Ideas for dates

Personally, I don’t prefer going to the movies or the theatre on the first date.

Your main goal is to talk to her and get to know each other better.

Nor do I recommend restaurants.

And never ever take her to a club when going out for the first time.

Those are for singles or couples already dating; guys hitting on your girl in a distracting environment could ruin your relationship before it has even started.

Apart from the above, you have many options.

If it’s cold outside, just sit in a comfortable cafe or teahouse. It should be a friendly environment where you can sit next to her and which is not too loud.

If you live in a Mediterranean region or if it’s summer, the best thing you can do is to take her somewhere outdoors and have some kind of an enjoyable activity together.

I also need to stress the importance of knowing your city.

So KNOW YOUR CITY.

Know the monuments, romantic places, parks, fun-parks and the type of activities you can do together with a girl. There must be some city-guide paper, which you can get your hands on. Your date will love it when you take her to a place where she has never been or didn’t even know about.

Here are a few ideas to consider:

Outdoor dates:

1, Parks where you can have a walk and chill-out together. Sit on the benches where couples kiss nearby, look at the flowers, walk below the trees, play games or have a picnic. Possibilities are endless.

2, Castles, ancient ruins or any monument you have. Anything you can climb and which is somewhat of an adventure. If there is a long-abandoned ruin or castle in your city, take her there. It’s going to be a lot of fun for her. Make sure that if she is frightened, you are there to comfort and hug her.

3, Look out towers or places with good sight. Put your arms around her while looking down the city. If it’s located at a higher place, you can walk there together.

4, Go to the funfair, the zoo or a delphinarium/acquarium.

5, Caves. If you have caves in the city or nearby, take her there on an arranged tour.

6, Rock or Wall-climbing. It’s an exciting and good date if you know how to do it, even if just a little more than her.

7, Go skating or visit the ice-skating ring during winter.

8, Swimming pool. Go to the swimming pool or the local beach together.

Swim and sunbathe then have a cold drink in one of the cafes there.

9, Go on an outing to a nearby forest or some interesting place. Visit a fountain, a lookout tower or a local monument.

10, Go-kart racing or bob.

11, An excursion with a boat, or jet-skiing on the local river/lake.

Non-outdoor dates:

1, Bowling. Give her a sponge down while playing bowling.

2, Snooker or billiards. Only if you know how to play it a little bit though.

3, Shopping together. Go to the nearest shopping center. Sit in a cafe then walk around together. Go to a few stores and shop clothes for you. Ask her how the clothes fit you. Go to the bookstore and have fun while looking at the sex or love advice books with the girl.

4, Playing squash or tennis then having a drink together.

5, Museums and art galleries.

6, Exhibitions or statue parks.

Technique 26: 3 ways to kiss a girl

There are many ways to kiss a girl.

The most important factors are proper timing and the will to initiate.

I am now going to teach you three techniques: a direct and two subtler ones.

The direct way takes balls but it’s much easier.

Tell her to close her eyes. If she asks, tell her that you have a surprise for her. If she won’t close them, it means she is not comfortable enough with you yet (if this happens, take a few steps back).

When she closes her eyes, lean in and give her a gentle kiss on the lips. She will either kiss back or be stunned. If the latter happens, just smile and say:

“This was good, wasn’t it?” This is the cocky way of doing it, but it works.

To pull it off, you will have to be consistent with yourself. Never apologize for being the Man. You are the leader and you will take what you want.

If she ever acts annoyed or pissed, it’s just her test for you to see if you are really a Man or only pretending it. So smile at her and act like nothing happened.

If you want a more subtle way to kiss her, there is a technique you can use.

The part of the neck and shoulders are very sensitive for women.

By smelling her there, you will stir up her animal instincts.

Just think how dogs smell each other during their mating game. So sit next to your girl first. I also love to do this when dancing for a slow song.

Wherever you do it, lean a little bit closer, and slowly start smelling her shoulders. Do it in a casual and relaxed way – both of you should be enjoying it. Tell her that she has a wonderful scent and you can’t stop yourself from smelling her for a while. Take deep slow sighs while doing it – she should feel your light breath on her skin slowly turning her on.

Take your time and a few minutes doing this while advancing from her shoulders to the neck area. Smell the sides of her neck and the back just below where her hair grows.

You can start giving gentle kisses on her neck after a few minutes of smelling. Go upwards slowly with the kissing and continue on her cheeks.

When you feel that the time is ready, lean in and give her a gentle kiss on the lips.

The last way is the shy guy’s way.

Just kidding – but it still takes the least balls to do.

When you think she would be ready, pop her the question: “Would you like to kiss me?” She will most likely say “I don’t know…”, “I’m not sure…”,

“Maybe…” or “Yes!”.

If that happens, say “Hmmm, let’s see!” and go in for the kiss.

Sometimes you can get “No.” as the answer.

In this case, tell her that she really knows how to ruin a beautiful moment like this and act offended in sort of a playful way. Tell her that now she has to conciliate you and let her come up with something to do it.

Then when you feel like the moment arises again, kiss her.

And if nothing works you can still use the smelling technique to initiate kissing.

Lastly, make sure you have good breath before kissing.

Have some chewing gum or breath freshener with you and don’t eat onions before your date. Flossing, using mouth-shower or a tongue-scraper after washing your teeth can do wonders to help you avoid bad breath.