Here's the basic idea ...
1. Do values elicitation by querying about previous boyfriends [attractors, and repulsions (which are simply antonyms of more attractors)].
2. Introduce the concept of a PERFECT MAN 3. Describe him according to her criteria 4. Describe how he would begin to effect her.
5. Pace reality up to a passionate kiss.
First, have her close her eyes.
You: "Would you like to try something fun? Relax, and close your eyes for a couple minutes, and imagine this situation ... "
What would it be like, if you had JUST MET THE PERFECT MAN ... not perfect in general ... but, instead the man who is perfect ... for YOU ...
(IF you've done any values elicitation to her tastes in men, insert them here:
"This man is A ... and B ... very C ... and he blah blah blah, etc." Now, she should be pretty solidly into a light trance!)
For example ... this man ... from the moment you saw him, there was something just a little different about him. Maybe, from the moment you see him, you are immediately attract to this guy ... or even ... since this is the perfect man ... you feel an almost immediate connection with him ... even from across the room ...
and as this man gets near to you ...
(Note: here, we begin pacing reality for the duration ... )
and you start to talk with him ... and you listen to his words, you start to feel the most wonderful feelings ... fascination, curiousity, arousal, lust ... all of those wonderful feelings that you really enjoy, ... and the more he talks with you, the stronger these feelings become inside you ... until you start feeling incredible passion for him ...
... and when he touches you [you begin by, running your fingers through her hair, combing it back a bit ... go down the back of her head ... massaging the lower quarters of her head, where her neck starts ... and word down and out toward her shoulders] ... it's exactly what you've been waiting for ... he knows just exactly how to touch you, to make those feelings grow even stronger, (knead your way down her arms to her hands, then grab her hand) and stronger in intensity ...
and soon, you find yourself guiding his hand, guiding it to the places that unleash that passion within you ... and as you look at him ... [touch her check, or
eyebrown ... if she still doesn't open her eyes, brace your fingers on her cheek, and gently open one eyelid with your thumb]
... as you study his face ... and gaze into his eyes ... you get even more turned on ... and you're looking to see if you can find that passion within him ... already, in your mind ... you are imagining what it would be like to enjoy this man ... this perfect man ... in your favorite, private place ... not for a few minutes ... but for hours ... and you are still gazing into his eyes ... feverishly hoping that he wants you, as badly as YOU WANT THIS MAN ... (wrap your hand around her shoulder, with at least your fingers laying on her shoulder blade) you find yourself drawn closer, and closer to him (if she doesn't close the gap between you ... gently pull her shoulder towards you) ... you can't resist tilting your head to one side ... to give him your best kiss the moment your lips meet.
THE POWER OF "HAVE YOU EVER": FASCINATION PATTERN
Note: This pattern should be used after general banter and fluff talk. It can stand on it's own or be integrated into part of a larger pattern.
You "Let me ask you question. Have you ever been totally fascinated with someone? Like maybe as you were there, LOOKING at him, and you started to LISTEN
CAREFULLY, it was like his voice just seemed to wrap itself around you, and the rest of your environment just disappeared, and your entire world, everything you saw, became what was right in front of you? And anything he described, you found that you could just PICTURE IT CLEARLY? So you know, if he were talk about a romantic walk, on a moonlit beach, with your perfect partner, you could SEE YOURSELF there with him, just enjoying what that would be like?"
"THE EROS STONE NECKLACE" PATTERN
You I’ve been staring at your necklace, wondering why it reminded me of something, and now I remember what it was.
I recall a story I had read once, called "The Eros Stone Necklace." It was about a woman who was growing apart from her lover, and was losing faith in love. One night she was out walking, up in the mountains near her home. As she sat upon some rocks, and was staring up at the stars, she made a wish that a man would come into her life, and fill her with the adventure she had been missing. Suddenly, there was a flash around her, which at first startled her. But then she began to…
FEEL VERY RELAXED. A nice…soothing…comfortable feeling filled her body. Then an image flashed into her head. An image of passion so incredible…
so fulfilling, that she almost thought she were dreaming. At first she tried to deny that she was starting to…FEEL A WARMTH DEEP INSIDE…because she was afraid to feel that good. But the more she allowed herself to…FEEL THAT WARMTH INCREASE, the stronger it became, and the more she wanted this to continue. Then she started to ... HEAR THIS VOICE…inside her mind. And the more she allowed herself to ... LISTEN TO THIS VOICE…the more it relaxed her, the more it warmed her, the more it caused her to …LISTEN INTENTLY TO WHAT’S SAID. The voice began to change, and started to sound like her own voice. And this voice said to her, "Focus on what is in front of you, and you will discover that which you desire." Then, POOF, the voice was gone, leaving her to…UNDERSTAND WHAT WAS SAID. She put her hand to her chest, to settle her breathing, and felt something around her neck. She pulled it forward, and saw that where there was once nothing, there was now a beautiful necklace, with a (the color of her stone) colored stone. She was of course confused at first, but then she recalled the voice that she had heard, and what it had said to her;
FOCUS ON THIS (point to self) RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU…AND YOU WILL…FIND WHAT YOU DESIRE. Now, it all becomes clear. She has the necklace, and somehow it will give her what she desires. Without even fully understanding what is happening, the decision is made to pursue this…to have what is desired deep down inside. She said to herself, "No matter what anyone else says to you, this is what you want (point to self) this is what you deserve, and you’re going to do it for all your own reasons."
The next day she went into town to buy some things, and was amazed…by what happened…upon entering the market.
(Stay quiet and wait for her to say something)
an energy had formed around them, like a soft…private bubble, surrounding them from the rest of the world. In this moment only these two people (motion back and forth subtly) existed. He smiled, and said not a single word, and instead kissed her lips softly.
She closed her eyes and took in the moment. (take in a breath, then let it out slowly with a slight moan) At last, she had found the man who would make her feel alive again. The man pulled back to look into her eyes, and whispered softly,
"What can I do, what can I say, to make you mine, if but only for a night?" She thought about what it was she wanted, and asked herself, "What do you want deep down inside of you? What is missing from your life right now that you want from this man?" And with only a smile, she took his hand, and lead him out of the market. They talked for hours, sharing insights, and opinions, dreams, and desires.
Then they simply fell into each others arms, and made love for the night. It was unlike anything she could imagine. He touched her exactly how she wanted to be touched, made love to her exactly how she wanted to be made love to.
And all of this was the result of a chance encounter, and a magical necklace. As they held each other later, he complimented her on her necklace. She revealed to him what had happened the previous night on the mountain, and how she came to possess the necklace. He kissed her lips, then said, "Every time you become aware of having this necklace, think of me. And every time you touch this necklace, I will feel your touch upon my face, and I will smile." They parted the next morning, but made plans to meet again that evening.
Sadly, she decided not to meet him after all, for she feared that this magical, wonderful, amazing adventure she had shared with this man (point to self) would eventually be ruined for one reason or another someday. She instead chose to REMEMBER FOREVER that one perfect night, with this one perfect man. She thought of him often, and his image was never far from her mind. And ever day she would touch that necklace, and every day she would FEEL AN
INCREDIBLE WARMTH for she knew, that somewhere, he was smiling.