With all this in mind, this may be the perfect time to talk about manifesting the woman or women that you want in your life.
We all understand the concept of electrical outlets. If we need energy, we simply plug into an electrical outlet and energy is available for our use. We determine how were going to use that energy. We can plug-in a toaster or a television set.
We can plug-in a computer or hairdryer. The same energy that flows in a light bulb can also flow in my stereo.
In the same way, we have a certain amount of energy that is produced by our mind, body, and spirit everyday. We also must determine where that energy is going to be used.
If we have scattered thoughts about something, it is wasting our energy. The thoughts are bouncing all over the place without any real purpose. If you are wanting to be a master seducer, you can’t afford to have your thoughts about women bouncing all over the place with no purpose! What a waste of energy!!
I have found that most men do not have any idea about what they want in a woman besides beauty. A lot of men don’t even know how they define beauty;
they just know it when they see it. This is not a very efficient way to use the energy.
Think of scattered energy like the light of a high watt bulb. The light scatters all over the room and makes everything brighter but nothing is really in focus.
Focused energy is more like a laser beam. No light is wasted on anything in the
room. The light is simply focused on the target and nothing more. You need to become like a laser instead of a light bulb!
When you’re going to buy a computer, a camera, a car, a house etc. etc., you know what you want. You determine the use and function of the item, and then decide on the accessories and quality and specifications of what you want. And if you don’t know, you either research it or find somebody that knows what they’re talking about. Right?
The same is true when determining what you want in a woman. Here are the steps I take:
1. Decide what kind of relationship I want. Do I want a find a marriage partner? Do I want to be in a relationship with one-woman, or many women? Do I want long-term or short-term etc. etc. You have to define what kind of relationship you want with a woman first.
2. After you determine what kind of relationship you want, then you can determine the perfect woman for you in THAT relationship. Please notice something VERY important – the kind of relationship determines the right woman/women for that relationship! If you are wanting a marriage partner, she may be entirely different from someone you choose for a short-term relationship while seeing other women!!
Once you define the perfect woman for you in that relationship, your unconscious mind will begin to go to work seeking to bring her into your reality. How?
The first thing it does is to take all your scattered thought energy and focus it on a purpose. Imagine we have an extension cord sticking out of a wall socket. The
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energy is not being used. It is there and available, but rather useless in the cord.
Once you plug in a computer, for instance, the energy becomes focused and runs the computer for you. The energy is no longer useless – in fact, it becomes very useful.
This is what you are doing when you focus your energy on the kind of woman you want. Instead of energy being scattered, it now is funneled into getting you the kind of woman that you want. When you bring that energy into alignment it creates a magnetic effect. It repels that which you don’t want and attracts that which you do want.
The second thing that determining what you want in a woman does is really phenomenal. It gives you something to do other than figure out the kind of woman that would be interested in you! You turn the equation around and you get to choose! Sweet!
One of the worst things in the world to go through is a sense of not knowing. How many times have you seen parents on the television wanting to know if their missing children were dead or alive? These suffering parents always say they just need to know one way or the other.
Our brains work the same way. Uncertainty is the most available commodity in the universe. It is easy to get lost in the uncertainty – there is plenty of it in plenty of places! So, we can either be at the mercy of uncertainty, or take control by making the determination ourselves.
If you have a beautiful woman reject you severely, you have a choice. You can either look at it as something that you had no choice in and it happened to you.
Or you can make a determination to take control of the meaning and put your
own spin on it that is the most useful to you - a meaning that will serve you now and in the future!
If I were in the situation of having a beautiful woman reject me, I would say these things:
> I chose to have that happen to me to further my learning.
> I chose to have these feelings to learn to deal with them, so the next time I will handle it better.
When choosing what kind of woman you want in your life, it works the same way.
You can live with the uncertainty of not knowing what kind of woman you will have in your life and always be wondering. Or you can determine the qualities and values and looks of the woman you want.
I like the idea of having the frame of mind that I am in control and drawing her closer to me everyday. I am developing the qualities in me daily that are bringing the best possible match to me.
Once you know what you want, you begin to send out a certain frequency that will attract the woman that most closely fits your description. Women that fit that description the best will begin to find you. PLUS, you begin to become more of the man that will draw that type and quality of woman. Read that again! It’s true!