Additional Elements of Great Conversations Additional Elements of Great Conversations Additional Elements of Great Conversations
As you learn to have great conversations with her here are a few points that will allow you to continue to deepen your connection with her.
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Don't push off compliments and be coy and shy. That's a sign of lacking self-confidence. If you cannot fully receive the gift of her appreciation, then she cannot give you that incredible gift, and it would be like you turning down what she is trying to give you. Not being able to own great qualities within you can deter her from fully surrendering to you as a divine masculine. Just this point alone might turn her off to you because any incredible woman would want to be with a man who is at least her equal, if not being able to lead her in her growth on all levels.
It is so important to be able to receive her appreciation and adoration as the incredible man that you are developing into. If you don’t receive it fully, she might think, “Perhaps I was wrong about the fact that he has this quality since apparently he doesn’t think he has this quality”. This though pattern could lead to thoughts like, “What else is just a polished mask that he is putting on that is fooling me, but underneath there is a lot of insecurities and weakness?” The subtleties of how you take a The subtleties of how you take a The subtleties of how you take a The subtleties of how you take a
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Whenever she gives you a compliment, practice just saying “thank you”
with a smile. Do this without the need to compliment her back. Just breathe the compliment in and integrate that appreciation into your body.
This shows that you know yourself, that you are a great catch, a great man, and a man deserving of a Goddess like her.
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Sometimes men and women appreciate different qualities within themselves and others. It is easy for men to appreciate qualities in male friends such
as being decisive, goal oriented, sharp, focused, solid, unwavering,
dependable, etc. It may take some practice to learn to appreciate the feminine gifts of pure flow, surrender, laughter, juiciness, emotions, spontaneity, etc. Sometimes, when she changes her mind, or when she's late because her met a friend and was caught up in the moment, she is actually exuding and exhibiting her feminine radiance.
If you looked at her through the masculine perspective of precision, then you will have missed the beauty and aliveness that she was expressing in the moment. Learn how to look for, understand, Learn how to look for, understand, Learn how to look for, understand, receiveLearn how to look for, understand, receivereceivereceive and compliment and compliment and compliment and compliment her on
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her on her feminine her feminine her feminine gifts her feminine giftsgiftsgifts.... This will, once again have her feel very seen, feel like the thing that is natural to her, her femininity, is appreciated by a man who understands and who doesn't make her wrong for her natural qualities.
Countless women have developed the masculine qualities where she can do projects and follow through with tasks in order to survive in our society.
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solid enough who she can trust.
solid enough who she can trust.
solid enough who she can trust. Numerous women have lost sight of the incredible attractiveness of the feminine energy that they exude when they surrender, when they are able to laugh in the moment, when they're able to carry the energy of a party just by who they are and by the way that they flutter around. You as an incredible man who understands this need within her can be the oasis that draws out the juiciness that is within heroasis that draws out the juiciness that is within heroasis that draws out the juiciness that is within her. oasis that draws out the juiciness that is within her In what can otherwise be a harsh and dry world she will adore and love you for being the sanctuary for her feminine gifts in more ways than one.
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Even though the main aspect of the connection stage is to build a foundation of comfort and trust, it would still serve you to continue to create the mutual choosing that you learned about in the dynamic tension phase of the attraction stage. When the energy builds and part of the conversation genuinely excites you, go ahead and lean forward, use big gestures with your hands, and engage her and touch her in a passionate, confident, and adoring manner.
When you're constantly leaning forward and energetically pushing yourself When you're constantly leaning forward and energetically pushing yourself When you're constantly leaning forward and energetically pushing yourself When you're constantly leaning forward and energetically pushing yourself towards her because you're so attracted, there's no dynamic contrast.
towards her because you're so attracted, there's no dynamic contrast.
towards her because you're so attracted, there's no dynamic contrast.
towards her because you're so attracted, there's no dynamic contrast. If you allow yourself to lean back a bit and in proper moments lean forward when you truly feel that pulsating energy inspire you in a part of her personality and in something she did or said, then the contrast will make the contrast will make the contrast will make the contrast will make the interaction that much more potent.
the interaction that much more potent.
the interaction that much more potent.
the interaction that much more potent. Consciously infuse this principle into your conversations. Talk about things that make you feel peaceful and then throw in stories of adventure and excitement that gets your blood boiling.
If you are overly eager all the time, this might convey that the relationship is not on equal footing and that you need to overcompensate to be with her. On the other hand, if you are low energy and relaxed all the time, she might feel like you are boring. Be balanced and draw forth both Be balanced and draw forth both Be balanced and draw forth both Be balanced and draw forth both genuine excitement and relaxat
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genuine excitement and relaxation when ion when ion when ion when it’s it’s it’s appropriate.it’s appropriate.appropriate.appropriate. On a deeper level, your ability to express yourself fully will create the space for her to express all of her various sides as well. From this level of dynamic
contrast, you can relax in each other’s arms during an intimate moment and then escalate it into a conflagration of sensual fire that consumes you both.
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Show her that you're paying attention.
Show her that you're paying attention.
Show her that you're paying attention. It could be little things like what she wore today and how her outfit matches. In fact, she may have spent three hours to buy a matching top to her purse and then another two days to find a matching skirt or pair of pants to match those. Study fashion just a bit so that you at least know how to give women the compliment that they deserve and that they have taken the time to polish.
You are learning to appreciate the artwork called women. If an artist spent a good amount of time on a piece of art, they would really
appreciate it if you saw the subtle things that they did, that they took the time to create. Similarly, a woman is a work of art with so many
subtleties just waiting for you to shine light upon, appreciate, and draw out. Give her the gift of seeing her as a piece ofGive her the gift of seeing her as a piece ofGive her the gift of seeing her as a piece ofGive her the gift of seeing her as a piece of art and see the art and see the art and see the art and see the nuances of beauty, personality, preference, s
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It might be easiest to notice the external things at first. Start
there. Then fine tune your perception to notice the subtle beauty of her personality. Take note when she is kind to a homeless person on the street, when she plays with a child, when she touches you tenderly to reduce the tension in your body, when she fully enjoys the simple things in life, when she is generous with her smile with a passing stranger, etc.
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incredible these subtle subtle subtle subtle qualities are to you qualities are to you qualities are to you.... When you get clear about the qualities are to you qualities you want in a woman, it becomes even easier to notice them as
she exhibits them. The reflection of you perceiving these qualities within her will amplify these qualities even more and draw out the Goddess within her.
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Women love to play, so one of the wayssss into a woman's heart is to make into a woman's heart is to make into a woman's heart is to make into a woman's heart is to make her laugh.
her laugh.
her laugh.
her laugh. Tell stories in a way that's imaginative, that exaggerates, that understates, that plays with words, that shows what kind of silly
combinations you could make in your mind, and that shows what funny experiences you can link together. Play games in conversation and in creating your experiences with her. Make sculptures out of your food.
Have random contests like who can eat the string beans on your plate slower while looking into the other person's eyes without blinking.
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Create something something something extrasomething extraextraextraordinaryordinaryordinaryordinary out of thin air with your imagination out of thin air with your imagination out of thin air with your imagination out of thin air with your imagination....
Share something that the two of you seldom experience. Have her as your playmate and an opportunity to have more fun playing and laughing in ways that you would both find really enjoyable. Read up on books of humor. Be funny, make fun of things. TakeTakeTakeTake life lightly while maintaining life lightly while maintaining life lightly while maintaining life lightly while maintaining the context of your strength
the context of your strength the context of your strength
the context of your strength.... With the context of your masculine solidity, presence, dominance, and leadership, the humor, gentleness, compassion, sensitivity, poetry, creativity, and imagination are then incredible additions like beautiful hues of highlights on the painting of who you are.