Try out some of the exercises when you are with her, just so you can catch a glimpse of what is available to you through these marvelous principals and techniques. Tantra may sound very simple, and in fact, it really is. But never underestimate the power of the method, as you come to master it with continual practice in the sack on a regular schedule. You will begin to not only get women so stimulated and ready to just explode in ecstasy, but when they finally do release, it will be such an awesome and miraculous experience, that many of them will cry, sometimes uncontrollably because it is such a moving experience.
Remember, they are not used to getting this kind of attention, intensity and intimacy from a guy. Why do you think so many women experiment with “Lesbianism” in their early teens and up till their late twenties, and some beyond that as well? Because they are dying for intimacy and tenderness, that’s why! They have a deep-seated need to experience the feeling of consideration and caring, and to have some one really slow down and take some quality time with them. Yes, tenderness and intimacy, the man that can bring those items to the table, along with an erect and functioning penis, is going to be one very popular fella indeed!
Give it a try; you will be astounded with the outcome. There may be a little transition period, where you want to pop back into “Hyper-f**k” mode, but give it a try and you will be very happy you did. It
automatically creates that close and caring sensation that women thrive on and continually search for in the bedroom. This is new for her as well. When do you think the last time was that a guy wanted to slow things down and focus in on feeling close and connected with her?
It’s easy. Make every movement count. The kiss should last minutes and should be deliberate and passionate. The undressing of your partner in stages of one step forward, then pause for a moment, retreat from the action just a little bit by taking a half step back. Then, once she moves toward you to fill the sudden vacuum of empty space between you, continue on to take it to the next level.
“Antici-Passion!”
Slow and methodical, no hurry, one step forward, pause, half a step back, let her fall forward into your space, and then proceed with the next step forward. She will start to get hotter and hotter with each step, each heightened level of erotic tension and passion play, each moment of deliberately created “Antici-Passion.”
Do you see what is happening here? Rather than you desperately trying to get into her pants, and her having to play the role of the good-girl victim fighting off your advances, she is the one who will keep moving in to create more contact. Each time you stop and fall back a little, the wilder she will get from the state of intimate anticipation, so she will eventually be the one who just rips off what’s left of her clothes and says: “Please!!!! Please DO me right now!”
Now I know that this is a dream come true for all healthy young men. But if you can hold on, and continue the method all the way through, slowly making her work her way into intercourse with you, she will eventually be so hot and turned on, that she will let you do ANYTHING that you want to do to her. All as long as you do it slow and with intent!
Next, drive her absolutely crazy by slowly massaging her entire body. Slowly and firmly, with strength and deep passion, all around, but never actually touching the erogenous zones. At first she will think you are a gentleman, and just appreciate your respect and honor, but this is a tricky form of driving a woman crazy. It’s much more effective and guaranteed for results than even the old “Chinese Water Torture” method! Continue to rub and caress her body, with desire and passion in your eyes as you maintain long sessions of eye contact with your lady, but never actually touch her tits, or pussy, or even the crack of her ass. Go all around them, kneed the muscles and flesh, rub and shake, vibrate and press, but only get within a whisper of her sexual centers, and then right as she thinks you are about to touch them, move away, slow and deliberate.
What do you think is going to happen? Damn straight, she is going to grab your hand and place it directly on her breasts, she is going to wiggle around and coo like no tomorrow. She will open her legs and run you fingers right up and down the crack of her ass and shudder in total delight. Then for her grand finale, she is going to thrust your hand between her openly spread legs and she is going to stroke that pussy for all its worth with your fingers, and may even end up having an orgasm or two while she is doing it. But don’t worry, as you learn to live life as a “MASTER”, you will soon realize and thank God that women can have multiple orgasms all night long, and they will.
Now just lie there together on the bed, in a very relaxed and peaceful fashion, without talking, if you can manage to keep her from speaking
without being abrupt or come across as rude or demanding. Some women do not know how to handle intimacy, so they will start to become chatty. You need to either with your lips in a very slow and passionate kiss, or with your index finger lightly placed across her lips, tell her
“shhhhhhhh!”