MBL Exercise - CHPH2 - DVDs - Transcripts - Part

Igor: What we are going to do in a moment is this I’m going to ask you to find a partner, a different partner, I’m going to ask that partner to have a small simple problem and the nature of the problem, feel free to check with me or one of the assistants if it’s the right kind of problem for this. For purpose the nature of the problem should be something that has a clearly identifiable feeling behind it, for example using Renee’s example I feel pressure and that makes me want to smoke. That was the original equation, do you remember that. It took me a while to get to it so if you don’t – aren’t aware of what that equation is yet then don’t use that as a problem.

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CHPH 2.0 ©Street Hypnosis All Rights Reserved Can you all think of a simple problem which is along the lines of I feel X as a result of which something else happens or maybe just the feeling itself is no good, right? I feel bad when my boss yells at me and then I cry or I can’t answer back or I stop being as smart or whatever. I feel anxious before an exam so I don’t perform as well, right, or maybe even like I know this is really far out there, when I think about doing an exam, like a certification that I don’t know much about, I feel nervous and I don’t know what to do, right? I know its way out there, no one here feels like that, but you are getting the kind of idea of the equation I’m talking about, right?

I feel this way as a result of which there is an unpleasant consequence. Put your hand up if you don’t have an idea like that yet. Okay if you guys don’t think of something like that in a moment feel free to come up and I will help you find something like that and you can work with each other. I feel bad that I have no problems. So you get the idea in terms of the kind of problem we want, right? We don’t anything complex nothing like I want to lose weight that’s a goal, right? Unless you can put it in the terms of I feel bad and then I eat the wrong things that’s fine, but saying I want to lose weight that’s a very different thing. You can get to the same point, but it requires a little more effort than we want to be doing at this point in the training is this very clear to everyone?

All: Yes.

Igor: If there is any doubt, please feel free to come up and ask me and I will help you find the right kind of problem of the purpose of this. Now let’s go back to here now if turn to page 51 in your manuals. My God the manuals, you don’t have to use the page. I’ll give you a slide that will give you the same kind of information you will essentially have this information there just produced with more space so you can you can see more clearly.

Q: What if you don’t get the manual?

Igor: Then partner with some who does, simple, right? You can always borrow mine if you want to borrow it for now or you just look at the board because really the same information will be here. It’s just this way you can have something with you. Now don’t worry about the manual for now you will see that basically those

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Q: Yes.

Igor: So whether you use this or the manual I don’t mind. So you are going to go through the same process, only this time with a real problem. The only thing is you are not going to have to resolve anything, the only thing you have to be curious about is this, you’re going to ask them about the problem and they’ll do a data dump on you.

So you’ll have to stop them and ask where and when specifically has it happened. How do you feel? When you get that magic formula I feel X when and that gets me this result that I don’t want, right, then pause what am I doing? That’s right and when you have it, ask them the mind bending question about that problem, or rather, aside from the problem, help them go beyond it into what they weren’t, right, then pause and watch because the show is not in your notes, the show is not in your manuals, the show is not even in yourself, the show is right in front of you and your client so what’s the show?

Exactly, watch it right in front of you and as you clients show starts doing stuff initially you may not know what you’re watching. What’s this movie you’re watching here? Ask them what’s happening now? That’s it. At that point they will say one of three things and I’m pretty sure that an instinct will kick in at that point. Can you all ask about a problem yes or no?

Q: Yes.

Igor: Can you all get a specific time and place yes or no? Q: Yes.

Igor: Can you all ask the question with some mind bending ideas thrown into it, yes or no?

All: Yes.

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Igor: In that case you can all do this exercise can’t you? Q: Yes.

Igor: Find a partner off you go. And keep going once you’ve done that. How many of you find this easy? Perfect, beautiful. How many found it hard still a little bit? Yes well that’s fine, I understand, it’s good.

MBL Exercise 2

Igor: I’m going to ask you do one more exercise before we go to lunch break and it’s going to make everything really simple for you. Is that okay with you guys?

Q: Yes.

Igor: Especially you guys who’ve had a little harder time with this. In a moment I’m going to ask you to find a different partner, right? A new partner. If you are planning to do this in a different language like Korean or Spanish and so on please make sure they speak that language also.

You are going to start a conversation with them about whatever problem they have and at some point in that conversation I would like for you to turn on this idea of H+. So you are talking about the problem, what’s the problem? Oh it’s this. Oh it’s that okay and what's this and when does it happen, where does it happen? And at some point you going to switch on your H+ and you are going to carry on a regular conversation, but you will only say those things that continue to enhance your H+. You will only say them in a way that continues to increase your H+.

Aside from that, you have nothing to think about, no goal to achieve other than can you have a conversation with that person? Somehow loosely related to that problem, whilst you are in H+ and just notice what happens, can we do this? ALL: Yes.

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guys how did that go? ALL: Good.

Igor: Was it smooth or easier to do than before? ALL: Yes.

Igor: Did you stop trying so hard yes? ALL: Yes.

Igor: What happened when you stopped trying so hard, did it get more interesting? ALL: Yes.

Igor: Who got a more potent reaction shall we say from their client when they stopped trying so hard and just had a really engaged conversation, anyone? Who found that things like Mind Bending Language with a little bit of the Non Awareness Set would slip out without you realizing it and it just came out because it was appropriate, anyone? It’s exactly what happens to everyone because the only thing at this point that you have to focus on is having a genuine conversation with someone with a real desire to somehow, somewhere help them change and you do not need to have any idea of how to do that. The patterns already exist for you, you’ve experienced it haven’t you?

The only thing you need is a genuine desire to help the person, that H+ and enough faith in what you have learned that you can trust your unconscious and just start talking, just start talking. Have a chat. Have a heartfelt chat, a heartfelt conversation.

If you do those things you cannot help yourself. You will do Mind Bending Language. You will do the Non Awareness Set. How could you not? Because it is inside you already, the experience is there and this is where you start getting to real Conversational Hypnosis where you just sit down and you have a chat, a conversation and maybe somewhere in the far distance at the back of your mind, you have this idea of some kind of pattern, a loop that you want to take them through, but that’s just enough to keep you steered in some place.

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CHPH 2.0 ©Street Hypnosis All Rights Reserved You are just focused entirely on the person and you’re watching their reaction and you’re wondering what’s going to happen next and your probably asking it a few times as well, especially when you see something significant changing, you want to know what that is don’t you? It doesn’t matter what it is, good, bad or ugly. It makes no difference does it? Doesn’t this take a tremendous amount of pressure off of you? No? Now admittedly there are many things you can do to refine this process.

You can expand your mind bending power word vocabulary. You can drill and these things and get more fluent with it, you can do these things just like you can do with normal power words. You can get used to these kind of questions and do a little exercise just for that, but those are exercises, those are training wheels. When a person goes to see a physiotherapist and does the leg exercises, is it so that they can sit all day in the office or in the home lifting their leg like this? No. It’s so that they can get on with their regular life, having fixed whatever their body needs to have fixed so they can get on with their regular life.

You’ve done the drills, you’ve done the exercises. You can do more of them. We’ll talk after the break about how to get really good at them, I promise you this, but for now give yourself a nice a pat on the back for having a regular conversation and allowing it to transform just because you wanted it to.

You wanted to have something happen and you don’t know when it’s going to happen. You don’t know where it’s going to happen but you do know that provided you keep speaking to this person long enough in that state of H+ things will start slipping out of you. It’s the Freudian slip you want to have happen, right? It will slip out of you and when it does, well, you’ll just have to – you can’t fail to spot it because it’s there, because you are watching the person and it’s because it’s right in line with what you are trying to achieve for them, does that kind of make sense for you guys?

All: Yes.

Igor: Forget all the rules, do you start with the problem or not? It doesn’t matter to much, yes cleanly speaking that’s how it starts and it’s good to have that as a process in your mind, but what if you’re thrown in the middle of it, you deal with

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CHPH 2.0 ©Street Hypnosis All Rights Reserved the middle of it, right, what if they give me all this stuff? No big deal you keep talking until you have something that you can lock onto and then you deal with it, everything is possible provided you are willing to have a heartfelt conversation with intensity and you’re willing to keep talking with them, interacting long enough for that something to slip out, does that make sense to you guys?

Q: Yes.

Igor: Any comments or questions on what you’ve done. Can we have assistants with mics please. Please stand up so we can see you guys.

Q: I thought I was using H+ but I was looking up at the words and Jeremy was nice enough to tell me that he didn’t feel that I was being sincere in his analytic mind and was kind of drifting off and he was doubting what I was saying, like my sincerity.

Igor: Right.

Q: So then the second time I didn’t worry about that and Jeremy just had that heartfelt conversation and it went way better, right?

Q: I didn’t notice it.

Igor: You didn’t even notice what she was doing it just felt good, right? Q: Yeah.

Igor: This is how it works. We get so sucked into the language and the patterns and all the rest of it. Did I not warn you about this in the first day? The words are useless folks, useless, unless you get something that they are channeling for you. The mind set shall we say that you are communicating with them. So why bother with the words, if you want the words to be there then do exercises on them, drill them just like you know like you do warm up scales on a musical instrument, any musicians in the room? Would you ever do a live performance in front of a big crowd of people of scales? Not really right, that is not the purpose of scales, scales is to get yourself fluent with stuff. So can play the music you want to play. These words are scales, these questions are the scales, when it’s time to do the work, these go out of the window, you have practiced them before you have a

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CHPH 2.0 ©Street Hypnosis All Rights Reserved come to it and the only thing that’s left is you speak, you have a conversation, a heartfelt conversation, right? And then that’s when it all comes out, all the hard work, all the training you’ve put yourself through will come out, at that point and let’s face it, it’s already happening now isn’t it?

You just have to put yourself in the context and you have to be willing, this is not a very traditional form of training is it? You must do it my way, you must follow my rules you must follow my steps and I appreciate that some of you feel more comfortable having precise steps and having a precise order that you must follow. If it helps you by all means do so.

Just realize that you will only come into your own, you will become a powerful hypnotist, a great hypnotist at the point at which you’ll allow all that to recede into the background and you just have a genuine heartfelt conversation and trust that everything else will flow through as a result of that. Does that make sense to everyone? So thanks so much Renee, that’s a perfect example of exactly what we are talking about, you have really experienced it haven’t you?

Q: Yes.

Igor: Any other questions or comments? Fantastic. So before we go for lunch break there is a couple items and stuff like that. First of all Renee these are yours, would you like them back? Someone left their cigarettes in the bathroom, but if you want them you can have them. Are you sure?

Q: Yes.

Igor: Free just one little cigarette taste so good. Q: I will take a deep breath.

Igor: Are you sure? Q: Yes.

Igor: There so good. You’re having lunch now you want to smoke with lunch, it makes it taste so much better no? Join me outside for a cigarette maybe.

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Igor: So if anyone is in a position that Renee is not and they left their cigarettes in the back of the room please come up and collect them and you can have those. Aside from that guys you did a fantastic job so far, it is now, give yourselves a round of applause. It’s now 12:45pm lets be back here again at 1:45pm and we start at 2:00pm on the dot.

I think everyone should put their pens and papers down for a moment and if you really want to get the best out of the rest of this session I’m going to ask you stand up and do an Instant Induction on the person next to you. Literary 20 seconds let them do it to you in return and then come back and sit down. Spend no more than 10 seconds on it did that clear a few cob webs again yes? Good.

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