How To Train A Flea

It’s not hard to determine factors that cause us, as men, to be afraid of women and go into submissive mode. Remember, women are the nurturers. Our first intimate contact is with a woman, and that woman, after a nurse, is our mother.

She takes us in her arms at birth and from that moment on, her influence runs steadily in our lives.

Have you heard the story about how to train a flea? I heard different people tell the story, and the common denominator is how to train a flea to jump a certain height. They say if you put a flea in a Mason jar without the lid on it, the flea can easily jump out. But if you put a flea in a Mason jar and then put the lid on it, the flea will bounce off the lid.

Then a funny thing happens after awhile. When you look in the Mason jar, you can see the flea jumping to a height just below the lid of the jar. When you take the lid off the jar, you don’t ever have to put it back on because the flea has now been trained and will never try to jump again to the level it was created to jump.

The flea now believes and has been conditioned to a new level, BELOW, its abilities.

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Teri Tells:

I wanted to jump in here and let you know that men know how to train fleas, too! Women don’t like it any more than men when they are defined within certain boundaries and not allowed to grow or be themselves!!

I think there are women who do this. There are women who work to define men within certain boundaries. It makes no difference if you have more abilities, or gifts, she wants to maintain you at a certain level and will work to do so. It starts at an early age and if there’s not a strong man around to counter that conditioning, then I believe men will be inclined to accept this conditioning as truth.

I believe over the last 30 or 40 years, all the single mothers raising young men, have not been able to give the men what they need to complete their manhood.

You add on top of that the feminist movements, male bashing on television and media, and the feminist judges, both male and female, and you will see that they have also contributed to this mess.

There’s another way women condition men. It goes in the opposite direction but has the same effect. There is a theory that mothers raise their daughters and love their sons. So when a boy becomes a man, he has an unrealistic idea that he is entitled to care from and by a woman simply because he exists. Because his mother and possibly, grandmother and sisters, have nurtured and taken care of him from birth without effort on his part, he believes all women will and should do the same. He never learns the maleness of pursuit and gaining a woman’s respect, trust, and love. He’s also the guy that never learns how to fully take care of himself. He may not fear women, but he makes women fearful of him because

women don’t look to sleep with children unless they, too, are just a child. Women want men, and men are not “Mama’s boys.”

Don’t mistake that for being a man who cares about his mother. Most women love a man who takes good care of his mama. In fact, she knows how to spot a guy like that from twenty paces. If you’re a guy who knows how to take care of the first lady in your life when that lady is your mother, she figures you know how to take care of the first lady in your life when it’s her.

And as a man, you should take care of your woman. This isn’t a book about putting women in their place; it’s a book that allows you to let a woman place herself where she wants, with you. You should also take care of yourself. You should know how to rely upon yourself.

How to be alone as opposed to being lonely. You should know how to work a washing machine and a toaster.

That’s why this book is being written; to show you that where I was, is where you are, and where I am, is where you can be. My experience from watching master seducers; my years doing therapy and training, continues to shape my life and I am able to leave breadcrumbs for you to follow.

I could spend all day, or the rest of my life, trying to figure out the whys and reasons for the way we got to where we are but I’m but not going to. Or I could spend an enormous amount of time, like I have in the past, blaming the women that contributed to me being that way. I could take the attitude that what they did controls my behavior, but that doesn’t put me in charge of my choices. I have forgiven them and moved on.

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And the control goes to my past. My past memories and thoughts will maintain control over my present behavior.

Frankel believed it was the power of his will that contributed to his survival of the concentration camp. It would require a powerful spirit to overcome the atrocity that surrounded him. But he maintained control over his fears, anxieties, and the realities that people around him were being executed every day.

It seems silly to compare what he went through with the subject of his book, but remember we told you there was more than one way to apply what you would learn. The point is being able to control your own power after you’ve claimed it.

Don’t act like a victim. If you think the power to choose and to change is not within you, it’s isn’t because someone took it away. They may have tried, but you allowed it to happen. And all you have to do is decide to take it back. The power is, as it always has been, yours.

Now that you know this: it’s time to choose. You can choose to go back to sleep again, and blame it all on your external circumstances, or you can choose to put a different, positive meaning on your choices.

So, what’s it gonna be? Choose now, to be a master seducer!

As stated before, master seducers have learned to overcome the problems most of us are still stuck on. We’re going to talk about the walls we have that master seducers have managed to pull down.

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