Ultimate Seduction Guide

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I have formed this Seduction Manual out of the clay of knowledge I have gained

from my countless socio – sexual explorations.

This Seduction Manual is my automaton, my robot, to consistently answer

newbies’ questions.

The end goal in seduction, in success, is to make it natural. When it becomes

natural, you have no need for any seduction manual and can handle anything

women throw at you.” This maybe, the most excellent book you have ever read

but this book merely serves as a guide and just like any guide, it exist not to grant

you success but ILLUSTRATE the means to success.

(You can skip the introduction and jump to the juicy part if you want)

1. I love myself. I walk through life without apology.

2. I do not make excuses for anyone or myself.

3. I don’t need to explain. I create my own rules and

live with courage.

4. Winners focus on winning, failures focus on failure,

powerful people focus on attack, weak people

defend, and offence is the best defense.

5. Winners never quit and quitters never win.

6. Survival of the fittest, the strong shall live and the

weak shall die.

“YOU”, by the very nature of rejecting my life’s

learning’s, have caused your genes to be weeded out of

existence and your penis is going to look like this:

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Seduction is not about learning a skill, it’s about removing your barriers. Mating

(Seduction) is as much a skill as digesting or breathing is a skill. You are, as a

human, a social and sexual being. You are literally BORN TO REPLICATE(fuck).

Unfortunately, due to conservative religious brainwashing, there have been lots

of people who somehow acquired a lot of inner roadblocks / mental barriers that

prevent them from getting sex like any normal guy: Insecurity, Shyness, Fear of

offending the law of God, Negativity, Low Self Esteem/Negative Self-image and

Self doubts, etc. The key to seduction is simply removing all these inner

roadblocks, and then you can easily rely on your masculine instincts. But, your

masculine instincts has either been suppress or distorted so seduction is

re-learned as a skill.

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I have dedicated my life to exploring and

understanding humanity.

This is my humble yet ambitious attempt

to solve the greatest mystery in the

Universe:

“Women”

This work is passionately dedicated to twenty very much loved girls in my life

Michelle, Faye, Rita, Daphne, Beryl, Mariz, Aubrey, Jane, April, Vanessa, Leah,

Christine, Josephine, Roda, Alona, Analyn, Grace, Lenzmar, Lorenel and to my

sister Lourdes.

The first draft of this book was published year 2007. I never thought that someone

would read this book but how I was wrong.

This is dedicated to my lost love Josephine. I could never again regain my lost love.

I could get every woman I wanted except her. I thought no one would ever read this

book and I never expected it to be someone close to me. One day, she just went

away. I tried to look for her but she quit her work and studies and all I got was a text

saying she is now in America and she could have fallen in love with me, Diego

Manuel Montenegro, the smart industrious guy who wanted to be a venture

entrepreneur but no, not “Alchemystic, someone who seduces women for psycho –

social experimentation”. Unfortunately, she’d googled me and discovered how

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horrible of a person I am, I felt so bad; I sent her thousands of text and e – mail

messages but no reply. I called and called but no answer. Finally, I travelled to her

new place, we meet and talk and talk for hours on only to endure the torture of

watching her husband constantly kissing her and fondling her breast. It was too

much, it’s sickening, we both said goodbye. The most depressing thing of all is I truly

love her. I thought I had become intelligent enough not to fall in love but sadly there

is no such thing as being enough. Enough is never enough. Now, I have to pay the

price of my mistakes. This is my last contribution to the world. May this book enrich

your life’s success!

Education used to be attached to life and sexuality, that to be educated was to be a

Man.

Now, education, being de-sexualized, is pure trivia. You bubble in circles in a

scantron, regurgitate the book or paraphrase the professor’s words back to him in an

essay, or memorize phylum, orders, and species of taxonomic nonsense for

scientific labs. You procrastinate when studying because you know that it is not

knowledge, just trivia. Compare that to your eagerness to learn the information here.

In this book, there is no trivia as everyone knows the knowledge in this book is

connected to Nature and to life. This sense of decline in education would be

corrected if the departments (especially the Humanities) stopped being trivia,

stopped being political, and embraced the natural order of things wherefrom the

fields originated. The greatest dupe with women (and in life) is not the Nice Guy, is

not the Janitor but The Professor who is cocooned in the doctorates against life.

The story of Alchemystic

So, Who I am and what did I experience to become who I am now? Alchemystic is a Non de Plume of the strategist tactician Diego Manuel Ouano Montenegro. Basically, I am a Nice Guy and no amount of hypnotism, aggressive persuasion can ever change the way I think, or so it seems, Nevertheless, I did not give up. I knew that I already lost everything and nothing could ever change the way I feel about myself. I knew I was still going to have fear but then it dawned on me, what if I could somehow make it seem like I have no fear? What if I could artificially create the absence of fear? Well, I did! I decided to try the next best thing, which is artificially inducing the lack of fear by removing the reason why I felt fear in the first place. Let me explain, the reason that cause me to have fear of rejection was due to fear of loss but I have a fear of loss because I felt I didn’t have an abundant resources of girls. I knew I couldn’t change the way I feel, so I change the situation instead. How do you remove this perceive scarcity anyway? The answer struck me; I didn’t have abundant resources of girls because I never did try achieving, an abundant enough number of girls to lose the fear of lost. So I tried pursuing, approaching women with actually of no other intention than to spend time with her. I made meeting with women a habit. I force myself to make it a goal to have at least 1 date per day for 1 year until it becomes habitual enough that I wouldn’t actually be thinking about it that much anymore. Anyway, as I went on asking women out I found out it was actually not as easy as it seems but I still regarded it as fun and easy. It is a game and it is supposed to be fun. If it isn’t fun then you’re obviously doing something wrong. Take it easy, relax. One rejection is naught but merely a drop of water in an ocean of rejection for I only get 1 yes answer to a date for every 140 girls I’ve asked. But, I did not give up; I continued asking women out, 150 – 180 times in a day. I received so much rejection that I felt numb whenever a girl rejected me. Rejection

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didn’t bother me anymore at all. I now realized it was a numbers game. The simple answer after all along was not to be average. Average guys get average rejection conversely average success. The secret to getting an above average rate of success with women was to get an above average rate of rejection and no other way. But it was even harder through the dates because I didn’t have any special techniques, lines, scripts, moves, tactics or even any game at all. I was totally clueless. It was mostly a matter of trial and error. I had to go through being stood up 10 times for every dozen or so girls that agreed to a date with me. Do you know what that means? I had to get rejected by over a thousand girls before I could manage to set – up a decent number of dates. But still I continued, at this time I was already getting 2 – 3 dates per week but still that wasn’t enough to make it a daily habit. So I tried improving my looks, my interaction (rapport) and the way I feel about myself (confidence). I could now see myself as an attractive person and had overcome the fear of loss and rejection. I didn’t care anymore what I said or what I do because I knew that I would always have a lot of back – ups. I started to experiment. I started to have fun! I found out the more bad I become, the more the girls were falling in love with me. I continued experimenting, adding more and more “badness” until it came to the point I was having multiple girlfriends fighting over me. I was having sex with multiple girls at the same time. Once it was just a dream, now has become so real. It was surreal; I couldn’t believe what was happening to me. I was an ugly Nice Guy who had no experience in sex let alone kissing a girl to having multiple sex partners. It was amazing. It started out as a numbers game and as I gained more experience my chances went up. It was no longer a game of chance; I could now make girls attracted to me by choice! Attraction is a matter of choice and not by chance. Whoever said attraction is not a choice is an idiot! I have now realized, it is not about what you have, what you look, what you say or not say and it wasn’t even about what you did but rather how you felt about yourself. I now understood the meaning of the “Inner Game”. (I was already successful having only an inner game in a conservative culture while a reported serial killer was on the lose, Do you know how challenging is it to get a date on a conservative culture with reports in the news about a serial killer on the lose? Just imagine how better I would become if I master all those systems and routines? Eyyyy…?)

When I discovered the secret of the inner game; I have developed a great sense of self and a much higher level of confidence (not perfect by any means, but a hell of a lot has improved). I've committed myself for the last five years to doing whatever it takes to get what I want (wealth, girls, power etc). All of a sudden this does not seem appealing to me. I feel willing to give up all the hard work to follow a completely different path. All of a sudden, the thought of having sex with women or "succeeding at all costs" makes me really uneasy.

Seduction games with girls/coworkers are something I used to be able to play very well, but now I want nothing to do with them.. I feel like everything I wanted in life is being turned on its head. Maybe I'm just blurting out non-sense here, but the world has really been showing its dark side lately, and I just don't want a part of all the bullshit. Is there anyone out there who honestly feels the same way?

Where do I go from here??? All the seduction techniques I've practiced over and over seem so insignificant. God, I had everything planned out, I feel like I'm back at square one and then some. I've got no idea what I want out of life again... anyone have any input? or have I gone completely wacko-jacko? Nevertheless, I have compiled all my knowledge into this book.

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO HAVE MULTIPLE PARTNERS?

Bad Boys always cheat on their female partner and the women love them even more, maybe it is because if you have only one prospect, the chances are, you will be thinking about her day and night, you keep playing different scenarios of failure and making her like you in your mind over and over again.” Obsessing about a particular girl, and whether or not she likes you, is the KISS OF DEATH! If you're worrying about whether a girl likes you or not, chances are she doesn't - or rather, SHE WON'T. She won't because your "worry" and your obsession with what she thinks of you

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demonstrates weakness and is translated as an unsuitable genetic material with no value for propagation and will actually push her away. When you let yourself fall into an emotional fixation, you begin to analyze everything your girl does, every word she says, every move she makes... and try to relate them all to you. - that's called desperation. And it'll show. She's going to see it (consciously or subconsciously) and nothing repels girls away more than a desperate guy. That's why you have to keep multiple girls at any given time, so if one of them gives you trouble, the heck with her, you have other girls wanting to have sex with you:)

Being in love with one girl at a time, especially if it is a one-sided feeling of emotional fixation, will give off vibes of desperation, paralyzing your ability to think clearly, feeling constant fear of being rejected and lowering your self-worth when your feelings are not returned - all of which will repel a girl even further away from you thus forming a self-reinforcing downward cycle of more desperation, confusion, frustration, insecurity, anxiety and loneliness.

The truth is - yes, exclusivity will bring added value… for a while, but soon enough, this added value will subside into routine and being taken for granted and will eventually degenerate into boredom. Women equate the quantity of women you have as a measure of your attractiveness and value. A man who has lots of women isn’t afraid to lose women and women can sense this immediately in a man. This lack of fear in losing women is translated as strength or power and damn! Women love powerful men who can make them feel weak and helpless (penetrated! = defense pierce). Women can “sense” desperation “immediately”. Nice Guys luminously emit lights of desperation. Loser! In getting a girl to have sex with you, it is essential that you must strike a disturbance in the equilibrium of power because you need a greater power advantage to lead the relationship to romance or else it is going to get stagnant, boring and eventually will drift and break – away into oblivion. Wars are not won by having a balance of power. Success is achieved by having more power than the opposing party. Do not get even, get everything.

You know what’s twisted? The most twisted thang is the situation wherein the girls whom I have insulted, ridiculed, hurt, use and sexually abuse are the ones who keep calling and calling me over and over again so as they can get close together again with “me”, while the ones who I have been nice, polite, friendly, helpful and respectful; never, ever, ever called back again and just disappeared completely. Why are women such heartless bitches with Nice Guys? Whhhyyyyyyyy? I'm literally at the end of my wits when it comes to dealing with women. Whenever I do anything remotely gentlemanly (i.e. complimenting their beauty, giving gifts, obeying their commands, opening doors, offering to carry stuff, showing interest in them, etc.), I'm told that I'm "too nice". WTF?! For some reason, I always thought that people preferred being treated nicely...maybe I'm strange though, it never fails though...they end up hooking with complete assholes. I then get stuck being just friends and all you hear is them constantly bragging about how great their relationship is and how it’s like a fucking fairytale while they continue having sex with these bad boys. Well, I hope you’re

fucking happy getting your self-gratification at my expense. You should just go ahead and kick me in the balls because that’s exactly what it fells like, but I suppose you would know nothing about that! I used to be such a

Nice Guy to be around with, very courteous and helpful, but I guess chivalry is dead now a days. Now I have become a total asshole because of bitches like you. Oh, it's not just that. After staying awhile with the bad macho shitheads, they start complaining again about how they can't find any nice guys. HELLO!!! Wake the fuck up! Why is it that women say one thing, and then make the complete opposite response? These crazy mind games women play make us prefer spending our time with drugs, alcohol, and gambling. This is just way too damn frustrating. I'm getting so fucking sick and tired of women and their bullshit. They seemingly bitch NON-STOP about how all men are losers and pigs who only crave sex. YES MEN LIKE TO FUCK. GET USED TO IT. Well, you want to know what WE don't need: cold, frigid, conservative shy, virgins. They can all frig on each others pussy for all I care. I'm sick of how they think any guy who isn't Brad fucking Pitt is automatically a creepy sleazy man. You know that lonely (possibly old) guy who was hitting on you? IT'S NOT CALLED "SLIME" OR "SLEEZE"; IT'S CALLED "NORMAL". They want human contact with the

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opposite gender as well you know. Yet, I suppose it is inherent in their genetic composition to torture Nice Guys.

Statement from a woman:

In my early teens, I would have as much fun intense emotional highs (i.e. sex and other related fun)

as I could with as many wild and crazy, unpredictable, mysterious, spontaneous jerks who are also a

bit adventurous, funny and not so bright until I reached mid to late 20’s. Then, I start to look for

Nice-Guys that went to college even got his Masteral, had a well-paying career or business that I

could settle down with. I began to control him by giving him sex as a reward to meet my every want,

need, desire and wish. He then becomes a castrated stupid robotic zombie that I can just rub a few

times and get what I want. This would help make up for the fact that I was not attracted to his boring

lifestyle and still manage to get something out of the deal for myself. I then continue to misled him

with wrong information and false assurance about how Nice it is to have a secure, sensitive and

respectful (subservient) husband but then I would go cheat on him with another guy and continue to

blame him for being a faggot. In the end, I would receive everything I want in life: marriage, babies,

money and some hot new guy for sex. My pathetic husband deserves it anyway for being so boring.

In bed, he “routinely” sensitively does gentleboy acts of sweetness including smiling as he looks

lovingly into my eyes while he cums during sex when we are in a cowgirl position,(note: I didn’t

mention about me cumming), so I exploded with disgust, I grabbed his cock and inserted it in my

ass. At first he was terrified – yes! TERRIFIED. He thought something had possessed me. And

damn right – something did possess me, it was sheer MADNESS. I fucked the shit out of him that

night. And then he sighed and said "Oh that was nice". Aaaaaaahhhhh!!!!. WTF! Do you know any

man who doesn’t get a little rough like spanking your ass? Yes! And he is my Husband. Finally,

since he never gives me any surprises, I decided to surprise myself with a present for my birthday.

Ta-da! Divorce papers as a birthday gift to myself. Bye-bye sucker.

“Inside the heart of a player lies the grave of a naïve Nice Guy killed by heartache”

Women are never loyal and never to be trusted. Even if their intentions were good and never

meant to hurt, they can't help it, it’s not conscious. In fact, they cheat all the time, you just don't

know about it. It is not because they are immature or that women lack character or anything like

that. It just that, they have a biological imperative to cheat so as they can have the highest

success to pass on their genes, which in this case is having a Bad Boy as a sperm donor and a

Nice Guy as a security donor. It is an automatic biological function for the purpose of survival

and replication.

Jackpot! You’ve hit the right spot.

What I really get tired of hearing is that when women get older they become more attracted to nice guys. This is true only if she has gained 100lbs, has finally broken up with the Bad Boy, and has a couple of his kids whom she needs some loser Nice Guy to help support.

Exactly!

Even then she will secretly always want him back. It happens to me constantly, and these chicks can go to hell as far as I'm concerned.

It is not that Nice Guys finish last. It is that Nice Guys, when it comes to the woman's lust, do not win at all!

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“True Mastery” only comes after self – improvement, the same is said to be true for the Martial Arts “Jujitsu”, you start learning the techniques first before you start building on your own strength, and in my case I started building strength before the techniques. Now, this must be what they mean in being a “Natural”. Think of it this way, you’re not going to be able to have sex with her by acting Nice and you won’t be able to have sex with her by being cruel either, so what have you got to lose? The answer is of course, nothing! That is how I accidentally became a pick – up artist.

To a Higher Learning

To a Higher Self

To a Higher Glory

Humans are basically design for survival and replication. To kill or be killed; that is the fundamental law of nature, survival of the fittest, the strong shall live, the weak shall die. Winning is the primary purpose in life. Replication is the penultimate purpose of life. You are reading this book because you want to replicate in the highest level of existence. We are driven to survive to a “higher plane” of existence and we replicate to continue to survive in another “form” of existence. Humans are basically social creatures but there is what we call as a tug of war of these two drives known as Dynamic Social Homeostasis. It is a matter of Cost versus Benefits. Does the end justify the means? The answer depends on what the purpose is and on what extent. Humans are hard wired to be attracted to a person with the highest survival and replicability rate. The only difference between men and women is the emphasis.

What is seduction? Seduction is basically subtle mind control and mind control goes by many names persuasion, manipulation, sales tactics, marketing skills, magic tricks, advertising, logical argumentation, politics, influence, education, fortune telling, learning, parenting, values imprinting, psychology, socialization, military and even hypnotism. They are all mind control. Everything is mind control. The mind controls the body. Control the mind, control the body. Seduction is not an art but a science!

Ethics of My Seduction:

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This book doesn’t allow the use of false promises of marriage to get sex.  White lies are tolerable.

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A dumb female will not gain my respect by withholding sex; she’ll just be an idiot for depriving herself of pleasure. There is no connection between respect and sex, neither is there a connection between self - deprivation and respect but women can not differentiate between sex and respect because they treat sex as a medium of exchange just like money.

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Increase female attraction through self – improvement over hypnotism.  Physical Violence only in the context of role-play.

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Raping a girl is only allowed for definitely sexually repressed girls.

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Marriage is an unfair contract full of responsibilities, pain, suffering, sacrifice, compromise and loss of freedom wherein sex is the only reward, unfortunately in marriage: sex is oftentimes neglected due to various reasons like obligations to work, friends and taking care of children and many other things so fornicate as much as you can. Live your life to the fullest. Enjoy it. Life is short and we only live once.

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Marriage is only for people who no longer have options. People who have lots of time and options chase their dreams, ambitions and do not settle down. When people become sick, old, or ran out of options, they start settling down.

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In high school, you thought women would ‘mature’ and stop liking the jocks or jerks. In college, you thought women would mature and dislike the frat boys, sports guys, and start to be attracted to Nice Guys. In your thirties, you thought that women were FINALLY wisening up. No, women didn’t mature; they just ran out of OPTIONS. No matter what her age or relationship status, a woman will look at those Bad Boys and LUST. Women indefinitely remain women.

Do you know where the word settling comes from? From settle of course! Meaning - to accept something that is less of ideal. Marriage is something that is less of ideal for guys. The problem with Nice Guys is they always settle.

Know and get to understand yourself before knowing or understanding other people, How can you define women and what women want if you do not define a man? Men and women are like day and night, one can not define one without the other. So, start defining you yourself, like for example who are you? What are you? How did you become the person you are now? When are you really you? Where do you usually become just yourself? How are you are feeling? What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses/flaws? What do you hate/love about yourself? What are your dreams, wishes, ambitions, fantasy? What is your fear? What do you want? What do you need? What are your priorities? What are you thinking right now? What were you as a child? What do you like/love to do? What are you going to do now? What woman do you want/need? Remember, you have to have a solid unshakeable image of yourself so that you will not be influence/manipulated externally and this in turn will demonstrate power. You can not have an answer if you don’t ask a question!

First and Foremost, “Self – Improvement”

"The very first step towards becoming a successful Pick – up artist is of self-improvement... By focusing on a program of continual self-improvement you’ll evolve into an attractor. Your strategy is always to think about, focus on, and accentuate your positive traits... but work on and eliminate your flaws." “A perfect woman doesn’t want an ordinary guy; she wants a perfect man as well!” There is no fault in aiming for high standards, the fault lies in your failure to apply these high standards to yourself.

Note of Caution: In self – improvement: there exist a “Hierarchy of Needs” that must be fulfilled and one must always remember, to strike a balance between the three generic areas of concerns: Health, Wealth and Love. Only after gaining confidence through self - improvement, will your seduction skills with women become more natural.

Secondly but Primarily as Important, “Inner Game”

Primary Inner Game through Positive Affirmations and State Control Techniques, Bio – Feed Back, Auto- Genics, Confidence Training, Ego Boosting, Subconscious Implantation or any other similar stuff.

Positive Affirmations are important in establishing your primary inner game.

Having little or no self – worth is synonymous to considering yourself as your own enemy thereby causing self - loathing and self – destruction.

People are attracted to anything or anyone that can make them feel good even if it is about causing more pain to lessen the feeling of another pain. You must first feel good in order to stop making everyone around you miserable so that, in turn, “you’ can attract people by making them feel good when they are with you. This is also called as “vibing” or “grooving”. Vibing is done through state control techniques like fake happiness and other similar stuff but be forewarned, “Attitude is not a substitute for self – improvement”. It you did the self – improvement part then you would naturally feel fulfilled and happy and so; no need for fake happiness or fake confidence.

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Examples of possible affirmations I love sex

I am handsome I am funny

I am becoming more comfortable with social situations I am learning more

I am intelligent

I am comfortable with women I am relax and feel good I have power over myself I can do anything

I can get anyone/anything

Examples of possible feel good state controls, happy place or peace of mind reservoirs State Invulnerability and Renewal

This includes but is not limited to Achievements, Happy Moments and anything positive about yourself like getting good grades (accomplishments), being able to flap your ears (skills), being alive (comparative well – being), getting ice cream or a car (possessions), craziness (personality characteristics that you are proud of) big biceps (physical characteristics), beautiful girl who smiled back at you and said hello (social connections) any kind of specific memories that put a smile on your face and make you feel good, etc. etc. This is important to keep your self – motivation.

Always, always establish your own rules to follow. Again, I repeat, make

a set of boundaries because boundaries demonstrate power and again

power is attractive especially to women.

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Nothing is impossible, just not yet.

Getting inside a girls vagina is like hacking. In hacking you always find alternatives routes or ways to get inside a system or in this case a vagina, you can either go right or left to avoid the obstacle or go to the bottom, you can also fly over the obstacle or run right through the middle of the obstacle, you can destroy the obstacle or be the obstacle yourself, in anyway your going inside. Just think of it as a maze okay.

 No problems should ever be solved twice.

Time and Potential Opportunity is your most valued commodity so we should never be solving the same old problem twice. This doesn’t mean that there are no other alternative solutions, what I am trying to say is that we should give people a choice whether they are going to try an alternative solution or follow the same old standard. People deserve freedom and the right to choose but other people’s selfishness forces us to re-invent the wheel. We must share solutions and information so that other people can have time to solve new problems instead of having to perpetually re-address the old ones. Sex, Love and Relationships have existed for such a long time yet; “we”, eternally battle the same old problems when a lot of the solutions were already discovered and use by some early attractive Alpha Males. I am writing this book to share to you information that has existed since the ancient times so that you can have time to continually grow, develop and solve newer problems. Sharing this information can thereby, help me find a refinement or an enhancement of a previously old solution.

Have a goal and focus. Remember “Communicate with a direction and purpose in mind. You don’t communicate to make her understand but you communicate to get a result.

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Visualization in achieving your goal is the key to success with women. Logical Thinking is limited and is set by rules. Imagination is better than knowledge so you have to unite logical thinking(day) with imagination(night). There is no limit to what you can visualize or even hear, smell, taste and feel. The body can achieve what the mind can see. The basis of positive visualization is that your subconscious mind itself will be the one to calibrate you body to the desired position or state to get what you want. This is similar to a gymnast conditioning herself just before her jump to set her body up for the desired outcome or automated motor response so as you will not make a mistake and succeed! “Mastery of Automated Motor Response through “Mental Rehearsal”, also known as “The Attraction Habit”. You don’t need to memorize hypnotic lines if only you can condition your body to say and do things to elicit attraction automatically. A girl who is willing to get together with you on a date is a girl who wants to have sex with you! Why? Did it ever occur to you that the 2 - 4 hours she spent on you could have been spent on some other stuff like dancing with her friends, studying, manicure/pedicure, sleep, laundry and other things? She could have spent the time with other people or things and yet she decided to spend it on you and what did you do? You wasted “HER TIME” talking with her, watching movies with her, shopping with her, eating together, attending mass, fetching errands and doing household chores together when she herself could do all these other things with other people. She can virtually do all those things mentioned above with other people like her friends and family but instead you “PUNISHED HER DECISION TO STAY WITH YOU” by being a sweet, kind, caring, understanding, loving, gentle friendly NICE GUY. Basically, *YOU TORTURED HER*, you moron! “YOU” made her regret her decision to spend time with you and you wonder why she dumps you? If she wants to get attention and affection then she can just gain it from her loser NICE GUY friends or from her family but if she is looking for sex, did it ever come about in that tiny brain of yours where she might look for sex? Do you think she can have sex with her female friends or family? And even if she can, do you think she would want it to? Of course not! When she looks for sex, she looks for it in a lover, her BOYFRIEND! To be blunt, keep her “sexed-up”! This again is another reason why BAD BOYS always gets the girls. Sad but true. Women were never meant to be loved, they were meant to get fuck and pregnant. Men on the other hand are meant to be loved so that they will stay long enough with the girl to raise a family. The all too common mistake we make these days is we let ourselves love women but it is not women whom we should love but ourselves!

Summary of Lessons:

1. Women will not love you until you love yourself.

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Judge by actions not by words.

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Past behavior is a good predictability of future behavior.

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Only the Bad Boys get the Attractively High – Quality girls.

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Rejection is better than regret.

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As you think, You shall become.

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Experiment for only the curious have something to find.

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Learning is never ending. 9. Power is key to sex. 10. Habit is all.

11. Use your animal instincts.

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To grasp full knowledge is to embrace both the light and dark side of the information spectrum.

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Diversify interest.

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Breaking up is a refined sense of loyalty.

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Ignorance is bliss: There is no comfort in the truth, pain is all that you will find.

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Capture opportunities immediately because tomorrow never comes.

Another trick in getting women would be the psychological principle of observational learning or also known as social cognitive learning. Monkey see, monkey do. We tend to assimilate success the same way we assimilate information. Make a conscious effort to stop non – real interactivity like watching T.V. or playing solo computer games because we have a tendency to assimilate wrong information quickly. We can copy the success of other people just by actually seeing or hearing it from someone else or in this case from reading about other people success. The successes and even mistakes can be assimilated subconsciously. This is also why it is important to read Romance Novels because the story can be assimilated in your mind and you will actually be living out the stories of the books you’ve read without actually realizing that you are re-enacting them. It is a concept called “Characterization”. Another example is by listening to the success stories of other players, there are other examples but you get the idea of what I am trying to say, don’t you? My older sister said that if I actually wanted to be good at English then I don’t actually need to read how to speak English, I just need to read lots and lots of English books because I would assimilate the way the writers write; their grammar, spelling and style would be assimilated into my mind subconsciously. My sister gave me more than just a way to learn English! She accidentally gave me an idea that anything can be assimilated into the mind subconsciously including success stories in how to seduce women.

The problem with flakiness: Why do flakes happen?

A)

Lack of proper etiquette arising from immaturity, stupidity, insensitivity to learning and choice disregard for etiquettes.

B) Lack of respect C) Playgirl Rules

D)

Lack of attraction or significant appeal E) Socio - Cultural Circumstances

F)

Situational Conditions i.e. accidents, laziness, logistical irresponsibility, negative state of mind and bad climate.

G) Boredom

H) Unknown Factors

What is the solution? Sex on the spot! The probability of immediate sex is closer to reality than you think; some girls will not go into relationships but will have sex immediately. The standard of norms only adds to the delay like asking for a date or cell number. Extract sex by progressively haggling restrictions. Procrastinations only serve to strengthen inhibitions.

Techniques on How to flip the script on flaky women exist but flipping the script should only be use as an option of last resort. A true Master Seducer would have been able to avoid getting flakes in the first place instead of having to deal with flakes. Flipping the script on flaky women will only serve as a fail safe mechanism. Prevention is better than cure. The best thing to do is to move on or at least diversify your prospective interest through having a lot of options/back – ups. Tolerating flakes is a rationalization created by Nice Guys. If we continue tolerating women’s flakiness then they will continue flaking on us. Do you really want to continue wasting 1 or maybe 2 days of your life on a woman who flaked on you?

The people spreading these garbage beliefs are probably Nice Guys who value women more than their own time and self – worth. These Nice Guys are so externally dependent for approval and re-assurance that they demand us to agree that it is okay to deal with flakes. But it is NEVER okay to deal with flakes because Life is too short and we only live once! She is only a woman; she is not a

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Goddess no matter how beautiful she is. But Nice Guys are too needy. Nice Guys are either too needy for attention, affection or sex that they make excuses to elevate the woman to a Goddess level. This chumpy, doormat - ish sort of behavior is representative of a Nice Guy’s neediness. Kill the desperation and you will kill the Nice Guy.

The tactic of flipping the script on flaky women may give relief to your AFC’s frustration but that’s all it does: “Temporary Relief” and the Illusion of an Achievement. Notice that he is no longer frustrated but still remaining a chump/dupe. There is no such thing as perfection but it is never right to make excuses and rationalize mediocrity.

It’s not about you. It is about how you present yourself. So what if you’re not rich? You can still present yourself as a rich person to her without actually being rich. Just as the same way as you would present yourself to be friendly and funny without actually changing your personality. It is all about acting and presentation. When we say you got to have good looks, we didn’t exactly mean you have to be physically good – looking, what we mean by what we said was that you got to find a way to present yourself as good – looking or at least make her feel she is with a good looking guy. Remember that GAME EXISTS TO COMPENSATE FOR LACK OF MONEY AND LACK OF GENETIC DESIRIBILITY. This is a form of cheating.

This girl I met was so ugly physically, she got small breast, had a very dark skin with lots of pimples and was also fat and yet still I fell in love with her. What was her secret?

The secret about her was with her “acting as a beautiful girl” even though she wasn’t beautiful. Introspectively I ask myself, why would I fall in love with an ugly girl who acts as if she is beautiful? There I discovered the very simple principle that feelings are like memories and they can be associated and/or summoned at will. You see, each of us has a memory associated with certain objects, or in my case with certain people, our brain doesn’t only remember pictures or sounds but also of our feelings. Now, these feelings(sexual) seem to have been connected to how a “beautiful girl” acts’, so now even if I would be confronted by an ugly girl who acts as a beautiful girl then I would still have the same feelings as I would to a beautiful girl. Playgirls call this tactic the Beauty Queen Act. This is known as the principle of association in psychology. Emotions are just like memories and just like memories they are processes which are stored in your mind and can be summoned forth and directed at will. That is the basis of hypnotism! Dummy!

Catching women is like catching fish. You cannot catch a fish on an empty ocean. You can not catch a girl if there is no girl around. That is simple logic. If you want to have fishes around, you either throw a bait or go to an area where there are lots of fish. Same rules apply to women.

Pool of women or OPTIONS refers to the availability of women in your life. To lessen your fear of loss and rejection always have a pool of women around you by dating a lot of women may it be through picking-up strangers, Online, T.V., radio or even through networking with people you know. This is also the reason why a habitual dater is so successful with getting girls. This is the reason why you should date at least 1 or more women everyday for a year or more until you have a steady stream of women. Anything done everyday for 1 year will become a habit. Just keep it a secret okay. Conversational Skills – refers to your verbal interaction, rhetoric, flow, rap, chaps, spitting game or whatever else you like to call it.

Subcommunication - also referred to as language compartmentalization, other names include womanese, secret language, subcontextual messaging.

Another trick is mirroring. Mirroring is a subtle seduction trick you can use to get her to be more comfortable and thus more receptive to your commands. This also, helps you, to; establish a

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connection with her thoughts and feelings on a subconscious level. Being subtle is the key for this to work.

I saw in a movie once wherein a child with his older sister was feeding their goldfish and the young child asked his older sister, “How do you know if a fish eats fish food? Are you a fish? This got me thinking, what if I could also apply this way of thinking in getting women? Then I realized, the same way of thinking can also - indeed - be applied when it comes to getting laid with women. A lot of guys have such massive fear of rejection that they reject themselves before giving a chance for the girl to reject them. They make rationalizations or excuses for not approaching a girl like “I am tired”, “she is too ugly for me”, “I didn’t bring condoms”, “I am not properly dressed”, “She has a boyfriend”, “I am still too nervous”, “I am busy” but these are all stupid rationalizations you give to yourself when you fear rejection. Thereby, self – fulfilling their own fearful thought patterns and causing themselves to have absolutely zero chance with women. A woman should reject you! Not yourself, Goddamn it! How do you know if a fish eats fish food? Are you a fish? Why are you rejecting yourself? Are you a woman?

I do not worry because it feels much better thinking positively about success and then getting rejected than to feel really bad and then get rejected. If you were to choose among the two actions then I like to think of a positive outcome because it makes me feel good and I would do the best I can to save every last second of feeling good before any bad outcome. “The lesser evil” is better. It is just the way I am. It is really just way, way much better to feel good than feeling bad and one way of doing this is by relaxation and positive visualization.

Avoid compliments as much as possible with beautiful women as they will think you’re a loser Nice Guy who is trying hard to make her want you. As what I have said, it’s not about you but how you present yourself that determines how she would act and feel towards you. Acting Nice and trying hard to impress a girl is what ugly guys do so basically you’re associating yourself with ugly guys and therefore you will receive a reaction that women only give to ugly guys. No wonder why Nice Guys always fail! Nice guys are not ugly physically; they are just guys who act like ugly guys therefore by way of associating “You” with what she feels with ugly guys and relating it to you then she also would feel disgust towards you. A compliment is seldom okay when the timing is right. Act like a handsome guy and you will be treated as a handsome guy. There is an alternative method but it is more offensive, which is treating a beautiful girl as if she is ugly and she will feel like she is ugly thus you would become handsome in her eyes. Same way how Bad Boys act. Bang! Surprise! Timing is also another important factor in determining the winner of any given situation or war. What is the secret to making a baby? Timing! Yes, that’s right, you can not get her pregnant when she is in menopause or when she still hasn’t had her first ovulation and there are times in a month when a girl is just isn’t fertile. My point is no matter how good your tactics are if delivered at the wrong time then it won’t work. Seduction is like baking; you can not whip the flour, add sugar, throw it in the oven and then beat the eggs after it is cooked. There should be a sequence just like in sexual arousal, first excitement then plateau and finally orgasm and resolution. Phases of courtship or mating rituals do exist you know.

Case Study: In 1st_{year high school, I notice an average girl being surrounded with so many guys, I}

could not understand why or how she was doing it. Was she the one making the first moves? Or were the guys doing the first moves? So I observe and analyze her behaviors and found out she was actually making these so called first moves by giving fake indicators of interest to lure insecured dumb men. I copied and tested her techniques and found out that it works just as fine with girls; unfortunately, it does only good to attract mostly ugly insecured girls. I also notice that all the guys were surrounding her, chasing her and following her, the funny thing is, she ended up falling in love with me in spite of all the other guys orbiting her. I was the only one different, the only one immune to her tricks. She was busy throwing hints and signals to me but I keep ignoring them and I still

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stayed disinterested and aloof, she found it as a challenge. She became sexually attracted, she started wanting to kiss me and be close to my entire being but I still remained distant. She’s now ready to relieve her sexual tension so she lured my attention by flaunting her sexy ass which got me thinking in the right direction. She waited patiently but can’t resist any longer. She was taken away by the great display of power and manly aura. She wants to feel my body, her mind is so twisted, cute looks can be deceiving, she ask me if wanted to get wet? I said, yes and she guided me on a tour of the city, we ate, we’ve watched movies and she paid for it all. Until we arrive at her house and had the best sex ever! Game theory states that you have to win over the pawn first before you can engage and win over the king or queen so as to deflate an already inflated ego of a queen but anyone you’ve given interest in a group instantly becomes a queen to her social circle, in this manner; attracting all of the ugly girls will eventually attract the queen female. Attacking the Queen Female would be a mistake as you would be block by her jealous ugly pawns. This is the foundation in opening a set. These pawns are known as worker bees or in playgirl terminology as a safety friend or guards. Disarm the obstacle first before working on the target. This is also known as the “divide and conquer” strategy by Sun Tzu’s Art of War. This is also a simple yet effective application of group pressure taken from the principles of social psychology and group dynamics.

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If, however Nice Guys do get a chance to be sexual: The Nice Guys lack enough experienced with women to understand that women “arouse” way, way, more slowly than men so Nice Guys rush things sexually all too sudden exhaustively, instead of incrementally accelerating the sexual phase by comfortably leading at the right time and this gets them rejected by women because in a female mate selection criterion, sexual experience/adeptness is also equated as attractiveness in a subconscious biological level because a man who is able to arouse a woman and stimulate her to orgasm signals that he does have past experience of other females. This tells her that other women have also found him attractive enough to allow intercourse. The more effectively he stimulates her, the more experienced he should be - and hence the greater the number of women who have so far found him to be attractive, this therefore continues a self – driving upward spiral of success with other women. Women are genetically hard wired to select the most worthy gene for propagation and this entails women to only want a guy who has been found to be attractive to a lot of women because having a lot of women is interpreted as High Quality therefore attractive.

Negation is another excellent tactic. Negation is actually a sales and marketing tactic now being employed as a Pick – up tool you can use on girls to negate their resistance or reluctance. This is also known by other names such perceived attribution, psychological alignment, identity interjection, cognitive congruence, internal model, sexual introjections, “framing”, reverse product positioning or “positioning”. Salesmen have been using this technique to destroy any objection on the part of the customer. In this case you can use this to negate any resistance she might have in having sex with you. An example of this would be a salesman tearing a small portion of the contract after the contract has been sign and would say “Ma’am I think this might be the wrong product for you, I think I should just find a better product for you and the customer says No, no, no it is okay, I want that thing. So what happens is, she is now the one convincing you that she wants to buy the product. The customer can not offer resistance because you are, already resisting yourself. We are our best persuaders. In psychology, it is called reverse psychology or acting the opposite of your true intentions. Repressing our thoughts isn’t natural and causes what is called, “a psychic disturbance”; this psychic disturbance phenomenon is cause by our anti – repression mechanisms in our biological circuitry.

In an evolutionary perspective, there was a time wherein, men didn’t

restrain themselves. When we were cavemen, we were very uninhibited and

fuck any girl we desired but environments have change so fast, populations

have grown immensely. Society adapted and place restraints on our urges so

as to protect the overall survival of our species from starving and

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overpopulation, they’ve organized religion, they’ve place social restrictions on

our natural drives, unfortunately, our genes haven’t adapted yet. We are

following an outdated biological programming. To mean, our mind has been

programmed to fulfill every urge we feel and punish any attempt to repress

our desires, we refer to this design as the

“Anti – Repression Mechanism”.

This is the reason why they say forbidden things are desirable and we only

want what we can not have. This is also the reason why people fall in love

even more as we push people away during break-up and tell them to love

somebody else because the moment they repressed their feelings, our anti –

repression mechanism kicks in and starts to punish them and makes them

in-love with you even more. Bad Boys push people away constantly and Bitches

reject people frequently thereby triggering this anti – repression mechanisms

and causes greater attraction. This is another reason why Bad Boys always

gets to fuck girls.

Men have a desire to penetrate; women have a desire to get penetrated. They feel sexual attraction to anyone that makes them feel penetrated. Their sex drive is correlated to their feeling of being penetrated. The secret to animal magnetism therefore is to make her feel like she is being penetrated and penetration doesn’t only mean genital penetration but penetration of her inner being, her essence(mind, body and emotions). Shutting down the human part of your brain and just letting the animal part of your brain run can make you connect with her on a deeper animal level, that my friend, is called “Animal Magnetism”. This part of the brain is the most difficult to override even through the use of reason or by emotion. Remember laws don’t exist for hungry people and morality doesn’t exist when you are extremely horny. Horniness is the only emotion that can challenge fear and also, “No thinking is better than negative thinking” so when you’re not thinking then you let the horniness override the fear.

If you feel confident and sexy then your body will naturally portray that but if you do not feel confident and sexy then use your body to portray those traits. It is another matter of .faking it until you make it. You can actually fool your mind into thinking that you are confident and sexy by adopting a confident and sexy pose.

Pleasure Maximization through “Physiological Response Facilitation” – refers to the manipulation of physiological states to amplify/enhance already existing emotional or mental states. This book is literally littered with so many riddles but this time I will give an example like “Sex in Public” for instance; the fear of getting caught coupled with the intense physiological arousal that accompanies such event will undoubtedly amplify/elevate the pleasure when the two of you are having sex! In Hypnotism, this is called perception stacking or overlapping realities. In the scientific community, this is also called as the accidental activation of the sympathetic nervous system.

You know what the problem is with Nice Guys? Nice guys judge beautiful women as all too perfect, too early, neglecting their personality traits and treating them as God’s. They don’t, can not or will not understand that not all beautiful women are good or attractive. Some women are just living dead, cold, frigid, stone – hearted chemically imbalance bitches. It is important that you must totally get to know their worth before allowing them to have your attention or affection.

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“A girl would rather kill a Nice Guy than to die from boredom.”

The principle of association in psychology can be use in many instances so I could never fully emphasize the importance of this tool in getting your penis inside a girls’ vagina.

The basis for behavioral modification is reward and punishment or specifically operant conditioning. This is by using guided (preferably positive) reinforcements to direct her behavior to a specific outcome. The basis for social control is also reward and/or punishment.

A short anecdote to explain the levels of seductive mastery:

“A true sword master uses no sword. A true master seducer doesn’t use any tactic, tricks or techniques to fuck the girl” Verbatim by: Diego Manuel Ouano Montenegro

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nce upon a time, I met a sword master and saw him fighting several thousands of enemies without using a sword. So I ask him “Why do you not use a sword if you are truly a sword master? And he said “Why should I? I was perplexed at first by his response and in doubt I challenge his skill and superiority by asking him, if you truly are a sword master then you can teach me how to fight with a sword. Then he said go ask the sword to teach you for only the willing will learn the ways of the sword. Once the sword will speak up to you then you should know the fourth type of sword and then and only then will I tell you the answer to your question. I only got even more confused at his response but anyway I proceeded to just try for the heck of it. Anyway, nothing of harm comes from trying and only the curious have something to find. So, I bought a sword, an ordinary Japanese Katana and then I just stared at it and wondered how the sword might be able to speak up. I tried asking the sword how to handle him or her for that matter but no words would come out of the sword. So instead I just played with it, slashing and piercing at stuff. I keep practicing sword handling until eventually I got the hang of it. I was getting so good at it that I finally manage to master it. Not contented by it, I decided to take on another type of sword, a Broad sword. Only this time I tried practicing it on a different setting to see if the same principles of handling an ordinary sword will still apply. I tried handling it on a cliff, on top of a house, on a moving horse and even underwater and found out the basic dynamics of the sword movements, I keep repeating the successes of the trial and error and learnt from my mistakes. Soon, I had mastered it. I decided to take on another challenge of mastering another sword, a flat, thin, flexible sword, eventually I still manage to master the sword. I have mastered all three types of sword except the fourth. I keep thinking what the fourth type of sword was but nothing could come out of mind. I decided to take a rest and give up. After a few days I was called on service to protect my kingdom. There, I was with my katana, slicing through my enemies like bean curd. I went out victorious on our battle, went home and doze to sleep. Suddenly, a person who who’d gain my trust and friendship entered into my quarters and stole my swords to prepare my army for an ambush. I was unaware he actually was a spy of my enemies. By dawn, we were attack. I looked for my swords but I couldn’t find any. A soldier fought with me and I barely got out alive. I lost my arms in the battle. In such hatred, I am determining to seek revenge but I no longer had arms. How could I possibly take revenge when I couldn’t use any weapon? Still, determine to seek revenge, I experimented for several years with whatever I can use as a weapon.. Instinctively, as a swordsman I experimented using a small branch of a tree as a small stick for a replacement of a sword and still prove it to be effective. I continued practicing until I finally achieved perfection; I could now use anything as a sword. I finally understood what the master meant in saying that there is a fourth type of sword. The fourth type of sword was using no sword at all. The greatest game is having no game at all. In seducing women the best strategy is really not to use any strategy or any other tricks and tactics you might otherwise find in this book. You can only say that you have graduated from being a beginner seducer to a master seducer when you have finally stop using all the techniques you learn in this book like hypnotism and stuff. These are only tools and should never be use to replace the real thing. The secret to fucking a girl (for free) is inside of you and you just have to go figure it out for yourself.

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*Psycho – Emotional Reconstitution is an original idea by Diego Manuel Montenegro

Women are always finding ways to get a man to be emotionally involved or at least be committed in some way or another and one secret way of getting a person to be emotionally involved or at least make them think they're in love with you is to occupy their thoughts; basically constantly thinking about someone naturally attaches our emotional endeavor solely upon only one person. This entails larger involvement/commitment ratio relative to your capacity at which you can stretch your interest and this constant forced interest/investment traps us further in an exhaustive, addictive cycle of augmenting involvement. This is a similar theme repeating across all platforms of seduction. This also desensitizes our collected negative emotions and shifts it to a more stable positive emotion through the process we call as “Psycho – Emotional Reconstitution” as part of our physiological programming thus we associate the congregated feelings we feel with that person with our current positive emotions. Another reason is that we have been conditioned by society to think that if we keep thinking about a certain person then it means we are falling in love and in effect we have calibrated ourselves to believe and act out according to what society wants us to conform. An example of this advanced playgirl tactic would be when the girl tries to extract different kinds of investments by making you constantly think of her such as:

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Social Investments – She will somehow find a way for you to get involved with her friends and family. Forming new relationships is risky expenditure and any kind of expenditure especially dangerous ones are a form of investment. Taking risk is an investment.

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Mental Investments – She will get late, stand you up or borrow things only to return it at a later time or taking care of her pets or asking you to wake her up at a certain time or anything that will cause you to think of her frequently for prolong periods of time.

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Emotional Investments – She will make you tell your feelings, secrets, vulnerabilities basically your whole identity so that you will at least be attached at some level, which is a requirement for further physical intimacy for her. In other words, there is no way to bypass this route. You have to make the girl feel emotional connection. She has to feel that you are attached to her at some level. It is a pre-requisite for sex because even though contraceptives are already available, she still has innate instincts to protect herself from having to single-handedly endure 9 months of painful child bearing and 18 years of child raising implanted in her neurological mating circuitry. The only exception is if you two are taking drugs and/or other neuro-chemically altering devices.

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Financial Investments – She will frequently ask for gifts, money and other stuff.

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Physical/ Energy Investments – She will make you do lots of physical labor like carrying stuff, chores, physical challenges with other guys and even really, really rough sex.

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Time Investments – The playing hard to get part of the mating dance.

“Either way it is forcing you to artificially invest, care and take

interest.”

Our investment attaches us to our interest artificially or naturally. This also creates deep, heavy feelings of betrayal that can be misinterpreted as love. Any kind of deep, heavy feeling can be misinterpreted as love and be rationalize and reinforce later on as true love. Guilt is an example of a heavy feeling, emotional pain is also another example of another heavy feeling and sometimes some

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inexperience, less intelligent players misinterpret the pain they feel when their unfaithful bitches break – up with them as falling in love. Do not ever fall for this misinterpretation. I had once been given a heart shape sticker stuck to my identification card that reminded me of her, the identification card hung around my neck all day, so she constantly got inside of my mind and I almost fell in love with her but I knew that it was artificially induced so I removed any remembrance. Delete Her in your Mind, and you will also be able to Delete the Emotions. Remember There are different types of memory and each memory can be anchored to anything; one of these memories is called an “Emotional Memory” and memories are only in our minds so emotions are also only in our mind! (And also with the help of our hormones, emo - kinetic memory and implicit memory, feelings can virtually be stored for a lifetime). This is also known as “modified thought binding”. But I am not going to further elaborate the topic because this is not a discussion.

Too many Nice Guys are operating under the self defeating presumption that establishing a

relationship with a single mommy as opposed to simply having sex with a girl and then moving

on to the next girl is the way to go.

The Nice Guys proliferating this garbage of a mindset are usually guys who; likely have no

options so when a single mommy finds a Nice Guy, she feigns interest in them. These morons

suddenly think they've won the lottery but anyone who has been with a lot of girls for a long time

knows that this is just a game; a set of manipulative devices design to chain any Nice Guy into

foolishly committing their resources. (time, attention, effort, money). Anyone with a ton of

experience with women understands how women are supremely capable of hiding their ulterior

agenda and can make malevolence look innocent. Malevolence that of being a user is something

women have mastered doing for ages. When 11 year old girls were busy sucking the penis of 20

year old college guys, you, as an 11 year old boy were busy playing basketball and computer

games. Bet you didn’t know that, did you? And now you are running to me asking for help! How

dare you?

Then they advocate us to go along and agree that having a relationship with such a woman(single

mother) is a good thing for them. They do this because they have very serious doubts about it

being a good thing for them and want those doubts relieve by us patting them on the back and

reassuring them to go for it. And we can't do that because it’s not a good thing for them and it

never will be. Almost any guy that makes an excuse for why he settled for a single mommy has

no game. Period.

No attractive guy can even begin to consider hooking up with this type of woman unless the

single mommy literally won above the rest of the pack. She would have to be a truly exceptional

woman and prove herself over long periods of time for a guy who has options to even consider

having a relationship with her, much less marrying her.

Women who are single mothers are damaged goods with baggage because they have been hurt by men before and are more distrustful and thus are more vengeful at men, turning their hatred at any guy who tries to be close with them. Single mothers who have children are more challenging and difficult compared to women who have no children because their children is always their priority and this distracts them from ever getting emotionally involved with anyone. A relationship with a single mother is like having a relationship with a cheating, deceitful woman but only this time the competing rival is a ghost, an “artificially generated competition”. This is an unfair starting circumstance that obliges, “you”, to give an “unreasonably” greater investment on your part as a man without receiving the benefit of sex, which you, rightly, are supposedly to receive therefore, a single mother, is considered as low quality.