it’s legal and consual.
It’s very powerful.”
will want to do it and she will have earth-shattering orgasms. So when I say share taboos, I mean do them together.
Now shared secrets is another thing. It’s very powerful to leverage. Like you said, it brings people closer together. What I did with my current girlfriend, at the appropriate time in our relationship, there was a Wednesday night where she was going to prepare dinner for me. I was going to go over and have dinner. What I do before each date, I give my woman a little task. Well, not every date but most of them. This keeps her head in the game.
That week I gave her the task, “Darling, when I come over Wednesday night,” – I think I told her Sunday night or Monday night to give her a couple days to really brew on it and keep her head in the game – I said, “When I come over
Wednesday night I want you to tell me a secret. I don’t care what it is and it’s absolutely safe and secure with me. I will not judge you by it. And when you share that secret with me, I will share a secret with you.”
And she said, “Oh, ok” and she brewed on it, I know it. When I came over Wednesday night she served dinner, we had a wonderful dinner, we went and sat on the couch. I said, “Ok, now tell me a secret” and she did. She told me something that she probably only told two or three other people in her life. By doing that, we’ve become even closer, and also it gives me an opportunity to share a secret about me to her. I picked one that would have worked for my long-term interests, of course, and we became even closer.
Grant: Beautiful. A little verbal command ahead of time. You can also tell a
woman, “I want you to think about this until I get there.” It’s a very nice thing.
David: Oh she will, trust me, she will. You can be sure.
Grant: Ok, we’ve got a couple more guys, we’re going to open up one more call
here.
Caller: Hey, this is Mark in Miami. Grant: Hey Mark. Welcome.
Caller: Thanks, great material tonight. David spoke a little bit about how to sort
of extend an orgasm. One of the most pleasurable things as a guy I think is bringing a woman to multiple orgasms. So I was wondering if you had any – I mean some women don’t know themselves to be multi-orgasmic.
I was wondering if that’s a physical limitation or a mental limitation, and if you had any techniques to bring women to that.
David: Ok, excellent question. Thank you, Mark from Miami. Multiple orgasms.
Awesome stuff, man. If you’re with a woman who has not had multiple orgasms and you bring her through that, oh yeah, she’s convinced.
Now a lot of women honestly believe that they cannot have multiple orgasms, and a lot of that comes with years of training and years of being with lame lovers. Over the years, when women masturbate they get off and it’s on to the next thing, which could be going to sleep so she can get up to work on time or whatever.
Actually, there is no physical constraint to the number of orgasms a woman has. At the time of orgasm, both men and women – now I’m not a scientist or sex therapist, but this is an important point – at the time of orgasm, both men and women secrete prolactin.
Prolactin is actually a chemical that women secrete at the time of childbirth to stimulate her breasts to lactate. Now, at the time of orgasm it’s created by both men and women. For most men, it’s a real boner killer. For women it has absolutely no effect.
In actuality, with every orgasm a woman becomes even more aroused, even more responsive. Her next orgasm will come even faster. It will be even more powerful. They are the opposite of men physically in that aspect.
If a woman says she is not multi-orgasmic, it’s a mental block, and that’s what you have to get past. A lot of this has to do with getting a woman past her own mental blocks, because she doesn’t know this stuff about herself. You do and you have an agenda, but you do not tell her your agenda.
You do not tell her that she’s multi-orgasmic or she will mentally resist you and you don’t want that. You want to mentally lead her into an experience that will physically cause it to happen, and then she’s convinced.
And what do you do then? After she’s had an orgasm, you simply rest, you hold her and tell her you can’t hold her close enough, blah blah blah, and then you do something else.
Let’s say you start rubbing her clitoris. Say “Darn it, I just adore everything about you that defines you as a woman. I just want to rub you. Just relax. Just feel the pleasure.”
Remember, do not let her know that you have an agenda. You and I know you have an agenda, but do not tell her that. Instead, you simply do it out of
admiration for her. Women love that. Women want to be validated. They want to