachment A) app!ies for definitiA) app!ies for definitions ofons of terms used herein.

terms used herein. 1.3

1.3 -ither part" m-ither part" ma" re8uest re=ne&otiantion a" re8uest re=ne&otiantion of these terms of these terms and conditions at and conditions at an" time. ai!ure an" time. ai!ure toto a&ree on maintainin& current a&reement terms or modifications to these

a&ree on maintainin& current a&reement terms or modifications to these terms and conditions areterms and conditions are &rounds for disso!vin& the (ominant=submissive re!ationship of the to parties.

&rounds for disso!vin& the (ominant=submissive re!ationship of the to parties. 1.4

1.4 The parties to this The parties to this a&reement) (om and sub) reco&niDe that actions a&reement) (om and sub) reco&niDe that actions ithin the scope of tithin the scope of the Petitionhe Petition T

To Become A o Become A Submissive Submissive and these Termand these Terms And Conditions of Submission are a form of ro!e p!a"in&s And Conditions of Submission are a form of ro!e p!a"in& ithin the context of their !ar&er !ives. -ither part" ma" at an

ithin the context of their !ar&er !ives. -ither part" ma" at an " time uni!atera!!" and temporari!" step" time uni!atera!!" and temporari!" step out of ro!e and re8uest the

out of ro!e and re8uest the other part" to do so. This ma" occur other part" to do so. This ma" occur hen the (om and sub hen the (om and sub areare &eo&raphica!!" separated) for the purpose of

&eo&raphica!!" separated) for the purpose of c!arif"in& these a&reements) en&a&in& in rea! !ife situationsc!arif"in& these a&reements) en&a&in& in rea! !ife situations ith or!d outside the ro!e p!a"in& or other such

ith or!d outside the ro!e p!a"in& or other such reason. In &enera!) it is expected that reason. In &enera!) it is expected that the (om and subthe (om and sub i!! se!dom step out o

i!! se!dom step out of ro!e hen f ro!e hen to&etherto&ether..

2.

2. Contro"Contro"

2.1

2.1 The sub sha!! The sub sha!! consider herse!f consider herse!f to be the to be the @propert" of (om @propert" of (om in matters in matters of concern defined herein.of concern defined herein. @Propert"sha!! be construed to mean that

@Propert"sha!! be construed to mean that the sub$s priorities) actions) ph"sica! appearance and p!ansthe sub$s priorities) actions) ph"sica! appearance and p!ans sha!! first and foremost comp!" ith directives presented herein or as otherise communicated b" (om sha!! first and foremost comp!" ith directives presented herein or as otherise communicated b" (om ithin the scope of this document. @Propert"

ithin the scope of this document. @Propert" sha!! not be interpreted in the sense of sha!! not be interpreted in the sense of a @s!ave) thata @s!ave) that bein& a different B(S* re!ationship c!ass.

bein& a different B(S* re!ationship c!ass. 2.2

2.2 The sub sha!! The sub sha!! be timid) deferentbe timid) deferentia! and submissia! and submissive to (om ive to (om in a!! min a!! matters re!ated tatters re!ated to this a&reement)o this a&reement) &enera!!" ith e"es don in the presence of (om and !oo:in& at (om on!" hen &iven permission. &enera!!" ith e"es don in the presence of (om and !oo:in& at (om on!" hen &iven permission. Fpon receipt of directive or

Fpon receipt of directive or orders or tas:in&) the orders or tas:in&) the sub sub sha!! not ar&ue sha!! not ar&ue and sha!! ac:no!ed&e herand sha!! ac:no!ed&e her submission and a&reement to perform ith @Ges) *aster) @Ges) Sir or @Ges) (om.

submission and a&reement to perform ith @Ges) *aster) @Ges) Sir or @Ges) (om. 2.3

2.3 (om s(om sha!! ha!! not p!ace not p!ace an" unreasonab!e an" unreasonab!e re8uirements re8uirements on sub on sub nor an" nor an" re8uirements re8uirements or demands or demands thatthat cou!d EeopardiDe her hea!th) ph

cou!d EeopardiDe her hea!th) ph"sica! e!!=bein&) Eob or re!ationship ith fami!" or friends."sica! e!!=bein&) Eob or re!ationship ith fami!" or friends. 2.4

2.4 Shou!d a conf!ict Shou!d a conf!ict arise beteen the arise beteen the re8uirements herein and re8uirements herein and rea! !ife rea! !ife re8uirements) sub sre8uirements) sub sha!!ha!! inform (om of the conf!ict and reasons h

inform (om of the conf!ict and reasons h" she re8uests to deviate from the re8uirements herein or" she re8uests to deviate from the re8uirements herein or (om$s dictates. (om i!! provide temporar" re!ief to the se!ect criteria of this a&reement to a

(om$s dictates. (om i!! provide temporar" re!ief to the se!ect criteria of this a&reement to a me!iorateme!iorate the conf!ict. Sub i!! use Specia! %e8uest method para&raph +.'5 or !eave ro!e para&raph 1.45 to the conf!ict. Sub i!! use Specia! %e8uest method para&raph +.'5 or !eave ro!e para&raph 1.45 to inform (om of conf!icts) the former mode bein& preferred.

inform (om of conf!icts) the former mode bein& preferred. 2.#

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para&raph + H (iscip!ine5 para&raph + H (iscip!ine5

3.

3. CommunicationsCommunications

3.1

3.1 The cornerstone of success iThe cornerstone of success in an" re!ationship is &ood and open commn an" re!ationship is &ood and open communications. So too ith thisunications. So too ith this (om=sub re!ationship. The (om$s position as teacher and mentor !eaves free (o

(om=sub re!ationship. The (om$s position as teacher and mentor !eaves free (o m to subm to sub

communications in an open and unrestricted manner. Sub$s position of deference ma" be perceived or communications in an open and unrestricted manner. Sub$s position of deference ma" be perceived or become an inpediment to free communications. As s

become an inpediment to free communications. As such a procedure for ensurin& sub ma"uch a procedure for ensurin& sub ma" communicate free!" ith (om i

communicate free!" ith (om is that of s that of Specia! %e8uestin& as prescribed iSpecia! %e8uestin& as prescribed in para&raph +.'. Fsin& saidn para&raph +.'. Fsin& said procedure) sub sha!! ensure that (om is made aare of sub$s fee!in&s) needs and desires across the procedure) sub sha!! ensure that (om is made aare of sub$s fee!in&s) needs and desires across the

spectrum of aspects needed for her

spectrum of aspects needed for her menta! and ph"sica! hea!th.menta! and ph"sica! hea!th. 3.2

3.2 (urin& ph"sica! (urin& ph"sica! separation) e!ectronic separation) e!ectronic communications is communications is the critica! the critica! and the and the primar" mprimar" mode ofode of interaction beteen (om

interaction beteen (om and sub. Such communications modes inc!ude but are not !imited to9 Tand sub. Such communications modes inc!ude but are not !imited to9 Titteritter)) textin& and e=mai!.

textin& and e=mai!. 3.3

3.3 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! be continuous!" be continuous!" avai!ab!e for avai!ab!e for communications icommunications ith (om th (om b" one b" one of the of the three meansthree means !isted in para&raph 3.2. S"mmetri

!isted in para&raph 3.2. S"mmetrica!!"ca!!") (om ) (om sha!! be continuous!" avai!ab!e b" tsha!! be continuous!" avai!ab!e b" the same methods forhe same methods for communications from sub .

communications from sub . 3.4

3.4 Sub sha!! do Sub sha!! do her best to her best to inform (om iinform (om if she i!! f she i!! be unavai!ab!e for be unavai!ab!e for communications for communications for more thanmore than te!ve hours b" e=mai! or three hours b

te!ve hours b" e=mai! or three hours b" textin&. At conc!usion of said &ap in avai!abi!it"" textin&. At conc!usion of said &ap in avai!abi!it") sub sha!!) sub sha!! notif" (om that she is a&ain avai!ab!e

notif" (om that she is a&ain avai!ab!e for submission to him.for submission to him. 3.#

3.# (om i!!) s"mmetri(om i!!) s"mmetrica!!" to para&raph 3.#) notif" Sub ica!!" to para&raph 3.#) notif" Sub in the event of unavai!abi!it" fn the event of unavai!abi!it" foror communications.

communications.

4.

4. #e"ations$ips#e"ations$ips

4.1

4.1 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! enter ienter into no nto no B(S* re!atiB(S* re!ationships) rea! onships) rea! or virtor virtua!) ua!) ith an"one ith an"one other than other than (om. (om. (om(om a&rees to s"mmetrica!!" abide b" this restriction.

a&rees to s"mmetrica!!" abide b" this restriction. 4.2

4.2 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! enter into enter into no romantic no romantic or sexua! or sexua! re!ationships or re!ationships or activities) ractivities) rea! or ea! or virtua!) ith virtua!) ith an"onean"one other than (om.

other than (om. (om a&rees to s"mmetri(om a&rees to s"mmetrica!!" abide b" this restrca!!" abide b" this restriction.iction. 4.3

4.3 Sub i!! Sub i!! not fra&rant!" not fra&rant!" f!irt f!irt ith nor ith nor perform sextiperform sextin& ith n& ith an" other man" other ma!e) b" vira!e) b" virtua! or tua! or rea!rea! means) ithout (om$s approva!. !a&rant f!irtin& is construed to mean f!irtin& as an

means) ithout (om$s approva!. !a&rant f!irtin& is construed to mean f!irtin& as an invitation to sex)invitation to sex) here such sex invitation is rea!) teasin& or fa:e.

here such sex invitation is rea!) teasin& or fa:e.

#.

#. %eeting%eeting

#.1

#.1 Sub a&rees Sub a&rees to meet to meet ith (om ith (om in a in a pub!ic p!ace) mpub!ic p!ace) mutua!!" a&reed tutua!!" a&reed to and as o and as convenient for convenient for Sub) Sub) forfor introductions as a part of or soon after si&nin& o

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'. Speciic Duties and #esponsibi"ities o DomSpeciic Duties and #esponsibi"ities o Dom

'.1

'.1 (om promises (om promises to care for to care for and cherish sub and cherish sub and in particu!ar and in particu!ar to never :noin&!" harm to never :noin&!" harm herher

ph"sica!!" be"ond scope provided for herein as re&ards para&raph +) @(iscip!ine 5 or emotiona!!" b" ph"sica!!" be"ond scope provided for herein as re&ards para&raph +) @(iscip!ine 5 or emotiona!!" b"

ord or action. ord or action. '.2

'.2 (om sha!! be a!a"s open and honest (om sha!! be a!a"s open and honest ith sub never hidin& fee!in&s ith sub never hidin& fee!in&s that are necessar" to tthat are necessar" to thehe continuation of their mutua!!" supportin& re!ationship.

continuation of their mutua!!" supportin& re!ationship. '.3

'.3 (om sha!! be responsib!e (om sha!! be responsib!e for :eepin& sub safe at a!for :eepin& sub safe at a!! times hen she i! times hen she is ithin his purvis ithin his purvie.e. '.4

'.4 (om (om i!! do i!! do ever"thin& ithin ever"thin& ithin is poer is poer to train) to train) educate) instruct) educate) instruct) shape and mo!shape and mo!d sub intd sub into besto best submissive possib!e.

submissive possib!e. '.#

'.# (om sha!! provide for (om sha!! provide for and a!!o sub to present her and a!!o sub to present her needs and opinions to him ineeds and opinions to him ith the scope ofth the scope of propriet" set out herein for sub.

propriet" set out herein for sub. '.'

'.' (om i!(om i!! maintain ! maintain himse!f himse!f in &ood in &ood hea!th and hea!th and ph"sica! condition.ph"sica! condition. '.+

'.+ (om i!! refrai(om i!! refrain from the use of tn from the use of tobacco products) dru&s of an" :ind and iobacco products) dru&s of an" :ind and i!! on!" drin: a!coho!!! on!" drin: a!coho! in moderation.

in moderation. '.,

'., (om (om i!! i!! not not a!!o or a!!o or ma:e sma:e sub scene ub scene scene9 scene9 en&a&in& in en&a&in& in sexua! actisexua! activities vities ith ith other perother persons5sons5 ith an" minors or anima!s at an" time.

ith an" minors or anima!s at an" time. '.0

'.0 (om i!! (om i!! not ma:e sub not ma:e sub Eoin in an" mEoin in an" mu!tip!e person scene u!tip!e person scene ith other mith other ma!es andor fema!es a!es andor fema!es at an"at an" time ithout her mutua! prior consent on the

time ithout her mutua! prior consent on the persons5) p!aces) times) durations and activities.persons5) p!aces) times) durations and activities. '.1<

'.1< Shou!d (om Shou!d (om a!!o sub a!!o sub to to part" scene part" scene ith an"one ith an"one e!se) (om e!se) (om sha!! be sha!! be present durin& present durin& the entirethe entire scene in order to assure

scene in order to assure that sub is unharmed) does that sub is unharmed) does nothin& (om nothin& (om disapproves of and is not fdisapproves of and is not forced to doorced to do an"thin& on sub$s hard !imit !ist.

an"thin& on sub$s hard !imit !ist. '.11

'.11 (om (om sha!! immsha!! immediate!" respect ediate!" respect and honor and honor the invocation the invocation of the of the safe ord safe ord ????????????5 b"????????????5 b" Sub) ceasin& a!!

Sub) ceasin& a!! activit" undera".activit" undera". '.12

'.12 (om (om i!! i!! stretch Sub$s stretch Sub$s !imits !imits to he!p to he!p Sub Sub &ro in &ro in the !ifthe !ife) e) position and position and fee!in&s of fee!in&s of se!f=esteem.se!f=esteem. '.13

'.13 (om i!! honor the Submi(om i!! honor the Submissive$s Bi!! of ssive$s Bi!! of %i&hts in %i&hts in Attachment B.Attachment B. '.14

'.14 (om ma"(om ma") at his discretion) en&a&e sub i) at his discretion) en&a&e sub in discip!ine) contro! or &enera! p!a" n discip!ine) contro! or &enera! p!a" usin& methods andusin& methods and instruments activities as !isted in in At

instruments activities as !isted in in Attachment C) except as !isted in Stachment C) except as !isted in Submissive ard Conditions)ubmissive ard Conditions) Attachment - or

Attachment - or as ne&otiated as ne&otiated and !isted in Atand !isted in Attachment tachment ) @) @aivers Taivers To Standard To Standard Terms oferms of A&reement.

A&reement. '.1#

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+.

+. Speciic Duties and #esponsibi"ities o SubmissiveSpeciic Duties and #esponsibi"ities o Submissive

+.1

+.1 enera!. This enera!. This para&raph defines specific para&raph defines specific duties and responsiduties and responsibi!ities that bi!ities that Sub sha!! be Sub sha!! be re8uired tore8uired to comp!" ith. ai!ure to prompt!" comp!" in !etter and

comp!" ith. ai!ure to prompt!" comp!" in !etter and intent ith these duties ma" resu!t in discip!ineintent ith these duties ma" resu!t in discip!ine See para&raph +5.

See para&raph +5. +.2 Basics

+.2 Basics +.2.1

+.2.1 As per As per para&raph 2.1) spara&raph 2.1) sub sha!! ub sha!! consider herse!f consider herse!f to be to be the @propert" the @propert" of the (of the (om om in matters in matters ofof concern defined herein.

concern defined herein. +.2.2

+.2.2 As per para&raph As per para&raph 2.2) sub sha!! 2.2) sub sha!! be timid) deferentbe timid) deferentia! and submissia! and submissive to (om ive to (om in a!! mattin a!! matters re!ateders re!ated to this a&reement.

to this a&reement. +.2.3

+.2.3 Sub$s re8uirement for Sub$s re8uirement for timid) deferentia! timid) deferentia! and submissive and submissive behavior to (om ibehavior to (om is >7T s >7T to beto be interpreted as the sub bein& in an

interpreted as the sub bein& in an" a" inferior or unorth". uite the opposite. " a" inferior or unorth". uite the opposite. Assumin& the ro!e of aAssumin& the ro!e of a submissive ref!ects a stren&th of character) be!ief in onese!f and trust in her (om.

submissive ref!ects a stren&th of character) be!ief in onese!f and trust in her (om. +.2.4

+.2.4 Sub sha!! >7T Sub sha!! >7T se!f=deni&rate herse!se!f=deni&rate herse!f nor spea: peEoratf nor spea: peEorative!" of herse!ive!" of herse!f nor in f nor in an" a" imp!" an" a" imp!" thatthat she is an"thin& !ess than a substantia!) orth"

she is an"thin& !ess than a substantia!) orth") inte!!i&ent individua!. ) inte!!i&ent individua!. If an" Eud&ment of the sub is to beIf an" Eud&ment of the sub is to be made) it i!! be b" her (o

made) it i!! be b" her (om and that i!! be made based m and that i!! be made based upon performance and !imitations therein) notupon performance and !imitations therein) not presumed character f!as in the sub. %epeated fai!ure in this re&ard b" sub i!! res

presumed character f!as in the sub. %epeated fai!ure in this re&ard b" sub i!! resu!t in substantia!u!t in substantia! discip!ine.

discip!ine. +.2.#

+.2.# Sub sha!! Sub sha!! cooperative!" submit cooperative!" submit to direction) to direction) sex) &ame sex) &ame p!a"in& and discip!a"in& and discip!ine invo!vin& p!ine invo!vin& an"an" combination of e!ements from

combination of e!ements from Attachment C) Attachment C) @(iscip!ine) Contro! or enera! @(iscip!ine) Contro! or enera! P!a" *ethods andP!a" *ethods and Instruments @ except as

Instruments @ except as ne&otiated ne&otiated and !isted in Attachment ) @and !isted in Attachment ) @aivers Taivers To Standard Terms ofo Standard Terms of A&reement or as dec!ared hard !im

A&reement or as dec!ared hard !imits in its in Attachement -) @Submissive$s arAttachement -) @Submissive$s ard /imits.d /imits.

+.3

+.3 ea!th ea!th and and h"&ieneh"&iene +.3.1

+.3.1 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! do a!! do a!! in her in her poer to poer to maintain &ood maintain &ood hea!th and &ood hea!th and &ood menta! out!oo:. menta! out!oo:. This inc!udes)This inc!udes) but is not !imited to9 eatin& re&u!ar!" eatin& hea!th" &ett

but is not !imited to9 eatin& re&u!ar!" eatin& hea!th" &ettin& ade8uate s!eep exercisin& at !east 3 timesin& ade8uate s!eep exercisin& at !east 3 times a ee: socia!iDin& ith f

a ee: socia!iDin& ith friends at !east once a riends at !east once a ee: and) !imitin& a!coho! consumptiee: and) !imitin& a!coho! consumption. on. SeeSee para&raph +.3.05

para&raph +.3.05 +.3.2

+.3.2 Sub sha!! remain Sub sha!! remain c!ean and h"&ienic at c!ean and h"&ienic at a!! times. a!! times. Sub sha!! shoer Sub sha!! shoer or bathe re&u!ar!"or bathe re&u!ar!") no !ess) no !ess than three times a ee: and at !east once dai!" hen co=habitin& ith her (om.

than three times a ee: and at !east once dai!" hen co=habitin& ith her (om. +.3.3

+.3.3 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! :eep her ar:eep her armpits) !e&s) mpits) !e&s) pubic and ana! pubic and ana! areas shaved areas shaved comp!ete!" c!ean comp!ete!" c!ean and smooth.and smooth. ai!ure to do so is punishab!e.

ai!ure to do so is punishab!e. +.3.4

+.3.4 Sub sha!! use Sub sha!! use such va&ina! products such va&ina! products as necessar" to as necessar" to :eep her va&ina and vu!:eep her va&ina and vu!va re&ion c!ean andva re&ion c!ean and ithout unp!easant odors. The (om sha!! routine!" assess the sub$s va&ina most often throu&h sexua! ithout unp!easant odors. The (om sha!! routine!" assess the sub$s va&ina most often throu&h sexua! activit"

activit") especia!!" ora!5 and advise her if he) especia!!" ora!5 and advise her if her va&ina fai!s to meet his standards. Such r va&ina fai!s to meet his standards. Such fai!ure isfai!ure is punishab!e.

punishab!e. +.3.#

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discomforts re!ated thereto. discomforts re!ated thereto. +.3.'

+.3.' Sub sha!! Sub sha!! inform (inform (om om immediate!" of immediate!" of an" sudden an" sudden chan&es of chan&es of mood) especia!!" mood) especia!!" ne&ative moods)ne&ative moods) e.&.) depression) !one!iness) fee!in& un!oved) etc.

e.&.) depression) !one!iness) fee!in& un!oved) etc. +.3.+

+.3.+ Sub sSub sha!! ha!! inform inform (om (om immediate!" immediate!" of of onset onset of of an" an" i!!ness.i!!ness. +.3.,

+.3., Sub sha!! Sub sha!! maintain her maintain her ei&ht at ei&ht at approximate!" her approximate!" her current ei&ht current ei&ht and sha!! and sha!! notif" (om notif" (om if herif her ei&ht increases b" more than five pou

ei&ht increases b" more than five pounds from her ei&ht at the time of accends from her ei&ht at the time of acceptance of this a&reement.ptance of this a&reement. The sub$s current ei&ht is ????????????.

The sub$s current ei&ht is ????????????. +.3.0

+.3.0 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! attempt to attempt to minimiDe her minimiDe her consumption of consumption of a!coho!ic bevera&es. %e&ara!coho!ic bevera&es. %e&ard!ess) sub d!ess) sub sha!!sha!! re8uest permission of (om

re8uest permission of (om to have a drin: or refi!! a drin:. This app!ies to a!! sto have a drin: or refi!! a drin:. This app!ies to a!! situations H socia! andituations H socia! and otherise. In the event Sub is in

otherise. In the event Sub is in a socia! situation here communications ith (om is unavai!ab!e) thea socia! situation here communications ith (om is unavai!ab!e) the Sub sha!! !imit herse!f to no more than one

Sub sha!! !imit herse!f to no more than one drin: ever" +# minutes.drin: ever" +# minutes. +.3.1<

+.3.1< Bod" Piercin& Bod" Piercin& and Tand Tattoosattoos +.3.1<.1

+.3.1<.1 enera!9 enera!9 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! not &et not &et an" tattoos) an" tattoos) tattoo modifitattoo modifications or cations or bod" piercin&s bod" piercin&s ithout priorithout prior approva! of (om.

approva! of (om.

+.3.1<.2 Specific9 sub sha!!) a!! at (om$s expense and in his presence) receive a c!itora! hood piercin& +.3.1<.2 Specific9 sub sha!!) a!! at (om$s expense and in his presence) receive a c!itora! hood piercin& and sha!! ear rin&) stud or chain from a set provided b" the (om and of his choosin&. Said piercin& and sha!! ear rin&) stud or chain from a set provided b" the (om and of his choosin&. Said piercin& sha!! be maintained and fi!!ed at a!! times.

sha!! be maintained and fi!!ed at a!! times.

+.4

+.4 /ocation /ocation and and Activities Activities >otification>otification +.4.1

+.4.1 Sub Sub sha!! sha!! :eep (om :eep (om informed informed of her of her &enera! hereabouts &enera! hereabouts at a!! at a!! times) times) e.&.) home) e.&.) home) or:) dinin&or:) dinin& out) shoppin&) socia! en&a&ement) etc.

out) shoppin&) socia! en&a&ement) etc. +.4.2

+.4.2 Sub sha!! Sub sha!! provide tprovide to (om o (om b" e=mb" e=mai! not ai! not !ater t!ater than midni&ht han midni&ht each Sunda" each Sunda" ni&ht a ni&ht a summar" ofsummar" of her expected ee:$s activities. Such ac

her expected ee:$s activities. Such activities sha!! inc!ude but are not !imited to9 or: da"s) at"pica!tivities sha!! inc!ude but are not !imited to9 or: da"s) at"pica! da"s off or:) doctors appointments) socia! events) visits to fami!" andor friends) visits from fami!" da"s off or:) doctors appointments) socia! events) visits to fami!" andor friends) visits from fami!" andor friends and an" other activit" that ma" adverse!" effect Sub$s avai!abi!it" to (om.

andor friends and an" other activit" that ma" adverse!" effect Sub$s avai!abi!it" to (om. +.4.3

+.4.3 Sub sha!!) Sub sha!!) hen not ihen not ith (om) th (om) notif" (om notif" (om b" text b" text hen she aa:es hen she aa:es in the in the mornin& and mornin& and henhen she is about to s!eep.

she is about to s!eep.

+.#

+.# Sex Sex and and amesames +.#.1

+.#.1 enera!. enera!. A A paramount e!ement paramount e!ement of the rof the re!ationship beteen e!ationship beteen the (om the (om and sub iand sub i!! invo!ve !! invo!ve sexsex and &ames. The sub sha!! participate in an

and &ames. The sub sha!! participate in and perform an" and a!! sex d perform an" and a!! sex acts the (om dictates and at theacts the (om dictates and at the time) p!ace) manner and duration of his choosin&.

time) p!ace) manner and duration of his choosin&. +.#.2

+.#.2 %estrictions. %estrictions. Sub ma" Sub ma" not masturbate not masturbate or touch or touch her &enita!s her &enita!s for excitemfor excitement purposes ent purposes ithoutithout prior permission from (om. (om

prior permission from (om. (om ma" !imit the number of or&asms tma" !imit the number of or&asms that can be produced from suchhat can be produced from such masturbation. If permission is &iven to masturbate) sub i!! provide a fo!!o up report on

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masturbation as performed) hat she fantasiDed about as she

masturbation as performed) hat she fantasiDed about as she masturbated and ho man" or&asmsmasturbated and ho man" or&asms ere reached ith a ratin& from 1

ere reached ith a ratin& from 1 to 1< 1< bein& best5 on to 1< 1< bein& best5 on the overa!! 8ua!it" of the or&asms.the overa!! 8ua!it" of the or&asms. +.#.3 (efinitions.

+.#.3 (efinitions. +.#.3.1

+.#.3.1 Sexua! Sexua! acts acts inc!ude9inc!ude9

•

• Standard intercourse consistin& of the sub$s va&ina bein& penetrated b" the (om$s penis.Standard intercourse consistin& of the sub$s va&ina bein& penetrated b" the (om$s penis. •

• Ana! intercourse consistin& of the sub$s anus bein& penAna! intercourse consistin& of the sub$s anus bein& pen etrated b" the (om$s penis.etrated b" the (om$s penis. •

• 7ra! sex consistin& of the sub usin& her mouth 7ra! sex consistin& of the sub usin& her mouth to sexua!!" satisf" the (om andor the (omto sexua!!" satisf" the (om andor the (om

usin& his m

usin& his mouth to sexua!!" outh to sexua!!" satisf" the satisf" the sub.sub.

•

• 7ther sex. Actions hich resu!t in considerab!e p!easure up to and inc!udin& or&asm) but do7ther sex. Actions hich resu!t in considerab!e p!easure up to and inc!udin& or&asm) but do

not invo!ve the above. -xamp!es inc!ude one part" masturbatin& the other or one part" not invo!ve the above. -xamp!es inc!ude one part" masturbatin& the other or one part" stimu!atin& the other b" means of some intermediar" method o

stimu!atin& the other b" means of some intermediar" method o f arousa! to c!imax.f arousa! to c!imax. +.#.3.2

+.#.3.2 ames inc!ude an" ames inc!ude an" erotic activities erotic activities desi&ned to stdesi&ned to stimu!ate the (om imu!ate the (om andor sub to andor sub to arousa! or toarousa! or to satisf" basic needs for domination or submission satisfaction hether or not said &ames !ead to or satisf" basic needs for domination or submission satisfaction hether or not said &ames !ead to or inc!ude sexua!

inc!ude sexua! acts. See acts. See ames in !ossar" ames in !ossar" of Termof Terms) Attachment A5s) Attachment A5 +.#.4

+.#.4 Sexua! intercourse acts Sexua! intercourse acts beteen the (om beteen the (om and sub ma" assand sub ma" assume an" of tume an" of the positions defihe positions defined andned and i!!ustrated in Sexua! Intercourse Positions of

i!!ustrated in Sexua! Intercourse Positions of Attachment C. Attachment C. (ecision on the positions5 and chan&es in(ecision on the positions5 and chan&es in position i!! be made b" (om.

position i!! be made b" (om. +.#.#

+.#.# Ana! intercourse acts Ana! intercourse acts beteen (om and sub beteen (om and sub ma" assume an" ma" assume an" of the suitof the suitab!e positions defiab!e positions definedned and i!!ustrated in Sexua! Intercourse Positions of

and i!!ustrated in Sexua! Intercourse Positions of Attachment C Attachment C (ecision on the positions5 and(ecision on the positions5 and chan&es in position i!! be made b

chan&es in position i!! be made b" (om." (om. +.#.'

+.#.' Sub ma" fSub ma" from time=to=trom time=to=time be rime be re8uired to e8uired to perform ora! perform ora! sex on (sex on (om. Sub som. Sub sha!! ha!! be prepared andbe prepared and i!!in& for such ora! sex to resu!t in (om eEacu!atin& into her

i!!in& for such ora! sex to resu!t in (om eEacu!atin& into her mouth and sub sa!!oin& the resu!t. Submouth and sub sa!!oin& the resu!t. Sub i!!) if not a!read"

i!!) if not a!read") become proficient in the ) become proficient in the art of deep=throat ora! sex. Sub maart of deep=throat ora! sex. Sub ma" be re8uired to be" be re8uired to be passive recipient of ora! sex hi!e in an" position) e.&.) !a"in& on stomach on bed ith head and upper passive recipient of ora! sex hi!e in an" position) e.&.) !a"in& on stomach on bed ith head and upper

torso raised) supported b" her e!bos on torso raised) supported b" her e!bos on bed.bed.

+.'

+.' Specia! Specia! %e8uestin& %e8uestin& of of (om.(om. +.'.1

+.'.1 enera!. Sub ma" at enera!. Sub ma" at times of times of her choosin& ma:e a her choosin& ma:e a specia! re8uest of specia! re8uest of the (om. Said the (om. Said re8uest i!!re8uest i!! usua!!" be for some specific uni8ue activit" or attention she desires and for hich the (om has not usua!!" be for some specific uni8ue activit" or attention she desires and for hich the (om has not a!read" forec!osed action.

a!read" forec!osed action. -xamp!es inc!ude sex in a s-xamp!es inc!ude sex in a specific position or mpecific position or manner) or punishment tanner) or punishment thathat she desires for erotic reasons) e. &.) over

she desires for erotic reasons) e. &.) over the :nee span:in&. Additiona!!"the :nee span:in&. Additiona!!") sub ma" use ) sub ma" use Specia!Specia! %e8uestin& to brin& up issues of concern)

%e8uestin& to brin& up issues of concern) fee!in&s or other such matters as sub fee!s the need fee!in&s or other such matters as sub fee!s the need to discussto discuss in fu!! dia!o& ith (om.

in fu!! dia!o& ith (om. +.'.2

+.'.2 Procedure. Procedure. Sub i!! Sub i!! ma:e her ma:e her specia! re8uest specia! re8uest deferentia!!"deferentia!!") e"es ) e"es don) sa"in& don) sa"in& in a in a soft soft p!eadin&p!eadin& voice9 JSir(om*aster

voice9 JSir(om*aster) ma" "our obedient submissive p!ease ma:e ) ma" "our obedient submissive p!ease ma:e a specia! re8uest of "ouKJ Fpoa specia! re8uest of "ouKJ Fponn the (om$s approva!

the (om$s approva! the re8uest i!! be the re8uest i!! be made as) @Than: made as) @Than: "ou) Sir(om*aster"ou) Sir(om*aster. G. Gou are &enerous ou are &enerous inin a!!oin& m" re8uest hich i

a!!oin& m" re8uest hich is.... s.... The (om ma" or ma" not approve tThe (om ma" or ma" not approve the re8uest ith or ihe re8uest ith or ithout reasonthout reason supp!ied) except (om sha!! never refuse to

supp!ied) except (om sha!! never refuse to discuss sub$s fee!in&s or needs a!thou&h said discussion ma"discuss sub$s fee!in&s or needs a!thou&h said discussion ma" be brief!" deferred for a reason of inconvenience.

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+.'.3

+.'.3 Abuse. Abuse. Abuse of Abuse of the Specia! %e8uestthe Specia! %e8uestin& privi!e&e in& privi!e&e i!! resu!i!! resu!t in t in a arnin& a arnin& and if and if abuseabuse continues) then discip!ine.

continues) then discip!ine. ,.

,. Discip"ine.Discip"ine.

,.1

,.1 ai!ure of sub ai!ure of sub to comp!" ith to comp!" ith the re8uirements herthe re8uirements herein ma"ein ma") at the ) at the discretion of (omdiscretion of (om) resu!t i) resu!t inn discip!ine to her. Such discip!ine i!! be of t"pe and severit" as chosen

discip!ine to her. Such discip!ine i!! be of t"pe and severit" as chosen b" (om usin& modes out!ine inb" (om usin& modes out!ine in the remainder of this section. (iscip!ine sha!! be even=handed)

the remainder of this section. (iscip!ine sha!! be even=handed) dispassionate and serve the end ofdispassionate and serve the end of trainin& sub hi!e preservin& and enhancin& her se!f=esteem at the end of such discip!ine.

trainin& sub hi!e preservin& and enhancin& her se!f=esteem at the end of such discip!ine. ,.2

,.2 *odes of *odes of possib!e dispossib!e discip!ine inc!ude cip!ine inc!ude s"mbo!ic) tas:in&) s"mbo!ic) tas:in&) corporea! and icorporea! and iso!ation.so!ation. ,.3

,.3 S"mbo!ic discip!ine iS"mbo!ic discip!ine i!! ta:e t!! ta:e the form of he form of disapprovin& or critidisapprovin& or critica! admonishment of ca! admonishment of sub) ta:in&sub) ta:in& aa" o!d Stars previous!"

aa" o!d Stars previous!" &iven to sub &iven to sub or other such critica! or other such critica! actions as (om ma" deem appropractions as (om ma" deem appropriate toiate to the fai!ure and ithin the scope of this and re!ated terms re!ative to preservation of sub$s se!f=esteem. the fai!ure and ithin the scope of this and re!ated terms re!ative to preservation of sub$s se!f=esteem. ,.4

,.4 TTas:in& as:in& discip!ine i!! discip!ine i!! ta:e the fta:e the form of orm of re8uirin& sub re8uirin& sub to perform to perform some penance fsome penance for heror her shortfa!!s5. The specific tas: i!! be determined b" and communicated to sub

shortfa!!s5. The specific tas: i!! be determined b" and communicated to sub b" (om. ai!ure tob" (om. ai!ure to satisfactori!" perform the tas: ma" resu!t in a stricter form of discip!ine.

satisfactori!" perform the tas: ma" resu!t in a stricter form of discip!ine. ,.#

,.# Corporea! discip!ine Corporea! discip!ine i!! ta:e ti!! ta:e the form of he form of ph"sica! punishment b" ph"sica! punishment b" the (om ithe (om in form chosen b"n form chosen b" (om except as !imited in Attachment - Submissive$s ard /imits5. hen separated and (om (om except as !imited in Attachment - Submissive$s ard /imits5. hen separated and (om punishment is not practica!) b" auto=f!a&e!!ation b" sub at a time) duration) amount) severit"

punishment is not practica!) b" auto=f!a&e!!ation b" sub at a time) duration) amount) severit") instrument) instrument and nature as decided b

and nature as decided b" (om. T" (om. Toard this end) sub sha!! :eep ooard this end) sub sha!! :eep on hand (om approved n hand (om approved imp!ements forimp!ements for use in such

use in such auto=f!a&e!!ation. At minimum a be!t) hip and auto=f!a&e!!ation. At minimum a be!t) hip and an 1, inch an 1, inch stron& ooden ru!er) or simi!ar.stron& ooden ru!er) or simi!ar. ,.'

,.' Iso!ation discip!ine iIso!ation discip!ine i!! ta:e the form of !! ta:e the form of sub bein& restricted fsub bein& restricted from contact or communication ithrom contact or communication ith (om for the period of time desi&nated b" (om. Such period hich i!! not exceed 24 hours) that bein& (om for the period of time desi&nated b" (om. Such period hich i!! not exceed 24 hours) that bein& an exceptiona! !eve! of discip!ine. (urin& this iso!ation) sub ma" on!" communicate ith (om to

an exceptiona! !eve! of discip!ine. (urin& this iso!ation) sub ma" on!" communicate ith (om to provide notifications otherise re8uired b" this a&reement.

provide notifications otherise re8uired b" this a&reement.

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0. Conidentia"it&Conidentia"it&

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0.1 This a&reement and This a&reement and a!! activities a!! activities occurrin& ithin occurrin& ithin the scope of ithe scope of it are tota!!" t are tota!!" confidentia!. >eitherconfidentia!. >either part" to this a&reement ma" divu!&e its existence) its contents or activi

part" to this a&reement ma" divu!&e its existence) its contents or activities performed as a resu!t ofties performed as a resu!t of participation in this a&reement.

participation in this a&reement.

I understand and a&ree to the terms stated above ?????????????????????????????? on this the I understand and a&ree to the terms stated above ?????????????????????????????? on this the ???????? da" of ????????????? in the "ear ????

???????? da" of ????????????? in the "ear ???? ????.????. ??????????????????????????

???????????????????????????? ?? Si&nature of Submissive

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I understand and a&r

I understand and a&ree to the tee to the terms stated above erms stated above ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ?? on this theon this the ???????? da" of ?????????????? in the "ear ???

???????? da" of ?????????????? in the "ear ??? ?????.?????. ??????????????????????????

???????????????????????????? ?? Si&nature of (ominant

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Attac$ment A.

!"ossar& o Terms

'*

'*9 A re!ati9 A re!ationship in onship in hich protoco!s ahich protoco!s are in pre in p!ace continuous!".!ace continuous!".

Anima" transormation antas&+

Anima" transormation antas&+ antas" in hich the focus is on the sub enterin& the a!tered antas" in hich the focus is on the sub enterin& the a!tered mindspace of a different species) t"pica!!" a do&) pon" or horse.

mindspace of a different species) t"pica!!" a do&) pon" or horse.

Abrasion+

Abrasion+ Fsin& somethin& rou&h such as sandpaper5. Fsin& somethin& rou&h such as sandpaper5.

Atercare+

Atercare+ The time after a B(S* scene or The time after a B(S* scene or p!a" session in hich the participants ca!m don) discussp!a" session in hich the participants ca!m don) discuss the previous events and their persona! reactions to

the previous events and their persona! reactions to them) and s!o!" come bac: them) and s!o!" come bac: in touch ith rea!it".in touch ith rea!it". B(S* often invo!ves an endorphin hi&h and ver" intense experience) and fai!ure to en&a&e in proper B(S* often invo!ves an endorphin hi&h and ver" intense experience) and fai!ure to en&a&e in proper aftercare can !ead to subdrop as

aftercare can !ead to subdrop as these return to more ever"da" !eve!s.these return to more ever"da" !eve!s.

Agep"a&+

Agep"a&+ A form of ro!ep!a"in& in hich an individua! acts andor treats another as if the" A form of ro!ep!a"in& in hich an individua! acts andor treats another as if the" ere aere a different a&e. The practice can be re&ressive) in hich the

different a&e. The practice can be re&ressive) in hich the &oa! is to re=experience chi!dhood) or sexua!)&oa! is to re=experience chi!dhood) or sexua!) recreatin& a sexua! re!ationship ith peop!e of the

recreatin& a sexua! re!ationship ith peop!e of the pretend andor true a&es. enera!!" this can pretend andor true a&es. enera!!" this can invo!veinvo!ve someone pretendin& to be "oun&er than the" actua!!" are) but more rare!" can invo!ve assumin& an someone pretendin& to be "oun&er than the" actua!!" are) but more rare!" can invo!ve assumin& an o!der ro!e of a nurturin& re!ationship of parentchi!d or teacherstudent.

o!der ro!e of a nurturin& re!ationship of parentchi!d or teacherstudent.

Ana" torture+

Ana" torture+ The B(S* practice of inf!ictin& pain on the The B(S* practice of inf!ictin& pain on the anus.anus.

Anima" P"a&+

Anima" P"a&+ ame p!a"in& H as defined herein H here the sub ro!e p!a"se andor dresses !i:e an ame p!a"in& H as defined herein H here the sub ro!e p!a"se andor dresses !i:e an anima! pupp") pon") co) etc.5.

anima! pupp") pon") co) etc.5.

Auctioned o+

Auctioned o+ (ominant auctions off the s!ave to the hi&hest bidder (ominant auctions off the s!ave to the hi&hest bidder usua!!" supervised and forusua!!" supervised and for temporar" use5.

temporar" use5.

Aut$orit& igure%isbe$aving Adu"t game+

Aut$orit& igure%isbe$aving Adu"t game+ ame p!a"in& H as defined herein H here a p!a"er ta:esame p!a"in& H as defined herein H here a p!a"er ta:es on the ro!e of an au

on the ro!e of an authorit" fi&ure and b!ac:mai!s or humi!iates his or her partner into sexua! thorit" fi&ure and b!ac:mai!s or humi!iates his or her partner into sexua! activit"activit"..

Bad pain

Bad pain ood pain and bad ood pain and bad pain are terms used !i&hthearted!" b" B(S* practitioners) si&nif"in& thatpain are terms used !i&hthearted!" b" B(S* practitioners) si&nif"in& that hi!st B(S* ma" inc!ude an e!ement often 8uite pronounced5 consensua! pain) there is a purpose to hi!st B(S* ma" inc!ude an e!ement often 8uite pronounced5 consensua! pain) there is a purpose to it) and some pain is consented to

it) and some pain is consented to and accepted hi!st other pain is nand accepted hi!st other pain is not. JBad painJ is pain hich ot. JBad painJ is pain hich isis outside hard !imits) non=mutua! or non=va!ued) not ished for) and of !imited or no

outside hard !imits) non=mutua! or non=va!ued) not ished for) and of !imited or no va!ue in thisva!ue in this context.

context.

ood pain and bad

ood pain and bad pain refer to p!easant vs. unp!easant pain. As a Jvani!!aJ examp!e) ima&ine pain refer to p!easant vs. unp!easant pain. As a Jvani!!aJ examp!e) ima&ine sorenesssoreness after a &ood or:out at the

after a &ood or:out at the &"m versus the pain of brea:in& &"m versus the pain of brea:in& a !e&. Author La" a !e&. Author La" iseman su&&ests aiseman su&&ests a corre!ation beteen perception of Jbad painJ durin& B(S* p!a" and subse8uent inEur".

corre!ation beteen perception of Jbad painJ durin& B(S* p!a" and subse8uent inEur".

BDS%+

BDS%+ Bonda&e(iscip!ine) (ominanceSubmission) Sadism*asochism9 a combined acron"m often Bonda&e(iscip!ine) (ominanceSubmission) Sadism*asochism9 a combined acron"m often used as a catcha!! for an"thin& in the :in: scene.

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Ber,"e& orse+

Ber,"e& orse+ A fA fu!! bod" restraint apparatu!! bod" restraint apparatus) supposed!"us) supposed!" desi&ned for) or b") Theresa Ber:!e" in 1,2,.

desi&ned for) or b") Theresa Ber:!e" in 1,2,.

Biting+

Biting+ Fsin& the teeth to bite bod" Fsin& the teeth to bite bod" parts of the submissive for pain but not so stron&!" as to parts of the submissive for pain but not so stron&!" as to dradra b!ood.

b!ood.

B"ac, s$eet part&+

B"ac, s$eet part&+ An or&" for peop!e into B(S* sex. An or&" for peop!e into B(S* sex.

B"indo"d+

B"indo"d+ Act or device for preventin& submissive from seein&. Act or device for preventin& submissive from seein&.

Bondage+

Bondage+ Acts invo!vin& the ph"sica! restraint of a Acts invo!vin& the ph"sica! restraint of a partner. Bonda&e t"pica!!" refers to tota! restraint)partner. Bonda&e t"pica!!" refers to tota! restraint) hoever it can be !imited to a

hoever it can be !imited to a particu!ar bod" part) such as breast bonda&e.particu!ar bod" part) such as breast bonda&e.

Bondage be"t+

Bondage be"t+ A A aist be!t hich has (=rin&s or other attachment points used for aist be!t hich has (=rin&s or other attachment points used for securin& sub to othersecurin& sub to other fixtures or other constaints

fixtures or other constaints

Bondage cus+

Bondage cus+ %estraints desi&ned for use in securin& the sub %estraints desi&ned for use in securin& the sub at rists or an:!es. enera!!" the" areat rists or an:!es. enera!!" the" are ide rist and an:!e restraints made of !eather) often padded ith soft !eather or fa:e

ide rist and an:!e restraints made of !eather) often padded ith soft !eather or fa:e fur and securedfur and secured b" a !oc:in& mechanism) b" a buc:!e or b" ve!cro. The" ma" be attached to each other or another b" a !oc:in& mechanism) b" a buc:!e or b" ve!cro. The" ma" be attached to each other or another

obEect. Be!o9 suspension bonda&e cuffs and arms !in:ed bonda&e cuffs. obEect. Be!o9 suspension bonda&e cuffs and arms !in:ed bonda&e cuffs.

Bondage $arness+

Bondage $arness+ A set of constraints used for bonda&e and t"pica!!" consistsA set of constraints used for bonda&e and t"pica!!" consists of a series of !eather straps) t"pica!!" beteen 1 and 2 cm ide) attached

of a series of !eather straps) t"pica!!" beteen 1 and 2 cm ide) attached to&ether in such a a" as

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Bondage #ope arness+

Bondage #ope arness+ A!so referred to as a bonda&e A!so referred to as a bonda&e eb) rope eb) rope dress or eb) rope eb) rope dress or :arada5 A :arada5 A roperope bonda&e techni8ue hich invo!ves the t"in& of an intricate structure of rope around the bod" in a bonda&e techni8ue hich invo!ves the t"in& of an intricate structure of rope around the bod" in a

comp!ex eb=!i:e fashion. comp!ex eb=!i:e fashion.

Bottom+

Bottom+ one ho receives ph"sica! sensation from a top in a scene the on one ho receives ph"sica! sensation from a top in a scene the one=done=to rather than the do=e=done=to rather than the do= er

er..

Branding+

Branding+ Fse of hot obEect to p Fse of hot obEect to produce a permanent or temporar" roduce a permanent or temporar" mar: on submissive$s f!esh.mar: on submissive$s f!esh.

Breast bondage+

Breast bondage+ A A bonda&e techni8ue hich bonda&e techni8ue hich invo!ves the t"in& of rope around invo!ves the t"in& of rope around aa oman$s breasts in a visua!!" intricate and decorative pattern) usua!!" so the breasts oman$s breasts in a visua!!" intricate and decorative pattern) usua!!" so the breasts are either f!attened a&ainst

are either f!attened a&ainst the chest or so that the chest or so that the" bu!&e. the" bu!&e. Breast bonda&e mostBreast bonda&e most common!" uses rope) but ebbin&) straps or a

common!" uses rope) but ebbin&) straps or a harness ma" a!so be used.harness ma" a!so be used.

Breat$ Contro"+

Breat$ Contro"+ The dominant contro!s the submissive$s breathin&. The dominant contro!s the submissive$s breathin&.

Butt p"ug+

Butt p"ug+ *uch !i:e a di!do) but pear=shaped ith a f!ared base. The f!ared base *uch !i:e a di!do) but pear=shaped ith a f!ared base. The f!ared base prevents the p!u& from bein& !ost in the ana! cavit" the pear shape he!ps ho!d the p!u& prevents the p!u& from bein& !ost in the ana! cavit" the pear shape he!ps ho!d the p!u&

in p!ace. The" come in a variet" of siDes some can vibrate. in p!ace. The" come in a variet" of siDes some can vibrate.

Caging+

Caging+ -nc!osin& the submissive i-nc!osin& the submissive in a ca&e for purposes of n a ca&e for purposes of punishment.punishment.

Caning+

Caning+ Administ Administerin& corporea! punishment usin& a cane) erin& corporea! punishment usin& a cane) e.&.) rattan) bamboo) p!astic) ooden) e.&.) rattan) bamboo) p!astic) ooden) etc)etc)

Captive

Captive prisonerTprisonerTorturer+orturer+ ame p!a"in& H as defined herein H here here one ro!e p!a"er usua!!" ame p!a"in& H as defined herein H here here one ro!e p!a"er usua!!" the (om or sub toppin&5 is a

the (om or sub toppin&5 is a captor ho abuses the other.captor ho abuses the other.

Cat o nine tai"s+

Cat o nine tai"s+ A!so :non as theA!so :non as the cat5 A

cat5 A t"pe of mu!ti=tai!ed hip thatt"pe of mu!ti=tai!ed hip that ori&inated as an imp!ement for severe ori&inated as an imp!ement for severe ph"sica! punishment) notab!" in the ph"sica! punishment) notab!" in the %o"a! >av" and Arm" of the Fnited %o"a! >av" and Arm" of the Fnited ;in&dom.

;in&dom.

C$astit&+

C$astit&+ A A form of erotic sexua! denia! or or&asm denia! hereb" a form of erotic sexua! denia! or or&asm denia! hereb" a person is prevented from accessperson is prevented from access to) or stimu!ation of) their &enita!s) save at the him or

to) or stimu!ation of) their &enita!s) save at the him or choice of their partner) usua!!" b" means of achoice of their partner) usua!!" b" means of a device ca!!ed a chastit" be!t or sometimes for men a

device ca!!ed a chastit" be!t or sometimes for men a coc: ca&e5 that prevents contact coc: ca&e5 that prevents contact and is contro!!edand is contro!!ed b" means of a !oc: b" the partner.

b" means of a !oc: b" the partner.

C"ipping+

C"ipping+ App!"in& mechanica! c!ips or pinchers to bod" parts) especia!!" nipp!es and &enita!ia. App!"in& mechanica! c!ips or pinchers to bod" parts) especia!!" nipp!es and &enita!ia.

Coc, and ba"" torture (CBT)+

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Co"d corporea" punis$ment+

Co"d corporea" punis$ment+ A A span:in& or span:in& or other corporea! punishment app!ied sother corporea! punishment app!ied subse8uent to theubse8uent to the recipient p!acin& ice on area up hich the punishment is to be app!ied.

recipient p!acin& ice on area up hich the punishment is to be app!ied.

Co""ar+

Co""ar+ A device of an" materia! p!aced around the nec: of A device of an" materia! p!aced around the nec: of the submissive partner

the submissive partner. It is a!so a term used to . It is a!so a term used to shosho onership of one

onership of one partner b" another. A partner b" another. A person earin& aperson earin& a co!!ar to s"mbo!iDe their re!ationship ith another is said to co!!ar to s"mbo!iDe their re!ationship ith another is said to be co!!ared. Some peop!e conduct forma! Jco!!arin&

be co!!ared. Some peop!e conduct forma! Jco!!arin&

ceremonies)J hich are re&arded as effective!" so!emniDin& ceremonies)J hich are re&arded as effective!" so!emniDin& their re!ationship in a

their re!ationship in a simi!ar a" as a marria&e simi!ar a" as a marria&e ceremon"ceremon".. The standard form of a co!!ar is a b!ac: !eather band around The standard form of a co!!ar is a b!ac: !eather band around the nec: and often has meta! (=rin&s added to a!!o the the nec: and often has meta! (=rin&s added to a!!o the attachment of a !eash.

attachment of a !eash.

Co""ared+

Co""ared+ Submissive or s!ave ho is oned) Submissive or s!ave ho is oned) usua!!" but certain!" not exc!usive!"5 in a !ovin&usua!!" but certain!" not exc!usive!"5 in a !ovin& intimate re!ationship. A

intimate re!ationship. A dominant ma" have dominant ma" have mu!tip!e persons co!!ared. A!so9 a pup$s status) asmu!tip!e persons co!!ared. A!so9 a pup$s status) as differentiated from a Jstra"J.

differentiated from a Jstra"J.

Co""aring+

Co""aring+ The forma! acceptance b" a dominant) of a sub$s service) or the JonershipJ of a pup b" a The forma! acceptance b" a dominant) of a sub$s service) or the JonershipJ of a pup b" a *aster or Trai

*aster or Trainer. ner. A!so the ceremon" hen a A!so the ceremon" hen a dominant commits to a sub much !i:e a dominant commits to a sub much !i:e a eddin& or othereddin& or other contract5.

contract5.

Consent+

Consent+ *utua! a&reement to the terms of a *utua! a&reement to the terms of a scene or on&oin& bdsm re!ationship.scene or on&oin& bdsm re!ationship.

Consensua" non-consensua"it&+

Consensua" non-consensua"it&+ A mutua! a&reement that ithin defined !imits) consent i!! be &ivenA mutua! a&reement that ithin defined !imits) consent i!! be &iven as read ithout fore:no!ed&e of the exact actions p!anned. As such) it is a sho of trust and

as read ithout fore:no!ed&e of the exact actions p!anned. As such) it is a sho of trust and

understandin& and usua!!" underta:en on!" b" partners ho :no each other e!!) or otherise a&ree understandin& and usua!!" underta:en on!" b" partners ho :no each other e!!) or otherise a&ree to set c!ear safe !imits on their activities.

to set c!ear safe !imits on their activities.

Contract+

Contract+A ritten=out a&reement beteen the dA ritten=out a&reement beteen the dominant M submissive. It can be either forma! or non)ominant M submissive. It can be either forma! or non) and is usua!!" ritten after much ne&otiation b"

and is usua!!" ritten after much ne&otiation b" the dominant and the sub) outhe dominant and the sub) out!inin& hat structure)t!inin& hat structure) &uide!ines) ru!es and boundaries to the re!ationship are

&uide!ines) ru!es and boundaries to the re!ationship are a&reed upon b" the a&reed upon b" the to. It is not !e&a!!" bindin&.to. It is not !e&a!!" bindin&.

Crop+

Crop+ A!so ca!!ed a ridin& crop or huntin& cA!so ca!!ed a ridin& crop or huntin& crop5 is a shortrop5 is a short rod t"pe of hip ithout a !ash and &enera!!" made of sprin&" rod t"pe of hip ithout a !ash and &enera!!" made of sprin&" materia!. *a" have sma!! padd!e=!i:e piece on end.

materia!. *a" have sma!! padd!e=!i:e piece on end.

Cropping+

Ds Agreement

Dominant (@Penetrates)-submissive Agreement

Dominant (@Penetrates)-submissive Agreement

Contents

Contents

Introduction

Introduction

Petition To Become A Submissive

Petition To Become A Submissive

Appendix A.

Appendix A.

Terms And Conditions o Submission

Terms And Conditions o Submission

Attac$ment A.

Attac$ment A.

!"ossar& o Terms

!"ossar& o Terms