First Impression First Impression First Impression
After you initiate contact with a woman, you want to quickly convey that you have value, high status, and that she would be missing out if she
chooses not to interact with you. Incredible, amazing, and beautiful women get hit on all the time. As a time management tool, she can appear to be cold or bitchy, but if you are approached by 10 or 20 strangers a day when you are out and about who just want you for sex, then you might also develop some time management tools otherwise you would get nothing done.
I've dated some incredibly beautiful women who were models, strippers, bartenders, go-go dancers, etc. and getting hit on 10-20 times a day is really not that outlandish when they are out and about. If she engaged in conversation with 15 men a day, and the conversation was short, say 2 minutes, then that would be half an hour out of her time, every
day. That's a lot of time. This This This This is why you need to be honing, crafting, is why you need to be honing, crafting, is why you need to be honing, crafting, is why you need to be honing, crafting, and refining how you express the
and refining how you express the and refining how you express the
and refining how you express the brilliance of who you are so that in the brilliance of who you are so that in the brilliance of who you are so that in the brilliance of who you are so that in the briefest moment,
briefest moment, briefest moment,
briefest moment, your gift as a person can shine through.your gift as a person can shine through.your gift as a person can shine through.your gift as a person can shine through. You are
developing the quality where you can make her laugh, bring more joy, bring more fun, bring more consciousness, and bring more insight into her life, even if nothing “becomes” of your interaction.
even if nothing “becomes” of your interaction.
even if nothing “becomes” of your interaction.
even if nothing “becomes” of your interaction.
One of the most important aspects in creating a great first impression is to create create create create the context of strength.the context of strength.the context of strength.the context of strength. If you came across as a weak, non-self-confident male, and then later demonstrated some qualities of a desirable, dominant male, do you think that a woman can really trust those later qualities? On the other hand, if you came across as a solid, dominant, alpha male, in control, who knows what he wants, and then later was able to tap into his softer, gentler side, and caress her with
tenderness and adoration, she would melt in your hands.
You might ask yourself, how do I create the context of strength?
Strength comes across Strength comes across Strength comes across
Strength comes across in all of you being, in the unspoken body in all of you being, in the unspoken body in all of you being, in the unspoken body in all of you being, in the unspoken body language language language language of every move you make, in the thoughtfulness of the questions that you of every move you make, in the thoughtfulness of the questions that you of every move you make, in the thoughtfulness of the questions that you of every move you make, in the thoughtfulness of the questions that you ask her, and
ask her, and ask her, and
ask her, and in the spoken experiences that you share with her.in the spoken experiences that you share with her.in the spoken experiences that you share with her. Even as in the spoken experiences that you share with her.
you are walking up to her, without speaking a single word, you body
language already speaks reams about who you are, so this is where we are going to begin fine tuning and amplify your natural attraction capabilities.
Body Language Body Language Body Language Body Language
The subtle aspects of your body language can have a woman decide whether she will engage with you or not. To make sure that you don’t get eliminated right away without even getting a chance, let’s prepare you in let’s prepare you in let’s prepare you in let’s prepare you in the powerful art of body language so that you become an intriguing man the powerful art of body language so that you become an intriguing man the powerful art of body language so that you become an intriguing man the powerful art of body language so that you become an intriguing man to her
to her to her
to her even as you walk up to her even as you walk up to her even as you walk up to her.... Body postures can speak so much even as you walk up to her more than words. Often times, women will ‘intuitively” sense the kind of
person you are and trust that more than what you say to her. A lot of this “intuition” stems from the subconscious reading of your body language.
Knowing what body qualities convey your value as an attractive, dominant, confident, present, and connected man will give you the edge that can keep your woman fascinated in what you have to offer. A side benefit of A side benefit of A side benefit of A side benefit of working on your body language is that the proper body
working on your body language is that the proper body working on your body language is that the proper body
working on your body language is that the proper body language will help language will help language will help language will help you grow into the qualities that you want to embody.
you grow into the qualities that you want to embody.
you grow into the qualities that you want to embody.
you grow into the qualities that you want to embody.
There is an interesting principle of the body mind connection where if you are in a good state like joy, laughter, and happiness, you body will
naturally express that state in having an open and relaxed posture.
Conversely, if you are a bit tense, but you put yourself into an open and relaxed posture while breathing deeply and having a smile on your face, your will soon begin to experience a more peaceful and enjoyable state of being.
Try feeling sad with your arms up to the sky, a sparkle in your eye, and a smile on your face. Seriously, try it. Hard to feel sadHard to feel sadHard to feel sadHard to feel sad when you body when you body when you body when you body says happy
says happy says happy
says happy isn’t it? More likely than not, you will find it challenging to feel the opposite of what your body portrays. This is one of the reasons why reading someone’s face and body is often more accurate than
listening to his or her words. The way we hold our bodies affect us more than we think, and unconscious patterns of thinking are held in our bodunconscious patterns of thinking are held in our bodunconscious patterns of thinking are held in our bodunconscious patterns of thinking are held in our bodies ies ies ies that can be transformed as we work on our body language.
that can be transformed as we work on our body language.
that can be transformed as we work on our body language.
that can be transformed as we work on our body language.
The body postures that I am going over have been written about in best selling books, compiled by keen observers around the world, and have been tested by myself in eliciting the most positive responses from women.
These keys are modeled after natural leaders, sexy movie stars, modeled after natural leaders, sexy movie stars, modeled after natural leaders, sexy movie stars, modeled after natural leaders, sexy movie stars,
entertainers, multi entertainers, multi entertainers, multi
entertainers, multi----millionaires, bad ass martial artists, and men who millionaires, bad ass martial artists, and men who millionaires, bad ass martial artists, and men who millionaires, bad ass martial artists, and men who women naturally find attractive
women naturally find attractive women naturally find attractive
women naturally find attractive.... These body postures have their basis in our neurology and communicate one’s desirability as soon as you walk into a room.
By practicing the body postures that make the most impact in becoming a naturally desirable male, you will begin to make the body mind connection of what it feels like to be that man. Overtime, Overtime, Overtime, Overtime, eeeembodying the propermbodying the propermbodying the proper body mbodying the proper body body body postures
postures postures
postures can can can can help you become that help you become that help you become that help you become that magnetically attractive personmagnetically attractive personmagnetically attractive personmagnetically attractive person....
Furthermore, knowing that you body dictates at least 80% of how you feel, you begin the journey of self-mastery where your emotions no longer rule you out of habitual patterns developed over a life-time. Instead, you get to consciously transform your emotions and direct them in a way that would serve to open a woman to her divine femininity.
As an exercise, for at least one week, be aware of anytime you are feeling nervous, worried, unsettled, sad, unhappy, angry, etc. and notice your body posture. Take just 15Take just 15Take just 15 seconds to consciously shift your body posture to Take just 15 seconds to consciously shift your body posture to seconds to consciously shift your body posture to seconds to consciously shift your body posture to one that makes you feel peaceful, grounded, clear, joy
one that makes you feel peaceful, grounded, clear, joy one that makes you feel peaceful, grounded, clear, joy
one that makes you feel peaceful, grounded, clear, joyful, happyful, happyful, happy, etc. ful, happy Just take 15s. If it “doesn’t work” after 15 seconds, then feel free to go back to your previous state.
Do this exercise every time a disempowering emotion or body posture emerges. Promise yourself to do this for the sake of attracting the do this for the sake of attracting the do this for the sake of attracting the do this for the sake of attracting the caliber of women you deserve.
caliber of women you deserve.
caliber of women you deserve.
caliber of women you deserve. Women are not attracted to men whose state is dictated by his external circumstances. Be a man who can Be a man who can Be a man who can Be a man who can remain powerfully grounded and centered regardless of the challenges remain powerfully grounded and centered regardless of the challenges remain powerfully grounded and centered regardless of the challenges remain powerfully grounded and centered regardless of the challenges that he has to face.
that he has to face.
that he has to face.
that he has to face. If you take 15 seconds to shift your body position every time a negative reactionary feeling begins to surface, you will notice
a huge difference within a week, be on your way to self-mastery, and become a natural woman magnet.
In the beginning of learning body postures that are still unfamiliar to you, practice in front of
practice in front of practice in front of
practice in front of a mirror a mirror a mirror a mirror or even video yourself so that you can hone the skill. Make minor adjustments and look at and feel into the
differences. Take the time to test out different positions and postures and practice holding the ones that create the most potent effect.practice holding the ones that create the most potent effect.practice holding the ones that create the most potent effect. This practice holding the ones that create the most potent effect.
way when you come up to a woman who you choose to interact with, you can come across in a way that automatically begins to attract her and generate sparks without her knowing why.
When you are communicating confidence, prominence, and alpha qualities in your body language, one of the coone of the coone of the coone of the components is deliberate slowness, mponents is deliberate slowness, mponents is deliberate slowness, mponents is deliberate slowness, steadiness, and
steadiness, and steadiness, and
steadiness, and stillness.stillness.stillness.stillness. When you enter a room, the slower you move, the more “comfort” you will exhibit, and the more comfort you
communicate with your body language, the more you seem to “own” the place. As you look around in the room whether you are sitting or standing, breathbreathbreatheeee deep, be stillbreath deep, be still deep, be still and move your head slowly as you are deep, be still checking everybody out. When you do this you are communicating that you are so solid and grounded within yourself that nothing can stir or perturb you.
Most people when they enter a new place will “busy” themselves by shifting nervously, darting their eyes around to see if they can “find” some people they know or scope out the scene. Some will get a drink as soon as possible so they have something to “do”. Others will play with their hands nervously. If you are used to even having the crutch of going out with friends to feel comfortable and like you belong, then go out by yourself to
practice feeling comfortable. Go to a club that you have never been Go to a club that you have never been Go to a club that you have never been Go to a club that you have never been before and act as if you are hanging out in your living room. Visit posh before and act as if you are hanging out in your living room. Visit posh before and act as if you are hanging out in your living room. Visit posh before and act as if you are hanging out in your living room. Visit posh hotels and just chill out in the lounge. Make reservations to nice
hotels and just chill out in the lounge. Make reservations to nice hotels and just chill out in the lounge. Make reservations to nice hotels and just chill out in the lounge. Make reservations to nice restaurants and relish the experience of dining by yourself.
restaurants and relish the experience of dining by yourself.
restaurants and relish the experience of dining by yourself.
restaurants and relish the experience of dining by yourself.
As you go to random new places, practice moving slowly and deliberatelypractice moving slowly and deliberatelypractice moving slowly and deliberatelypractice moving slowly and deliberately.
Check out the room leisurely while breathing deep like you are a multi-millionaire considering buying the place and taking in what this place has taking in what this place has taking in what this place has taking in what this place has to offer.
to offer.
to offer.
to offer. Relax your entire body and move as little as possible while you look around. Be still, there’s nothing to do and nowhere to be except here, now. Be present and enjoy the new places as much as humanly possible.
The mentality to develop here is that you know yourself, likeyou know yourself, likeyou know yourself, likeyou know yourself, like yourself, are yourself, are yourself, are yourself, are confident in yourself, and are such a
confident in yourself, and are such a confident in yourself, and are such a
confident in yourself, and are such annnn interesting person that anywhere interesting person that anywhere interesting person that anywhere interesting person that anywhere you go can be an adventure, and anyone you meet can benefit from your you go can be an adventure, and anyone you meet can benefit from your you go can be an adventure, and anyone you meet can benefit from your you go can be an adventure, and anyone you meet can benefit from your interaction.
interaction.
interaction.
interaction. Yes, it may seem arrogant or a stretch right now, but this is the person who you are developing into and who women are naturally attracted to. If you continue to practice everything that I share with you in this book, you will be surprised at the pace and progress you will be making.
As you continue your practice of moving slowly and deliberately, you want to take up a lot of space with your body and your movements.take up a lot of space with your body and your movements.take up a lot of space with your body and your movements.take up a lot of space with your body and your movements. This means your feet and legs are wide apart, your shoulders are back, your arms are open and extending outward, and you are breathing deeply so your chest is open. If you are walking, your hips are swinging freely and there’s even a slight swagger. It’s walking with confidence without the need to show off. Your shoulders are back walking tall and proud, and your arms swing naturally.
When you are still, you are still, When you are still, you are still, When you are still, you are still,
When you are still, you are still, when you move, you move with power, when you move, you move with power, when you move, you move with power, when you move, you move with power, impact, and authority.
impact, and authority.
impact, and authority.
impact, and authority. When you gesture with your arms, you use big sweeping movements or high impact movements. Be directive, clear, and precise with knowing what you want and who you are. Even without communicating, you are leading with you body. You are being the person that other people want to be. So, breathe deep, be still, and be present.
When you are sitting or standing, notice when you are getting tense or making yourself smaller by folding your arms or crossing your legs.
Consciously change your posit Consciously change your posit Consciously change your posit
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