NEXT QUESTION: HOW CAN I STRING PATTERNS TOGETHER? Excellent question!

General Stucture of what I do.

1. Think of her trance words as themes

2. Ask your self 'what other examples can I come up with using these themes?' or ask her 'what else can you experience that same sense of _________?'

3. Describe your personal experience or illict hers. 4. Repeat the process (steps 1-3)

I think of her trance words as themes. In the

previous example I used the trance words (FEEL FREE, and FREEDOM). After the first pattern I ask myself

'How can I relate to FEELING FREE, and FREEDOM or what other examples could I use that would involve the

emotions of FEELING FREE and FREEDOM?' Then I describe a moment to her that I have experiences these same or similiar emotions. This being another pattern. For instance I could use my experiences such as

Sky diving, vacations, fantasies, being on the peak of a mountain, flying, being at rock concerts, etc As I describe my personal experience of when I have experienced these same emotions I naturally go into state describing them to her. Remember YOU GO FIRST. Lets use fantasies. Ask yourself 'How are fantasies related to FEELING FREE and the sense of having FREEDOM? 'How could I spin something off that?'

72 I would say 'you know I think having that sense of

FREEDOM and FEELING FREE is just like when a person has fantasies. (Watch for her non-verbal response, if she is showing signs of uncomfort I pace, use a softner, and a challenge to her self image such as 'You know, I hope this not too intrusive and I realize that you probably don't explore with many people but you seemed mature enough of a person to explore this theme because I think when a person is having fantasies) Its like a person can feel that sense of

FREEDOM and FEEL FREE because your imagination has no boundries or limits, and the more you FEEL FREE to

indulge in this place, the more real they become...etc

Or perhaps a better method would be to ask her is 'What else do you find that is similar that allows you to FEEL FREE and that sense of FREEDOM?' Use her words and experiences to assist you to generate more patterns.

Then what else could you say about FEELING FREE and FREEDOM? How about vacations. I would illict by saying 'it is just like when I go on vacation how sometimes I can feel that sense of freedom, if I were

to ask you can you IMAGINE YOUR IDEAL VACATION spot how would you describe it?'

Do you notice the flexibility?

NEXT QUESTION: HOW DID YOU KNOW THE APPROPRIATE SPEED (fun&laughter, intrigue, fantasy, vacation)?

I guess the simple answer is to focus your attention on her, observe her actions, and calibrate her responses.

NEXT QUESTION: WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE ABOUT WOMEN? All women want to be seduced by me and all good girls

on the outside are naughty sluts inside. They want it more than I do.

NEXT QUESTION: WHERE WOULD YOU RECOMMEND TO FIND MORE EXAMPLE OF PATTERNS?

Ross's products, the SS List, other SS Bros

NEXT QUESTION: WHAT IS ROSS'S 4 LEVELS OF THE MIND PATTERN?

73 I share it but only with Ross's permission because I believe it is on some of his advanced material stuff. I hope I was able to answer all the questions you guys asked me if I missed something let me know.

Steve

So how does one arrive at this? I think the first thing to do is to realize that you can't expect this to happen for you. You can have you're words dropped in your lap. You have to go through a process, a series of processes. And you have to get up and get away from your computer, and from your personal comfort zone to do it.

First off do this: 1. Elicit her values.

This Is on the last tape of the BHSC.

A. "What's important to you in a relationship"? B. "How do you know when you have that"? C. "How does that make you feel"?

Ask this 3 times and write them down ... in order ... and KEEP this paper!

Now, You have to have the KEYS to your wife's heart. By getting at least 3 Values, you will have the keys. 2. Now, unlock the door!

A. repeat them back to her (just like in the course). B. calibrate her response

If you get a doggy dinner bowl look and she is responding to you positively C. Look into her eyes and kiss her

Hold the kiss for 10 seconds (no groping or rubbing and not tongue) just a lip kiss. AS you kiss her Project love from your heart to hers.

From the book "The 10 Second Kiss" D. Ask her how she feels

If she says "Good" ask "...on a scale of 1 to 10 where is she? If you get a 7 or above you did real good.

Now smile and say "...that's great and squeeze her hand and anchor the feeling. E. Now, just walk away.

FROM NOW ON IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP GET HER CHASING YOU. Remember, YOU are the prize.

Let her catch you every once and a while though.

D. If she comes back to you and wants another kiss. Give it to her. anchor it and close the deal. Say: "OK...Don't THINK ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH ME right now

"Have you ever thought about the difference between X and Y?" Entrain attention

Get their attention. Get them to stop what they are currently doing. Break their current state. You can even throw in a confusion induction, or breakan auto-response (this is one of my favorites). Remember that without their full attention, they're just wasting your time.

74 Induce State

Through elicitation. They could remember when they felt a certain way... you could elicit not only their "operation" strategy ("What do you do to allow yourself to feel X, or when you want to feel X, what do you do?") but also their "test" strategy ("How do you know that you feel X?") Note process and anchor.

Another method of eliciting has to do with eliciting strategy/process, where you can elicit a "resource" that they have and that they use currently. Like

("When you wan't to feel relaxed, what do you do, If I was you, how would I become relaxed?) Notice their process and anchor it.

Yet another method of eliciting has to do with acting "as if". This allows them to fully use their imagination, and may even bring out parts of them that they were currently unaware of. Example: "If you were a horny teenager right now, and you wanted to seduce me, what would you do?" Of course you want to note the process and anchor. And also ENJOY being seduced.

Amplify and intensify state

Many ways to do this. Ross will teach some of these in his Advanced

Seduction Workshop in Chicago coming up... what he teaches here would be worth the cost of the whole seminar... Link to action

And link to YOURSELF

OK, I'm not going to give exact conversation here, as it will work better if you learn to make it conversational FOR YOU and go with the responses she gives, but what can you ask yourself, what can you notice, what is it you can use about what she is interested in? (If your answer is "nothing," then find a chick who has more similar interests.) What is it that people in the medical field study that is so fascinating? Maybe how all the systems, organs, tissues, even down to the very level of the cells interact and connect with one another (blah, blah, blah), to the point that it just seems natural for them to do this. It's like they just go about their business and do what they were born to do. It's just like the ideal connection between two people... It can almost at times cause you to stop and consider if maybe this is just the way the universe works... (If her interest is just to help people, use that as a doorway into connections. Get the idea?)

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