You aren’t going to have a real discussion on seduction and the power men possess unless you have discussion on the external power: appearance and dress. Personally, I don’t embrace the theories, but there’s no denying that it works for some men.
For whatever reason, women like shopping. There are some who don’t, of course, but we know a great many of them do, and they like to do it together.
They get as excited about that as men do gathering around the engine of a car and figuring out how it works. Women love it and it’s not just about buying. They can be gone for hours and walk back in the house with no bags and still claim they’ve been shopping because they looked in all the stores.
Whatever.
If you can learn to tap into their love of shopping or looking, then you discovered another avenue to getting them in your bed. If she likes looking, and if she likes buying, then presenting yourself as something good to look at and as something she can take home, may be a pathway to her seduction.
Teri Tells:
Like Mark, I don’t agree with a lot of the “exterior quality” theories that are out there. However, I do have to admit that nice clothes may catch my eye. I want to see more than fine clothes, however, if I plan to take you home. Remember, we are window shoppers and can come home feeling like we’ve been shopping without buying a thing. Only those things worth our money come home with us!
If women get that excited about looking at clothing, then if you are wearing some decent threads, it’s bound to trigger a feeling in them that adds to their desire for you. It sure can’t hurt. It is about aligning all these qualities in yourself and giving yourself the highest odds of achieving the stimulation of her attraction.
Most of the master seducers I know love to buy clothing for themselves that improves their appearance. It’s a simple concept voiced by Billy Crystal when he played his Fernando character: “Darling, when you look good, you feel good!”
When you feel better about how you’re dressed, it becomes another tool that can be used to attract the attention of those you wish to bring into your life.
Some women will make the correlation that a man who knows how to dress himself with style will also be able to pick out clothing or jewelry that will look good on her. I know one master seducer who picks out his women’s clothing, and they love it. He actually does a better job picking out what they are wearing than they do themselves. Not only that, but he loves to take them shopping. He uses shopping with women to give the implied message and direct message that he is a man of taste. And just like the old ZZ Top song says, “every woman loves a sharp dressed man.”
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When I go out with my friend and I see the reactions he gets from women who know the quality of clothing is wearing, it is incredible. And he uses the feelings from how excited women get about what he’s wearing, and adds that to his confidence about how well he is able to make them feel.
Now, this guy spends real money on his clothes; not something we can all afford to do. If your budget doesn’t allow you to go to a designer, there are some very nice affordable stores that can make you look good for very little money. In the meantime, until you can afford a completely designer closet, have at least one or two items you can work with.
Men have the expectation that a woman who takes care of her appearance is more worthy of our attention, and they are the women who scare us the most when we see them in public. It follows that a woman appreciates it when she sees a man who takes care of himself and dresses well. It’s an indication of how well he would take care of her and his ability to give her beautiful children should they mate. It’s answering another buried call of nature.
I know one master seducer from Florida who goes to Las Vegas once a year and spends about 13 to $15,000 every time he goes. He buys things that not only look good on him, but he makes sure that they are unique to him. He buys things, he told me, that women won’t see on any other man. The clothing is unique to him. He says there might be a few other men out there wearing it, but the chances of her seeing it on other man are very slim. He does the same thing with the shoes, watches, rings, sunglasses etc. etc.
I went out with him one night after he had gotten back with some new clothing that he was really excited about. It was amazing to see how the women
responded to what he was wearing. They were transfixed. Some of them were like a deer in the headlights of a car at night.