Now that you know all that, let’s take an objective look at yourself yourself

second. It’s that easy. (in theory at least)

Speaking of happiness, I have a short but very instructive story for you:

Once upon a time, the Gods decided that the human race sinned too much and was not worthy of happiness. They then agreed to hide happiness from men somewhere. One of the Gods stood up and said:

“Let’s hide it on the top of a 7000m mountain. Men will never find happiness there.”

The other Gods responded: “No, that’s not good, because human will sooner or later conquer the highest mountains and then, they will find happiness.”

“Maybe we should hide it at the bottom of the ocean, thousands of meters deep below” – another God suggested.

“That’s not good, men will sooner or later build machines to go deep down the ocean, and once, they will find happiness down there.” – the others said.

Then finally, an idea came which all of them agreed about: “Let’s hide happiness inside men. That’s the place where they will never even search it.”

– And thus, it happened.

Each and everyone has happiness inside them, without needing any outer things (money, relationships, etc.) to get it. All you need to do is to look inside yourself, and FIND IT.

Technique 3: Now that you know all that, let’s take an objective look at yourself

So you have decided to accept yourself the way you are. Good. You will always have some defects that you can’t change. Remember: if you try to hide your shortcomings, people will instantly notice it. Better change what you CAN.

Stand in front of the mirror. Say: “I’m what I am. I accept and love myself the way I am”. Yes, you have to LOVE YOURSELF. How could other people love somebody who doesn’t love himself? It’s impossible!

Now, still standing in front of the mirror, decide what you want to change on yourself. Of course you can’t change your height, baldness, your age, the shape of your face etc. What can you change then? Everything! It’s time to be glad that you are a guy. If you were a girl, it would be much harder to get noticed.

First, if you are fat, lose some weight. If you are thin, put on some muscle. If you are not bald, get a stylish haircut. Everyone can afford a stylish haircut.

See for yourself: just by changing your hairstyle you can change your appearance a 100%. Some women paint their hair to another color and become a sex bomb instantly.

OK, let’s not forget the details.

Women love to chew on things and they notice the details instantly. What shoes you wear, the color of your socks, whether your nails are kept well – etc. So let’s see what to do from top to bottom.

Hair: As I told you already, get a stylish haircut. Go to a professional hairdresser (don’t spare money on this please!) and ask his/her opinion on the style of haircut you should get. Of course you should choose a haircut you will like. It’s important to be comfortable in your own skin. But be open to new ideas and please, just this one time, don’t stick to your customs and don’t restrain yourself from trying something new.

Face: Take care of your mustache/beard. Either shave or cut it to look good.

Use a good after-shave lotion on your skin.

If you have acne or skin problems on your face, make sure to see the doctor and get proper treatment. This is basic stuff, but I have seen too many guys fail with women because of neglecting themselves, so go and do it now.

Teeth: A good doctor can fix your teeth wonderfully. If they are messed up, get teeth braces. You can get these invisible ones. If they are dirty, ask for a teeth whitening.

Oh, and never forget about bad breath.

There are many ways to fix that. Make sure you have no wrong tooth. Wash your teeth 3 times a day (especially before going out) and use dental floss.

Always have some chewing gum with yourself, and NEVER EVER eat onions or something stinky before meeting a woman.

Just some basic stuff, but I hope you have known these already.

Body: Do everything you can to get rid of body odor. Shave your armpits or cut your hair there a little bit. Use a good deodorant and choose a good perfume. Make sure to choose it on your own: your perfume should reflect your own personality and no one can choose it for you. Take your time, try the different scents and choose the one you like most. Always wear perfume when going out or going on a date.

As I said already, work on the shape of your body. If women do everything to stay in shape, why wouldn’t you? Go down to the gym and put on some muscle or lose some weight. That alone will improve your appearance and attractiveness by 100%.

Nails: Always cut them and make sure there is no dirt under them.

Pubic hair: Shaving is not necessary, but trim it a little bit. And always wash your c**k, especially before going out.

Feet: If your feet stinks, use one of these powders so it will sweat less. Pay attention to the color and cleanness of your socks. Change socks everyday and don’t wear black socks with white pants. Polish your shoes before going out.

So that’s it.

I hope that 90% of this chapter is common sense to everyone. In case it’s not, re-read it and follow every single step I have given.