Don't expect to do it in one day though. It takes time to establish neural, electrical and hormonal patterns.
Make a point not to stimulate the trigger area just below the bottom of the glans and the urethra in general. Instead, stimulate the other areas like the top and sides, the base of the penis and the scrotum. Good masturbation habits will develop the neural patterns that support ballooning. Stimulate yourself to the edge of ejaculation, while remaining very relaxed throughout the ride. Stop all movement when the urgency for ejaculation occurs; repeat it a couple more times. This fills the ampule with semen and puts the penis in a hyper-stimulated state. You will notice that as ejaculation approaches, the penis gets a bit more rigid as more blood flows in. The aim is to sustain this pre-ejaculatory state for an extended period. If you continue to relax and stimulate non-trigger areas, you may experience dry orgasms. If your hormone levels are good you can maintain this state for 30 - 60 minutes and watch your penis inflate to its maximum. You may also wish to take breaks and massage the PC muscle. It does a lot of contracting during ballooning and
if it gets fatigued it can cause you to ejaculate. The other thing is that you want to get fresh, hormone-rich blood into the penis to enable growth of tissue.
Takes time to master the ballooning technique. The body is very programmable though each time you do it you will feel changes that bring you closer to glorious ballooning. Relaxation and almost a hypnotic enjoyment of sensation (from the non-trigger areas) are keys to the success.
Mental focus can really help here. I focus on sensations within the two main CC cylinders and find great enjoyment. Mental focus (while relaxed) causes new DHT receptors to develop in these non-trigger areas to the point where you can enjoy mental masturbation without touching Willie. Oops. I'm doing it now, how pleasant. At a certain point I can release the intensity of my focus to free the sensation to blossom on its own - and it does. I can continue to the point of ballooning without doing anything except relax, focus and enjoy. This has taken months to develop.
Another tool here is using the acupuncture meridians to guide electrical charge to the area you want to stimulate. This is done through visualization. There is a hot wire running down the center of your chest to the groin. Imagine a downward flow and you will soon feel a pleasant tingle there. Then send it into your penis and see what happens. There is more pleasure one could have inside the body using your mind than outside the body using touch.
After or during ballooning, I often jelq and squeeze to take advantage of the elasticity of the tissues, which promotes penile growth and health. If you want to grow, don't ejaculate. It depletes important substances that you need for the recovery/growth phase - save it for the woman. Put it away and go work out. You'll have lots of energy. DHT builds up in your head and you will feel rotten within two hours if you don't sweat and pee it out.
Message: I share all of this knowing that some will not act wisely and will destroy themselves with excessive orgasms. But others will master the technique and it will bring great joy to their lives. With every gift there is a risk of abuse. Do not worship the gift but rather the Giver. Then you won't crash.
Under the tailbone is a unique merging of nerves that allows you to send sexual energy (electrical) into the nervous system. This can be intensely pleasurable but can also be very damaging and literally burn you out like a druggy. Dr. Lin tells you to send the current up from the tailbone through the spine and into the back of the head, over the exterior of the brain and to the "third eye" in the center of the forehead and then, down the front and to the groin. My head is very sensitive, so I have to really limit the circulation of energy to just my torso and neck (and lately, legs), and let my head enjoy the run-offs. Otherwise I get headaches.
Many people say that anal orgasms are safe as long as you circulate the energy. I say that you have to customize that circulation as your body gives you feedback. If you have established an unhealthy pattern, then find another path for the energy flow and let the unhealthy one dies from neglect. It takes a while but the nervous system seems to unlearn as well as it learns. Remember, you are dealing with Chi flowing through vulnerable and vital neurons. If they fry, the function they govern will not work anymore. So listen to the warnings your body gives.
The tailbone muscle is just above the anus toward the spine. Put a finger there and one on the PC muscle and then do a PC contraction. You should feel tightening in both places. Then try to isolate and contract just the tailbone muscle. Within a few days you'll get it. Just focus on this area through the day and contract it. Soon it will give you warmth, pleasure and energy. Relax and breathe slowly or you will get nowhere. In addition, imagine a flow of energy that begins at the tailbone, rises up the spine, over the shoulders, (or head if you prefer) and down the front of the torso to the penis. Let the mind's eye travel this route slowly and eventually it will flow on its
own. This circular pattern should become established to guide the energy that your butt will soon produce.
Let the pleasure spread to your anus, rectum and bowel area within the pelvis as well as your gluts. The larger the area of pleasure, the sooner you will have an orgasm there. The power source is the tailbone muscle but my favorite is the rectal area. You experience orgasms when the muscles around the rectum contract in wonderful waves.
The toughest part of all this is staying relaxed. When the sensations begin to intensify, you will have to train yourself not to get overly excited. At first this may only disrupt the pleasure but later, adrenaline rushes can be used to intensify and accelerate the pleasure. DON'T DO IT! It's deadly. Head rushes (non-orgasmic) will eventually flow out of control and blow your top off every time you try to relax - dangerous nerve programming. Let the pleasure cause you to become more and more relaxed, no matter how intense it gets. Let the pleasure increases at its own pace; don't force it. Keep the circulation going and enjoy new areas of pleasure, each of which can produce its own orgasm - back, neck, chest, belly, legs, dick, and balls.
I use this during intercourse and it is the best ejaculation control because it distracts the brain from sensations in the penis and prostate. I can screw forever (so it seems) with glorious full-body orgasms, and never ejaculate. I only squirt when I know my body needs to. It does not enhance my pleasure anymore. It only ends it. Now I'm trying to get my wife to try it.
Some more notes on ballooning: It's prostate excitement that produces ejaculation. Trigger areas connect to the prostate and that is why you should avoid them. You fool your penis into thinking that you're shooting but keeping it a secret from the prostate.
Depending on your age you may need to take some herbs and supplements to keep your hormone and neurotransmitter level up. Supplements will bring you back in shape faster and enable you do enjoy more orgasms.
Remember to massage the tailbone muscle after sex to disperse the DHT. Otherwise it will cause prostate enlargement. Take saw palmetto too.