Sex! - Ex Factor Guide 4

Chapter 11: Sex!

Now I bring you to level 3 kino… sex! I probably could write a 300-page book on sex if I wanted to.

Most guys don’t like to be told how to make love like a porn star, but really, it’s vital that you know how to make her orgasm. I mean, can you

imagine yourself having sex for a minute… and not “finishing”? It’s the worst thing ever, right? Well, it’s like that for women but worse.

It doesn’t matter if you’re well-endowed or not. I’ll be able to teach you some tricks that will for sure cause her to scream in the sack. Why is this important, you say? A woman’s orgasm is roughly three times more powerful than a man’s orgasm. I know, that’s hard to believe, huh? If you are skilled in the art of doing her, she’ll be craving for you time and time again. In fact, it will almost be like you control her. I’m serious.

off all your clothes in the span of 3 seconds. Take your time and explore her body. When you take off a garment of her clothing, make sure you take the time to pay special attention to that newly exposed skin.

2.) Dirty talk her. Yeah, some women will say they don’t like being called names in bed, but I personally think that’s completely garbage. Women secretly love it when you call them filthy names while screwing them… but name-calling isn’t the only thing you can do here. Tell her exactly what you want to do to her and how turned on you are. Ask her how turned on she is. Keep going back and forth with this and I guarantee you that she’ll get into it. Don’t be shy.

3.) Establish dominance. Unless your girl is into being the one in control during sex (and not many women are), then you should be establishing firm control over the situation. Women love it when a man takes charge in bed. In fact, when you have sex with her, you should be doing it your way and not hers. That means that you’re physical with her – you force her into sexual positions. You dictate the pace of the sex. You moan or you make a manly noise every time

4.) Learn how to perform cunnilingus properly. Oral stimulation of a woman’s clitoris is so easy, it’s not even funny. I can easily make any girl cum by performing proper cunnilingus on her. Here are some tips: work your way slowly towards her vagina with her tongue. Start by licking the inside of her ankles and work your way up, slowly, to her vagina. Begin slowly stimulating her vagina with your tongue. As things get hot and heavy (use her breathing as cues), then spread the labia of her vagina with your two thumbs and begin only licking her clitoris. At this point, she’ll be going nuts. Guaranteed!

5.) Keep cardiovascular fitness level high! Yes, “endurance” in sex often refers to how long a man can keep his erection… but this type of endurance builds up naturally over time with more sex a guys has. However, a lot of men begin to lose their erections simply because they’re not fit enough! Going for a jog every other day will help you give your ex-girlfriend crazy orgasms.

©2014 The Ex Factor Guide by Brad Browning Page 138 Once you master these 5 tips, I guarantee you that your relationship with your girlfriend will be renewed and stronger than ever! Like with anything, though, sex takes a lot of practice… so get practicing.

What To Do After Sex

If you’ve gotten to this point, then congratulations! You’re doing great.

Once you have sex with your ex, chances are your relationship will organically work itself out and you two will be able to freely talk about getting back together. However, there is a chance that she’ll only think of the sex as just “breakup sex” or a “one time thing.” Alternatively, there’s also a chance that she just wants to be friends with benefits.

The last thing you want to do right now is blow it and turn into a wuss again. So don’t ask her what the “status” of your relationship is with her right now. For all she knows, you just want “breakup sex” too. So don’t bring up anything yet unless she brings it up. If she brings up the issue of your relationship, then by all means, this is your signal that you can now talk about getting back together again (but don’t beg, plead, or seem too eager).

up, then neither should you, but it is

imperative that you continue having sex with her. This is extremely important. In fact, from this point on, every time you meet up with her, make sure you are able to have sex with her at some point. That means having study dates/movie dates at your place or her place.

At this point, just keep things light and continue having fun and being positive. Don’t become emotional or depressed when you

are around her. Continue flirting and being fun. Hold her hand.

At the end of each “date,” it is critical that you are the one that ends it. Say that you’re busy and that you have to go. Say you have to hang out with one of your

girlfriends and continue making it known to her that other women want you. Yes, what you’re essentially trying to do is induce jealousy and make her miss you.

©2014 The Ex Factor Guide by Brad Browning Page 140 Eventually, if you do this properly, you will force her to initiate The Talk. There will be a moment when you tell her you need to leave after your date with her, but she prevents you from doing so. This is a great time to bring up the topic of your

relationship.

However, there is a chance that she won’t bring up the topic of your relationship at all. This is a signal that she just wants to be friends with benefits. If, after a period of 3 weeks of hanging out with her and sleeping with her, she doesn’t say anything, it will now be okay to bring up the topic of your relationship. But you need to make sure you bring up the topic in a particular way. Don’t plead for her to get back with you or

coerce her into the idea of it. You want to pose the topic in the form of a question (just like in Jeopardy!). Say something like…

“Do you think we’ll get back together? Because I’m getting that impression that you want to give things a second try.”

This should sufficiently force the topic of your relationship with her. If she

continues being evasive or hesitant, do no crack. But again, you must continue having a deep sexual relationship with her and continuing making her think that other women want you. Even if she claims she just wants to be friends with benefits, eventually, she

help you get out of the friends with benefits zone and into the relationship zone.

Pretty soon, your ex will want to talk to you about getting back together in a real, committed relationship – but do not make any more

mistakes. You already know what you’ve done wrong, and you can’t afford to blow it again. So once your ex brings the topic of your relationship status up again, say that you want to continue taking things slow again. Don’t say that you are or aren’t interested, but say that you haven’t been thinking about it that much.

If you really want to be manipulative, you can even say that there’s another person chasing after you, wanting to be in a relationship and that you’re thoroughly confused as to what to do.

Just because you’ve made it this far doesn’t mean you can stop portraying the “attractive characteristics” that I described earlier in the book. In fact, now is

the time to “up your game” and make sure she sees you as a

confident and successful… she’ll be embarrassed to get back together with you if she’s already told her friends and family that the breakup was “for real,” so don’t show any negative characteristics that might force her to have second thoughts. Keep showing her a good time, avoid those “unattractive characteristics,” and let her fall back in love with you.

©2014 The Ex Factor Guide by Brad Browning Page 142 Remember, you want to flip the situation upside down and be the one that is playing hard to get so that your ex will be the one chasing you.

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