Reactive Involves calibration and testing the waters Example: Mystery Method 2 Dominant Involves minimal calibration, and dominating her physically Example:

RSD

The benefit of reactive kino is you may not get blown out as much since you can gradually create compliance and comfort to your touch. The downside is it establishes a very beta frame. Dominant kino sets the frame that you really don't care about boundaries, and you expect her to comply like all women do. It means being truly unreactive to rejection, even on a subconscious level. It assumes attraction from the open (see Chapter 5).

forms, and then progress to the heavy ones in time. Loud ADD dance clubs are a good place for you to desensitize yourself if you have a fear of doing the heavy stuff. You can get away with a lot more heavy kino in those venues.

Light kino

Hold her hand when walking around the venue Arm-in-arm when walking

Touch her shoulder with the back of your hand when making a point Squeeze her arm when saying something funny

Rub her arms or hands if she's cold Palmistry

Play with her hair

Thumb sweep (put your hand somewhere like her back, and sweep the thumb slowly back and forth)

Cheek-to-cheek talking Tickling

Maintain handshake after the name exchange

Handshake to claw (shake her hand and pull her into a claw with the other arm) Pinky-pull (do a pinky shake and then pull her into you)

Grab belt loops (to pull her in or hold her in front of you, briefly)

Check out her guns if she mentions the gym or you role play her as your bodyguard Hugging (and side-hugging)

Twirling her

Sit with your thigh touching hers High-5s

Cheek kisses

Heavy kino

The claw as you open (the claw is simply putting your arm around a girl's shoulders and not letting her go)

Bite her neck

Massage her shoulders Ass slaps

Grab hair and pull her head back Smell her neck

Kiss gambits and makeouts Touch her belly

Pussy kino, boob kino (credit Gambler. As you're talking with a drink in your hand, let your hand briefly graze her tit occasionally (boob kino). As you turn to walk away, reach for her hand but “accidentally” graze her pussy (pussy kino)).

Have her sit on your lap

Have her stand between your legs Dance game

Hug and lift, carry off, etc (caveman style) Squeeze her thigh while talking

Hold her waist or hips when talking to her

Push your cock into her while she's facing away Of course, anything else sexual

Note that you always perform kino as if it's no big deal, and it's not something you think about as you do it. Of course you may be thinking about it at the time, but she should never know this. Eventually, it'll

become something you truly don't think about, and then all your subcoms will fall into place. Keep pushing the level of kino you do in sets until this click happens. If you aren't comfortable doing heavy kino, for now it's ok; that's more intermediate level game. I included it so you can know what it looks like if you should decide to try it out. We're not gonna discuss heavier forms of kino like making out or foreplay. Those are intermediate and advanced skills.

Kino should also typically be brief at first. As you are learning to calibrate it, you may do it too long or too often. That's fine. It's better to overshoot new techniques at first, then bring the level down as you gain calibration skills. So to begin with, really feel those chicks up. Be Mr. Creepster. Make girls blow you out because you're touching them too much. You'll probably get some disgusted looks and “stop touching me!!” Learn to expect this and embrace this. Welcome these blow-outs, because they are part of the learning process for many

guys. Yeah, I used to think touching girls would creep them out, but believe me, after being grabby with 1000s of girls in clubs, they rarely respond negatively.

With practice, you won't hear those comments and girls will start to respond favorably to your touch. Not only will the pressure, timing and length of kino be just right, but your verbal game will facilitate compliance. At these points, you should be touching exactly where, how and when you need to spike her BT. Your touch will make her feel your dominance and cause her to release endorphins. As you escalate, she will get horny. Job well done!!

But before you get there. You must accept the fact that kino is key to night game. You must not shit your pants thinking about it. You must be 100% convinced that she will be receptive to whatever you do, and if she rejects your kino, it completely confuses

Touch girls the moment you open a set. Try these:

As you say your opener, touch two of the girls on the shoulders for a second, then release.

As you open with something cheeky and cute, briefly touch your shoulder to the shoulder of a girl. Try “you guys are trouble!”

Smile at a girl and lock eye contact, put out your hand as if to dance. When she puts her hand in yours, give her a spin.

you. Rejection should be outside your reality. As with many aspects of game, this is all inner game.

Dominance

Proximity is key to dominance. This is something that took me a while to realize. Standing a couple feet away spitting routines at her is not seductive. You need to be all up in her grill. Become a close talker. At first, you can just stand shoulder-to- shoulder with your girl (even if it's an obstacle). As you spend more time with her, you can turn to face her directly. Of course, you can open by facing her, but this may intimidate you right now. So just try talking to girls while invading their personal space. If you spend all night in a girl's face, you'll probably freak her out. So after you've made it a belief that it's ok to be that close to a girl, start calibrating this just like the rest of your kino. Spend some time in her face to spike her BT, then back away to make her feel the loss. As you say something amusing, reach up and grab her hair with both hands, then let go and gesture with your hands. Take hold of her the charm hanging on her necklace, or gently touch her earring, then let go. Grab her bracelets and play with them briefly while commenting on them. Have no respect for her personal boundaries.

Mix in this proximity effectively and she will simply accept it. If she doesn't, then she's probably not affectionate enough for you anyway. But that's besides the point; I want you to be totally comfortable with kino and proximity, regardless of how girls respond to it. You will be surprised how you leave a set thinking you've creeped a girl out, only to realize when you reopen that your absence caused a sense of loss, and she is still receptive.

Girls should be increasingly compliant, both verbally and physically, as you are talking to them. You can either create hoops for them to jump through which ease them into compliance, or you can just hit the ground running with total dominance. Most guys

Try these forms of heavy kino:

For no reason, as you're standing close to a girl, tell her she smells good, put your nose in her neck, then bite it briefly. Snip and stack as if nothing happened.

Hug a girl and lift her into the air. You can bite her neck afterwards.

Slap her butt. Try to get as many ass slaps in a night with different girls as you can.

Grab a girl's head and try to make out with her.

As you hug a girl, put your fingers in her hair and gently pull her head back for a moment.

If you're standing behind a girl you've been gaming, or are dancing with her, press your hard-on into her.

start out with the former, since dominance requires a lot of confidence, and guys tend to lack confidence when dealing with hot girls.

Here are some ways you can assert dominance:

a. Control the conversation. If she goes in a direction you don’t want to go, snip and stack into something you want to talk about. Always set the agenda. Always move the interaction towards seduction.

b. Control the frame. See Chapter 7.

c. Be physical. Don’t wait for permission to escalate. Just do it.

d. Violate her personal space. Get all up in her grill in no time flat. Break down any space barrier she has, from the moment you walk up. Touch her jewelry, play with her hair as you talk to her, rub her belly, et cetera. Be a close-talker. If she calls you out, just say you didn't even realize you were doing it; you're just a touchy guy.

e. Invite yourself to sit down with a seated set. Make them make room for you. “Scoot scoot!”

f. Say what you mean, mean what you say. If a girl is sexy as fuck, tell her she’s sexy as fuck. BUT, do it in a way that is socially well-calibrated. Don’t be a douche bag. So your end goal will be assuming a dominant role from the approach. But let's start with gradual compliance.

Compliance

If you walk up to a girl and are value-free or value-taking in your words and subcoms, you have no right to assume she will be responsive to your escalation. However, if you enter the set value-giving, you can assume she will be warm to your touch and proximity. So what greases the wheels of escalation is the value you bring to the set, and the value she feels from you before your approach. Refer back to Chapter 6 for further discussion.

When you are just starting out in the game, you will probably have no idea what is valuable to women, how to introduce kino correctly, or what your subcoms should look like. The point of going out in field is to first wrap your head around these ideas, but then internalize them and make them automatic.

I no longer think about escalation...it just happens. I never try to give value, I just say things I know will do it. I never have to concern myself as to whether I am taking value from a set. But yeah, when I started, of course. I had to think about all those things and more, and I was constantly in my head. That's why drinking is counter-productive; it doesn't permit the neurons to form new synapses, or for the necessary alteration in brain biochemistry. Transformation requires presence of mind.

Ok, so it's your first night out in the club. You approach, you run your attraction material, you do a little kino.

And you bomb. The girls back-turn and walk away. They look at your hand when you touch them, with a creeped-out expression.

It's ok. Your subcoms are still AFC, even if your verbal game is spot on. You still have fear in your vocal tonality. You still hesitate and seem unsure just a fraction of a second too long, and girls detect this. Your eye contact isn't totally confident. There are so many subtle subcoms being sent out at once, that you can't possibly think about or control all of them. So something goes awry and your set does not comply. Or worse, they blow you out hard.

First off, don't let this affect your state. Rejection will invariably happen during your learning, and you must not consider it a bad thing. These sets are just giving you some free feedback about your game. Be appreciative and move onto the next set. To get upset is to allow your ego to run the show.

Expect the following IODs to derail you:

1. The cell phone of doom. Your target or friend pulls out her cell and starts texting. You can recover with my faux iPhone routine, or by saying “is that a calculator? Who brings a calculator into a club?” or “Hey, this is what I do when some chatty girl is talking my ear off. I pull my phone out and pretend like I'm texting. Sometimes they get it, but usually they just keep blabbing away in my ear.” (the last one is the most effective...they usually start back-peddling because you've called them out on their rudeness).

2. They turn and walk away. Often this is so fast, you can't stop it. If you can, grab her shoulder and say “wait wait wait!” and snip and stack into a new thread. 3. She and her friend eye code and the friend pulls her away. Sometimes friends

will cock-block out of habit, even if your target is enjoying the interaction. It is simply the law of the club, no matter how unfair it seems. Next time, give more value to the rest of the set. Flirt, kino, compliment the friends. It's best to be proactive to prevent cock-blocking.

4. Verbal IODs. They tell you off, say “go away,” or some flippant response. Regain control of the frame with something like “hey, daddy's talking” and resume the thread.

5. I've had girls stand there and look at me, not smiling or saying anything. Some people are socially inept or have no value to give. Why waste your time with them? Plow a little, but then move on.

6. Though not an IOD, they may shit test you. Stare her down confidently and deflect the shit test. My Guide has examples on dealing with these. Plowing past shit tests usually unlocks the set and gains you respect.

In summary, do whatever you can to push past these IODs. Put your foot down and be assertive. In time, they will happen with less frequency. Hooking a set is one of the first compliance tests.

In the first few minutes, as you enter her comfort zone and escalate rapidly, she will usually be receptive when your subcoms and verbal game are up to snuff. But on occasion, she will IOD. While the above IODs are common when you first start out, they get replaced by a single IOD: the backwards drift. As you're talking to a girl, she will gradually start moving away from you. You move closer, she moves back, and so on, until you realize you're chasing her backwards.

This is not good. When you notice this, you need to reciprocate IODs (false time constraint, disqualifiers, body rock away or just eject and game an adjacent set). Continuing to pursue her while she's IODing is a sign of low value. You may not detect this at first, but with time in field your calibration skills will sharpen and it'll dawn on you what's going on.

Next, you isolate. At this point you should be mini-isolated, which means you have taken her a couple steps from her group and are holding a 1-on-1 interaction. Isolation is much more potent, so come up with a few ways to get this done. Grab her hand and walk her to another part of the bar using some form of plausible deniability:

1. Use my palmistry routine.

2. Say your feet are tired and you want to sit down for just a second. 3. Take her to the bar so you can get yourself a water.

4. Go outside to smoke if that's your thing.

5. Take her to meet your friends, or merge her into another set briefly to make her feel safe, and then isolate.

Definitely have a plan to isolate, since that is a key compliance test which will pay off. Once you have isolation, continue to game and escalate until you are in deep attraction, and then work towards the close (which is intermediate and advanced level game).

So to review, the main points of compliance are:

1. Give her intense proximity from the open and then employ either reactive or dominant kino.

2. Hook her so she doesn't IOD. 3. Isolate.