Desperation Tactics

Chapter 13: Desperation Tactics

The following advice is only applicable if your ex is completely unresponsive to all attempts of rebuilding the relationship. Do not attempt any of the following unless you feel like you’ve tried almost everything in this book and your ex is still ignoring you.

Now, your ex may be completely unresponsive for a few reasons.

First, your ex may be unreceptive to your advances because they’ve changed their number or contact information. If you know for a fact that this has happened, it’s likely you should be moving on. It simply isn’t worth the effort. If you happened to even get a hold of your ex’s new contact information, what then? Contacting your ex at this point simply looks even more desperate.

Second, it’s likely you’ve conveyed way too much interest in getting back

together. It’s possible that you’ve gone overboard with the begging and pleading. If you feel that this is the case (and you allowed for several months of no contact), then the following advice may be applicable.

you’ve inflicted on them. That, or they’re simply going through their own personal issues and are uninterested in talking to you at the moment.

Regardless of what reason you think is applicable to your situation, it’s imperative that you make sure that this desperation tactic is done at the right time. Remember, when in doubt, you can always safely engage in no-contact and begin the process all over again.

The Desperation Letter

The goal of this letter is to tell your ex that you’ve completely moved on that that you’ve found someone new. Regardless of whether this is true or not, it doesn’t matter. Your goal here is to simply establish a line of communication with your ex.

Dear [Your Ex’s Name],

This is a letter you probably would never expect from me since we haven’t spoken in forever… but I’d like to thank you for being in my life. Much has changed since we’ve broken up – I found somebody new and everything has been fantastic. I know it sounds weird, but being with you has helped me realize everything I’ve been missing…but I completely valued the time we were together.

I just want you to know that I’m completely over us…and although I’m glad it’s over between us, I think it would be a shame if we just never spoke to each other again. You make such a great friend!

If you feel inclined to reach out to me, you know how to contact me. All the best.

©2014 The Ex Factor Guide by Brad Browning Page 154 Send this letter via e-mail after a long period of no communication (3-6 months is usually a sufficient amount of time). Once you send this letter, don’t expect your ex to reply to you right away. It’s possible that it will take a long time before this information will sink in. And whatever you do, remember these guidelines:

1.) Do NOT send a follow-up letter. Once you send this letter, it’s over. You should not be attempting to contact your ex in the near future. This is called a “last ditch effort” for a reason.

2.) After you send this letter, don’t think about it ever again. Once you send it, you should forget about your ex almost entirely and attempt to move on with your life.

3.) Don’t wait for a reply. It’s likely that it will take months before your ex replies to this letter. That means that everything I’ve been teaching you in this book

(hanging out with friends, dating other people, etc.) is still very important and you should be attempting to better your life in every way possible.

4.) If your ex does reply to you right away, it will likely be a short thank you or brief acknowledgement of the letter. Once this happens, do NOT reply to your

I know, there’s a lot of waiting around, but you really need to convey that you don’t need them. In their mind, they’re always going to think that you want them, so you really need to shatter the image of the “old you” from their mind and this is the only way you can do it (that, or you could convince your ex to take shock therapy, but this just doesn’t seem like a likely scenario!).

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Congratulations! I hope that this book has helped you get your ex-girlfriend back. And, if you’ve done everything properly, she should be begging you to return to her. But like I said, anything can happen.

If you’ve tried everything in this book and more… and your girlfriend still isn’t back in your arms, then maybe it’s time to think about moving on. Think about it this way: if you’ve used the most powerful psychological tools at your disposal to try and win her back and they still haven’t worked, then do you really think that this girl is worth it? Let’s face it. Not everyone is made for each other and sometimes some problems run so deep that they can never be fixed, but that’s life. Do you really want to continue trying to be with a girl that doesn’t appreciate you? That doesn’t care about you? That would probably leave you for another man if she had the opportunity? Every guy

deserves a girl that treats them the way they’re supposed to be treated.

Relationships are a two-way street and both sides have to be willing to make the effort and sacrifice. If your girlfriend is stupid enough to not get back with you, then find a woman that is smart enough to never leave you.

Chapter 13: Desperation Tactics

The Desperation Letter

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Chapter 14: Conclusion

Thank you very much for purchasing my program. I sincerely appreciate

your business, and I wish you all the best in your efforts to win back the love

of your life.

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Once again, thank you… and best wishes in your romantic endeavors!

Brad Browning