Recently there has been a phenomenal growth in the interest of Texas Hold ’em Poker. People everywhere are playing it. It is on television – many channels and many times of the day!
I find it to be extremely interesting and fun to watch. You get to see what separates the winners from the losers. It is psychology at its best. These people are under tremendous pressure and I find watching people under pressure to be quite interesting. It shows the true essence of who they really are. People can say I am this way or I am that way, but the proof is in the pudding.
Do you know what makes poker players successful? Their ability to throw in all their chips based on their belief that they have a winning hand. The excitement peaks in these games when a player says, “I am all in.” When everybody hears,
“I am all in,” all the attention flows to the player who said it. These players are willing to put everything on the line without knowing the outcome.
Let me say that again. The player that says, “I AM ALL IN” doesn’t know exactly how the hand is going to turn out. However, he is willing to risk everything to find out. He is willing to risk everything because there’s a possibility that he can double what he has – or maybe even more.
His focus is not on what he can LOSE – it is on what he can WIN! The master poker player knows that there will always be another time to play and bet again.
The cautious player just delays the inevitable – the ultimate loss. A cautious player never wins enough hands to ultimately win the tournament. Even when the cautious player has a winning hand, he loses because he did not bet enough to get anywhere. So the cautious player only gets to experience the field of play within a certain range and never gets to be in the exciting parts of the game.
In the same sense, the cautious seducer never really gets the excitement of putting all his chips on the line.
The master seducer is always putting himself “all in.” Women can tell that about a man. They want a man who is willing to put himself “all in” to a relationship with them. They don’t want caution to be a major part of your interaction with them.
They want to see what you have. And the master seducer is not afraid to show them. He is so confident with himself that he puts all of himself out there for
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Teri Tells:
It is very refreshing to find a man that doesn’t NEED me to make him happy.
In fact, if I don’t feel he NEEDS me to make him happy, I am more likely to do things for him that do make him happy. Needy is not a turn-on!
everyone to see. The master seducer knows that there is much more to gain than there is to lose by putting “all in.”
As a master seducer, the thing that will be first and foremost in your mind is your enjoyment of life. You will ask yourself, “Am I enjoying life to the fullest?” You will not be too concerned about what others think. You will know that the people that are attracted to who you are will be those that are best suited to be in your reality. You don’t consider what you might lose because you are already winning just by being “all in.”
Women love a man that is independent. Women love the fact that a man has his own independence and loves life – even when they aren’t around. They love it because they know that the man is confident being who he is. The woman knows she is not responsible for getting him to be happy and independent. She knows it is not her energy that will be required to keep him there. She can see he has that quality within himself. That quality is extremely attractive to women.
The successful person that goes “all in” knows that if this doesn’t work out he will get into another game as soon as possible. He plans to use what he learned from this game and take it into the next game.
He also knows that if he wins he can use the win as a platform to build to the next level. The “all in” person is willing to go to any lengths and not be afraid.
The cautious person usually has some kind of fear of success. He also has the same kind of fear of loss. Both of those fears keep him in the middle. The successful person and master seducer break through both the fear of success and the fear of failure and live an adventurous life.
They say, “The biggest risk in life is not to take any RISK”!
I once heard someone talking about the Beatles. He was talking about the fact that each album that the Beatles put out was the best they had at the time.
Someone once asked John Lennon if he ever saved anything or held back something for the next album. John Lennon said something to this effect:
We don’t know if we will be around for the next album so we give it everything that we have right now. We give it everything right now as if this is our last album and we are going to burn out after this album.
Basically John Lennon was saying that while producing every one of their albums, they were “all in.”
Think about that and think about how successful the Beatles were and are. It was because they didn’t hold back anything. They put everything they had into it as if it was going to be their last album. They wanted each album to be the best of who they were at the time. What a great concept.
What if you did that with your life? What if you did that with the process of becoming a master seducer? What if you did that with being the best human
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