mini Social circles

staying in a hotel where all the women are puts you at a great advantage when it comes to maxi-mizing your chances with the hottest women. If you are not staying in the same hotel as a woman, then you will likely have exactly one shot to meet and attract her. If you make any mistakes or if the

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timing was just off, then you will not get another chance to attract her. this means that you must have great game or get lucky. on the other hand, if you are staying in a hotel with tons of women, then you will see the same women multiple times each day over the course of the week. this allows you to slowly cultivate relationships with tons of women and strike when the timing is perfect. You can meet an extremely beautiful woman and grind her down slowly over the week. A woman you meet on Monday may be cold as ice when you first meet, but by Friday she may be all over you. If you aren’t staying where you will see her over and over, then you will only get one shot to get her.

Girls are extremely flaky on spring break so you don’t want to have to rely on phone game. You want to see her again and again. I’m not saying you shouldn’t take numbers, just be aware that most women on spring break are going to have so much stimulation from the beach, to drinking, to guys hitting on them, that trying to run standard text and phone game will be like trying to squeeze blood from a turnip.

By simply staying in the right hotel, you will be able to crack into multiple groups of women and you will get far more work done with less effort. You will swim with them at the hotel, hang out on the beach, play volleyball, pre party before going out, ride to the club together, party at the club together, and ride home with them from the club. You can share a van to the club and ride back (this is how the hotel pulls for you).

Knowing that you are going to see the women over and over allows you to run a much slower and more natural style of game. You should run a much slower and more limited attraction game dur-ing the down time at the hotel. You should focus more on working your qualification and comfort game, and then turning up your attraction game at night when everyone goes out. Doing this gives you a HuGe advantage over the competition. the women will already know you, so, you don’t have to be the stranger trying to open.

You will have a group of girls at the club that you already know. You already know each other so the woman is much less likely to flake later that night when you try to pull, because you have qualified her and built some comfort during the day. Most guys will have a hard time pulling girls on spring break because the clubs are so loud that it is very hard to qualify and build comfort. they can get attraction and get the woman extremely attracted through dancing, touch, and short banter, but

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when they go to pull the woman she locks up because he is still a stranger.

When it comes to 9 and 10 game , you will have much more success when those women are stay-ing in your hotel. As we all know, your margin for error with 9’s and 10’s is already lower in general, but even more so on spring break. While same night lays can and will happen with 9’s and 10’s on spring break, it is by no means consistent. It’s easy to get same night lays with skanky drunk girls or even 7’s, but to get the really hot girls on spring break you will have better luck grinding them down over the course of a week instead of trying to poach them off at a night club in one hit.

Gaming in the clubs…

ok, let’s forget the mini social circles for now and let’s talk about how to game within the club as-suming you don’t have the luxury of creating a mini social circle.

opening:

You can go indirect if you are lucky enough to find a quiet portion of the club, but you will need to quickly get into a topic that is fun. spring break is all about cutting lose and being crazy. If you try to have a deep low energy conversation, you will likely lose the set.

Your best bet is to go direct or situational. Don’t feel bad if you burn through as many sets as you must. the clubs are so big, loud, and high energy, that you will inevitably lose some sets. use this to your advantage. In a low key bar or club back home, burning through sets at a high rate could ruin your social proof. the entire room would see you getting blown out multiple times and they would lose attraction for you. on spring break, the size of the clubs, coupled with the high energy, and the sheer volume of people creates a situation where you can work the entire room and rarely see the same girl twice. This is good and bad. It’s good, because if you open enough sets you will find one that hits. It’s bad, because social proof will not be a powerful tool in your arsenal, because the mob is so big, people don’t have much time to observe any one person for long. Working the room is a must, but doing it trying to slowly build social proof is a joke.

Just go direct or situational and open until you find one that hits. The clubs are so big, blowouts don’t matter.

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direct opener examples:

Braddock : “You are cute/hot, what’s your name?”

Braddock : “How do you expect me not to hit on you when you look like this?”

Braddock : “You are really cute, I’m Braddock.”

Braddock : “I don’t think I’ve met you yet, I’m Braddock.”

Braddock : “I’m not sure what to say to you, but I had to meet you…I’m Braddock.”

Situational opener examples:

Braddock : “I’m sorry, there’s actually no dancing in here.”

Braddock : “I’m sorry, there’s actually no drinking in here.”

Braddock : (to a tall girl) “Hi, I’m not really into short girls, but you are really sexy.”

Braddock : (to a short girl) “Hi, I’m not really into tall girls, but you are sexy as hell.”

Braddock : “excuse me, do you know what time the bible study starts tonight?”

attraction Game within the clubs….

With every set you open, you need to find out the logistics of your target. If you are looking to hook up on spring break then it’s important to realize that it is a waste of time to talk to even the hottest woman on the planet if she is staying 20 miles down the beach and she drove the rental car so all her friends could drink. Are there 10 girls staying in one room? Is she staying in fort Knox of a hotel?

Are her friends extremely bitchy and judgmental? find out logistics early in set and viscously cut sets with bad logistics. If a set has several bad logistical components...Next set!!!!!!

remember that spring break is slightly different than normal club situations. everyone there is in party mode and they did not go to spring break looking to find their next boyfriend. Don’t make the mistake of being the serious, deep, philosophical, guy. that style of game will not get you far on spring break. Avoid attempting to run deep comfort until you get her back to the hotel or at least until you can get her somewhere quiet like a walk on the beach. In most venues it will be much too loud and crazy to hold a woman’s attention if you try to slow things down and get deep.

Your main emphasis should be on keeping things playful and physical. this is done through teasing, role plays, dancing, and leading. Anything that takes a lot of attention or effort on the woman’s

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part, especially early in set, will likely result in you losing her attention.

once you have the girl’s attention, and you have attraction, you need to move her as much as pos-sible. At the end of the night you are asking the woman to go home with a complete stranger to a hotel room she has never been to, in the middle of the night. that is asking a lot in and of itself.

However, if you have been moving her around the club all night long, then she is slowly getting used to the idea of following your lead. If she is comfortable following your lead all night, then she will be much more comfortable and relaxed when you bring up the idea of going back to your hotel.

use the dance floor…

The dance floor is the quickest way to escalate things physically (even if you can’t dance. Just move her to the center of the mob and grind away). these places are usually so fucking loud that dancing is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal. of course you don’t ‘have’ to dance and you can have success without it, but it will make your life much easier.

these clubs are so loud that it can be extremely hard to hold a woman’s attention for very long us-ing a long routine stack. this limits your attraction game, so you will need to get more done with less. Dancing can eat up a ton of time while moving the set forward physically, and it does most, if not all, of your attraction game without having to say all that much. for one, it does all of your kino escalation for you. Dancing can go all the way to make out or even farther without so much as one word being spoken.

Gaming at your hotel:

Mingle, don’t game. Don’t run around your hotel burning down every set. If there is an open beach at your hotel with tons of people and most of them are not staying at your hotel, then by all means game away. But at your hotel, try to mingle and get on girls’ radar, so you can game them later at night when the vibe is right. If they remember you that night, your work is cut in half. You won’t have to have a fancy opener. there will be built in familiarity and comfort. When you see her at a club later that night, she will feel much more comfortable running around with you all night than some new stranger who is trying to game her through cold approach.

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think of your hotel as a mini social circle. You only have a week, so we are going to push faster than normal, but still slower than cold approach. Quickly find a small group of girls to befriend, just like in normal life, having a group of girls simply standing with your group will make it easier to open other girls. they don’t have to be super hot, although this would obviously be preferred. Just look for girls that will hang around with you.

Don’t worry if they talk to other guys. As a matter of fact, don’t be afraid to encourage it. If some-thing happens with these girls romantically over the course of the week, so be it. However, that is not your prime directive of meeting them and having them around. pre-existing girls always put new girls at ease. Yes, there is the potential of hitting the ‘pre-selection’ attraction switch, but I’m not even worried about that. I want you to use these women to help other women open easier. there will be so many drunk assholes hitting on women that they can become kind of guarded. If you already have women, they will see you as much safer. they will be much easier to open and merge into your group.

Good day game/Scm hybrid game makes your nights easier.

Don’t waste your day ‘just’ being drunk and passing out. utilize the daytime to make your nights easier. the daytime is the time to get on tons of girls‘ radar so you can open them with ease later in the night. I highly suggest that you get involved in as many day activities that allow you to be social, naturally. play volleyball and use it as your opener, “Hey, we need two more girls for our team, you guys down to play?”

During the day you don’t need to take sets from meet to sex. I highly suggest that you use fun or functional openers, get to know them for a few minutes and then move on (unless it is going ex-tremely well, then of course escalate just like normal game). really use this time during the day, so you will know a bunch of people at night. open a woman, introduce her and her friends to your friends...wash rinse repeat, all day.

If you hit it off well with a girl or group of girls from your hotel, ask them what club they are going to that night. Whatever club they say, you say, “cool, I think that is where we are going. You guys want to catch a cab over together?” If they say yes, then invite them over to pre-party in your room at 8 or 9.

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this means you should have music and a few drinks in your room so they will want to stay and will want to pre-party there next time.

examples of things to make your room fun:

• Keg

• Music

• Beer pong

• Flip cup

• Beer bong

When they come over, and while you are heading to the club, don’t push hard to game them or couple up. let this happen organically. over the course of the night, some, or their group, is go-ing to break off and meet other guys. some of her girls won’t like your buddies in that way. WHo CAres??!! Don’t make them or any of their friends uncomfortable by acting jealous. tHIs Is sprING BreAK!!!! she is not your girlfriend. utilize the fact that these girls are going with you and use it to your advantage.

hooking up with girls in your hotel…

Make sure that if the girl is staying in your hotel you don’t sleep with her if she seems like the clingy type you aren’t sure you will want to be seen with all week. If she is way into you and you hook up, she will try to hang out with you all week, essentially cock blocking you from meeting other girls.

she will act offended if you ignore her, dismiss her, or, if she sees you talking to other girls. this means, you will need to set certain frames the night you hook up with her and the morning after.

Set the right frames…

pre frames (things said well before you get her in the bedroom)

spring break is not a place where you are likely to meet your next girlfriend or future wife. spring break is all about hooking up ‘now or never’. If you are the kind of guy that is used to running Day 2 style of game and deep comfort game you may find yourself frustrated on spring break. The women are flaky and spring break is not logistically set up for dates. Do to the fact that you are hooking up with women you’ve known for only a short period of time, it is quite common to get lMr (last minute resistance ) if you do not set the proper frames.

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What frames Should you Set?

You want to set frames that imply sexual intent. You don’t need to be overly sexual or pushy, but it is a good idea to introduce at least some sexual dialogue. the key is the timing. If you introduce it before you have solid attraction, it will destroy the set. You also want to wait to set these frames when you have the girl in isolation (away from her friends). I usually do it in mini isolation (meaning that I do it just out of earshot of her friends).

examples of pre frames:

on the other hand if your same night lay game is tight, then you will run into another problem that needs remedy. You will find that you can create a situation where you have a stage five clinger fol-lowing you around all week wondering why you are talking to other girls and not spending your entire spring break with her.

When you see her the next day, don’t act weird. Just act exactly like you did the day before. Don’t make out with her and run around the beach holding hands. Just be flirty and playful. If

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you are just being social in general then she won’t notice that you are actively gaming other girls.

If you try to sniper a girl right in front of her it might cause problems, but if you are just talking to everyone, she will assume you are just a social guy.

The truth is that you should just avoid the women that you think will be stage five clingers. Most women on spring break don’t give a shit!!!! they are there for the same reason you are. As a mat-ter of fact, most women are just as likely to get weirded out by a guy acting clingy. Do Not treat a woman that you hooked up with on spring break like she is your new girlfriend. You may or may not hook up with her again on the trip anyway, but the fastest way to guarantee that you don’t is to turn into a clingy boyfriend.

What frames can you set post sex to help reduce stage 5 clinger?

To avoid any hard feelings or creating a stage five clinger, focus on the fact that “This was hot” and don’t place an emphasis on the connection you made, the feelings you feel for each other, or how glad you are that you met. focus on “how fucking attracted you are to her” and “how much she turns you on.”

To avoid any hard feelings or creating a stage five clinger, focus on the fact that “This was hot” and don’t place an emphasis on the connection you made, the feelings you feel for each other, or how glad you are that you met. focus on “how fucking attracted you are to her” and “how much she turns you on.”