Module 19: The Power of R.A.B.B.I.T.P. (October 2009)
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t’s yet another Instructional Video Module for October 2009 because, again, your questions SUCK!This one is about a very special affirmation I call “R.A.B.B.I.T.P.”
Let’s get right to it. As you know, I don’t teach affirmations the way people usually teach them. Usually they’re taught, “I am confident. I am powerful.” I don’t like that.
When I do teach affirmations, and I don’t really teach them that much anymore, I teach you to say “you.” “You are aggressive, direct and powerful with the women you desire. You radiate with confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.”
I like to use “you” because it bypasses the conscious mind. It’s like you’re addressing another part of yourself. I rarely do affirmations anymore, but when I do, this is one of the few that I do. It’s a very comprehensive affirmation. It leaves behind the need to unpack 10 or 15 other ones.
R.A.B.B.I.T.P. stands for: Responses, Attitudes, Behaviors, Beliefs, Insights, Timing and Practices. That P at the end is so important. It gives the power to the rest of it.
Really what we’re doing here is terraforming the psyche, remaking your internal landscape. Terraforming is a concept introduced in science fiction back in the ‘50s. The idea is that eventually, with sufficient technology, we could take a planet like Mars that’s hostile to life and change the
atmospheric conditions such that we produce an Earth-like planet. They call it terraforming.
In a sense, we’re sort of Sargy-forming your psyche with one affirmation because it’s so comprehensive and includes so many different aspects of what you need to shift and add to.
RESPONSES: Obviously, that’s the first piece of R.A.B.B.I.T.P. . It’s the R. From time to time, you’re going to need to generate responses to what women do. It’s not always the case that you’re going to be active.
Sometimes you have to be reactive, to respond, to what they do. Response is the first one.
ATTITUDES: You have to have the right attitudes. I’ve shared many of those with you in the past. What this does is summarize them all into one big folder so you don’t have to repeat the individual ones.
BEHAVIORS: This is addressing the level of action. You’ll notice in these that they go back and forth between addressing an internal quality and an action in the world that’s influenced by that quality. Again, we have to master the right behaviors.
BELIEFS: Beliefs are very powerful, as I have shared with you many times. Beliefs can open or close access to skill, awareness and information, and levels and flows of energy.
INSIGHTS: Sometimes we’re going to need to evaluate women, either immediately in the field or when we’re away from them and get the right set of instructions, so to speak, on how to handle them. We need to be able to master the insights to size up who we’re dealing with and what to apply, when and how.
TIMING: Timing is always crucial. We know this. We know that speed matters. It’s Speed Seduction®. It’s done quickly. There is tremendous momentum and power in speed. Yet, at the same time, we have to know when not to rush. We don’t want to rush. We want to be quick. As the great basketball coach for UCLA, John Wooden, said, “Be quick, but don’t hurry.”
PRACTICE: This is the key. By adding in practices, this affirmation sets the direction that you will go out into the world and do things. It’s very important. It creates movement towards the field, the real world, rather
than just sitting on your ass, which is one of the reasons I like this.
I want you to look at the bits in blue here. These are the parts that tell your mind what the results will be. They set up the motivating vision. Here is the entire affirmation:
“You’re mastering the responses, attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, insights, timing and practices that are bringing you wonderful sexual, physical and emotional total satisfaction and pleasure with the most desirable women who delight and please you in every way.”
We’re not just doing these things. We’re telling our mind what it’s going to bring to us, so it sets the vision. The vision, in turn, powers our desire to practice.
Notice I do something with my thumb and forefinger. I’m setting anchors. Whenever I mention what I’m mastering, I increase the pressure.
I keep the fingers lightly touching throughout, and then I’ll increase the pressure for each of the qualities I’m mastering. When I describe what the satisfaction is bringing me, the kind of satisfaction (sexual, emotional and physical) and what kind of women, I increase the pressure.
Go ahead and practice with this. Just do it three times in a row. You don’t have to do 10 or five. Just do it three times before you go to sleep at night, when you wake up in the morning and then maybe once during the day.