This cheat sheet takes all the game concepts and techniques I’ve taught you and distills them into a few key points that you can read frequently to remind yourself of what it takes to sleep with a lot of women. They should always be in the back of your mind when playing the game.
Approach Every Week
This is the number one thing you can do to improve your sex life right now. Even without a scrap of game, merely approaching will drastically improve your odds and get more than you were getting before. Start a conversation with a canned opener or make random
comments about anything related to your current situation. Ask a question about her drink, her scarf, what time the bookstore closes, where she bought something, anything! If you want to get laid a lot, you must do this weekly. Do it for your dick and trust me, it gets easier over time.
Keep It Chatty, Keep It Interesting, Keep It Fun
During the first several minutes she’ll barely do any talking. That’s okay, because it’ll be a great opportunity to show your personality, charm, and humor. Instead of asking personal questions before she does, ramble on about the environment and things you’ve noticed.
Then casually drop cool things that you’re doing or have done. If she’s engaged in the conversation at night, crack a joke that pokes gentle fun at her. Did she smile, open her eyes wide, or otherwise show that she liked it? Then do it again. You should only ask questions when you get stuck, since the last thing you want to do is interview her.
Divide And Conquer
If she's already alone, great. Be interesting enough so that she starts asking personal questions like what you do and what your name is, and then ramp up the touching—first quick, innocent ones on her forearm and back of her hand and then longer ones on the sides of her hip. Otherwise you must get her away from her friends. Suggest a visit to the bar, dance floor, or outside to get a smoke or some air. If you can’t isolate once you’ve hit the peak of your conversation, it’s best to get a phone number and leave before it gets stale. If she’s not willing to let you isolate her, move on, because she’s not interested.
Take It As Far As You Can Go
Don’t be just satisfied with a number or a kiss. Push the interaction as far as you can by changing venues or asking if she wants to go to your place for a drink. In the history of the world there have been billions of number exchanges that didn’t go anywhere, so view phone
numbers as a last resort when you can’t go any further. It pains me to see a guy just getting the number of a girl who obviously wants to fuck that night, only to have him call in a couple days and never get a response. Assume that you’ll never see her again, because odds are you won’t.
When In Doubt, Chill Out
There’ll be many monkey wrenches thrown your way, when there’s not always an obvious best response. In such cases, just do nothing. Sit back and let time pass. Sometimes a girl is merely testing you for a response and when she doesn’t get that response she’ll give up and contact you again. It amazes me how often doing nothing has gotten me back into the game with girls who suddenly acted flakey or weird. And when the stakes get higher and she does something disrespectful or crazy, pull back hard. Let her come into you instead of the other way around.
If You Don’t Feel Like A Creep, You’re Not Pushing Hard Enough She’s not going to invite you upstairs like in the movies. She’s not going to tell you she wants to have sex with you. She’s not going to grab your dick and put it in. You must always be making the first move and always be pushing. If you’re scared she’ll think of you as a creep, that means you’re on the right path.
Remember that girls who like you are flattered that you want to have sex with them, so moving quickly is an indirect way of showing interest that can be helpful for new relationships. Get her to your place or hers the same night you meet her. Get her into the bedroom. Take off her clothes and keep going. If she resists, take a break and start over again. Break her down and bang her, and then take her out and bang her again.
If you liked Bang, I think you'll like my newest game guide, Day Bang. It’s a 201-page book that teaches you how to pick up women solely during the day, primarily in a coffee shop, clothing store, bookstore, grocery store, subway, or on the street. It contains 51 openers, 23 long dialogue examples with commentary, and dozens of additional lines that teach by example.
Here are just a couple of things you’ll learn in Day Bang:
•How to approach women in over a dozen common daytime venues
•A detailed breakdown of how to use the "elderly opener," an easy style of approach that reliably starts conversations with women
•How to take the interesting things you've done (your accomplishments, hobbies, and experiences) and morph them into bait hooks that gets the girl intrigued enough to want to go out with you
•The optimal day game mindset that leads to the most amount of success
•Ways to open up a conversation on a girl who isn't giving you much to work with
My two books complement each other: Day Bang helps you get more prospects while Bang gives you the best middle and late game to sleep with them. To learn more about Day Bang, visit the following web site: http://www.rooshv.com/go/daybang
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